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By coincidence, a Jan 2014 email from Jona Rechnitz to Mayor De Blasio was released on Friday. It states that when Menachem Stark was kidnapped, insteadof calling the cops, the Shomrim were notified and they waited two hours to call the NYPD. Stark was possibly still alive at this point and the cops might have saved him had they been notified promptly
August 13, 2017 10:39 pm at 10:39 pm in reply to: The Casualties of Yiddish in Litvishe Chadorim #1338125lesschumrasParticipantIf I’m not mistaken, sforim and the Gemorah are written in Biblical Hebrew and Aramaic, not Yiddish. So, why teach Yiddish and not the other two?
lesschumrasParticipantWe have gotten so far from the original concept and purpose. It originated under Roman rule because of the fate that awaited Jews in Roman courts. Mesira was particularly needed on Czarist Russia . Russian courts were biased against Jews while beis dins had the authority to render and enforce their decisions..
Flash forward to the 21st century. Our court systems great everyone the same ( good bad and indifferent ) and beis dins in the US are largely powerless.Mesorah, on the other hand has morphed into a tool to suppress accusations and to get away with stuff. Accusations of mesirah have been infamously used to stall everything from accusationss of spousal abuse and child molestation to accusations of zoning and construction violations.lesschumrasParticipantLU, and how did the Torah authorities handle child molestation? Everythimg said here ( i.e. go to the Rav, don’t call the cops ) was said about dealing with molesters. Didn’t go so well, did it
August 9, 2017 5:17 pm at 5:17 pm in reply to: The slowly disappearing community school of old. #1335309lesschumrasParticipantJakob, how can you piay rebbeim on $1000 a year tuition?
August 9, 2017 9:58 am at 9:58 am in reply to: The slowly disappearing community school of old. #1335046lesschumrasParticipantThose idyllic times never existed. The community school I attended in the 1950s accepted your word that you couldn’t pay tuition, and rebeiim would go months without a paycheck. One classmate dressed in shmattes to avoid paying. His parents tried the same thing in high school. He came to class on first day in real nice clothes, explaining that the high school had a committee and wanted to see tax returns before granting a scholarship. His father was earning 100k in 1964.
My fil served on a scholarship committee in 1965. He lived in an apartment yet paid full tuition while people who owned homes and new cars were requesting and getting tuition reductions.
What I’m saying is that if you want to pay renned a living wage and pay it on time you must run a yeshiva as a business. If you give scholarships on the honor system, people will take advantagelesschumrasParticipantAkuperma, don’t forget oncologists,, they need to make a living too
lesschumrasParticipantShiva normally starts after burial. A wrinkle comes in when the body is sent to Israel. My friend could not accompany his brother to Israel as the plane left on Sunday and his passport was in the bank vault. His rav told him to begin sitting Shiva on Sunday after the body went on the plane
lesschumrasParticipantA typo. Joseph it’s incumbentupon you to bring proofs
lesschumrasParticipantJoseph, then why do you care?
lesschumrasParticipantJoseph, in NY union gravediggers don’t work after five pm and cemeteries, while they are open longer for visitation, closest for burials after five.
Rabbanim in the US have for decades permitted delays to allow children to travel home for burials. If you think that they are mistaken, it’s incumbent upon to bring proofs and sourceslesschumrasParticipantJoseph, don’t be a noodnik creating problemswhere none rxist. The topic is mens beaches, not womens
August 4, 2017 11:47 am at 11:47 am in reply to: Should the frum world create an alternative to “Footsteps” for OTD support #1332716lesschumrasParticipantAm I missing something? People are talking about how to fight an organization that provided training, jobs, GED and social work. What if the chassidishe world provided the same services but within a kosher environment before going OTD? IS that asking too much?
lesschumrasParticipantJoseph, if that were the only issue, it could be defended. But they refuse to teach virtually all secular subjects, including English language, which is not defendable
lesschumrasParticipantThey are not attacking yeshivas because they are yeshivas. The yeshivas refuse to abide by secular education requirements. Some teach no English, others provide only one hour of secular education a day.
The yeshivas violate the law here as well. The difference is that politicians let them get away with it in exchange for bloc votingAugust 1, 2017 11:53 am at 11:53 am in reply to: Should the frum world create an alternative to “Footsteps” for OTD support #1330242lesschumrasParticipantJoseph, I know nothing of Footsteps. However, since you seem to be the expert, I have some questions.
A. How did you determine that they were ineffective
B. When you attended their events, how did you
figure out who the “never frum” were?
C. Regardless of the funding source, you never
answered the staffing issueJuly 31, 2017 6:31 am at 6:31 am in reply to: cost of living for a young couple in lakewood #1329453lesschumrasParticipantBasement apartments are often not legal. That could explain why they are not expensive
lesschumrasParticipantLakewood NY is near Jamestown and doesn’t have a Jewish community
July 27, 2017 9:40 am at 9:40 am in reply to: cost of living for a young couple in lakewood #1326115lesschumrasParticipantMy oldest nephews wore cloth diapers. The apartment constantly smells as there are always soiled diapers that have yet to be washed. They leak. The urine soaks the skin until the diaper is changed leading to diaper rashes.
July 27, 2017 7:28 am at 7:28 am in reply to: How to remain a ben Torah after leaving Kollel #1326046lesschumrasParticipantI’m curious as to what the kollel did to help with the transition.
July 25, 2017 6:04 pm at 6:04 pm in reply to: ANOTHER shocking LETTER published IN the VOICE of LAKEWOOD #1325277lesschumrasParticipantThe rebbes in my yeshiva ketanah regularly punched and kicked us. It did inspire fear, but not kavod haTorah.
lesschumrasParticipantJoseph, a lower middle class family with three or more tuitions to pay has comfort security and pleasure?
lesschumrasParticipantHappy golucky, care to cite the sourcesofyourclaims?
July 20, 2017 8:13 pm at 8:13 pm in reply to: Should the Township of Lakewood be renamed the Shtetl of Lakewood? #1322148lesschumrasParticipantJoseph, non frum Jews didn’t adopt Yiddish. They continued to speak it after becoming non frum.
lesschumrasParticipantPlease tell me the truth
lesschumrasParticipantI know of a sefer that talks about a Jewish army before Moshiach, it’s called the Torah and Nach. To fight Amalek, Moshe didn’t ask everyone to sit and learn. Preparing to conquer Canaan, yehoshua didn’t order Art Scrolls, he formed an army. Whenever Bnei Yisroel was being oppressed, Devorah didn’t fight back by having everyone sit and learn. King David had armies etc
lesschumrasParticipantThe Torah Bais Din system as it it existed in Europe was neutral and fair. However, that is not true in the US . Let’s face it, the reason why the Satmar brothers are in civil court is because each brothers Bais Din ruled ( no surprise ) in their favor.
lesschumrasParticipantThe first minyan in my shul is tied to the train schedule, the second minyan is slower. What justifiably irks people is when retirees who could go to the second minyan come to the first and complain it’s too fast and try to slow it down
lesschumrasParticipantSilver’s case is a good example . The appeals Court didn’t say he was Innocent, just that the jury instruction was invalid. It didn’t say he didn’t have a girl friend, that he wasnt getting kickbacks for steering cases to his law firm in exchange for kickbacks and that he didn’t steer State funds under his control to the referring doctor when the law firm refused to pay the Dr anymore. Just because SCOTUS lowered the bar for political ethics, Silver as an alleged frum Jew, had a higher responsibility
July 12, 2017 8:14 pm at 8:14 pm in reply to: Every Menahels Difficult Dillema, the underperforming career rebbi. #1316904lesschumrasParticipantThis is not new. The rebbeim in my yeshiva high school ( mid 1960’s ) were products of Lithuanian yeshivas of the 1930’s who came to the US after the war. They had pulpits that didn’t pay much and taught Gemorah to supplement their income.
They were were talmidei chachomim but were poor teachers and communicators. What they were good at was alienating most of the boys from learning and being frum. By the time we became seniors and had an effective rebbe it was too late. Two years after I graduated, that “senior” Rebbe was reassigned to the freshman to get them off on a positive footing.
Note: I stayed frum ( barely ) but acquired an aversion to learning that took years to overcome . It also left me with at times a somewhat cynical point of view ( as you may have noticed)lesschumrasParticipantSima, funds donated to a fund for legal bills are NOT tax deductible. Washing them thru s shul I’d also not deductible and can cause a problem for the shul. My shul had wanted to something similar for a member and the legal opinion we received was that it was improper
lesschumrasParticipantAccording to the court documents , the mother violated the fathers visitation rights. In addition to ruling got the father, the judge ordered her to reimburse him for the legal costs of restoring visitation, and it was $2400, not $10000
lesschumrasParticipantyou only have her say so. Why would the judge order her to pay husbands court costs? Why were her marital assets stripped away? Too many unanswered questions/
July 11, 2017 11:15 am at 11:15 am in reply to: Are out of town mesivta’s emotionally healthy places for young bachurim? #1315182lesschumrasParticipantJoseph, so with your vast experience your are confident that you can contradict the therapist
lesschumrasParticipantJoseph, I have to admire your consistency. You throw out numbers and “facts” without backup ( 18 million Jews, Yeshiva curriculum, the number of people supporting kollels etc ). You are actually very amusing
lesschumrasParticipantMeno, as it is everywhere, lrarners in kollel fall along the classic statistical bell curve. A students on the right, F students on the left and the B,C,D students in the middle. As long as kollels allow the C,D and F students to stay, the kollels have no call on our charity dollar.
July 8, 2017 10:40 pm at 10:40 pm in reply to: Yeshiva High School Graduates versus Public High School Graduates #1313159lesschumrasParticipantJoseph, what is your data based on?
July 6, 2017 2:58 pm at 2:58 pm in reply to: Yeshiva High School Graduates versus Public High School Graduates #1312164lesschumrasParticipantJoseph, meanwhile please disclose which schools you obtained your facts from before you demand that info from others
lesschumrasParticipantMy wife and I do it on a regular basis and it adds up.
lesschumrasParticipantCT, please stop being such a smug know it all. The kids who were protesting and the ones who were shot were lucky enough to have parents wealthy enough to pay their college tuition and thus be deferred. I was 20 and I heard how these students would taunt National Guardsmen who were often the same age but from poorer families. You only spoke to protesters ( who of course were completely unbiased ) and none of the “slaughterers”. The Guardsmen were kids with six months basic training, none of it in riot control. Given the prior days events who knows what they were expecting nor what caused the first shot. The loss of your relative is warping your judgement
lesschumrasParticipantAkuperma
A. Massachusetts passed a law allowing divorce in ,1629. Befote 1776 northen colonies allowed divorce, southern colonies did not. After 1776, divorce was moved from the legislature to the judiciary.
B. Bnei Torah do want to fit in with the goyim. Why else, when they are caught committing Medicaid fraud do they scream ” but the goyim do it too!!!”lesschumrasParticipantakuperma, no divorce was a Catholic position, not a Protestant one and the US was predominantly Protestant, not Catholic
July 4, 2017 6:36 pm at 6:36 pm in reply to: Yeshiva High School Graduates versus Public High School Graduates #1310467lesschumrasParticipantJoseph, if you ask most people in chinuch the problem is that there is an ongoing race as to at what young to begin Gemorah. At one time, many years ago, bochrim had to have a firm foundation in Chumash and Navi ( both with meforshim ) before tackling Gemorah. Not any more as virually no time is spent on Navi and Chumash after third or fourth grade/
They have virtually no concept of how what they are learning fits in with Jewish history. Joseph, I wish what you claim to be was in fact happening but it is not.
July 4, 2017 4:19 pm at 4:19 pm in reply to: Yeshiva High School Graduates versus Public High School Graduates #1310410lesschumrasParticipantJoseph, many yeshivas in Brooklyn and in Ramapo don’t teach most secular subjects. Many yeshivas, including MO, don’t teach Hebrew language,certainly not conversational.
There are no trilingual, some barely bilingual. They learn Gemorah all day, if that’s what you call Aramaic instruction.Public school kids on Long island do very well academically
lesschumrasParticipantI did some research and stand corrected. NY State apparently requires a marriage license for a marriage to be recognized civilly while the same statute says that if that’s the only missing requirement, it’s still a valid marriage. So, even if they get married without a license but live as husband and wife, it is not considered a common law marriage as they were married by someone who was authorized to do so. As such claiming benefits as a single mother is illegal.
lesschumrasParticipantJoseph, you’re not that naive. Without a marriage license, the husband’s income is excluded from the eligibility calculation. For frum yidden, it ethically wrong, if not illegal , to game the system to collect benefits they would otherwise not be entitled to.
Joseph, you asked how would a health professional know? In filling out the demographics, the mother wouldn’t have sane last name as children or the father.lesschumrasParticipantJoseph, there you go , playing “look the goyim do it too!!!” card. So, if they arrested 5000 goyim, would that excuse what the frum Jews did? So, you trust the media when they say what you like ( the procecuter) but they’re sheker when when you don’t like what they say?
lesschumrasParticipantJoseph, keep your comments in mind when you go back to commenting on the Kushners.
lesschumrasParticipantA horse. Seriously, hitching can be dangerous, especially for a woman
lesschumrasParticipantJoseph, it will never happen. Conservative justices will vote to allow a baker to exercise his right to freedom of religion and not bake a cake for a gay couple. They will NOT vote to impose the baker’s ( nor your ) views on to the gay couple. That would be just as bad as when the Catholic Church used the New York Legislature to restrict divorce based upon Catholic dogma. What if the Court ruled based on Shariah law? Outlawed shechita?
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