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Hmmm… anyone see superman lately?
c- If you’re not wearing makeup you either
1. are making a statement about your opinion on how untzniusdike makeup is
2. had 3 minutes from the time you woke up (late) till you had to run out of the house
3. are suffering through a 3 day yomtov
4. Do not believe in wearing makeup unless you’re off to a wedding.
(I don’t think its a tznius issue (usually), I just think its a waste of time/effort)
momma, I think you described it well.
KKH, which is better?
Of course the correct answer would be that the maid does the shopping.
Mazal Tov!!
Welcome, zen!
I think you mean bashing, not judging. You’re completely right.
I might hate some things you do, but that doesn’t mean I hate you.
(you in a general sense)
ames is a she.
Just curious, who else here was around when this thread was popular and is still posting?
I would guess not to many.
Even if it does have a “built up” look, that doesn’t make it an ugly gown. A lot also depends on the gown itself and how its done.
Good luck!
NOS: I haven’t read read most of this thread so I may be repeating something said before. Firstly, I don’t know that this is always the case but IMO, its not, “I want to text now”, its “I text 99% of my free time and now since I don’t know of something else to do, I have a need to text.” Not because they have a need to text specifically, but because they have a need to do something. In their book, something means texting. Very sadly, I think Shabbos today is sometimes viewed as something to get through. (But unfortunately that could probably describe a lot of things today.)
Meaning there’s an essential part of yiddishkeit missing in them, chilul shabbos is a basic that any orthodox kid is supposed to be afraid to violate, if he/she has any yiras shmayim at all.
I call it a yetzer hara.
do you think its fair for the head counselor to pool all the tips and then dole it out as she sees fit?
Not for everyone. Its the same as a teacher giving a project to a group of five students. There is always that does more than their share and one that does less.
*bump*
As a former counselor (in the city), heres a few things parents may want to keep in mind:
-Use the number the camp recommends as a guide and work around that. Most people understand that tipping can add up to a lot (especially for people with several children in camp). Its also different to knock something off the suggestion because you cant afford to give everyone (very legitimate) than not giving (when you can) because you feel they’re getting from the rest of the bunk, so its ok if you skimp a little.
-I remember one parent gave me $5 with a very nice thank you card. Somehow the money didn’t seem as important anymore.
-If you want to be smart: go up a dollar or two. Like it or not, all counselors are human and the tip you give will very much affect how your child will be treated.
To all counselors: General rule, the kids that involve the most work will usually tip the least.
I think this one is working well and if people can discuss things in a respectful way, its fine. Once the part about keeping it civil goes out the window, the argument (and the person behind it) loses a whole lot.
What is termed the shidduch crisis is human perception (and reaction) of Hashem running the world, IMO.
Oh, I certainly hope so. The sooner the better.
observe, I hear you, but maybe that was a tad much?
Anyone have any specific ideas to improve?
Shabbos is not supposed to be boring and one should have a need to text to give them something to do. If it is, we’re clearly doing something wrong.
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who says shes sharing him…maybe he’s just hanging out and messing with girls…does it make it less of an issue because hes married?
He would probably act the same way, single or married. It isn’t a very good reflection of him if he doesn’t mind hanging out with single girls. (Or any girls other than his wife.)
Kapusta, I shall be there with bells and whistles on – also with very modest clothing on and something nice for the couple. B’H’ that should be in the very near future – if that is what you want.
Amen, thank you.
(I’m trying to think of what to say about the last part. The wording isn’t coming to mind now but I like it.)
Hey, you givin’ out brachos?
IMO, any healthy relationship needs to be both giving and taking.
he’s actually a he
*scratches head*
adorable: IMO, even worse. He would be the same way, but add a wife to the equation.
One more thing (just because I think it’s applicable here) and then I’ll try to keep quiet. (uh huh)
When I was learning to park my parents told me to do go slowly. Hitting a car at two miles an hour does a lot less damage than hitting it at ten will. So I’ll say the same thing here, two miles an hour is a lot safer than ten.
(Sorry, I know I’m coming on really strong, this was for the other people reading that it might apply to. ? )
I hope this doesn’t count as tooting my own horn.
(Rabbi Wallerstein mentioned a story there of someone who also thought they were the exception.)
Rabbi Orlofsky also has a Shiur on TorahAnytime called “platonic relationships”.
They say when the subject was being discussed (not sure if it was at this specific Shiur) only the girls were arguing that platonic relationships do happen…
Hatzlacha!
Can I be really honest here? I think 6 dates in a week is crazy. No wonder you’re feeling rushed!
And yes, it bothers me to see the halacha so distorted by this “rabbi” to make it appear that cremations are OK.
It bothers me that sadly, there are Yidden who don’t know any better.
As my mother would say, “buckle up for the ride”. Seriously though, IMO such quick shidduchim are scary. (Not in all circles) dating for such a short time might mean the person is excited to have found the one and wants to hurry up (not a good thing if the person is looking to get married just to be married) or maybe s/hes just enjoying the moment and not really thinking straight. I also think its better to go out a few extra times (within reason) to make sure.
(Btw, how many times did you go out in a week?!)
Hatzlacha!
popa: It’s exciting to get engaged/married. Sometimes people forget what its really about.
Kapusta, I dont know about undeeded stress, but I sure know these kids will get potched. I think they still potch them because the mother once complained to me how her hand hurt from doing so.
Unneeded stress; assuming the parents already know about it, why add the stress of knowing their dirty laundry was aired in public. On second thought, it doesn’t sound like the kids were trying very hard to keep quiet about it so the parents probably wouldn’t care… I still think that the best way to help them is to talk to them directly.
Am I correct in thinking you don’t live in NY? Most people don’t walk outside (or sit outside) at 1 AM around here.
popa: I guess you’re talking from experience…?
Everyone is waiting for the first ever CR Vort. Get a big place because we are all coming. Because I am Conservative, I have been to many, many engagement parties, but I have never been to a vort – and I really would love to. (I also give nice gifts)
Soon as I find the guy, you’re invited. (If I have a vort that is, if not then you’re invited to the l’chaim IY”H.) 🙂
I have an idea for some new subtitles. They would all say the same thing. Let me know if you need a hint.
My wife always says she wants to go somewhere. But I’m a homebody.
Old joke:
My wife told me to take her someplace new. I took her to the kitchen. ?