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Ofcourse & Another name- Thanks u guys! Im so glad it hit home!!
OfCourse- THANK GOD THERE R PEOPLE LIKE U IN THIS WORLD!!!
People here are sometimes too idealistic, holy, preachy, ignorant and unrealistic- as much as we know FaceBook isnt the most “acceptable” pasttimes on the YWCR- but it works- for older singles, lonely people, (YENTA PPLE), networking, keeping in touch etc(AS EVERYTHING IN THIS WORLD U CAN USE IT FOR GOOD OR BAD)
In Sem there was this amazing teacher- she asked whats the sun?
So half the class said its good- it helps the ground grow so we can have food, it heats the world etc.
The other half said no, its bad- it can get too hot, the sun is dangerous, cancer, uv rays etc.
Then everyone got confused.
Is the sun good or bad?
Is fire good or bad?
(cooking, fires..)
Is water good or bad?
Is a knife good or bad?
Is Facebook good or bad?
The answer is simple:
Its NOTHING.
Its HOW you use it that determines what it is…
So really, its HOW you use Facebook- you can go and meet the right people, and use it to your advantage…YOU have to KNOW YOURSELF when using ANYTHING in general, if you cant handle it or you feel in doubt- then dont do it.
We all have bechira, and brains- USE EM!!
Fish, Cats, ANIMALS- creep me out
Chewing Loud
Slurping
Crunching
Smelly/Bad Odors
BAD BREATHE
Know-it-alls
Stuck-ups
Ignorance
Judgmental People
Snobs
People Who Talk About People
People who talk about stupidity
PEOPLE WHO COMPLAIN ALL DAY, AND ALWAYS FIND WHAT TO COMPLAIN ABOUT
Uptight People
Bad food
bad Table Manners
Smelly Feet
Unhygenicism
lack of considerationa and sensativity
Poeple who talk/talk/text/etc to the phone WHILE theyre “talking” to you
Liars
Fakers
Users
rudeness and intolerance
ANGRY PEOPLE
People who pick their heads
Picking nose in public (go to the BATHROOM, that goes without saying passing gas)
smelly garbage
Diapers
creepy people
puss.
my worst word
aries2756- THAT IS THE SMARTEST AND MOST AMAZING IDEA I HAVE HEARD YET!! IF IT HAPPENS< I WANNA BE A PART OF IT!!!
Good Going Aries!!
Gerontophobia- fear of getting old
cherrybim- i have to agree with you on that 100%!!!
Kapusta- ha ha
…im gonna be….working this summer. yay. whoo.hoo.
scared of getting old. fear of being alone and sickness.
Yes, i think it would make me sad every time I passed it ( street/ave named after Leiby) and maybe depressed, but ater we all learn to cope and deal with it, I think it will be a powerful reminder and symbol.
move to bp, Willi, Sqver…
Sender- whatever you do BE SO SO SO CAREFUL not to chalila hurt this persons feelings- remember, u might be on one level and shes just reaching there in her own way, if your going to “kindly” sweep her out the door, remember shes a tzelem elokim, you want K’V Hashem to say, ok, ur not so tznius when ur davening to me- please get out of my thrown room…
I do hear where your coming…
maybe you should speak to daas torah!
HEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!! Ya’all must be really bored!!!
mikehall12382- my thought exactlty
btw- sometimes its not the mother thats picky, but the father/ just saying.
I dont like smokers necc..but I recently went out with a guy- ON A FIRST date and he asked if i mind smoking…i said not really, not in my face or car etc…lets just say by the end of that date he smoked like 5 cigarettes…men? cluless…watevs
There is much to learn, and to take upon and change in ourselves.
All deriving from the fact that the ENTIRE community suffered/is suffering from this terrible terrible tradgedy and loss. The pain we are all feeling is real and is MENT FOR EACH INDIVIDUAL to WAKE up and do teshuva…when something as bad as this happens in a community its taught that being that it wasnt some horrific event harming the entire community but one indiviual who took the “hit” for us r’l- we need to realize it COULD have BEEN us- and this pure pure chile had his precious neshama brutally taken away instead of saomething terrible happening to all of us. It is a sign to do teshuva (obviously taking action, learning from it, awareness) but since we were all pained- we are PART of the tzara- we need to make improvements in ourselves…why it happened? we dont know- we are not here to give answers on why- but its so obvious and clear to see- we NEED to fix ourselves, being better jews, bein adam l’chavero and bein adom lamakom! We should never never ever ever hear of such tzasros- and in the zchus that we all make a change in ourselves for the pure neshama taken away from us- we WILL become a better people and bring the geula- and see our proud Leiby again!!
I AGREE WITH YOU 10000%!!!!
I’ve been saying that all day!!! People, you have to BE SO CAREFUL with what comes out of your mouth and in the things you write- YOUR DAMAGING PERFECTLY INNOCENT LIVES here, WHY CANY PEOPLE THINK??!! The Aron family did NOTHING to deserve to kind of l’h thats going on about them- your upset- Fine, you entitled, bash levi NOT his family!! Its wrong ON SO MANY LEVELS to talk bad about his family- they are good erlicha people who had endured so much suffering- just give it a rest people!!
THANK YOU!!!
I disagree
honolulu- you think that his unfortunate family needs to be exposed in a horrid way, and divulging such info ebout his sisters is necc?? Imagine the tremendous bizayon the family of the murderer is going through? Whatever he did- his HIS busines and HIS punishment to come, but does HIS family need to be publicied like that? NO. Thats unfair!! I think that its enough to discuss all our hate for this rasha and our sypathies for the Kletzky family- but lets not discuss the convicts family, its really unfair!!
600 Kilo Bear- I back up what he said!
ASK YOUR DOCTOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
DONT GO RUNNING FOR THE EAASY WAY OUT- IT COULD END UP HURTING YOU VERY BADLY!!!
THINK, AND ASK BEFORE YOU ACT!!
Either way, its not for us to judge or decide which punishment this sick person needs…he WILL pay- in this world- and in the next; hell isn’t big enough for a person who does sucha a horrendous act!!!
I have been in the same situation- so I basically have 2 groups of close friends “The unfortunate”- shallow/fluffy/ not too much depth in li
fe exeince kind of friends…and then there are my REALLY close
riends who are deep, more intellectual, etc…I would never ever “toss” the friends that I “outgrew” or are not necc on MY level- Friends are VERy important; and learning how to continue that friendship is a challenge @ times; but at the end of the day- SO WORTH IT!!
If you dont like talking to them on the phone; make subtle hints- like you dont havta PICK UP.
And visits: you can tell them your busy…etc..
But its never a smart option to walk out on people you’re not on “the same page” with…those that do pretty much ALWAYS come to regret it..
Good Luck Y’all!!
Legendary
too busy- never had a chance to go to one of them…but def on my bucket list…
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RedNails- thank you. i hate it when a good thread gets messed up by a heated “fued”
bortezomib- the same holds true for those of us who feeel our strongest beliefs can/ and are allowed to be compramised/ sacraficed by a guy were dating.
There are certain areas you can look over, but things that make you who you are- our personal values and beliefs- should not be compramised over…but ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS ask Daas Torah/Mentor etc before ending a shidduch…LOTS of people have regrets after ending a shidduch that could have very possibly been “the one” because of reasons they didnt take time to think, ask and digest properly- and it could very well be for a dumb reason too.
Legen-dary!!