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January 23, 2020 5:33 pm at 5:33 pm in reply to: Why does Biden get a pass Or ”the donkey in the room ” #1825568Reb EliezerParticipant
I did not agree with all policies of Bush as the Iraq War, but he was an honorable person.
Reb EliezerParticipantChildren like it because it shows you care and makes them feel good.
January 23, 2020 5:32 pm at 5:32 pm in reply to: Why does Biden get a pass Or ”the donkey in the room ” #1825565Reb EliezerParticipantTwo wrongs don’t make a right. People want to look up to their president. I will only vote for someone I can look up to.
Reb EliezerParticipantThinking (hirhur) of Torah does it need a brocho? In SA O’CH 47,4 it is paskened that hirhur is not like speech and no brocho is required. The GRA says that learning Torah is exception as it says והגית which means hirhur, so we should not learn like that without a brocho, MB s’k 7 there.
Reb EliezerParticipantThe answer to showing favoritism by Hashem needs some explainations. To praise for Hashem’s provision can be the benefit of the provision itself or the appreciation of the provider. We appreciate a small because it comes from ‘Hashem’. Similarly, as we show appreciation for the small amount given, Hashem judges us on a level of a human being and appreciates the small amount of mitzvos we perform and show favoritism for it.
Another explanatiion I heard, do we eat to live or do live to eat? Do we make a brocho to eat, or do we eat to make a brocho? In the first case, the importance is the food, so it needs a shiur whereas in the second case the importance is the brocho. so the food is not as important and we get rewarded by showing favoritism
to us.
The Chasam Sofer asks that according to the Rambam where making an unnecessary brocho violates לא תשא, do not utter my name in vain, how can we make a brocho on something we are not mechiyuv to make on? He explains that when we care about brochos, we will be blessed that a small amount will satiate us and therefore we will be mechuyav to make a brocho on it and will be rewarded accordingly.January 23, 2020 4:07 pm at 4:07 pm in reply to: Why do many people in Lakewood drive way to fast? #1825515Reb EliezerParticipantI was in Israel in 1972 and we are told to be careful because of the fast driving.
January 23, 2020 3:13 pm at 3:13 pm in reply to: Why does Biden get a pass Or ”the donkey in the room ” #1825493Reb EliezerParticipantAs I am listening to the impeachment trial, they say that there is no validity to the allegations against Biden, and by removing the prosecuror creates more chance with the new prosecuter that Burisma and his son would be investigated. Biden followed the existing US policy at his time together with the EU and other US allies. Biden’s son was aquited by Ukrainian officials indicating that he did nothing wrong. This was after the prosecutor Sholkin was removed.
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The Noda Beyehuda in his commentary Dagul Mervovo on SA O’CH 171,2 questions how can men, who davened maariv already Friday night, be motzei kiddush the women who don’t usually daven maariv, so their chiyuv is biblical whereas the men’s chiyuv is only rabbinical? To answer that they have arevus, the Rosh says that men don’t have arevus for women. Rav Akiva Eiger ztz’l answers that for the mitzvos were women are also mechuyav like men there is arevus.
January 23, 2020 12:45 pm at 12:45 pm in reply to: Why does Biden get a pass Or ”the donkey in the room ” #1825437Reb EliezerParticipantklugeryid, you don’t appear as klug as your name. A president is required to be examplary role model to look up to, which he is not.
Reb EliezerParticipantTrump got himself into this predicament because of his gaiva. When it came to his inauguratiin, he needed to have there more people than any other president. He could not accept that Russia had an influence in being elected president and there might be a question about his legitimacy. so he says Ukraine was involved in helping Hillary. For this coming election, he must destroy his opponent Biden to make sure he will win. He has an inferiority complex. You don’t need to shout when you have arrived.
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The question about mirales is because they were about a few generations apart from Rav Yehuda. We have the students, Rebbi to Rav to Rav Yehuda to Rabeh to Abeya. They questioned, why they are not worthy of it?
Why do we have to be worthy of it? Why doesn’t Hashem bring miracles to believe in Him? I heard an interesting idea. Hashem proved himself already. A doctor does not have to get a license MD everytime. Once he got it, he is accepted in the American Medical Assodiation as a full pledged doctor. The previous generations who were weak in their emunah needed miracles. We have inherited our emunah and know about the miracles, we don’t need to be shown more.Reb EliezerParticipantMaybe, the answer is that the mitzva of lulav was not completely eliminated as it still exists since the chazal iinstituted to take it the rest of the days.
Reb EliezerParticipantGH, Where is the GAON?
Reb EliezerParticipantThe Rashba in Rosh Hashanah 15,1 asks the question, how could the chazal make a gezara to eliminate shofar on Shabbos when the Torah says to blow? He answers that baal tigra (diminish) does not apply to the chachomim. Does he argue on the Rambam above? As the first day sukkos is the only biblical mitzva. of lulav, did chazal remove the the biblical mitzva completely if it falls on shabbos? The Taz YD 117, says that if a mitzva is specified to do it even on shabbos, they cannot remove it. From the pasuk it looks like we should take the lulav on the first day even it falls on shabbos. They ask a question why do we asser on shabbos to blow shofar because of carrying and not because of making music? They answer that then they would eliminate shofar completely on both days.
Reb EliezerParticipantThe Rambam Hilchas Mamrim (2,9) says that if chazal say that eating chicken with meat is assur biblically, they violate baal tosif, adding to the Torah, I think this was the problem with Adam Harishon when he added to the commands to Chava not to touch the etz hadaas in the name Hashem. He should have indicated that this was his addition.
Reb EliezerParticipantGH, you say, the apple doesn’t fall far from tree. My Rebbi the Mattersdorfer Rav, Rav Shmuel Ehrenfeld ztz’l said that in a storm wind it does. The internet and outside influences is currently a storm wind.
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The Rambam holds in Sefer Hamitzvos Root 1, that a rabbinical gezera or enactment is authorized by the Torah, under לא תסור, do not sway from the words they tell you right or left. He also holds that a biblical safek is according to the Torah be ruled leniently. The chazal say that their safek is ruled leniently whereas biblical safek is ruled stringently. So question is why, what is the difference when they are both biblical? They answer
הם אמרו והם אמרו, as the whole rule is instituted by chazal, they can decide how to deal with it.
The Rambam Hilchas Kilaim (10,29) explains that for wearing rabbinical kilaim (shatnez), the respect for the individual supersedes the issur, so we don’t tear it off him whereas for biblical kilaim, the issur supersedes the respect.Reb EliezerParticipantWe should be careful not the speak about bad things, giving an opening to the satan by reminding him about bad things. If we do, we should use the expressions לא עלינו. not on us, חס ושלום, חס וחלילה, have mercy on us, רחמנא לצלן, Hashem protect us. There is a hungarian saying, don’t paint the devil on the wall.
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We have to be careful not to speak on the dead badly. They might have been punished already. Also, they are not here to defend themselves. Lashan hara applies infront of the person, if there is somone else there as you are ashaming him.
We find the story of the snake like round oven in Bava Metzia (59,2) where therr was a ruling, לא בשמים היא the Torah is not in heaven. The Deroshos Haran 7, explains that once the Torah was given down to earth, we must understand it with human understanding. Even though Rebbi Eliezer was mechaven to the truth, if the majority could not understand it, they could not follow it. Tosfas there asks the question, so why rely on the bas kol to pasken like Beis Hilel. Tosfas answers that there the bas kol agreed with their human understanding. The Beis Shamai were sharper, greater in quality and the Beis Hilel was greater in quantity, by the number of people, so the Torah is telling us that more people’s views brings to a better understanding.
See the Chinuch 496 where Hashem said that they have won Me over. They are willing to set aside the truth to protect the Torah by following the majority for the greater good.Reb EliezerParticipantברכות יח,ב
Shiva should be sat in the house where the niftar lived as he comes back to the place where he lived.
Every custom there indicates that we must rely on others and we are not an island.
The sudas havroah being provided with food is an example of this idea. The shiva call and davening in the
house of the niftar is anoth example. We cover the mirror to realize that we need others and not to see only
ourselves.Reb EliezerParticipantThe idea of לועג לרש teaches us great mussar. Don’t hurt a poor person by telling him how well you are doing or for someone being out of job, don’t tell him how good your job is. When in cemetery, you must hide your tzitzis SA O’CH 23,1. Be careful what you say to people with a handicap. Don’t hurt people by speaking about things that they are missing. Don’t make fun of them because of their deficiencies.
January 21, 2020 5:02 pm at 5:02 pm in reply to: Why does Biden get a pass Or ”the donkey in the room ” #1824930Reb EliezerParticipantI didn’t say I will vote for Biden, but If he is innocent, we should acknowledge that.
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The Binah Leitim interprets Tehilim (118.,17) לא אמות כי אחיה, I should not die but live as, when I live, I should not be dead. Sometimes we forget the reason for living and act like we are dead.
A person lives on when his children follow his ways. Yaakov Avinu because he left children behind who followed he ways did not die. It says in Tehilim (115,17) לא המתים יהללו י-ה ולא כל ירדי דומה The dead cannot praisHashem nor those who descend into silence. It is followed by ואנחנו נברך י-ה but we prase Hashem, why
I think that through our praise of Hashem, the dead continue to praise Him.January 21, 2020 2:53 pm at 2:53 pm in reply to: Why does Biden get a pass Or ”the donkey in the room ” #1824799Reb EliezerParticipantklugeeyid, Biden followed other allies of the US who wanted this Ukrainian prosecutor gone because of corruptiion and it was not because of Biden’s son because he did not prosecute Burisma and his son, so for that there was no reason to get rid of him.
Reb EliezerParticipantThere are three viiews when it comes to night. The Yereim, Rav Eliezer Mimetz, who holds that night coincides with the shkia and ben hashmoshos is 3/4 mil (18 minl) 12 1/2 min before it. Erev shabbos we follow this most stringent view with the most lenient view that a mil is 24 min. The geonim’s view there is a shkia and 12 1/2 min after it is tzeis hakochovim or night. Those who follow this are Rav Moshe Alashkar also known as Gaon Yaakov and the GRA. Finally Tosfas Pesochim (94,1) with the beginning words Rebbi Yehuda telling us the Rabbenu Taam’s view having two shkias. After the first shkia 58 1/2 min ben hashmoshos starts for 12 1/2 min and then another shkia occurs in conjuction with tzeis hakochovim. The follower of this view is the Mechaber SA O’CH 261,2 and the Minchas Kohen. Many follow the GRA and as many follow the Rabbenu Taam. The Baal Hatanye is interesting. In his Shulchan Aruch Harav he paskens like the Raabenu Taam whereas in his siddur, written later, he paskens like the GRA.
Reb EliezerParticipantThe difference Menochas (34,2) Tosfas beginning Hakora Kora, between Rashi and Rabbenu Taam’s tefilin is the placement of the parshiyos. The writing is in order. Rashi’s view קדש, והיה כי יביאך, שמע, והיה אם שמע whereas according to the Rabbenu Taam, the last two are reversed הויות באמצע , shma at the end. The Aruch Hashulchan above says that both are true Rashi’s for this world and the Rabbenu Taam Taam’s for next world. They found a pair of tefilin in the kever of Chazkiah like Rashi, so the Darishe said maybe they hid it there because it was pasul.
January 21, 2020 1:20 am at 1:20 am in reply to: Why does Biden get a pass Or ”the donkey in the room ” #1824675Reb EliezerParticipantklugeryid, I would not have pointed out to you, if it wasn’t worthwhile. You are insulting me by not reading it that I am so naive to believe everything.
January 20, 2020 11:49 pm at 11:49 pm in reply to: Why does Biden get a pass Or ”the donkey in the room ” #1824664Reb EliezerParticipantklugeryid, GH says the same thing. Why are you asking the question, if you don’t want to accept the answer from anyone?
January 20, 2020 11:49 pm at 11:49 pm in reply to: Why does Biden get a pass Or ”the donkey in the room ” #1824624Reb EliezerParticipantklugeryid, I am sending you to the article that answers your question. The moderators don’t accept the artucle or a web link.
Reb EliezerParticipantAbove should be, he has heaven in mind.
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When we do some chumra openly that others don’t do is considered יוהרא a sign of haughtiness, gaiva.
Putting on Rabbenu Tam’s tefilin, says the Aruch Hashulchan O’CH 34 after a long discussion that since many people currently put it on, it is not consirered yuhara. Similarly following the Rabbenu Taam waiting for 72 minutes, 4 mil after shkia on motzei shabbos as paskened by the Mechaber O’CH 261 is not yuhara.January 20, 2020 10:44 pm at 10:44 pm in reply to: Why does Biden get a pass Or ”the donkey in the room ” #1824610Reb EliezerParticipantklugeryid. did you read the article which answers your question?
Reb EliezerParticipantAccording to the Ohr Hachaim Hakadash in Paraahas Breishis any one is free to explain simething in the Torah as long it doesn’t affect halacha, so this certainly comes from gedolim and it doesn’t have to be muchruch.
Reb EliezerParticipantWhat about a thread mill?
Reb EliezerParticipantThe mishna at the end of Maseches Menochos אחד המרבה ואחד הממעיט בלבד שיכוין לבו לשמים whether one adds or diminishes as long as יe has the heaven in mind. Rav Ovadya Yosef in Yabia Omer YD (10,29), take the word אך which diminishes is followed by letters לב, take the word גם which adds, the letters preceding it are also לב indicating that in either case we come together at לב, רחמנא לבא בעי doing it for the right reason
לראש -לעשות רצון אבינו שבשמים.Reb EliezerParticipantWe all want to do the will of Hashem and what holds us back is the yeast in the dough. The Klei Yokor explains that the yeast makes the dough rise, it is a symbol of gaiva and that brings to sin, so we don’t eat chametz on Pesach. The Radvaz and the Abarbanel say that Chametz resembles the yetzer hara, if a dough is left idle without working on it, becomes chametz. Similarly, if a person is idle from Torah, the yetzer hara will rule over him.
There is an argument between the Rambam and the Ravad Hilchas Teshuva (8,2) what is olam habo. The Rambam holds that the olam habo is after death and the Ravad holds it’s after Techias Hamesim I heard an interesting idea at the time olam habo, we will wear our crown and enjoy the light of the shechina. What is the crown for? It will have precious stones and act like a prism to reflect the light so we could look into it.
Reb EliezerParticipantAs mentioned on the other thread about USA Today article October 3,. 2019 google or go to the USA Today website titled Explainer – Biden, allies pushed out Ukrainian prosecutor because he didn’t pursue corruption cases.
January 20, 2020 5:20 pm at 5:20 pm in reply to: Why does Biden get a pass Or ”the donkey in the room ” #1824520Reb EliezerParticipantSearch on the USA Today website on the full title, Explainer – Biden, allies pushed out Ukrainian prosecutor because he didn’t pursue corruption cases.
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I will talk about לשמה learning Torah for its own sake. The gemora says in Shabbos (63,1) Tehilim 45,5
צלח רכב. יכול אפילו שלא לשמה – תלמוד לומר על דבר אמת you succeed if you ride (go) after the truth. Says the gemora one should learn maybe even not lishma? No follow the truth. This teaches us that lishma means learning to arrive to the truth. We find Pesochim (22.2) Shimon Hamosini was interpreting all esin (additions) in the Torah when he arrived to the pasuk to fear G-d, he did not know whom to add to it. So he wanted to abandon his whole lives work as he thought his whole interpretation was incorrect. He said I will get the same reward of not doing this interpretation as doing it. Rebbi Akiva included the fear of talmidei chachomim. How come Shimon Hamosini did not think of it? For him this was obvious as the chachomim get their knowledge from Hashem. So if Hashem felt that they were worthy of it, they deserve to be feared and respected, but Rebbi Akiva did not appreciate that requiring a pasuk because he was originally an am haaretz.The gemora says in Maseches Nedorim (81,1) that EY was destroyed because they did not make a birchas hatorah. The Taz O’CH 47,1 explains this in great detail. The Ran says that the Torah was not chashuv in their eyes, Explains the Chasam Sofer over there that they thought that Torah is only beneficial to know how to do mitzvos, so in itself it does not require a brocho being only a hechsher mitzva. They didn’t realize that the Torah is beneficial when learning lishma to arrive to the truth and therefore it requires a brocho hence it is called Torah lishma, learning for its own sake to arrive to the truth. Rav Chaim says that the cheftza of Torah requires a brocho.
January 20, 2020 3:52 pm at 3:52 pm in reply to: Why does Biden get a pass Or ”the donkey in the room ” #1824510Reb EliezerParticipantklugeryid, I don’t know if the moderators will allow the aricle., so google biden fires prosecutor. Read the artiicle from USA Today dated October 3, 2019 tiltled Explainer – Biden, allies pushed out Ukranian prosecutor.
Reb EliezerParticipantThe Ben Ish Chai has another mashel for the yetzer hara:
As a man was limping along, another man came riding on a horse. Having mercy on him, he allowed him to sit on the horse in the front holding on to the rains. When they got into town, the one sitting in the front, says to the other, get off my horse. So at the din torah, he argues this is my horse as I am sitting in the front and holding the rains. The dayan realizes that he wants to take his horse, says we know it belongs to you but you should not have allowed him to sit in the front, holding the rains and take over the horse.
The nimshal is obvious. the yetzer hara arrives as a guest and then he takes over.The Chasam Sofer gives us an eitza how to fight the yetzer hara.
It says in Tehilim (34,15) ס֣וּר מֵ֭רָע וַעֲשֵׂה־ט֑וֹב בַּקֵּ֖שׁ שָׁל֣וֹם וְרָדְפֵֽהוּ Turn away from the bad and do good look for peace and go after it. He explains that there is always a conflict between the body and soul. We would like to make peace and resolve the conflict. So we should basically cycle through the making of peace and go after. We will create a small conflict between the body and soul by doing something inferior to the body and than make peace by letting the body get used to it. It has to be small such that the body will not get frustrated and reject it.Reb EliezerParticipantWhat about YMHA and YWHA?
Reb EliezerParticipantWe find a tefila from Rebbi that we say every morning but we don’t mention yetzer hara. The question is what is the difference between satan hamashchis and yetzer hara? The yetzer hara does different functions, first he influence us to sin and then becomes an accuser.
It says Koheles (11,9) שְׂמַ֧ח בָּח֣וּר בְּיַלְדוּתֶ֗יךָ young man enjoy your youth and then it says וְדָ֕ע כִּ֧י עַל־כָּל־אֵ֛לֶּה יְבִֽיאֲךָ֥ הָאֱלֹקים בַּמִּשְׁפָּֽט realize that for all G-d will take you to judgement. The gemora in Shabbos (63,2) asks that it is a contradiction? It answers that the first part is the yetzer hara and the second part the yetzer tov. The Dubner Magid says that they are both the yetzer hara. He gives a mashel, there was a poor man who was looking around for a place to stay over. The only thing he had is a small back back that he carries on his shoulders. A joker gives the impression that he cares about him by telling him come to my hotel and enjoy yourself. After two weeks staying there the proprietor of the hotel tells him to pay up. He has to hand over the little he has. Going outside saddened, he meets this joker laughing and then he seems to have mercy on him by telling him go back and now fill yourself up to your hearts content as he can’t take anything else away from you.
This is how the yetzer hara operates, first he gets people to sin and then he says there is no help for you and you might as well continue on sinning. He turns into an accuser saying it’s one thing to sin a little but you continue on sinning.Reb EliezerParticipantIt is cute when it runs after its tail.
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We mentiion Rav’s tefila for benching Rosh Chodash. Our girsa is ימלא ה’ כל משאלות לבנו Hashem should fullfil our whole will of our heart has an alternate meaning that the name of Hashem should be come complete (currently its half but we are asking to become full)) לטובה for the good as sometimes we don’t know what is good for us.
January 19, 2020 4:41 pm at 4:41 pm in reply to: How should one protest against shmoozers during davening? #1824139Reb EliezerParticipantMaybe we should try to explain to him how he is hurting everyone. The Klei Yokor on admonishing each other in Parahas Kedoshim brings a mashel from the midrash where one is travelling on a ship and starts boring a hole under his seat. When the captain questiions him, he says, what do you care what I do under my seat? The Zohar Hakadash says in Parashas Terumah says that through his speech he creates a separation and drives Hashem out who only stays if there is unity.
Reb EliezerParticipantOnce Trump gave aid, he showed that he approves the appropriation of Congress and therefore he violated their enacted law.
Reb EliezerParticipantWe say in the first parasha of krias shma to love Hashem. How we can be commanded on this when love is not in our control? Answers the Midrash that if we follow the rest of the parasha, we will come to love Him.
The RMA says in the above siman 98 that we should have in mind before the tefila the greatness of Hashem and our lowliness. As it says, we should keep our eyes down and heart above.
In sief 2 there it says that currentky we are unable to be mechaven, so why do we bring the halochos from our mishna for workers? The MB s’k 7 says that we should try to do whatever we can, so repeating shmonei esrei for kavono we don’t do, but we try to do the right thing from the outset.Reb EliezerParticipantHe violated the law by holding back aid that Congress appropriated showing that he is not a president but a monarch above Congress.
Reb EliezerParticipantברכות טז,א
There are two places that need kavono
1. krias shma SA O’CH 63,4 61,4-6
2. tefila SA O’CH 98,1We are more lenient with krias shma than tefila. The enphasis is on the first parsha because of kabolas oul malchus shomayim, but the main kavono is at the first pasuk such that if he is not mechaven, he must repeat it. He should be mechaven that Hashem is One in the heavens and earth in all four directiions and he is reading krias shma to be yotze it and the name and honor of His is blessed for ever and ever.
Reb EliezerParticipantAccording to the Constitutiion Article II, the president is suppose to execute the laws enacted by Congress, except if he vetoes it and the Congress can’t override it, and not twarth it.
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