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  • in reply to: Agudah Supports Palestinian Statehood #1827532
    knafaym
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    The real question here isn’t do you or don’t you support another Arab state. Since they will never agree or commit to the terms of the deal. Rather are we willing to put our names a paper that is declaring such a right.

    in reply to: The End of the Ashkenaz Community in Flatbush #1823453
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    You’ll find them in farockaway and lakewood and all the little satellite kollelim throughout the country.

    in reply to: Guns in Shul #1821253
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    One third of the people in my Shul carry. (Gilo) And they are all trained to shoot properly (regardless of amount of people) because otherwise you lose your license to carry. Smart

    in reply to: Proof Avraham Avinu Ate Kitniyos #1807994
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    Actually I’m more inclined to believe that A”A zatzal would abhore the entire concepts of Ashkenazi and Sepharadi especially the way they have been weaponized which btw is Over Lo Tisgodidu. So the joke running through this thread is the dust of an Issur DiOraisa.

    in reply to: Airline seating alerts #1796859
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    buying a second seat is kind of silly.
    Most airlines will overbook whenever possible esp. elal
    You’ll just lose your money and get an uninvited friend.

    in reply to: Whats the worst thing about smartphones #1784656
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    Immediate gratification

    knafaym
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    Mam et al. Chips on the Shoulder always prove the other’s point.

    Stop being so defensive and indirectly hateful.
    Every group has there style and what they deem appropriate.

    As mentioned before, elegance and conformity that’s it. Stop adding conspiratorial thoughts and feelings

    People with bad kiddos, wherever they are found, will always look down on others. But the reverse is true as well. People with bad kiddos are always attributing to others their own thoughts and feelings especially “they think they’re better!”

    in reply to: Why Won’t My Mother Let Me Get A Shidduch? #1672535
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    1. She’s right
    Or
    2. She only sees her own needs not yours.

    pick one

    in reply to: Shidduch Crisis Denial Syndrome #1665110
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    Identity is one of the basic foundations for any successful marriage.

    I know where I am Hashkafically and that is what I prefer for my household. Perhaps one quick way to define this is by saying the hashkafa of Rabbi X. really speaks to me that’s where I want to be.
    I know what my Shabbos table is going to look like please God.
    This is how much time I’d like (my husband) to dedicate towards learning Torah everyday.
    This how I’d like to educate my children.
    This is how I’d like to deal with our finances and make financial decisions.
    This is how we resolve disagreements or solve our fights.
    (Before I got married I told my almost wife that she will always be right and I always win!)

    These are most of the key elements of identity. Without this knowledge we’re picking the wrong dates on the foundational level. Then they can go out and see if they communicate well have mutual attraction enjoy each other’s company.
    Well that’s my two cents.

    in reply to: Shidduch Crisis Denial Syndrome #1665100
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    That leaves us with …
    Either the guy or girl says no
    The dating goes bust.

    First of all we must remember that during the late teens and early twenties identity and emotional difficulties come to fruition. If they’ve been festering inside this is when they burst out (quite silently may I add) and the person who is experiencing this most likely is to embarrassed to share.

    Someone with emotional issues shouldn’t be dating at all and must get help. However, they’re too afraid to share so they date and fail.
    On the other hand, when one side or both don’t know who they are, they don’t know with whom to date so they say no to a plausible person or they select the wrong person and the dating fails.
    Some people are selecting who they think they want to be, or their parents want them to be (etc), and the dating fails. (Or the marriage does, or they live miserably)
    Obviously the minority have emotional or psychological issues.
    That leaves us with identity.

    in reply to: Shidduch Crisis Denial Syndrome #1665085
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    @ubiquitin
    The silent majority happens during phases 2,3&4.
    But first, cold feet, late blooming red flags, or intervening family members i believe prevent #5&#6.
    Non-commitment to dating, for whatever the issue, prevents #1, from the male or female side….

    in reply to: Did I get ripped off by my elementary school? #1389463
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    Google it. What they discovered with better satellite and a very long human investigation is that New Zealand is actually the highest point of a submerged continent half the size of Australia.

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    *garb
    traditional garb

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    Maran zatzal wore the traditional clothing. But very few others did as well. Most of the Sephardic Torah elite were educated in Ashkenazi Yeshivot with few exceptions like Porat Yosef. Effectively what has happened is that the major Sepharadi poskim are wearing the traditional hard as a sign of their importance (this is Halacha for those who don’t know) while the intermediary level, i.e. Roshei Yeshiva etc, and the rest of the Sephardi world wear traditional western Yeshivish suits and hats.

    in reply to: Is the Coffee Room Tzniusdik #1360198
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    Since you’re having difficulty with this issue. You should probably consult your LOR rather than the forum itself.

    in reply to: Calling cops on frum neighbor #1338126
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