Joseph is back

Whoa I think a lot of people owe ME apologies. I am looking for a nice sweet girl with great middos and good personality, but being a classy looking guy, I also want a classy looking girl! And obviously if the girl was wearing flats but looked fancy anyways, I wouldn’t have noticed, but she didn’t seem like she made any effort to dress up. But being the gentleman that I am, I’m going out again bec I go by the rule to never say no after one date. So to all of you who are bashing me- I am no different than the single guys you know, and it must be easy to bash singles when you’re either married, have never been a guy, or just deems himself a tzadik who doesn’t notice externals

And yes I know just how important middos is, but a lot of the girls I dated had nice middos, did chesed, and blah blah blah, so I think it is possible to date someone with all of that and who cares how they look too. There are a lot of girls out there which we all know. I told the shadchan what I think and she didn’t think it was apprpoate to tell it to the girl, so now I am forced to go on another date with a girl who doesn’t care about looking presentable. I just dont get all these girls who claim they want to get married but dont’ act on it

Thank you Abba. The solution would be for all the people who take upon chlov yisroel during aseres yimei teshuva or elul, to take on something more meaningful like learning shmiras halashona and saying tehilim for the clal. And for the families who’s kids find it hard to be chlov yisroel to let their kids eat it. For people to train their kids that chlov stam is not TREIF. It should stop being our way of finding out how frum someone is.

It bothers me Chizz bec instead of people deciding to work on bein adam l’chaverio during elul, they’re being cholov yisroel and think they are being so holy. when the reason we’re in galus is bec of the way we treat each other, not bec we’re eating hershey bars. get your priorities straight.