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  • in reply to: What are your views on learning Chassidus? #823452
    Jothar
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    It’s clear your heart is into chassidus, so telling you “no” will not accomplish much other than make you miserable. So I would tell you to explore chassidus, but make sure to daven krias shema bezmano. This is the advice Rav Shlomo eiger gave his son who was exploring chassidus.

    in reply to: Be aware of stalkers/info stealers #827431
    Jothar
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    Zeeskite,are the mods lying?

    in reply to: Be aware of stalkers/info stealers #827428
    Jothar
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    HaLeivi, thank you for the support. As for the 2 issues vs. 1, I’m struggling myself to understand if there are 2 issues or 1. The phishing might be related to the stalking issue, as more details helps a stalker do better stalking. Or it might be a completely separate criminal activity.

    Charlie Brown, there will always be those who refuse to hear no matter how black-and-white the issue is. But let’s repost the MIB, to make it clear which is the right side:

    It already is. And it’s being dealt with on a legal level. Think about it for a minute. If someone broke into your store in the dead of night, and secretly hung around there for ages doing all types of damage, stalking people, threatening people, blackmailing people etc, you would have them arrested too.

    And MIB #2:

    Stop with the “shmiras halashon” scream. Enough of that already. We are dealing with a very sick demented mentally disturbed person who intimidates, stalks, harasses people, steals from people, and lots of other illegal behavior.

    in reply to: What are your views on learning Chassidus? #823448
    Jothar
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    Why do you want to learn chassidus? What is lacking in your own mesorah?

    in reply to: What are your views on learning Chassidus? #823445
    Jothar
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    What do your rabbeim say?

    in reply to: Pasuk anyone? #823628
    Jothar
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    best direct passuk is “yitain lemakeihu lechi” from Eicha ch.3.

    in reply to: Be aware of stalkers/info stealers #827418
    Jothar
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    BTguy, the longer this thread continued, the more people rallied to my side. The case is a tzoah sheyesh lah ikkur. But I appreciate your concerns. Feel free to contact the mods or ywn owner if you feel I crossed any lines. Hatzlacha.

    in reply to: Mazel Tov! #1223856
    Jothar
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    A Bar mitzvah!

    in reply to: No Fun Tonight? #823602
    Jothar
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    2scents, agreed 100%. I’m tired of being the Cassandra for a serious issue.Time to get back to debates!

    in reply to: No Fun Tonight? #823600
    Jothar
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    Ver veis… the wheels of justice turn slowly. In the meantime, have fun.

    in reply to: Working with Non Jews #823165
    Jothar
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    The rule I used to hear was “cordial but not friendly”. Treat them like people, but make it clear there is no desire for friendship.

    in reply to: Be aware of stalkers/info stealers #827409
    Jothar
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    Another common thing to look out for- many people will hide a key under the doormat or in the mail box. If I was a burglar, guess where the first 2 places are that I would look for a key? And those fake rocks they sell that hide keys? You typical burglar will scope out locksmith stores looking to see these gadgets so they can recognize them for what they are.

    True story way back when in Israel- a certain yeshiva had doors that locked to prevent theft. Many bochurim stored keys on top of the door ledges so they wouldn’t have to carry them around. One yom kippur day, someone sneaks into the yeshiva, goes to the dorm, feels for the keys, and this bochur is now out 1200 shekel. Moral- don’t hide keys in obvious places.

    in reply to: Be aware of stalkers/info stealers #827408
    Jothar
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    smartcookie, it was irresponsible. I couldn’t figure out how to send a message first without being their friend, and I took a gamble. In retrospect, it was stupid.

    CR is full of people, especially teenagers, who frankly don’t know the risks. It is my responsibility based on “lo saamod” to alert people to danger if they don’t know it. If I see someone crossing the street and they didn’t notice the truck headed their way, can I ignore it and say “it’s his responsibility”? If I see something, I say something. The torah demands no less.

    in reply to: Be aware of stalkers/info stealers #827404
    Jothar
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    As for actual details of the current case, they must remain secret until the indictment is unsealed, to make sure the guilty party’s only 2 choices are Otisville or Riker’s depending on the level of the felonies. Otisville has a minyan and Daf yomi (and a weekly Friday trip to the mikveh in the Catskills- if you are ever by the mikveh you can see them lined up in orange), and is less dangerous than Riker’s.

    in reply to: blackberry? iphone? android? #823142
    Jothar
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    Windows phone Mango. It looks like Windows 8.

    in reply to: Mmmmmm Scotch. #823551
    Jothar
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    I was once at a booze-heavy kiddush. They drank up every Glen in Scotland…

    in reply to: Be aware of stalkers/info stealers #827402
    Jothar
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    Many people watched the family-friendly film Home Alone. Everyone remembers the kid and his fun defeating the burglars. But very few remember the beginning- the burglars dress up as cops and use social engineering to have people tell them all their security measures.

    in reply to: Be aware of stalkers/info stealers #827401
    Jothar
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    What actually happened to me once was that a certain infostealer somehow found out my real name, and made up a facebook name. I confirmed him as a friend but asked him “who are you”? My intention was to remove him in a day. Sure enough, I completely forgot to remove him until he tried connecting to another friend of mine, after which I removed him. So I know something about IT security, and I got nailed. How many of you confirm every facebook friend without thinking?

    Now, let’s say you use your birthday or license plate # as a password, or a favorite character. Someone with access to your facebook page will soon know your likes, dislikes, favorite shows/movies, license plate (occasional photo of car), birthdays of spouses and kids, their names, etc. A good technique for your password is to mash 2 words together from the dictionary that have no relation to you, change a letter to a number and add in %%%in the middle to throw off brute force password crackers. The CIA assigns code names from random dictionary words unrelated to the project, to avoid easy guessing.

    in reply to: A Yeshiva Reaching Its Alumni #823029
    Jothar
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    Toi, thanks for the good ideas.

    in reply to: Be aware of stalkers/info stealers #827397
    Jothar
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    Haleivi, welcome back. Long time no see.

    No comment on anything that did or did not happen. Seyag lechachma shtika.

    But why is email worse than a telephone? threatening phone calls=harassment. Email is the same felony.

    I pick things up because I work in IT security. I read articles on phishing and social engineering, and are therefore attuned to security-related things that others might miss. It’s the same way that a linguist might notice accents others might miss, and an economist might notice how economics plays into things we never would have guessed. Example of good social engineering- someone grabs a purse from a woman. He now has her wallet, phone, and her bank card. he sees a contact labeled “hubby”. He texts the victim’s husband: what’s the pin for the bank? He texts it back. Before anyone realizes, the bank account has been cleared out. yes, it actually happened.

    Also, many people use things like birthdays, children, etc as passwords. If you find out enough info, you can connect the dots and do serious damage.

    This social engineering trick happened in Brooklyn recently- may be on ywn from a while back- a guy goes around and says he’s from Con Ed. people open the door for him, he checks the meter and disappears a few other items before anyone realizes. 2 guys scammed much of Brooklyn this way.

    So if I see criminal-looking activity, I point it out. I am doing a chessed for the rabbim and get attacked for it, sometimes from well-meaning people, sometimes from SN’s of one of the infostealers. Al menas kein. The CR deserves no less. I assume this will get better after the indictment.

    in reply to: Scoop…. #842949
    Jothar
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    good catch, charlie brown.

    in reply to: Why won't you hurt a fly? #823046
    Jothar
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    Agreed 100%. Sometimes you need to do what’s best for an individual even if he doesn’t want it.

    in reply to: What time do you daven? #823116
    Jothar
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    Syag, lolz!

    in reply to: No Fun Tonight? #823598
    Jothar
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    Fun will be back soon. Just some stuff needs to go down first.

    Bad boys bad boys…whatcha gonna do when they come for you?

    in reply to: Be aware of stalkers/info stealers #827392
    Jothar
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    It’s not about pressure. It’s stopping criminal activity and helping a yid who is too mentally ill to realize he needs serious help. It’s a chessed both ways.

    in reply to: Da'as Toyrah #822908
    Jothar
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    daas Toyrah depends on your circles. If you’re chassidish, it means papal infallibility. In litvishe circles, it means that one has learned so much torah that one thinks like the Torah thinks. A lawyer is so immersed in his law that he approaches everything like a lawyer. A handyman looks at everything and notices what needs to be fixed. A historian looks at everything and compares it to past examples. A linguist picks up accents. An anthropologist picks up subtle social behavioral cues that other miss. An IT professional will see patterns of phishing and social engineering that others completely miss. And a person with Daas Torah will compare everything to points made by chazal and have his viewpoint guided by chazal. This is very litvish, very non-mystical.

    in reply to: What time do you daven? #823112
    Jothar
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    Charlie Brown, thank you for the words of encouragement. BTGuy, thank you for the kind words. I will try to learn more torah to live up to your words.

    in reply to: Be aware of stalkers/info stealers #827390
    Jothar
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    Once the indictment is unsealed, people can relax their guard a bit.

    If anyone has had unwanted email contact from any user in or have been harassed in any way by email, please click the “contact us” button above. Thank you. confidentiality assured.

    in reply to: How do you pronounce your screen name? #1018781
    Jothar
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    are all the mod names pronounced alike?

    in reply to: What time do you daven? #823106
    Jothar
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    Charles, do you do both Tikkun Leah and Tikkun Rochel?

    BTGuy, I second Charlie Brown’s assertion. Please post your full info here and prove to us that there is no concern.

    I sometimes daven by O and 19- if you see me say hello!

    in reply to: how long do you have to be in the CR to be "one of the guys"? #823010
    Jothar
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    The way it works is that people judge you based on your words. Better posters naturally rise to the top. No secrets, no tricks. Work on it (intelligence, emotional intelligence, think before posting, etc) and you will gradually wise to the top. Hatzlacha!

    in reply to: What time do you daven? #823098
    Jothar
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    I daven [redacted] at [redacted]. If you see me there, stop by and say hello!

    in reply to: Be aware of stalkers/info stealers #827388
    Jothar
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    oot, thanks for the support. It’s tough to do the right thing.

    in reply to: Be aware of stalkers/info stealers #827383
    Jothar
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    And multiple people have said that more fire spotters are needed.

    As my rebbe once said, no good deed goes unpunished. I am ruining the agendas of the infostealers, and am being targeted and harassed for this. Charlie Brown agrees with me, Kapusta agrees with me, 2scents agrees with me, multiple mods agree with me. BTguy, you’re the daas yochid here.

    in reply to: Be aware of stalkers/info stealers #827382
    Jothar
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    BTguy, I’m the guy calling the fire department.

    in reply to: Snow in October? #822804
    Jothar
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    Cofeefan, agreed. It hit me when I heard them talking about that there will be so much tree damage since the trees still have their leaves.

    in reply to: Pasuk anyone? #823626
    Jothar
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    gemara rosh hashana 17a darshens micha 7:18 and says to whom does Hashem bear the burden of his sins? To him that forgives others.

    in reply to: How do you pronounce your screen name? #1018770
    Jothar
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    gregaaron, I am also knowledgeable (but not as fluent) in the other Bantu dialects. they’re similar but still different, like comparing Early Aramaic and Akkadian. The tough part was pronouncing my clicks without that Brahmin accent I picked up from my college years up in Cambridge. I was actually working on an Aramaic-Xhosa dictionary during my Congo fellowship, but my grant money ran out right after “geluskema”.

    in reply to: Be aware of stalkers/info stealers #827380
    Jothar
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    observanteen, I will pass the buck on this one to the mods who know more details than me.

    in reply to: Being Perceptive: It's amazing #825023
    Jothar
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    MP, very good post. Daniel Goleman wrote a book on this called Emotional Intelligence. Similar ideas.

    in reply to: How do you pronounce your screen name? #1018761
    Jothar
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    My screen name is phonetically based on the Xhosa clicking language, and is unpronounceable in the Western hemisphere.

    in reply to: A Yeshiva Reaching Its Alumni #823025
    Jothar
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    pba, you sound bitter.

    in reply to: Older Guys = Rip-off Rant (re: NASI "Game Changer") #822849
    Jothar
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    There are many older girls out there who would rather marry a divorced or widowed guy than an older single, as they view the older singles as odd. And vice versa- many older guys would rather marry a divorced woman than an older single woman for the same reason. Not that I agree with this, but this is the perception.

    in reply to: No Fun Tonight? #823596
    Jothar
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    sounds like BtGuy is about to launch the CR Shemira 🙂

    in reply to: Changing Bad Habits in a Marriage #822685
    Jothar
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    Marriage my not be a “hospital”, but they call it it “commitment”- as in, you have to be committed to do it!

    in reply to: A Yeshiva Reaching Its Alumni #823021
    Jothar
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    BTguy,many people actually want to maintain a kesher with their yeshiva, as a moral anchor in an immoral world. The question is, what methods will work.

    in reply to: A Yeshiva Reaching Its Alumni #823018
    Jothar
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    I mean the yeshiva on coney of course. but it could be any yeshiva.

    in reply to: Changing Bad Habits in a Marriage #822677
    Jothar
    Member

    try Zelig Pliskin books. Very good for changing habits.

    in reply to: No Fun Tonight? #823594
    Jothar
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    ne’elav ve’eino olav..

    in reply to: A Yeshiva Reaching Its Alumni #823016
    Jothar
    Member

    any yeshiva. I am specifically talking about yeshiva [redacted].

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