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It’s not just stupid lies and gossip, it’s like things that go against the torah and crazy things like that and now the school found out about it and they are making major problems so it’s bad for the future! Imagine if you called someone for shidduch info and they tell you that this girl didn’t keep shabboss in high school, would you want your son to marry such a girl???????? No you probably wouldn’t! Now you see how serious it is! No jokes!
Anyways, in other news, my mom finally agreed that i need to switch schools for next year even though it’s only 1 more year! So that is exciting! I have to give a lot of credit to my S.W. 4 that!!
jhonny appleseedParticipantHELLLLPPPPP!!!!!!!!! I just found out that one of these “Friends” is spreading rumors about me to the whole school that i don’t keep shabboss and crazy bizzare things like that!!!!!!!!!! I already stopped talking to that girl since her parents forbade her from talking to us a while ago cuz the principal called her parents………. anyways this whole situation is totally out of hand! And anyways my mother took away the option of me staying home cuz she’s scared of what i’ll do with all that free time so basically i have no choice but to go to school now!!!!!!!!!!! There’s always the option of putting up a fight and not going!!!!!!!!!!
jhonny appleseedParticipantSay “Bless you” to the person standing next to you!
jhonny appleseedParticipant“My goal is to make a life that i don’t need to take a vacation from!”
“I need a 6 month vacation twice a year!”
jhonny appleseedParticipant“WOOOAAAAAHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!”
You’re amazing! I would never be able to do that!
jhonny appleseedParticipantWanna hear a story about pickles that make people happy?:
A few years ago, my younger sister was by her very yeshivish friend after school and it was Rosh Chodesh so after they ate supper the mother said “now it’s time for the special rosh chodesh treat” and my sister thought to herself yay it’s probably ice cream or something good and on a big tray the mommy brought out a sliced up pickle and each child recieved thier very own slice. The kids were so excited and my sister was like rolling on the floor!
I did not make this story up! Completely true!
jhonny appleseedParticipantJoseph- Probably but someone’s gotta be the older one who’s friends withe the younger ones!
Also, i agree with you when you say that “group A” are probably not the right friends for me and i don’t like them too much but i need someone to hang around with when it comes to grade oriented things.
February 16, 2017 4:25 am at 4:25 am in reply to: How to Block the Internet from My Children? #1216738jhonny appleseedParticipantAdvice from the experienced: Don’t get rid of the internet completely cuz you don’t want your kids to feel deprived. Do what my parents did which is have a whitelist with a few approved sites (which happens to include YWN) and now i could go on a few sites and not feel deprived and have my parents happy at the same time!
Trust me i know what it’s like to be addicted to the internet! I’m gonna share something personal now: i once found a way to get around my parents filter and at first i used to just look at regular things and then i got really into it and i started doing things that i’m not even going to mention here cuz the mod’s are gonna kick me out! Then my parents found out and i’ll never forget that day! wow it was really bad! it was horrible cuz i was so addicted that i didn’t even realize and then when i didn’t have it i was so miserable and felt so empty inside! i don’t wish it on anyone! But i do have to say that i definitely miss having open internet at my disposal and i always wish i could have it back but i know it’s not happening so i try to make the best of my limited access! So for all the people out there reading this, please protect your children! i’m totally messed up because of it!
February 16, 2017 1:33 am at 1:33 am in reply to: Is a Boy Looking to Date a Girl or a Chavrusah? #1218071jhonny appleseedParticipantWhen my parents were dating, my mother was saying how its so annoying when boys talk “Yeshivisha Raid” and my father was like “yeah, i ‘Grada’ don’t use yeshivisha raid!
LOL!
jhonny appleseedParticipantHey everyone! i went to my social worker for the first time today! I’m starting to feel a little better already but it’s just weird to share your whole life story with any random person especially cuz my parents set it up! if i wouldve found her by myself it wouldn’t have been as weird but i feel like my parents are gloating now like see, now ull be normal!
jhonny appleseedParticipantShopping 613: How did you do it?
It’s endless torture! it just doesn’t stop!
I HATE SCHOOL! every time i decide that that’s it i’m dropping out but then i get scared off and just keep on going back but i think that one of these days i’m just gonna go for it! i think the whole school thing is just making everything else in my life worse! because of this whole school thing i’m in an awkward relationship with my parents and every day when i come home i’m in such a bad mood and i just snap at my siblings and just yell at everyone and it’s messing up so many relationships and more important things than it has to if i would just drop out maybe it will be bad for some things but for others it will make it much better!
jhonny appleseedParticipantrebshiddudch- that’s not true! iv’e spoken to a lot of people about high school and they all said that they would never go back if you paid them a million dollars!!!
I guess it is different for everyone. maybe the most popular, coolest, tallest skinniest, prettiest……. girl in school liked it but most regular people i know HATE high school. most girls do hate school but they won’t admit it because they don’t want people to think they are weird but then again most girls were not dropped by their most trusted friends 5 times in a row. NO ONE has the right to say that it can’t be so bad, or just stick it out, or you have no right to watever……
because no one is in my situation!
jhonny appleseedParticipantIf someone doesn’t want me for any strengths or weaknesses, i don’t want them either!
Also i don’t think any of the type of jobs that i want would really require a diploma anyway!
jhonny appleseedParticipantCTlawyer: if someone doesn’t want me because i’m not smart enough, i don’t want them either!
jhonny appleseedParticipantJust got back a few midterms and failed 3 of them!
I HATE SCHOOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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jhonny appleseedParticipantGuess what?! my parents just let me know that they set up a social worker 4 me one of these days!
i don’t know if i should be happy or not cuz in a way i was asking for it but at the same time i’m really nervous cuz the lady they want me to go to is my mom’s frend and she knows me sort of and i sort of know her so it’s gonna b slightly AWK!
jhonny appleseedParticipantLU: i just saw on the “Books” thread that you did attend 2 different h.s.’s how did that work out?
jhonny appleseedParticipantI did that already! i spoke to all my machanecheses abt it and they’re all these yeshivish ladies with thier heads in the clouds and they don’t understand a word of wat i’m trying 2 say!
It’s a ttly hopeless case!
jhonny appleseedParticipantBTW, LU, just saying, if i felt comfortable in the first place to discuss with my parents or principal, i probably wud not b posting this issue in the coffee room!
jhonny appleseedParticipantWhat abt children gng otd?
January 25, 2017 10:16 pm at 10:16 pm in reply to: difference between girls and boys schools #1211109jhonny appleseedParticipantAt the time i didn’t rlly no the diff i was just a little 8th grader hu didn’t rlly care as lng as my frends wr with me! Now i no- bleive me!
jhonny appleseedParticipantI find it even worse wen principals get involved 4 ex my principal came over 2 me 1 day and criticized me 4 wearing my tzniut button open!
I was so insulted that whole day and it only made it worse, i made sure that from now on, every tm i pass by my principal my button is open real wide!
Lesson 2 a.o. hu’s in chinuch: nvr criticize a student 4 s.t. they did wrong cuz it’ll only mk it worse! Just don’t comment plz. and let it go!
i’m a very sensitive person and i get insulted from the tiniest comments so just “Pick ur battles” as s.o. said b4! No wat ur doing b4 u do it!
jhonny appleseedParticipantNo actually my school doesn’t have a social worker that i know of!
Little Froggie: it’s a gr8 idea that i’m actually considering the only thing is that i’m not a boy so i can’t learn the whole day but i wud consider getting a job in an office (If they’re willing to tk a dropout 4 an employee!)
jhonny appleseedParticipantiacisrmma: What i mean to say is that when u c me walking down the streets in lkwd, i do look lk a “Bais Yaakov Maidel” but in skwl i’m considered a rebel cuz e.o. there knows the rules and i don’t follow them and inside i am a rebel cuz i don’t even wanna post certain things on here that i do cuz ppl will stop responding 2 me!
Don’t belive me, it doesn’t bother me! just another person 2 add 2 the pile of non-believers! But i do wanna thank all those hu do believe me!
LU: thanx 4 ure help i rlly appreciate it!
jhonny appleseedParticipantUmmmm….
Gee thanx Joe but that doesn’t rlly answer my question……
jhonny appleseedParticipantI rlly need 2 have s.o. that i cud talk 2 not only once but cud get 2 no me and my personality and will b able 2 spk 2 my parents if need b and i cud talk 2 them wenever i need!
(Prefferably a single, older girl!)
jhonny appleseedParticipantBTW- LU, I did call regesh,
the hotline didn’t rlly help, all they cud do was sympathize, and the mentoring program is only 4 boyz!
jhonny appleseedParticipantB1g B0y: you wudn’t understand a.w. cuz ure a boy!
jhonny appleseedParticipantyou guys are ttly tkng this the wrong way: i do not appear like that on the outside as much as i feel it on the inside!
inside i’m rebellious as they come but on the outside, i usually look lk the typical “Bais Yaakov Maidel” and in skwl i’m forced to act lk that even though it’s so not me and that’s another reason why i hate skwl so much cuz i’m forced to b s.o. else that’s rlly not me. i think thats also a reason y i have social issues cuz i can’t b my real self and ppl don’t lk 2 b frends with s.o. hu’s pretending all the time. Maybe that’s y i keep getting dropped cuz s.o. thinx i’m cute, we bcum “Friends” and then she c’s hu i rlly am and gets scared off.
These r all possibilites and n.t. is 4sure but i don’t know if these are problems that cud b solved unless i switch to a skwl that suits me better where i cud b the real me!
jhonny appleseedParticipantThe only reason i do that is because of my social issues!
(M/b ppl will lk me if i’m cool!)
jhonny appleseedParticipantAAAAWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!! thanx!
I think the biggest cause of all my issues Ex: gng against rules, not bing truly happy w myself, all the bad things i do in front of or bhind ppl’s backs……, i think it all comes down to 1 thing: cuz i had so much polotics in my whole Elementary and h.s. carreer so far, it rlly brought down my self esteem! I rlly am down in the dumps rite now! (especially cuz the kid hu i thought was my BFF just dropped me and it’s not the 1st time i was dropped!) i needa get out of this H*** NOW! (I’m more worried abt myself gng otd than my parents are!)
LU: how do you just get urself a mentor?
jhonny appleseedParticipant1. i like computers class
i can’t think of anyone else!
But it does matter what ppl think of u cuz that’s the whole purpose of h.s. mostly 4 the social scene and if ppl don’t lk u (which in my case is a big reason y i don’t lk skwl) then ur doomed 4 a miserable h.s.!
H.s. does depend on ur social life and if it’s not gr8 then i’ts a prob.!
jhonny appleseedParticipantI’m just so miserable every day it gets worse! i’m so tired of having to be around so many people that judge me by the hairstyle i’m wearing every day!
How pathetic! i need to get out of that place cuz if i don’t i might end up getting myself kicked out- on purpose or not!
I needa get a normal life for myself! Because i hate skwl so much, i never study for any tests cuz i wanna get bak @ all my teachers so i just about flunk my whole report card! so anyways i’m not even getting my diploma so i may as well just drop out anyways!
jhonny appleseedParticipantLU: you always have the best advice!
Keep it up!
jhonny appleseedParticipantI would love to switch schools and i’ve made it known to everyone but my parents refuse to hear about it! i think it would really make a big difference if i was in a different more open minded school because i feel lk im bing choked in this school and i can’t be who i really am or people think im weird and i don’t really hv any close friends in school that i wud miss! What can i do if my parents refuse to hear about it and i’ve already spoken to my principal who agreed that there’s nothing to do about bing miserable and i just have to stick it out but why should i? i feel like its making it worse for me to be in school. My parents are already worried about some of the things that i do and they feel like if i switch to a more free-for-all school, ill get bad influences and i’ll go otd! (Typical lkwd parents!)
jhonny appleseedParticipantWhat about music that the jewish and non-jewish versions have the same exact words with 1 or 2 changes but it’s the same thing? are you allowed to listen to that?
jhonny appleseedParticipantRegular shoes are bscly- under the ankle- u get the idea!
jhonny appleseedParticipantMeno-Are they too high or too low?
Both! it’s like either wear boots (which they don’t allow in school either unless there are severe weather conditions outside!),or wear regular shoes!
No in between!
I don’t get it and i’ll probably never get it!
jhonny appleseedParticipantActually my school is considered very frum and yeshivish and usually if the school makes a rule it’s followed by almost everyone. Personally, i’m the type of kid who likes to break rules and i consider it my duty to do so and make sure that everyone knows it! So i would wear my ankle high shoes to school anyway but i’m just curious if i’m commiting an aveira or not!
January 19, 2017 7:45 pm at 7:45 pm in reply to: Couplets, haikus and any short poems by weird people #1209862jhonny appleseedParticipantRoses are red,
Violets are blue,
Some poems rhyme,
This one doesn’t!
jhonny appleseedParticipantI just heard a story about a gorgeous, rich girl that everyone was obsessed with and she had everything going for her and everyone was so jealous of her. when it came time for shidduchim she got engaged right away to a gorgeous, handsome, good-looking guy and everyone was so jealous of that couple. as sad as it sounds, the couple only had one child and that child was a dwarf.
So looks are not everything!
(I’m a big talker cuz i’m totally not up to that point yet but i think it’s something important to keep in mind for future reference when i mature a litte!)
jhonny appleseedParticipantActually she did tell us that it’s not a problem of tznius but she just made the rule just BECAUSE. She herself said that there is no reason why she doesn’t allow them to be worn in shcool- so basically what less chumras said is probably true because it’s not the first time she said something to this affect. she actually told us “go ahead, wear them at home, on sunday, whenever you want just not in school where i can see you!” She is really not my style!
jhonny appleseedParticipanthey!!!
does anyone else have anything to offer on this topic?? i wud rly appreciate ur quick response as it is quite awk whenever i see my neighbor these days as i dont know how to behave with him. obvs, i wudnt be able to just break off our relationship overnite, but i wud want to get started if thats what it takes.
i am asking y’all a personal favor-pls be honest with me. it is def gonna be devastating for me but i am rly looking to do the right thing.
pls realize that our relationship is ttly kosher now…
jhonny appleseedParticipanthi DaasYochid
thanks so much for ur reply, but for some reason my internet is not letting me connect to ur link. i wud rly appreciate if u cud lmk what its abt! tya
jhonny appleseedParticipantLilmod- This teacher teaches all the classes of my grade!
jhonny appleseedParticipantIf my mom already called to change my class, is it fair for her to call again to make a seat change?
jhonny appleseedParticipantCan you rephrase that question? I didn’t understand it!
jhonny appleseedParticipantbaseball bat and stand it up so one end is on the floor and the other is about waist high. Bend over so that your forehead is resting on the end of the bat. With both hand grasping the bat and with your forehead resting on the bat go around the bat seven times. You will be so dizzy that you will fall asleep quickly.
Sounds like an interesting idea but i’m still addicted to it and i can’t stop!
jhonny appleseedParticipantwhat happened to the last post? why was it taken down?
jhonny appleseedParticipantThe problem is that i got into the habit of listening before going to sleep and i can’t sleep without listening before!
It’s literally an addiction!
I’m a little stuck!
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