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  • in reply to: repulsive #1113278
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    DY my FIL was able to lain tefillin and avoid being loved almost all averos when not in combet

    in reply to: repulsive #1113277
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    DY, I agree with the European drafts of the 19th century and prior. Jews went in forcibly for 20-30 year enlistments and were never seen again. My great-grandfather came to the US in the 1870’s to escape the Prussian Army draft. WW2 was different. Frum Jews of my father in law’s generation felt they were in a country that , for the first time in centuries, allowed them to be citizens ( despite the antisemitism) as well live as a frum Jew. It was a universal draft, not just for Jews, and they felt a duty to defend their country.

    in reply to: repulsive #1113273
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    Very few, if any. In the 1960’s a handful joined National Guard units to avoid the draft during the Viet Nam War.

    However, my father in law was drafted in WW2, as were most of his friends. My question was, how would the chareidim have reacted to that draft, as opposed to the IDF draft

    in reply to: repulsive #1113271
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    With regard to the draft, are chareidim opposed to a military draft by any country or just the IDF?

    in reply to: Do you Celebrate American Holidays? #1114347
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    Feivel, the Spanish and Portuguese Synagogue, then located down the street from Federal Hall ( where Congress met ) also adopted Thanksgiving in 1789 as it’s annual day of Thanksgiving

    in reply to: Do you Celebrate American Holidays? #1114345
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    DY, Thanksgiving was never a religious holiday, despite the Pilgrim myth.vRabbi Hutner had to have been given wrong information.

    The first Thanksgiving Day was declared by the first US Congress in 1789, but it was a onetime celebration.

    The second was declared in 1863 during the Civil War by Abraham Lincoln. It was not formalized by legislation until the early 20th century.

    There is an interesting, Jewish aspnet ct to the 1789 Thanksgiving. Southern congressman opposed the resolution on the grounds that declarations of thanksgiving was a common practice of European monarchs. A Connecticut congressman argued that , on the contrary, they were following the example of King Solomon and the dedication of the Temple. The Southerners replied that they could accept Solomon as the role model and voted in favor of national day of Thanksgiving ( to thank Hashem for the Constitution )

    in reply to: Do you Celebrate American Holidays? #1114338
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    Why not? Despite the reprated misconceptions, it is not a religious holiday

    in reply to: sfeika d'yoma #1106254
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    DY, apology accepted. I did not mean to imply that I didn’t hold yom tov sheni, I just didn’t understand why it was extended to visitors to EY where there never was a sfaika. Chazal didn’t set it up this way haphazardly, they had their valid reasons I don’t believe it to be a sign of disrespect or lack of emunah to seek the reasons why, rather than accept a because I said so answer.

    As an aside, a similar question came up this past Shmini Atzeres. Between Mincha and Maariv, the Rav gave a shiur on why Simchas Torah is attached to Shmini Atzeres and not Shavuos. It came up that Simchas Torah, in this ts current firm, only dates back to the Middle Ages. There is no mention of it prior to the Rishonim. I asked if that is so, why was it set up one way in EY ( on same day as SA ) and as a separate day in Chutz learetz? He didn’t remember seeing any sources. Does anyone have any sources for the difference?

    in reply to: sfeika d'yoma #1106235
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    Why should it continue? I’ve never understood why a halacha created for chutz laaretz morphed into a minhag that had to be followed when visiting Israel, where there wasn’t and isn’t, a sfaika deyoma

    in reply to: sfeika d'yoma #1106233
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    There is no sfeika deyona, only a minhag. We’ve had a calendar for 1500 years

    in reply to: Annoying Jewish Telemarketers #1215037
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    Thank Hashem for caller ID. The worst are the ones who scream for several minutes that there are only two hours to buy a ticket. The second worst are the ones who lie and say you’ve donated before. With caller ID, I don’t have to deal with it anymore

    in reply to: Hurricane Joaquin #1104855
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    Scared driver, I don’t know where you live but it poured from Friday of Chol Hamoed thru Shabbos because of a second storm that hit New Jersey and New York ( the oa po er reported that a succah in Lakewood collapsed because of the storm ). And no, our MO Rav, once Joaquin was reported to be turning out to sea, did not say to dismantle succas and no one did. Don’t be motzay shem ra

    in reply to: Hurricane Joaquin #1104851
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    Health, has your divorce so embittered you that you feel a need to belittle and ridicule those who advocated preparation for

    Joaquin?

    in reply to: Hurricane Joaquin #1104849
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    With the approach of Hurricane Sandy in 2012, NJ Gov Christie was so frustrated by those who really refused to evacuate that he would not put the lives of first responders at risk. An one who called for rescue after Sandy hit were told nobody was coming.

    in reply to: Hurricane Joaquin #1104845
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    Feivel, while we can disagree about papa’s humor, we can agree that the potential damage from the storm is not a source of humor. Many members of my shul lost their homes to Sandy, while all the shuls in town were damaged and one was destroyed. Papa, thanks for stopping the jokes.

    Health, what is your problem? Until three hours ago, Joaquin was a Category 4 hurricane aimed right at Long Island ( Lakewood and NYC would have also been effected ). The track is now showing it will head out to sea, but after Sandy, until the track changed, how can you criticize storm preparations?

    In addition, a separate nor’easter is now predicted to hit New Jersey tomorrow afternoon through Shabbos with 5″ of rain, high winds and flooding. Are you saying people shouldn’t prepare?

    in reply to: Hurricane Joaquin #1104838
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    Papa, normally I overlook your juvenile attempts at humor, however I must object to your trivializing Joaquin. Too many people were traumatized and suffered enormous financial losses only three years ago to find any humor in n this

    in reply to: Hurricane Joaquin #1104833
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    If Joaquin does in fact head to the coast, it won’t get to the NY metro area until Sunday night or Monday. Even if it’s only a tropical storm, heavy rain and sustained winds of 40 to 50 MPH can turn a succah and its schach into deay weapons.

    in reply to: what is a "chnyuk" ? #1101002
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    Curly’s response ( when repeated two or three times ) to Moe

    in reply to: It is d�j� vu all over again #1100606
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    One last comment. He was married for 65 years ( his wife died last year )

    in reply to: It is d�j� vu all over again #1100604
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    Another Yogism: when honored at an event, Berra said “thank you for making this day necessary”

    in reply to: Mochel Loch… time to forgive and be forgiven! #1184936
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    I request mechila for any offense I may have committed against anyone

    in reply to: Free WiFi #1100489
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    Be careful not to access sensitive web sites, such as bank accounts, utilizing free WIFI locations ( library , Starbucks ) . Free WIFI locations are also frequented by hackers looking to access your personal, sensitive information and sites . Free WIFI has no firewall protection against hackers

    in reply to: Is there a Drug Problem in the “Frum World”? #1100338
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    Medical marijuana has been shown to ease the side effects of chemotherapy and reduce eye pressure for pts with glsucoma

    in reply to: Is there a Drug Problem in the “Frum World”? #1100337
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    Last Pesach a charedi hashgacha declared a cigarette brand kosher for pesach so I guess at this point nothing in the kashrus business surprises me

    in reply to: Pre-Martial advice (for choosanim and kallahs) #1157493
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    Am I the only one who thinks that the new couple has to be educated in matters they’ve never dealt with before? Typically, most couples under the age of 22 ( and older chassanim who’ve spent their adult life in full time learning ) have no clue how to manage a household, pay bills etc.

    In addition, they have an idealized view of marriage and have to recognize that there will be disagreements and learn how to resolve those disagreements.

    in reply to: Different havaras #1100616
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    Joseph, the so-called Chasidish havara split from the Litvish ,

    in reply to: Pre-Martial advice (for choosanim and kallahs) #1157457
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    Yes, intimacy and niddah issues should be discussed. Equally important, they should be instructed on:

    Budgeting

    Reconciling a checkbook

    Acknowledge that they will have arguments; learning how to work through them

    How to deal with in-laws

    in reply to: CUNY Law School #1161347
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    You’re wasting home and money. There are thousands of unemployed/underemployed

    in reply to: How much do you spend per person for shabbos food for 3 meals? #1099508
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    And what you’re serving ( im. Meat or chicken )

    in reply to: Seuda at a Bris #1125773
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    Syog, peope servebcold cuts on Shabbos summer lunches if they don’t want to keep the oven on if its a very hot day

    in reply to: Seuda at a Bris #1125751
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    Joseph, bacon and eggs is a common breakfast item, as is bacon by itself

    in reply to: Seuda at a Bris #1125744
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    They wouldn’t be putting an individuals cold cuts on the buffet.

    in reply to: Seuda at a Bris #1125742
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    Scared, I’ve never seen a morning dairy bris that wasn’t buffet style. All the waiters do if there are any is serve coffee

    in reply to: Drones and Shabbos #1098563
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    Ho is that different from when the Rav drones on giving his drasha?

    in reply to: Maybe I Just Shouldn't Say Kaddish? #1101293
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    Feivel, how could someone standing 50 feet away determine your kavana?

    in reply to: Sunglasses assur? #1098346
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    Feivel, for all you know, someone folloing a sunvlass chumrah cljld in fact bbe dispeasing Hashem by not making use of sunglasses to protect eyes.

    I have nothing against chumrahs; follow them to your hearts content. Just don’t infer that this is what Hashem wants ( after all, how do you know? ) and/or impose them on others.

    in reply to: East Ramapo School Monitor #1098138
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    Nisht, nice way to obfuscate.my questions had simple yes or no answers. There is no need to insult. Abba’s answers, however, were informative without getting personal.

    in reply to: East Ramapo School Monitor #1098133
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    Abba, can you confirm the following? A. Does the board conduct closed meetings? B. Did the board attempt to sell/lease a school building at below market rate to a yeshiva?

    Thanks

    in reply to: Ignorance of the Law #1098433
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    It is impossible to know if the person is telling the truth.

    in reply to: How do you pay for your child's wedding? #1099531
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    You can’t have it both ways. If you have shidduch dating starting at 19 and neither the boy or girl has worked, how do they pay for even the simplest wedding? The prevailing custom among many non Jews is for the couple to save and pay for their own wedding

    in reply to: Letter from Rabbonim that Schools Must Accept Non-Vaccinated Children #1099206
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    What if their smartphones are vaccinated against bugs? Will that do it?

    in reply to: Sunglasses assur? #1098295
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    Who dreams up this nonsense?

    in reply to: pool in flatbush #1097149
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    Technical, why would think they would let you go for free ( except for one time to see if you like it) ?

    in reply to: techias hameisim #1095972
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    Abba, if one lives more than two miles from Eretz Yisroel, willthey qualify for free bussing?

    in reply to: Suing The East Ramapo School Board #1095949
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    NY State law does not permit for profit hospital chains , like Humana, to operate in NY.

    in reply to: Frum Jews who Litter #1095823
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    Papa, just because something is part of nature doesn’t mean it’s OK to do it. The Torah and Chazal teach us that

    in reply to: But people don't get to choose their own schools in America #1097690
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    The public schools in my town are excellent and are a major factor in maintaining property values.

    in reply to: But people don't get to choose their own schools in America #1097682
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    Nisht and Joe,

    You’re both missing my point. If all schools, including yeshivas and private are funded like public schools with public taxes, then the local board of education will have the right to review and approve the budgets of both yeshivas and private schools budgets

    in reply to: resturant #1095322
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    Isn’t that in Loch Sheldrake?

    in reply to: Why force feed? #1095850
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    By extension, you’re OK with a terminally ill patient being allowed to commit suicide ?

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