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LeyzerParticipant
Tzaddiq, your Rov still speaks on an Inyan, albeit for 25 mins. My Kashya still stands.
Gamanit – what, for an hour? Must be an expert in vacuum bags!
February 25, 2013 7:11 pm at 7:11 pm in reply to: Why did the Yidden in the Megillah kill 75,000? #933114LeyzerParticipant<b>You need to read the Gaon and Malbums explanation on what they did and all these Qs and more fall away.</b>
Thanks, will do
February 25, 2013 4:00 pm at 4:00 pm in reply to: Why did the Yidden in the Megillah kill 75,000? #933107LeyzerParticipantSorry poppa I checked the Pesukim and effectively Achashverosh did cancel Homon’s decree:
Perek 8, Possuk 5: ‘And she said: ‘If it please the king, and if I have found favour in his sight….let it be written to reverse the letters devised by Haman the son of Hammedatha the Agagite, which he wrote to destroy the Jews that are in all the king’s provinces’
Possuk 8: (Achashverosh responded:) ‘And you write about the Jews as is good in your eyes’
Possuk 9: ‘Then were the king’s scribes called at that time, in the third month, which is the month Sivan, on the three and twentieth day thereof; and it was written according to all that Mordecai commanded concerning the Jews…’
Possuk 11: ‘…that the king had granted the Jews that were in every city to gather themselves together, and to stand for their life, to destroy, and to slay, and to cause to perish etc.’
LeyzerParticipant1. My initial post referred to drafting those Bochurim/Yungerleit who aren’t using their time properly. It was couched in diplomatic terms but what I really meant was those who are messing around. Going to Yeshiva used to be a personal decision and those who went didnt mess around. Now, the (Shidduch/societal) system mandates it. But not everyone is cut out for it. Perhaps those guys would be better off doing a year or two, then going to the army/getting a job etc.
I’d be amazed if any Gedolim advocate keeping these type of boys in Yeshiva if they are clearly not managing there. Maybe the Gedolim aren’t aware that these type of Bochurim exist?
2. Also, most of you (Kano’im) missed my point. I suggested that Bochurim should spend 3 yrs in Yeshiva then serve in the army. If this was the system / cycle, then the Yeshivas would remain full – those who left to join the army would be immediately replaced by the incoming year starting Yeshiva. Thus, Eretz Yisroel would have the constant protection of Lomdei Torah and Israel would have the constant participation of Chareidim in the Army. [To those who harp on about the Peritzus and Chilonius of the army atmosphere, I am sure that if Litzman et al told the Army ‘we are giving you 10,000 bochurim a year if you set up strictly chareidi units’ they would agree in a flash]
LeyzerParticipantHealth said
How can anyone stick up for such a verdict and claim to be a “Frum” Jew? And yet I’ve seen many “Frum” Jews doing just this.
Forget about how this was an injustice
My response:
It is not anti-semitic Russia three hundred years ago. It is modern day America. He got tried in a fair court and it is absurd to think otherwise. Stop bleating about injustice. The guy deserved what he got.
What was his defence? That she was trying to set him up because – wait for it – he installed CCTV to catch her in the act with her boyfriend. Hardly a resounding proof of innocence – if anything just the opposite! Not to mention the fact that he couldn’t explain the unusual purchases on his credit card. Or that he was discovered to be misusing his charity funds. The whole picture was undeniably odd and sinister and pointed to his guilt.
The sad thing is that people like Ben Levi get completely the wrong end of the stick and instead of warning against going to unlicensed, unqualified ‘therapists’ he actually advocates going to Mashgichim, Rabbonim etc. Therapy requires qualified professionals. There was a case in London of a girl who called a Rov pleading for help as she felt suicidal. He told her to call back after Shabbos, by which time she had ended her life. There is also a London case now, of an unlicensed Rabbinical therapist embroiled in an enormous mess because of unlicensed ‘therapy’ he was giving.
LeyzerParticipantBen Levi said
Furthermore considering the fact that I have had close reletives killed in terrorist bombings in Isreal I take exception to someone stating Chareidim don’t live in Isreal with risks. It so happens to be that the cousins of mine that served in Tzahal all returned home safe and sound. The Chareid cousin who boarded the wrong bus with her children lost one, and the parents live with their woumds.
My response:
There is a very obvious, simple difference which you appear to have missed. Your Chareidi cousins did not willingly/intentionally put themselves into harm’s way, whereas your Tzahal cousins did. The consequences are irrelevant. What we are discussing here is who makes the intentional decision to contribute to the country BiMesirus Nefesh Mamash and who doesn’t.
January 20, 2013 8:51 pm at 8:51 pm in reply to: Having kids while having a history of genetic disorder #924807LeyzerParticipantIf I understood correctly the OP is raising a point I too have wondered about. I have also heard of people who had many ill children each of whom required very expensive treatment which they could not afford without external help (ie Tzedoka) but seemingly continued to have many further children anyway.
To my mind this boils down to the Psak of the Rov re family planning. Here in the UK at least one Rov advocates waiting until the mother is emotionally capable of caring for her baby. Some women need more time than others. Other Rabonim, especially in print (seforim re Niddah), are much stricter, and seemingly forbid family planning in any shape or form. In such a structure a couple has little choice but to continue procreating, despite the tragedies that ensue. I wonder if it would help if people in such situations were made aware that other Halachic solutions exist and that there are rabonim who are more Meikel. It certainly seems tragic and cruel, in some ways, to make a couple continually bring sick children into this world to suffer.
LeyzerParticipantakuperma said:
The military solution won’t work. The Muslims will never accept a non-Muslim country in what they regard as their turf. They will accept, based on past and even current practices, a non-Muslim community that accepts that its the Muslim’s neighborhood and are content to be autonomous, i.e., accept being “second class citizens.”
Hiloni Jews have a western ideal of civil and political rights. They also are very much into being libertines and other behavior that Islam (and not coincidentally, Judaism) can’t put up with. The hilonim dream they can offer bribes and lands and make the Palestinians go away, but the hilonim can’t offer to give up being part of Euro-American secular culture nor can they accept loss of political primacy.
The Hareidim can make meaningful concessions to the Muslims (ban gays, close down the brothels, ban ribit, require modest clothing, etc.), and Hareidim can accept be an autonomous community within someone else’s country. Running the government has never been a priority for us.
Only the Hareidim can make peace. Only the Hareidim can prevent the destruction of the Jewish communities of Eretz Yisrael.
My response: You are a dreamer, my friend, if you honestly believe the Arabs are willing to make peace with the Charedim because of common interests (ban ribit, modest clothing etc).
Til now the suicide bombers haven’t discriminated between charedim and chilonim when choosing their victims. They kill indiscriminately. It is absolute delusion to claim that there is more chance of peace with Charedim.
At the moment, the IDF is well and truly needed. Whether the state should have been started is another discussion (although as a frum person you should be aware of the post-Holocaust sentiment at the time that allowed for the state to be created) but be as it may, the IDF is needed now.
LeyzerParticipantLoyal Jew said
After generations of gedolim have spoken in once voice on this issue, I do not understand why it’s being debated. What happened to kechol asher yorucho?
My response:
I knew this was the Gedolim’s position. I started the thread in the hope someone could explain it.
Are you espousing the attitude that [in general] one should trust everything the Gedolim have always said – to the point that one is not allowed to discuss their reasoning?
NB. On a second, but related point, why is the Charedi Torah world in Israel so opposed to introducing any Chol studies at all into schools? What would be wrong with providing boys the tools with which to earn a living one day if Chas Vesholom they discover they cannot all remain in full-time learning for the rest of their lives? Surely this could be achieved with a small amount of Chol every day. It might also help to prevent burnout that comes with young boys attacking (or being attacked by) Gemorah all day, from age 9 to 19, and by the time Yeshiva comes around they have lost some of their initial enthusiasm…
LeyzerParticipantMany thanks for your answers. My responses:
avhaben said: ”Because anyone who wants to learn Torah full-time is entitled to do so even if he is a poor learner. All that is to be expected of him is to DESIRE to learn Torah.”
My response: That is exactly my point. I never suggested that learners of low ability/intelligence should stop. I was referring instead to those Bochurim who are ‘in learning’ purely because that is the system, to get a good shidduch; those Kollel Yungerleit who find sitting in Kollel drinking coffee while Shver picks up the tab easier than earning a job — not because they actually have [as you put it] the ‘DESIRE’ to learn Torah. I don’t think their absence from the Beis hamedrash would be that sorely felt, nor do I imagine their presence actually is Meigen Eretz Yisrael more than physical hishtadlus of picking up a gun.
By the way, Yaakov Avinu did not think his Torah was enough when facing Esov, so why do you think it is?
popa_bar_abba said: ”If you weren’t asking lekanter, you wouldn’t insert hyperbole such as: “Why is the Yeshiva velt so opposed to giving anything back to the State of Israel?” ”
I think you owe me an apology – I meant it sincerely.
write or wrong said: ”The world exists in the merit of Limud Torah. If the Israeli gov’t pulls everyone out of yeshiva, in what merit will Israel be protected?”
The Israeli govt is not suggesting to pull ‘everyone’ out of yeshiva – the Iluyim will remain, as I wrote above. (As an aside – isn’t that the way it’s always been throughout history – the top guys went to Yeshiva and the others were ‘just’ [sarcasm/irony] Baalei Batim? Why has the expectation changed?)
akuperma – thank you for your articulate responses, the latter 2 which I agree with and appreciate.
simcha613 – excellent post, well said.
LeyzerParticipantCsar, are you being sarcastic?
IMO it was very different to Citifield in several respects. How do the London guidelines sound anything like the Psak announced at CF that business use in an office is the only permitted option?
LeyzerParticipantIt’s very interesting to see the wide range of opinions on here as to what defines a ‘professionally written’ book.
IMO, unless you’ve read professionally written Goyishe books you can’t really comment. Someone above recommended In the Spider’s Web by Chaim Eliav. I had the misfortune of reading it shortly after completing my English exams in High School. It is dreadful, purple prose, long-winded and drawn out and full of caricatures (men in black suits with black sunglasses stepping out of a black car talking in mysterious code, is one example that springs to mind some 10 years later).
Avner Gold is alright, although he also tends to waffle a bit, and his books range in quality. I thought the later books in the series were a big improvement on the earlier ones. Contrast ‘The Dream’ with ‘The Marrano Prince’ if you’re not sure what I mean.
I’m more than a little surprised that no-one appears to have read Meir Baram’s books – The Fateful Mission, The Kingdom Didn’t Fall, etc. Originally written in hebrew, based on historical fact, and IMO exquisitely rendered into English, they are refreshingly different to the tripe churned out by Yair Weinstock and co.
I can’t believe that Yekke2 thinks The Gordian Knot was ‘superbly written with a brilliant plot’. Honestly, the book’s climax wherein two Jewish boys miraculously track down an old Nazi is as ridiculous and contrived as plots come.
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