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NAS – how could you forget to ask for Malka Baila Bas Shoshana Chava, Avital Elka Bas Shoshana Chava and Eliezer Ben Shoshana Chava, all for shidduchim…
just my hapenceParticipantAre you sitting comfortably? Then we’ll begin…
just my hapenceParticipant2 Dr Who posts? Though maybe if they were different Doctors it’s allowed… In which case, allons-y!
And my dog says so too.
just my hapenceParticipantDerech – I think you may have slightly missed the point of my question. HKB’H does not do things for no reason, and therefore would not have put anything into the creation for no reason. Therefore it is valid to ask what the point of the fossils/dinosaur bones would be. The dating methods normally used were not invented, but discovered, i.e. they use rules that HKB’H put into teva, and, as the Rambam writes, this is the way in which HKB’H designed the world to act optimally. Therefore, the question can be asked why HKB’H put into the creation things that would, according to the way that He has designed the world to run, be wrongly interpreted. For whose benefit? Now, I hear your Sifsei Chaim but I don’t understand what dinosaur skeletons have to do with physical manifestations of prior spiritual realities any more than, say, Alpha Centauri. And the deer skeleton analogy doesn’t work either – HKB’H created physical deer with physical skeletons that are left when the deer die and all the flesh has decomposed; they were not placed, fully formed, into creation as simply skeletons of things that had no physical reality. Deer skeletons do not violate the derech hateva, whereas dinosaurs would. And much can be learned about the world and how it runs from said deer skeletons, which would help enhance our appreciation of the chochmas haborei. Not so the dinosaurs, because, according to this theory, they never actually were nivro.
I think also my comment about learning rishonim might have been taken a bit sharper than it was intended. It was not an ad hominem attack, simply a direction to marei mekomos. If offense was taken, I apologise. However, I do not know why you had to resort to the Seder Olam, a sefer of disputed authorship or even age (it was definitely around at the time of the Rishonim, as Rashi quotes it, but may be of Gaonic, Ammoraic or Tannaic authorship), when you have perfectly good Rishonim who do learn the Shita Alfei as referring to the age of the universe (e.g. Rashi, Rambam), all I was pointing out was that there are others who don’t.
I’m not sure, however, that your solution isn’t tantamount to admitting to a billion-year-old creation anyway. If you have a ‘klolus’ of the shitta of the Sefer HaTemunah (or Bahir, or Midrash Yovelos, or whatever) then you have a physical existence that is that old, whatever ‘protiyusdike’ epicycle is referred to in the other shittos still takes place within that creation. Unless, of course, you refer to the theory that the universe expands until it grows too large, so contracts to a minute point (the Alpha Singularity), leading to another Big Bang and the whole cycle repeats endlessly. Which is just a fancy modern version of the ‘Olom Kadmon’.
I don’t think that here is the most sensible place to go into detailed discussions of Darwin’s beliefs (and, yes, I know I brought it up in the first place, but it wasn’t meant to evolve into something like this…), but suffice it to say he was not an agnostic b’shitta, but someone who struggled with his faith (as your quote I think demonstrates). Agnostic simply means ‘no knowledge’, and though Darwin did admittedly grow more and more uncomfortable with, and became more unsure of, his faith he never actually rejected it as far as I can tell from what I have learned. If this is not the case, then I would be happy to admit to it. However, as I think I pointed out, that has nothing to do with dinosaurs or old universes.
just my hapenceParticipantSo… I decided to find the oldest (i.e. longest without an update) thread I could that I was interested in. And this won! Yay! And in answer: Mahler, Beethoven, Bach, Brahms, Mendelson, Elgar. So done. And now this thread can officially die.
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just my hapenceParticipantAmen, and may all your tefilos be miskabel letova!
just my hapenceParticipantCoz everyone else seems to have gone on holiday, I think I’ll stick this up whilst no-one’s looking, coz it’s one I’m a bit unsure about…
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As I go out I come in, seeking.
I have what I hold, I hold what I have.
I hold in my hand, I hold in my heart,
I hold in my mind, I hold in my soul.
I seek what I do not know
I do not know what I seek
As I come in I go out, still seeking.
just my hapenceParticipantHow about a brocho for children for those who are waiting? I know, unfortunately, of a few couples who would need it…
just my hapenceParticipantNope. We just use beer glasses for everything.
just my hapenceParticipantI know I’m quite new, but could I get something along the lines of ‘a penny for your thoughts, minus some change’? Come on, you know you want to…
just my hapenceParticipantveltz – I understand your point, but I think there is a huge difference between creating a world with fully formed things in and adding in things that aren’t necessary. The back-story in this case does not add anything to the running of the world nor to our understanding of HKB’H, unlike, say in Harry Potter, where the back-story is quite vital.
And Derech Hamelech, I think I explained why his philosophical answer didn’t do it for me. My mention of logic vs revelation was a bit of a sidebar, and referred only to your mention of having the age revealed to us. The problem here is that, as you mention, the scientists ‘don’t have all the facts’, in which case, why did HKB’H put the fossils there to be found, presumably by the people who ‘don’t have all the facts’? I mean, it wasn’t for us, to whom you claim revelation of age – no point – and it wasn’t for them because that would be deliberately misleading, as they are not in possession of ‘all the facts’. So for whom?
By the way, chazal do not count as ‘revelation’, they were not nevi’im. As for it being in chazal, I presume you refer to shita alfei shnin hava alma. Please learn rishonim, as there is some debate as to what ‘alma’ means. According to many (e.g. Rav Chisdai Crescas [rebbe of the Ran]) it refers to civilisation (see Torah Or, droshos);hence ‘v’chad choruv’ – an impossibility if it refers to the universe (if nothing exists, there can be no time to measure how long it does not exist for [see gr’a on the words ‘breishis boro’, and also general relativity]) and which would also otherwise beg the question of ‘what comes after that?’. This is also the opinion of the Ibn Ezra and Ramaban (Al Hatorah). Furthermore, there are plenty of chazals about the age of the universe which give different ages (medrash yovelos, shittas r’ yehuda in medrash rabba etc.). So which is the ‘authentic’ revelation through chazal?
Please understand, I am not saying that I personally believe in a billion-year-old universe. I don’t have any belief whatsoever as to the age of the universe, it makes no difference to my emuana. All I am trying to point out is that the issue is not as cut and dry as some make it out to be.
As for your assertion that Darwin ‘went off’. I suppose that that’s why in the end of ‘Origin'(you know, that book in which he supposedly rejected G-d…) he marvels at how G-d made such a wonderful system for running the world. The fact is, he never actually lost his faith. His student, Huxley, was the one that made evolution into an anti-religion issue. It was him who claimed that Darwin lost his faith, despite there being no evidence for that, and even, as just mentioned, evidence to the contrary.
just my hapenceParticipantDerech Hamelech – like I said,I knew he attempts to answer it. The emphasis there is on the word attempts. It isn’t really all that convincing an answer. As for why, I think I said so in my first post, but have a look at what I’m about to write to 2scents for further clarification… Also, please note R’ Saadia Gaon’s rule about logic vs. revelation (although the Kuzari argues, he is very much a da’as yochid in this respect as far as rishonim go) which is that if we have a question as to whether or not something that may be revelation is correct when it contradicts logic, we follow logic as HKB’H gave us logic to determine whether or not revelation is accurate (in other words, the only reason we believe in any revelation is because it is logical to do so, otherwise we’d end up beleiving every novi sheker around [see further Rambam hilchos dei’os for further elucidation, especially regarding novi sheker]).
However, I’m not entirely even sure where this revelation about the age of the planet is. I can’t find it in my chumash anywhere…
2scents – I’m not entirely sure what your reply means. How are fossils that appear to be extremely old but aren’t not misleading? The fact that you may be privy to knowledge about the age of the planet does not mean that someone who sees these artifacts without that knowledge will not be misled.
Further, some knowledge of history and science would do you a little bit of good. So I’ll let you in on a secret. Darwin believed in G-d. In fact, at one point, he trained to be a priest. His theory of natural selection was not intended to explain the origin of life, simply speciation (how we have many species and not one prototype of each animal) and was arrived at, not by wishful thinking, but by nearly 20 years of research. Natural selection, though the basis for evolution, is not actually the same thing. Furthermore, the people who were most against Darwin at the time of his publication were scientists, not clergy. The church were quite happy to accept it at first. Now, micro-evolution is something that can be seen pretty much every day – bacteria becoming resistant to antibiotics for example – the scientific discussion is purely to do with macro-evolution. And there is considerable debate even within the scientific community there, though they won’t admit it. Regardless, the existence of dinosaurs and fossils has nothing to do with evolution, fossils had been discovered and dinosaurs named and exhibited before the publication of ‘On the Origin of Species’.
Got all that?
just my hapenceParticipantTheMusicMan, don’t want to get all technical on you, but I presume you know of Bertand Russel’s classic logical objection to your proposition. Also, and I know R’ Dovid Gottleib does attempt to answer this one, but quite why HKB’H would create a world that has deliberately misleading artifacts in it is a mystery. Please don’t talk about bechira, because we’d have the same bechira without it, plus bechira needs to be informed, which, if one has no access to any contrary information, it is not in such a case as there is no reason why the fossils and such should not be as old as they appear to be.
Your understanding of relativity also leaves a lot to be desired, and your application arbitrary.
I do not claim to understand any of the issues posed in this thread. Do I believe in dinosaurs? Well, they’ve definitely found bones and why shouldn’t they have? No idea if they really did. How old is the universe? No idea, wasn’t there at the time. I rely on the mishna in chagiga, perek 2, mishna 1. V’hamevin yovin.
just my hapenceParticipantNAS – ssshhh! Don’t go giving away the secrets! People still think that what we do is difficult…
just my hapenceParticipantSM – I grew up with NAS’s complaining about poor writing’, so she means what she says…
And as for you, NAS, maybe another time. I think you may have used up your order quota, only one to-order poem at a time I think…
just my hapenceParticipantNAS – why not?! And here, in all it’s glory, it is…
The Tomato Stands Alone
When all is said, when all is done,
With nightfall, at the end of the day,
The tomato stands alone.
On platform three, with case in hand,
In ancient station of worn-out stone,
Perusing the newspaper stand,
The tomato stands alone.
Alone he stands, alone he stays,
Watching the pigeons test their flying bones.
And when the taxis have gone their separate ways,
The tomato stands alone.
As midnight passes, in walks a cow,
And glares at him with a tilt of the head,
Lifts up a lazy leg and POW!
Squashes the poor tomato dead.
Happy now?
just my hapenceParticipantbubka – presumably you’ve heard of Harav Arvrohom Gurvitz shlit’a, Rosh Yeshivas Beis Yosef D’Gateshead (otherwise known as Gateshead Yeshiva) who once told a friend of mine “he’s not J. B., he’s R’ Yoshe Ber MiBoston”. I take it he’s charedi enough for you…
Personally, my wife and I learn shmiras shabbos k’hilchoso.
just my hapenceParticipantA peace offering… Just in case I hurt people here…
The Innocence of Youth
Their room was abuzz with lemon joy,
Their carpet whistled a purple tune,
And in the corner sat the dog
Who laughed at the cow which jumped the moon.
Their windows blazed with magic light,
Their curtains danced upon the rail,
And in the corner sat a chair
That grunted and read the Daily Mail.
Their wallpaper, a fragile thing,
Preferred to stand just to the side,
And by the wall sat a sofa
Made from real dragon-hide.
Their light-bulb hummed a secret code
To help the pirates navigate,
And on the wall sat a shelf
With a spaceship on, disguised as a plate.
Their table-car went everywhere,
Their cardboard plane ruled the skies,
And in the middle two boys sat
And saw a world beyond their eyes.
just my hapenceParticipantSM -I think, essentially, we agree. I may have been slightly forceful last night, what with the being stressed and stuff. But my problem is not encouragement or people posting poorly written poems, it’s people going “oooh, you’re soooooooooooooo talented” when clearly, they aren’t. I don’t mind people letting out their innermost feelings, in fact I think they’re very brave. I do mind people telling them that their writing is excellent when it’s not. I do try and reply to people who I think need encouragement, but I will only say that the poem as a poem is good if it actually is. I may have been, as Romney would say, a trifle indelicate, but you’ll have to excuse that. I was a little bit worried about an exam I had this morning (1st one in 8 years…) and seriously thought it would go like a dyslexic koi. So I had a rant. Sorry.
just my hapenceParticipantSM – I took your advice, and am up to page 10. I see what you mean about the emotional venting and, to be perfectly honest and a bit brutal, I can’t help noticing that it is more about the emotional content than the actual writing in those early pages. Yes, there are some good ones, but there’s an awful lot of what what I call ‘line-word epics’ (one or two words per line, no real structure or rhythm and loooooooooooooooooooooong) or ‘it rhymes so it’s a poem’ too. And there’s far too much deliberately poor syntax just so as to make things rhyme (‘I need to make it rhyme it’s true/so butchering of syntax I do…’) which I HATE (I know, strong language…). Whilst, yes, it is wonderful that people feel that they can let out suppressed feelings and that others are there to help and encourage and that writing is a medium that these people can use to express those emotions, I have a hard time equating that with writing talent. Please don’t get me wrong, I am not trying to put people down or anything like that, seriously, but…. I don’t know how to put it… not everyone who enjoys writing poems is talented. I still don’t think I am, despite what people here say. I just know it is something that helps me. And, well, it just seemed to me as if everyone, regardless, was being hailed as a Tennyson in the making in those early pages. I suppose that’s why I don’t really comment on ability here, just whether or not I could relate to the message. Anyways, that’s my rant done for now… And I needed a rant coz I have an exam tomorrow morning and I haven’t the foggiest about the material… aaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrgggggggggghhhhhhh.
And so, to bed.
just my hapenceParticipantSM – they come pretty much off the top of my head… It’s a very strange place there…
just my hapenceParticipantSM – you’re right about the early posts, the high post-count made me skip to about page 20! As for relating, yeah it was a tough period of my life but B’H I am now very happily married to my wonderful wife who is a few of years younger than me and, looking back, it was well worth the wait…
And just to cheer you up, here’s something spectacularly silly:
Stuff and Nonsense
Look! Here come the polar bears,
Juggling tennis racquets
Or perhaps Stilton Cheese,
Which nine out of ten cats prefer,
Though the fridge door is open
I read War and Peace once, or so the table says,
Most people can spot a hill
Hope that made you smile!
just my hapenceParticipantSM – really connected with your feelings in that last one, though I would never have had the guts to put something that personal online… I did write some stuff when I went through very similar experiences, but kept it very much to myself. All I can say, and I know this won’t help in the slightest, is to hang in there, keep on going because it will turn out well. Sometimes it takes time, and sometimes you can’t see the light at the end of the tunnel, or even that you’re in a tunnel at all. And then, all of a sudden, HKB’H flicks the light-switch. And you really can’t do much about other people’s perceptions except learn to ignore them. Here’s wishing you much simcha in the very near future!
just my hapenceParticipantRN12 – ” Fyi, under the “yekkes” umbrella groups from different areas have slightly different minhagim (some wash before kiddush, some dont, there are slight variations in davening etc)and most importantly we are super proud of our heritage! “
True dat! I’m a (mainly…) yekke, and I didn’t recognise a lot of the things that this thread claims yekkes ‘do’. Though I do have a bit of Gerrer blood in me too, and that’s messed up my minhogim a little… But my wife is pure-blood, died-in-the-wool yekkish on all sides and even some of the minhogim that I knew in my family are yekkish she’d never heard of, and visa-versa.
And about the whole wearing a tallis before marriage, I used to love pointing out to people in yeshiva who asked me why I wore one that the mishna berura (hardly a yekke by anyone’s accounting) says that it is a chiyuv gomur. The looks were hysterical…
just my hapenceParticipantI’m a yekke who doesn’t wear on chol hamo’ed. It’s a bit of a funny one, I admit, but that’s the family mesora, so hey…
just my hapenceParticipantWe had some pretty awful weather here over sukkos, and a nice warm log fire would have been just the thing… So I decided to bring this out of deep-storage:
Smoke rises in lazy spirals; heat haze and mist maze.
Embers die; last glows spent fast, shadow of the recent past.
Flame fights to stay alight; seized the day then went astray,
So it kicks up and licks the air, but nothing sticks.
Hit and miss as the last soft hiss of stubborn fire as it fails
Flicks its forked tongues, cursed, worsted, now it ails
And sinks, a few more blinks before it drops, stops
And dies, and is no more.
just my hapenceParticipantSM – we do have fun, lots of it… We’ve been doing it since we were kids. Many thanks for the compliment!
just my hapenceParticipantit’s the old joke – a brisker marries a bjj girl: he cooks, she learns…
just my hapenceParticipantReady Now – look, I understand that you don’t agree with reading certain kinds of literature, but that’s no reason to completely mangle a Rambam by taking it out of context. I assume that when you refer to him ‘despising works of the imagination’ you are referring to the statement in Shemona Perokim (1,4) where he is referring to the philosophical position of the Muttakalimun who held that, seeing as imagination cannot create anything new, anything that could be imagined must by definition exist. This is what the Rambam decries as “absurd” because, whilst it may be true that the imagination cannot create anything conceptually new it can take elements of what does exist conceptually and blend them into something which cannot exist in actuality, for example the concept of wings exists as does the concept of massive reptiles, the imagination can take these and create from them a dragon which, categorically,does not. It is this sort of PHILOSOPHICAL imagination, as opposed to reasoned philosophy, that the Rambam objected to. Nothing to do with imagination in artistry. And the Rambam read the works of Plato, which, if you’ve ever read them (and I doubt you have) are not simply philosophical works, but literature as well, they are stories (e.g. the tale of Atlantis). If the Rambam hated literature so much, I doubt he’d have done that. And by the way, your repeated assertions that reading secular literature can lead to ‘more aveiros’ (incidentally implying that the reading is in itself an aveiro, something I have spectacularly failed to find in any of the minyan hamitzvos…) bear no more water for your constant repetition of them. No matter how much you say it, it simply isn’t true. I suppose that R’ Avrohom Gurvitz SH’lita, Rosh Yeshivas Gateshead must be very surprised to learn of all the aveiros he’s done as a result of him having read Shakespeare, the collected works of which you can see on the very bottom of one of his bookshelves, just under the World Atlas. I’m not saying that he reads them all the time, or even that he has read them within the last 50 years, just that, at some point in his life, he did.
just my hapenceParticipantSM – it’s not private, if it were we wouldn’t be having it on here! Please feel more than welcome to interrupt whenever you feel like it…
just my hapenceParticipantMP – thanks! Like NAS says, it’s nice to get feedback from people who just read the stuff I write without knowing who I am. In a funny kind of way, it makes it feel much more personal…
September 28, 2012 10:58 am at 10:58 am in reply to: How do you pronounce your screen name? #1018825just my hapenceParticipantTthe ‘ha’ in ‘hapence’ is pronounced ‘hay’ as in the stuff what horses chomp, not ‘hah’ is in a sound expressing mild amusement. Just so’s y’know.
just my hapenceParticipantThe Chofetz Chaim has quite a bit to say about shidduchim and giving information. The halocho is that unless you know of a SPECIFIC defect that is almost certain to have a detrimental effect on a marriage it is completely ossur to offer the information if not asked for directly. Being ‘not a top learner’ is in no way such a thing, nor is being previously engaged (both these are written mefurash in chofetz chaim as being so). And, as other people have pointed out, you are seriously nogeiah here. I have a few friends who, when I was asked about them for shidduch information, could not see how the girl being offered was right for them. Of course, because it is not my place to offer opinions only information, I said nothing. They are all happily married. So yes, negius makes a whole lot of difference. Remember, your cousin is old enough to decide for herself, she is a grown-up, mature, rational human being who is intelligent enough to make her own decisions. If she feels, after having dated him and found out about him, that he is right for her, let her make that decision for herself.
just my hapenceParticipantNAS – nope, not by a long way!
just my hapenceParticipantNAS – course I remember! He didn’t half go on about it… If we’re trading the silly poems…
Migrations
“It’s about time,” said the bird on the right,
Removing his pipe from his mouth,
“I could do with a really good holiday,
It’s about time I headed Down South.”
“Down South?” asked his fellow bird, scratching his beak
And wondering quite how he knew
Which way was where, be it forward or back,
And in just which direction to flew.
But with nary a word, the bird on the right
Was now a bird gone upstairs
To pack up a suitcase with all his belongings
And check up on cheap hotel fares.
So three hours later, with shades on his eyes
And the suitcase tucked under one wing,
He came back downstairs to his friend who just shrugged
And said “I guess I’ll see you next spring.”
“But Winter’s coming,” said original bird,
“You could freeze here until you were Dead.”
“Well I may or may not,” came back the response,
“But I’m rather attached to my bed.”
“But Florida’s waiting, excitement and fun,
And ice-cream and surfing all day!”
“Well it might or might not,” said his friend in reply,
“But I think I’d rather just stay.”
So he turned and he shrugged, and without a goodbye,
Not even I’ll-see-you-around,
He flapped and he fluttered and soon he was flying
Three thousand feet over the ground.
He flew for a day, he flew for a week,
He flew ’til he couldn’t no more,
He stopped at a hotel in Miami Beach
And was shocked at who opened the door.
“Well, you took your sweet time to get here,”
Said his friend who he’d once thought insane,
“Whilst you battled your way through the cold and wet,
I cheated and came here by plane.”
just my hapenceParticipantSM – sorry I couldn’t be more helpful… 🙁
NAS – nice stuff, don’t think I’ve seen the second one before it’s awesome! I think I’ll repay you in kind with one I don’t think you’ve seen…
Every Now And Then
For now is all, and now is king
And now is It, for now.
For then was old, and then was poor
But then was Now, for then.
September 24, 2012 10:31 am at 10:31 am in reply to: Why Are Men More Intelligent Than Women? #1138505just my hapenceParticipantAs a psychology undergrad, I’d just like to contribute (as my name suggests) my ha’pence ‘orth… (for those who don’t know it’s an old phrase from here in North West England for ‘my little bit’).
There seems to be much confusion about IQ and what it is and isn’t. IQ testing was developed in the early 20th Century by Binet and Simon as a measure of child cognitive development and not as one of intelligence per se. It is therefore a useful diagnostic tool for SpLDs (specific learning difficulties) such as dyslexia or dyspraxia; it is not a ‘who’s cleverer than who’ contest. It is true that organisations like MENSA use it as a criterion for membership, however this is coupled with other tests.
Further, from a purely psychological perspective there is no actual single definition of ‘intelligence’ and as such is referred to as being ‘context-specific’. Even academic intelligence, such as mathematical ability, is context-specific, see Nunes and Bryant “Children doing Mathematics” (1996) where Brazilian children’s mathematical ability differed depending on the setting (market/school).
And on the whole Gedolim more intelligent than scientists/philosophers thing. Twaddle. Rubbish. Hevel havolim. Just because someone is a gadol does not mean that they are, by definition, a prodigal genius who’s mental acuity outstrips even the greatest mind that the non-Jewish world has to offer. People who aren’t frum Jews can be intelligent, perhaps even more so than gedolim. Chochmo bagoyim ta’amin, kabel ho’emes mi’mi she’omro. These are the words of Chazal, not some throw-away to be followed by ‘yeah, but…’. Just because you are wrong, or hold views that are heretical does not make you less intelligent than someone who’s views are not. I’m pretty confident that Isaac Newton was a lot cleverer than me. Well, at least he had a higher IQ anyway…
just my hapenceParticipantThanks guys, I wasn’t really sure how it would be received…
SM – know what you mean about writing without motivation, but sometimes I find that that in itself provides inspiration, letting out all the frustration on a piece of paper or a keyboard can work wonders. For example, a few years ago whilst I was still single I wrote a few little bits about the trying to fit in with a society which expects you to be married at a certain age; I was down, gloomy and pretty much unmotivated for anything at all and just putting down the things helped me get up.
just my hapenceParticipantLove the thread people… I’ve been writing poetry for a number of years now but have been a bit scared to share it with anyone except close friends and family, but here goes….
How To Be Extraordinary
When all the hearts are broken,
How can you sit so still?
When all the dreams are shattered
And no more hopes are left to kill,
And the melody has played its course,
And the trees have lost their shade,
And the colours in the painting
Are all washed out and start to fade,
You stand, you see, you do not move,
You do not act, you do not do;
You sit, you stare, you ponder why
One and another must make two.
Come with me, let us travel;
Come and find forgotten places,
Virgin sand on which to stride,
To breach, to conquer, to boldly go,
To plant, to build, to found, to grow,
To jump, to grab, to seize the day,
To move, to drive, to never stay.
I came and did, and all to show,
For I can fly, for I have dreams.
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