I agree with pinchos. There is a big gap in this area, people like you don’t find themselves comfortable in ohr someach etc. I would suggest you should try to reach out to Project makom which is more structured for heimishe people, that might be your solution. in either case, it might be an opportunity for you to create an environment for people like you, I know it is not easy. but people in the past have proven to accomplish the impossible.
All the best!