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  • in reply to: Goose for $12.50 per pound? #830065
    Jothar
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    They usually don’t have it in a kosher format. I also saw it advertised locally. It’s a new taste for many, but very expensive. I saw on another Jewish news website that there is a special organic goose that takes like pork. Of course, pork is cheap meat and goose is expensive.

    in reply to: Dead Sea Scrolls at Discovery Museum #829613
    Jothar
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    Correct. We do not and cannot unless gadol bechachma ubeminyan. That is the main idea of mesorah. That is why we have mishnah and gemara, to know how they paskened. A pair of tefillin found at masada does not qualify for that it it argues on the gemara.

    One recent issue that has reversed this whole thing is worms in fish. The gemara and shulchan aruch say it’s muttar, and some are saying we rely on science over mesorah and say they are assur.

    Another big issue is the 167-year discrepancy between secular dating and Rabbinic dating- 586 vs 422 bce. The question is, is going like secular dating violating a halacha or not.

    in reply to: Dead Sea Scrolls at Discovery Museum #829611
    Jothar
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    Sam2, you can’t get more definite than Hashem telling you what the halacha is. And yet, lo bashamayim hi. Rambam paskened against Hashem because Hashem TOLD us that we should go like the chachamim, not like Him. So even definitive archaeology wouldn’t overturn anything. Again, this is all off my head, but if someoen has Rabbi Jachter’s book and can quote chapter and verse I would love to hear it.

    in reply to: Brooklyn College #830047
    Jothar
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    City college is cheaper than Touro, but many have an issue with it. Regardless, having a degree is a much better way of getting a job than not having one. Not having a degree virtually guarantees you’ll be using the CR out of unemployed boredom instead of out of filling downtime at work.

    in reply to: OK, Who's Left? #864734
    Jothar
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    Oh, don’t worry, we’re all here.

    in reply to: know of any jobs? #830364
    Jothar
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    Pshot neveilta beshuka. I see many stores with job openings for non-skilled positions. Taking any one of them is better than a resume gap. If the last real job you have on your resume is from 2003, nobody will hire you.

    in reply to: Dead Sea Scrolls at Discovery Museum #829604
    Jothar
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    Sam2, Rabbi Chaim Jachter used to have a whole bunch of essays posted on his website which were taken down now that they are in his book “Grey matter”. I believe, iirc, that the answer was that that was a confirmed site, where they were saying “moshe emes vesoraso emes ve’anachnu badaim”. Any other archaelogical proof isn’t guaranteed. Some say they found the alter of Joshua, so you can measure it and determine the ama. But other archaeologists say it was just a tower. They found a piece of cloth which was based on the murex trunculus dye and it was a darker color. So this means the murex was techeiles, and it was darker? They didn’t find tzitzis. Finally, there is a gemara in bava metzia where the beis din shel maala paskened tamei and Hashem paskened tahor. Rambam paskens against Hashem. the meforshim analyze it and say emes is determined by chachamim. I saw it quoted here in the CR years ago, forgot exactly where.

    As for oats as mezonos (machlokes rashi and rambam, yehuda felix backs rambam based on his research), my own rav is meikel for a bracha but says you shouldn’t eat oat matzos on pesach unless you have no choice, as we should be chosheish for the rambam. Yehuda Felix does not factor into it. Rav Shachter makes a ha’adama on it.

    in reply to: Brooklyn College #830045
    Jothar
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    Still happens on the upper west side. Yet the number of singles keeps on growing in the uws. Gentiles have no problem meeting, yet more and more of them are staying single. So it’s hard to pinpoint anything as the issue.

    in reply to: Jothar #829489
    Jothar
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    I am not a mod. Shelo asani mod. It’s hard to hold down a job, family, and a night seder when you also have to moderate someone’s content for free.

    Also, the ywn owner has enough verifiable info to put the stalker/harasser away for good on multiple felony counts, leaving everyone else here as trustworthy. Until he does so, I see no reason to waste valuable hours trying to be borer ochel mitoch psoles.

    in reply to: Is it OK to believe in Torah U'Madda? #830527
    Jothar
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    Ask your LOR.

    in reply to: Why are they making us into boys? #829820
    Jothar
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    I once asked a poseik about this, as it looks like all seminaries and girls’ schools are coming around to Rav Soloveitchik and against the poskim.

    in reply to: Brooklyn College #830042
    Jothar
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    Brooklyn college used to be known as the biggest shadchan.

    in reply to: Schnoring at weddings #831245
    Jothar
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    The gemara mentions that a certain amora lived in a house in an area with a common courtyard (similar to a bungalow colony). They put up a gate to keep the shnorrers out, and then this amora stopped meriting eliyahu hanavi.

    in reply to: Dead Sea Scrolls at Discovery Museum #829601
    Jothar
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    This is a big machlokes between Rav Schachter, Rav chaim Herzog, et al on one side and the Chazon Ish, Rav eliashiv, et al on the other.

    in reply to: Jothar #829478
    Jothar
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    I am here. I figured coming in yesterday would take away from the welcoming back.

    first off, I do apologize for thinking AYC was notorious stalker and harasser Joseph. Much of his/her behavior turned out to be temimus (eliciting information that was helpful to Joseph, supporting/whitewashing stalker/harasser Joseph, telling people not to be careful)

    I spent 3 days tossing and turning, wondering how I could have been so wrong about AYC. By the time more facts were in Monday, I slept like a log. A key piece of evidence which wasn’t discussed publicly turned out to be true. The mods were right to investigate, and the mods did have a valid case for doing so publicly. Again, I do apologize for thinking ayc was stalker Joseph. That’s all I will say on this. He/she has suffered enough.

    in reply to: How Weird is This? #880697
    Jothar
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    probably an accidental dial.

    in reply to: Group Therapy #828872
    Jothar
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    The mods have a list of at least 10 sn’s who were stalked/harassed. Any of the others still here?

    in reply to: What's going on here? #829175
    Jothar
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    The mods have a list of at least 10 sn’s who were stalked/harassed. Don’t believe the Joseph sn’s. Feel free to click the “contact us” and confirm.

    in reply to: Putting Btguy's excellent suggestion into practice #828725
    Jothar
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    Great article about him, and how Rabbi Twerski advised him to start his career :http://www.thejc.com/lifestyle/the-simon-round-interview/31715/interview-philip-rosenthal

    in reply to: Putting Btguy's excellent suggestion into practice #828723
    Jothar
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    Soliek, can you please give us examples of how you used to piece together info?

    I had a good chat with Mr. Rosenthal. I recommend every joseph victim do so.

    in reply to: The wonderful thing about the coffee room #828292
    Jothar
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    Moskidoodle, I proposed verified sn’s but it got shot down. It looks like they are doing that for suspicious accounts, though. Hopefully this should pare down the place a bit.

    in reply to: What's going on here? #829165
    Jothar
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    Maybe soliek can be our Frank Abagnale Jr or Kevin Mitnick and tell us how he used seemingly innocent pieces of information to piece together identities, and give us an insight into the mind of Joseph.

    in reply to: Who are you? Who am I? #828445
    Jothar
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    Hopefully this will have a good resolution. But as a former victim of stalker Joseph, I am happy that the CR is finally cracking down on suspected stalkers. Too many victims have been hurt. I do think that where no email contact is known, it should be done, from now on, privately, and just announced afterward one way or another.The danger of Joseph is VERY real, though. If you don’t like the way the mods are doing their jobs, feel free to vote with your feet and leave. I would rather they err on the side of caution, until the known stalker is put away.

    in reply to: Group Therapy #828869
    Jothar
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    I would like to mention that stalkers are very good at manipulating people into silence- “shalom”, aharon hakohen,achdus, etc. IGNORE it.

    Also, if you received an unsolicited, strange email purporting to be from a poster here, feel free to post it here. You are also a stalking victim, even if you can’t prove it was Joseph specifically.

    in reply to: Group Therapy #828863
    Jothar
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    Smartcookie, feel free to mail someone a threatening letter, and then tell the police it was “junk mail”. Let me know what happens.

    in reply to: Group Therapy #828860
    Jothar
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    Squeak, I’m a victim too. I was very careful not to post anything resembling my real name, and I still got a random email from Joseph one day, from an account labeled “Berditchev”. I was really freaked out. I felt violated . I later took an extended break from the cr, and when I came back I saw a bunch of threads designed to elicit personal info and cause more people to suffer like I did. Plus, the memory of Leiby was fresh in my mind. That’s why I started shomrim, and put up with the hell the stalker sn’s and well-meaning opponents put me through. It’s time for the victim trail to stop. Thank you for starting this thread.

    in reply to: Putting Btguy's excellent suggestion into practice #828722
    Jothar
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    soliek, countless numbers of people on the CR thought they were doing that, and still managed to get stalked and harassed.

    But a +1 in that you are agreeing with me fully . Don’t post anything that might help people identify you. People have no idea how stalkers like Joseph are able to connect the dots from seemingly innocent tidbits.

    in reply to: Group Therapy #828858
    Jothar
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    Squeak, you are one of the lucky ones.

    This is someone who should be sitting in jail for a long time.

    in reply to: Putting Btguy's excellent suggestion into practice #828718
    Jothar
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    Squeak, +1.

    Stalkers like Joseph thrive when nobody knows what he did. I am working with the mods to end the silence.

    in reply to: Don't Feed the Trolls #1120491
    Jothar
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    And now we’re allowed to call out stalkers too.

    in reply to: Be aware of stalkers/info stealers #827608
    Jothar
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    I am still awaiting word back from the mods. It’s possible ayc is innocent, and I surely hope so. There are a lot more blatant threads than hers, like the ones that got me to start this whole mess. BrainwasheD is right- everyone has a chezkas kashrus until we know otherwise.

    in reply to: od Avenu Chai #829022
    Jothar
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    You are all correct. We haven’t received final word from the mods, and we all hope that AYC is innocent. I let my emotions override my rationality, and for this I apologize. There have been other, much more suspicious threads here than hers (your age, 13th avenue threads, etc). There was one issue that made everything fully suspicious, and then everything looks like it fits a pattern. I sincerely hope I was wrong, and look forward to apologizing.

    in reply to: Putting Btguy's excellent suggestion into practice #828710
    Jothar
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    I think the “ask your rabbi” part got lost in this post. Great idea, but you need to stress the “ask daas torah” more.

    in reply to: Be aware of stalkers/info stealers #827605
    Jothar
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    Squeak, my earlier wb did not do proper justice. So at the risk of being overly mushy, I would like to say that your return has made the last 3 weeks absolutely worth it. Welcome back, old friend. Your presence was sorely missed.

    in reply to: The best segila #827027
    Jothar
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    Years ago, in the early days of kashrus in america, a mashgiach in a slaughterhouse put aside an animal for being treif. Then one mashgiach put it back in with the kosher animals, and said “Don’t worry, the balabos told me it was kosher.” Another shochet asked him, “the balabos is an am ha’aretz!” To which the mashgiach responded, “No he’s not. He just showed me kessef mishneh!”

    in reply to: Be aware of stalkers/info stealers #827599
    Jothar
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    Squeak, I appreciate your dignitude.

    in reply to: lolkatz, ayc and bump x3 #827078
    Jothar
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    sn’s change all the time. ice cream, moskidoodle, pushtayid, et al are all new. Mods err on the side of content.

    in reply to: I havent eaten OU-D in years and I have a Teiva for it. #828135
    Jothar
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    When does the frumteens essay get posted here?

    in reply to: Does Neturei Karta have a point? #843541
    Jothar
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    I once saw this video of Rabbi Yaakov Shapiro of “torah-true jews” and frumteens.com leading an anti-zionist rally in DC and got nauseated. As the Satmar rebbe ZTL said, when goyim are against zionists they are against Jews. By inciting goyim against israel, they are killing Jews.As someone who is goreim danger for Jews in Israel (even toldos aharon and satmar) by strengthening the hands of the enemies, Rabbi Yaakov Shapiro is now passul, along with his frumteens essays.

    Neturei karta hugs rotzchim who want to kill Jews.

    Their point is that Rav Shteinman shlita and Rav Eliashiv shlita are Zionists, and that those who threaten to kill Jews are our friends. I guess it’s ok to be a Zionist, if this is what Anti-Zionism is. Not saying you should be a Zionist, but anti-zionism is clearly a passul derech.

    in reply to: Be aware of stalkers/info stealers #827587
    Jothar
    Member

    Welcome back Squeak!

    in reply to: lolkatz, ayc and bump x3 #827075
    Jothar
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    I am here. There is nothing wrong with bumping a thread, though I certainly disagree with tarring anyone who agreed with AYC as another stalker sn.

    in reply to: Be aware of stalkers/info stealers #827580
    Jothar
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    Lolkatz, it’s unfair to label this “stalker swept under the Ultra-Orthodox rug”. How many Ultra-Orthodox worked at Penn State?

    Joseph, who assured me he is no longer posting, sent this to me in an email, so we can add his words to what was said here:

    Assuming its untrue, it certainly is contemptable [sic] to claim to be a real live person (or family) that one is not. Especially a family that’s suffered like the Kletzky’s r’l.

    in reply to: Why Mods Sleep.. #827054
    Jothar
    Member

    Do you watch the football games against Moderator State?

    in reply to: Be aware of stalkers/info stealers #827557
    Jothar
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    BTGuy, we already discussed this. If you don’t like how it’s handled internally, share your law enforcement contacts with the mods.

    I still have a hard time fathoming the evil of someone who would manipulate others by falsely claiming to be a kletzky. Only a hideous ogre could do that. How can that person even call himself Orthodox? It’s probably the type of guy who posts on Shabbos using proxy ip’s under a different name.

    in reply to: Warning – ZeesKite Impersonator On The Loose #913932
    Jothar
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    The simcha will hopefully come back for all of us soon, when the good news from mod42 hits that it was a simple misunderstanding.

    in reply to: AKA pella #826706
    Jothar
    Member

    Who gave you a hetter?

    in reply to: Who is a true hero? #826876
    Jothar
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    When Rav Shach ZT”L published his sefer Achiezer, someone told him the sefer would accompany him to Gan Eden. Rav Shach ZT”L demurred and went to a drawer, where he pulled out a noose someone sent him. His quest for emes made him take unpopular stances, where he was attacked with cries of “Achdus!” “Shalom!” “Baal machlokes!” etc. Someone went so far as to send him a noose as a threat. But he didn’t back down. This is a hero.

    in reply to: Be aware of stalkers/info stealers #827543
    Jothar
    Member

    Wow. I just got an email, while logged in, that my password has been reset. SOMEONE is getting desperate. I forwarded it to the mods and the ywn owner.

    in reply to: Be aware of stalkers/info stealers #827540
    Jothar
    Member

    Btguy, like you said already, everyone is doing the best they can. But we need actual law enforcement here to sort it out. All you need to do is share your law enforcement contacts with the mods.

    I have to admit,I should have realized how bad Joseph was. but he is a very convincing manipulator. He knows his game. Everyone else is still playing catch-up. I only started realizing the extent when I came back, had a fresh look at the CR, and noticed the info stealing.

    I just took a look at AYC’s profile. I noticed that it listed location as “olam hazeh” and occupation as “eved Hashem”. Where did I see that? Oh yeah, my own account. (I have since changed my occupation to balabos and tottie). That, plus the pattern of prying lolkatz keeps pointing out ad nauseum, plus Haleivi-Joseph’s early telegraphing of the results, leave me with a bad feeling. How low can you go? Even stalkers and manipulators should have a line where they refuse to cross. Everybody has a conscience. We are dealing with a person who needs to be removed from society.

    in reply to: WHAT'S THE PERCENTAGE OF TRUTH THAT PASSES THROUGH THIS PLACE.. #830693
    Jothar
    Member

    This is an olam hasheker. Just how much sheker is coming as a shock to most of us here.

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