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May 13, 2012 10:47 pm at 10:47 pm in reply to: Yad hashem, infamous "Space" stores bankrupt! #873623JUST.MEMember
It’s funny how “a guter yid” “knows” exactly what happened. The fact that they went to a din Torah against the sikrkim and that Menuval who got “only” 2 years and should have gotten soo much more, and the bais din paskened (yes a clear psak) against the sikrikim and for the store owners. The reply of that person (sikrik) was: I don’t care about bais din.
In addition, clear footage of surrounding security cameras showed who really beat who. The sikrik took extra measures to beat the owner that required him to get surgery and multiple stitches.
Next, against halacha, burning the store down and causing immense monetary losses, who would repay for that?
I have so much more to say, and “a guter yid” I don’s wish this upon you, but before you go out on a limb to enjoy the downfall of erliche yidden, you should be ashamed of yourself. Get the facts right!!!!
JUST.MEMemberThe gemara is in Bava Basra 57b. It talks about walking by the river banks where the girls used to wash clothing with there arms (i think) uncovered.
I am not sure what the answer is, but if there is a psak for a certain woman that she can have her hair uncovered, isnt that a complete psak which would permit others to see her hair? Just like a single girl doesnt have to cover her hair, same too anyone that has a heter?
I did mention things and every thing was on purpose. the “potential boss” and the “with children”.
From what I know, attractiveness has nothing to do with this. i know of many girls that were not attractive before they got married (hair wise) and then bought these very attractive looking wigs. But when the Halacha says that something is Assur, usually its across the board.
Regarding the potential boss, he can have a dress code for woman (i.e. not wearing mini or over exposed clothing) and usually that wont apply to men, so why is requiring head covering for those woman that are halachically required to wear be different?
JUST.MEMemberI work in an office where there are a few woman working, they have their own interactions going on between them. The men don’t interact with them or party together which is the way it should be. When business is involved, we do talk. But that doesn’t mean that when they leave they shouldn’t say bye or when coming say good morning. The good morning / good evening is not directed at anyone specific but to the general air which is fine. In conclusion, I feel that over interaction can be limited but that doesn’t mean not saying hi or bye when coming and leaving. It makes the atmosphere a good one. And if i did understand you correct the interaction was “a little more” that just saying hi or bye or work related. I do know someone who left her job because of that and good for her. A person never losses anything from doing the right thing.
Regarding other work places, it is very tough to find the right atmosphere but they do exist (Baruch Hashem I am in such an office which is amazing and local)
JUST.MEMemberAdorable, over the time that I have been researching, I have been getting that it is easier to speak to a guy mentor easier for the reason you have mentioned. Aries, I agree with you totally that there has to be guidelines as to the boundries.
Apushatayid, it is much easier said then done since it is hard enough to open up to one person, than to open up to both.
Pac-man, if a young woman has a hashkafa issue or even a boys-girls issue, i doubt she will bring it up to her father to ask, she would want someone that she can confide in, therefore sending someone to ask is not really the answer.
My initial question was, in the case that she has some personal issues that she needs comone to talk to in confidence, who would that be? who would they be more comfotable to confide in?
JUST.MEMemberHave you found anything? Anyone to dance at your wedding or are you still looking?
Only looking for groups? or anyone who can be mesameach is welcome?
JUST.MEMemberThis is actually not such a bad one but it’s kind of interesting: I was going out with an out-of-town girl. First date, we went to a vey nice lounge. We sat and spoke and it went very nicely. She was nice and the conversation was flowing. After a while, I asked her what she wanted to drink but she said that she is good and doesn’t want anything. I said Ok. Another half an hour passed and my throat was getting dry so i asked again if she wanted anything to drink. She said no again and I didn’t want to order for myself without her ordering. After this happened a third time, she told me that she doesn’t want to get a drink since that would make her need to use the restroom and she is too lazy to go.
I thought it was actually funny. Yes, we are both happily married. Ok well, not to each other though 🙂
JUST.MEMemberI dance at weddings and try to make it lebedig as much as possible. with breakdancing as well. I may even be able to pull someone else with me who is a dancer.
I need more info about the time. I can try.
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