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January 9, 2017 9:33 pm at 9:33 pm in reply to: Lakewood Resident Screaming About New Shopping Mall #1208614jewishnessParticipant
R’ Feivel did not speak in the capacity of a rabbi. He spoke as a concerned private citizen who lives near the planned mall, as do many others.
Regarding the actual construction and its affect on quality of life, traffic, congestion etc., he said that he had no opinion.
His opinion was a religious one. He said that the question of building the mall vs the objections of the residents was one for Bes Din, not city hall.
January 5, 2017 6:39 pm at 6:39 pm in reply to: Lakewood Resident Screaming About New Shopping Mall #1208531jewishnessParticipantMany comments are badly mistaken. Yes, the video posted was about her being upset about the ruchinyos element. She is afraid that a mall may turn into a hang out etc. She left New York because of the city environment, she’s afraid for his grandkids etc.
However, she is absolutely worried about the gashmiyas element, i.e. traffic, noise pollution and ruination of serene atmosphere and quality of life. If you watch her presentation to the board (you can find it online – I wont link to it) she was very adamant about that. And that argument would be agreed to by probably almost everyone in Lakewood who does not have an ulterior motive. Rt. 9 traffic is at a standstill because of the board granting permission to builders. Pine street is extremely backlogged. She said that at this point she would rather walk to route 9 (ten minute walk or so) than drive…she spoke about killing the serene neighborhood with huge commercial building. These are very reasonable arguments that many neighbors throughout America would make, Jewish or not.
Regarding Ruchniyus, personally I get where she is coming from, although I can also hear another angle. It’s debatable…but yes she make a big deal about the ruination in terms of overbuilding, congestion, and quality of life. And I can not imagine an honest argument to the contrary.
jewishnessParticipantWhere can i get one of those white hat pins that guys
stick in their borses? Do I need to go to bencraft or
somewhere like that or can I get them online?
jewishnessParticipanta jew who cares: Suggesting someone study Nefesh Hachaim is a personal view, because it likely follows your outlook. That also qualifies as a comment.
So in that spirit I suggest studying as well Chovos Halevavos in depth, especially Shar Bitachon for his views on working. Study also the sefer of Rabbeinu Avraham the son of the RMBM. Also study RMBM in Yad and in Avos where he takes a very harsh stance against studying and teaching Torah for money as well as not working at all. Notel chayav min haolam means losing your share in the afterlife.
You can take a quick peek at R’ Avigdor Millers opinion on only learning vs working (very pro the latter). Once your learning Avos, take a peek at the mishna in the second perek which says that any Torah without work causes sin. Torah im derech eretz is strongly encouraged, which is where the phrase comes from – which means work. See Rabbeinu Yonah there (very harsh – you become a thief etc etc). Check out Rashi. Avos is full of encouragement to learn Torah lishmah, but also about making a living. Hevai mimaet baysek does not mean none at all (like RMBM’s example of 3 hours a day working and the rest learning. That is the IDEAL. Today that is pretty much impossible to make a sustainable living)
And there is more, I need to jog my memory…It is an interesting note how everyone loves the RMBM especially “right wing” ideology, while anyone who studies his seforom like Moreh Nevuchim, Avos, etc etc sees right away that he was very into the rationalistic approach “left wing”. This is kind of a different topic, but they do have some overlap.
Keep this in mind: Everyone comes with mamarai chazal, gemorahs etc to support their opinion (like myself). Obviously they are all true, so that fact that you can spit one out does not prove anything because your hiding the other statement. What does prove something is if you can MAKE THEM ALL WORK. Which by the way, is not hard if you are honest with yourself and strip away your negios. RMBM does that when he talks about how those who immerse themselves into Torah and throw away the vanities of this world (like making a side income through shtick) become Hashem’s heritage, but he is clear that this only works for those who make it their sole occupation with all their heart and soul.
But they are the EXCEPTION TO THE RULE. Like Shevet Levi. If you want to join them, if you give it all you got – your the best. The truth is that most do not make the grade and there is a lot of wasted time in Kollel (by most, not all people) – quoted from Rabbi Miller and easily observable by any non biased individual.
Bottom line, study ALL Torah sources for an honest opinion not just the one you like.
jewishnessParticipantIt is a great place. You get to leave the over stuffy cramped no parking life of Brooklyn, Queens etc. Homes cost less than the city and the commute is not long to Manhattan (shorter than taking the train from Flatbush believe it or not)
The people are friendly and you have a sense of community, something sorely lacking in some other large communities..You are close to all the in town communities of New York, Monsey/upstate, Lakewood, Long Island, other New Jersey communities etc..it is truly an excellent location.
Very good schools, shuls, and people. Kosher Eiruv. What more can a Yid ask for?
jewishnessParticipantCare to Share, Syag? Or are you working on Shesika?
PAA, I see how that statement about the Satan may merely mean that there is no way to say for certain that since it occurred then it must be right.
But in the same vein I do not think that Rav Soloveitchik’s statement must mean that there is proof that it was right. He was emphasizing that Hashem made it happen. It was the Yad Hashem, which is something everyone in Eretz Yisroel sees all the time, such as in the recent fighting.
jewishnessParticipantPatur what you say makes sense, however, masah satan is from a chasidish rebbe. Bottom line is that you can not bring any proof by saying it was yad Hashem or from the Satan.
I honestly have no idea how the Satan concept makes sense since the Satan does not work independently. Like everything else in this world, it all comes from Hashem. In Eyov, the Satan could do no more than what Hashem let him do to Eyov. It kind of sounds like kfera to me but I am no posek:-) so who knows…
jewishnessParticipantbp, while the satmar rebbe was a tzadik he was unfortunately blinded by anti zionism. He said there is no mitzvah of yishuv eretz yisroel, maaseh satan etc all things that do not have a basis in halacha.
Best to stick with poskim.
Do you have difficulty seeing a difference between a posek and a chasidish rebbe?
jewishnessParticipantPatur thanks for agreeing. My point is that when you say that some say it was an act of Satan – you are referring to a chasidish rebbe although you are hesitant to mention who it was. I think you mean Satmar.
And my point is that Avi K brought some sold proofs against shalosh shvuos based on real sources. The satan made them win is demagoguery
jewishnessParticipantChasidish Rebbes should not be brought as proof. Only poskim
jewishnessParticipantMost things boil down to extent of facial hair or lack of.
In other news, here are some wicked terms to continue polluting the air by painting with wide brushes and stereotyping yada yada yada
Kollelish. Rebbish. Greasy. Chinyuked. Veppish. Boroparkish. Flatbushish. Lakewoodish. Five townsish. Toradik. Tomadik. Out of townish. In town ish. Yekkish. Oiberlandish. Hungarish. Americanish. snottish. weirdish. yupish. Pretty much anything you can think of then add an Ish.
August 15, 2014 2:57 am at 2:57 am in reply to: What is your favorite out of town community #1028856jewishnessParticipantUncle Mo: Can I be you?
jewishnessParticipantNo one should believe any of these stories since they can not be verified. However, even if in fact he did say it, nothing is definite. Forget recent gedolim who made predictions, rishonim and acharonim gave dates for when moshiach would come and it all passed.
Rashi has a date. Ramban in the beginning of bereishis has a long detailed piece and gives a time. I think Rav Sadia Gaon also? Other Rishonim did as well and it all passed. Ramabam says that there is no mesorah on these things and not much benefit comes from looking into these things and one should not make calculations. There is no disagreement about the gemorah that says that those who make calculations for when he will arrive should rot (to that effect).
So why did so many rishonim and acharonim make calculations? They all understood that the gemorah means only if you believe that the specific time given must be so. They gave it because they wanted it so much. They did not believe that it must be so or they would all have been violating the gemorah.
Even the Rambam himself who writes about the issur of calculating give a date! He has a mesorah from his grandfather! But it is long passed. He obviously agrees that the issur is only if you fully believe that it must be so.
The Chasam Sofer also comments regarding the Ramban’s time frame which long past, that due to his desire for the coming of mashiach he made a calculation which was much sooner than the real date. So the Chasam Sofer makes his own new calculation (based on the long piece in Ramban at end of first perek in Bereishis) and guess what? His time long passed as well….
Bottom line. These great men got reward for WANTING AND ANTICIPATING moshiach as is clearly seen in their calculations.
I seem to recall that there is an Iben Ezra in Daniel or perhaps a different mefaresh that even he did not know the exact date as the verse states, Go Daniel…for the matter is hidden…I do not have a Daniel with me so I can not confirm.
We must all 1)believe in it and 2)hope for it. (hoping for it is actually part of the ani mamin. See Ramban’s actual terminology in Sanhedrin mishanyos – Cheilek). Yes he will come, but when? NO ONE knows.
jewishnessParticipantYes, there is an inyan to make sure that you do not miss a word of pitom haktores because when they would burn the incense in the beis hamikdash, if one ingredient was missing, that person gets the death penalty (as stated in that same pitom haktores for those who say it slow enough to know)
Since we have prayer in place of karbanos,by missing a word in a sense it is similar.
This is why ashkinazic minhag is to skip it altogether only saying it on days when we have more time like shabbos and yom tov.
It is sickening that in so many places it is read at supersonic speed. Why sickening? because the whole reason in the first place that it was pushed off to shabbos was because there is less of a rush so it can be said properly. Rushing through it goes against the whole thing and can chs vshalom cause danger. Who knows if someone was in a dangerous situation and missing one word weighed down the scales in heaven…. after all it does say it can cause this.
What are you gonna do??
jewishnessParticipantHas the rock gone under cover?
July 3, 2014 11:25 pm at 11:25 pm in reply to: Crazy Speed At Parts Of Davening Blow My Mind #1022798jewishnessParticipantdragging out and then Talibaning. Lol. Yes, why do some parts take forever and some fly?
jewishnessParticipantThe Frumguy: I hope you realize I was not serious. Its a joke. But it would make a point. Some guys say pitum hakitores quick. Other guys are so quick that before they start, their done. Their THAT quick.
jewishnessParticipantRegarding Shevet Shimon, it states in Divrei Hayamim that when David became king he made Shimon leave Yehudah’s territory because Yehudah needed the space. (little known fact)
Although they originally were together, it did not remain that way.
Also, the pesukim in Milachim 1 clearly state that Achiya Hashiloni told Yeravam that Hashem said that He would take away ten tribes from Shlomo’s son. He ripped his new garment into twelve pieces (or twelve cuts – see mitzodos) and gave Yaravam 10, keeping two. Which represented Yehudah and Binyamin.
Also, they are always referred (correctly) as the ten tribes. The mishnah in Sandhedrin calls them the aseres hashvatim. Shimeon was part of the ten.
jewishnessParticipantsource needed for minhag
jewishnessParticipantRock,
Reading this week’s article gave me a scare. You asked someone to shoot you. Are you for real?
jewishnessParticipantRock,
My dog ate my list while shopping at Pomegranate. I couldn’t remember which brand of dog food I was supposed to get, Hadar or Kedem so I asked a pomegranate (I first asked an actual pomegranate, but he ignored me).
After running around like a wild Indian, I realized that Pomegranate does not carry dog food (or cat food) should I sue?
And why wasn’t my species on your list, Rock?
February 28, 2014 7:32 pm at 7:32 pm in reply to: What's your style when poor people come collecting at your door? #1006213jewishnessParticipantVery informative. How MUCH do you give per poor person on average? 1 Dollar, 5,18, depends on his story? depends on how much is in the charity fund?
jewishnessParticipanteditor:
why is this thread not the place for that? Its a valid argument that has much to do with the topic of this thread.
I get the idea of editing out bad language or topics, but a discussion about people appreciating the good being edited – wow.
And if its off point? who cares? if you see a point being made in a thread that is off topic you edit it out? your sooo weird.
Thank you for your kind words and mature attitude. You opened a thread asking people to daven for someone on their deathbed. You did not proceed with a discussion about appreciating the good, as you claim. You wanted to mention how unfortunate it is that people have negative attitudes toward the IDF and officials etc. This is not the place for that. Start a new thread
jewishnessParticipantSyag Lchochma:
Good point. Probably better than davening that he get well (since that seems against the natural way in this case) we should pray for Hashem’s mercy toward him.
I am sure that this applies to Jews as well since it has nothing to do with the person per se, it’s the concept of appreciating the good.
edited – this thread is not the place for that
jewishnessParticipantI beg to differ.
Yserbius123: Of course he is not a tzaddik. He is still shlita since all that means is Sheyichyeh liyamim tovim aruchim (or something to that effect) I was saying that Ariel Sharon should live for many long days. I know that it is often used for a person whom the public considers holy, but literally its for anyone who you want to live long.
Syag Lchochma:
I am saying this because number one he is a Jew and number two he ran the country and kept millions of our brethren safe, as well as when he was a big shot in the army.
Yes, he did horrible things. I am not saying we should pray for him because of that. I am saying that no matter what he did, we can focus on the positive, which is that during the years that he was commander in chief, millions of people were protected by him. Certainly there is an strong element of Hakaras Hatov.
Think about it. The Torah commands “Do not despise an Egyptian, because you resided as foreigners in their country.”
Wow. They tortured the Jews. Why not hate someone who hurt you? The Answer is that the Torah is not focusing on that, its focusing on the benefit that you received from them. Because the good is not negated by the bad.
So we are being taught that the good done is not negated by the bad. At the end of the day, you received a benefit. Therefore because of hakaras hatov you can not hate an Egyptian. Imagine hearing that command about the German people?!
How many times more is this so regarding a leader of Israel who maintained a safe country for millions of Jews, despite the harmful things he did? Are there not millions of people who were protected by him? Any person who was, should feel duty bound to reciprocate.
Anyone know his name for Tehillim?
jewishnessParticipantwritersoul: You were looking for haircut styles in a mag? mkay…
I gather that you are male since men socks are usually not found in female mags.
Ribono shel olam
jewishnessParticipantHamaivin YaavinL:
I cant figure out what you mean by capitalizing the word AND. Are you stressing that its a chiddish that CC is different than the Mir? Big deal its two different places.
And what do you mean with Hamaiven yasavin? Whats yasavin?
weird.
jewishnessParticipantscroller: Are you trying to prove that sh-shm-shmang is good or bad?
jewishnessParticipantp.b.a: I beg to differ. a Troll is someone who sows discord on the internet – according to wiki. I could point to a thousand and one threads that are of the same type of which you did not scream troll.
I am wondering about an interesting phenomenon that exists. It is a valid discussion. Perhaps you are that type so you are extra sensitive. Sorry for making you uncomfortable.
November 11, 2013 1:11 am at 1:11 am in reply to: Free Firefox Add-on (Search Shas, Tanach, Rambam…) #986226jewishnessParticipantanyone know how much space this thing takes up?
October 28, 2013 12:19 am at 12:19 am in reply to: Why are some Orthodox pro the Gambling Referendum? #983194jewishnessParticipantDear Akuperma,
We are not telling anyone what to do. We are voicing our opinion. What under G-d’s green earth is wrong with that? Actually, that IS democracy! Just because it may not be assur against Halacha, does not mean that we should not take a stand against it. Are you aware that many Jews vacation there in the summer? What about the fact that gambling is very addictive, and there are thousands of boys and girls in camps and bungalows in the vicinity all summer long?
It’s such basic logic that anyone who does not see a reason to protest it (even if they have monetary or political reasons) needs to have their heads examined.
October 16, 2013 7:33 am at 7:33 am in reply to: Calling all N.J. people to get out and vote for Lonegan! #978986jewishnessParticipantWritersoul – I never said that the mere fact that booker is a bachelor is grounds for not voting for him. Rather, it is a combination of a number of factors. Taking into account the lifestyle of a politician is important. He is not a family man. He is a Hollywood kind of guy. His liberal record is clear. He is pro gays. He is pro abortion. He is pro Obama care. He does not even live in his town of Newark. These are all negatives.
According to you, Weiner and Spitzer should still be in power since after all who cares about their private life. Wrong. A politician has to live up to a standard.
And besides, it is a chillul Hashem when Jews vote for a candidate who’s beliefs and lifestyle is immoral. Yeshaya Hanavi said that we ought to be A Light unto the Nations. Such a light shines best when the world sees how we mean business when it comes to our values.
October 15, 2013 3:56 pm at 3:56 pm in reply to: Calling all N.J. people to get out and vote for Lonegan! #978984jewishnessParticipantwritersoul – It is about how these politicians will effect us and they effect us most by how they vote on issues.
Popup says it well – that we can measure a candidate by his record as well as by his life choices since they both give us a clear indication about what we can expect. Booker has a very liberal record which is at odds with Torah values. His lifestyle also is at odds with a Jewish way of life. Bachelorhood, Hollywood lifestyle… his externalities are much more important to him than family life.
October 15, 2013 12:33 am at 12:33 am in reply to: Calling all N.J. people to get out and vote for Lonegan! #978979jewishnessParticipantNo one could care less what Lonegan or Booker’s PERSONAL beliefs are PER SE. The issue is that a senetor actually votes on important legislation.
So if Booker is, say, pro abortion, then (although we don’t give a lick about his views per se) he will vote that way. And its one more vote in favor of keeping and promoting abortion. A vote by Lonegan would be in favor of outlawing it.
Now, the Torah considers abortion murder (as does common sense. A fetus is a alive no? Booker would suck out the fetus in the 8th month! Ym”sh) Hence we should vote for Lonegan.
Why is it so complicated?
October 14, 2013 5:16 pm at 5:16 pm in reply to: Calling all N.J. people to get out and vote for Lonegan! #978972jewishnessParticipantEd Koch also happened to be a liberal. He was pro alternative life styles and he certainly was not a family man.
As Jews, we need to place a heavy emphases on values. Its not about charisma. Its about what we stand for. If we truly follow the Torah we would never vote for the man who promotes anti Torah values.
The Jews of New Jersey have an opportunity this week to make a big Kiddush Hashem. They can demonstrate that they are truly a light unto the nations.
October 14, 2013 3:30 am at 3:30 am in reply to: Calling all N.J. people to get out and vote for Lonegan! #978969jewishnessParticipant“Ok so obviously you don’t like Booker but what do you actually know about Lonegan?”
A) I wrote that “Mr. Lonegan is a conservative constitutionalist, and B) I wrote all the things which Booker is, such as pro abortion, gay rights etc. which Lonegan is not (part of what being a conservative means) so its very clear.
“and btw i’m in my mid forties and never married what exactly are you implying?”
Are you a powerful charismatic politician who can probably marry anyone you want? Booker can, yet he is a bachelor. Especially in politics where even liberals like to show of a semblance of normal married life. Goes to show who bookie really is…
Unless you are also a mayor of a very large city….
July 8, 2013 3:37 am at 3:37 am in reply to: Labeled OU-D but no dairy ingredients. Why then is it OU-D? #1155090jewishnessParticipantakuperma:
If there is a reliable hechsher then obviously there will not be any pig derivative in there, or what have you. Obviously you can not eat something without a hechsher – in this case OU. I am talking about the D part.
I am referring specifically to dairy. I heard that there are government regulations requiring the labeling of dairy even if there is only a trace of it since there are people that can not have any of it for health reasons. If this is true, then if you read a products ingredients and there is no mention of dairy, then there will be no dairy in the product whatsoever.
If so why would it say OUD? Either because I am wrong and despite the fact that there is no mention of dairy – there is dairy in there and there is no such government regulation or I am right and its truly only “dairy equipment” which in fact is NOT chalav akum.
jewishnessParticipantmitzvahgirl613:
Its funny how you state that we should be grateful for a Jewish outlet to showcase talent in a good way, when by your own admission you never watched the show! Who says its in a good way? No one has anything against promoting talent, the issue is the method being used.
Aside from the kiss-up-to-reality-TV-to-a-sickening-degree thingy goin on, it’s actually a very destructive show. The contestants who do not make it get ripped apart and the judges put each other down and act in a very un-Jewish way. It’s very destructive to self esteem and teaches very bad middos to kids. It does NOT “showcase their G-d given talent in a good way” it showcases it in a horrible way. In a way that belittles the youngsters that don’t make it. Even the judges rip each other apart.
Just a small example. In the last show one of the judges repeatedly mentions that he is missing his sisters wedding for this show (okaaaay) and the emcee (or whatever he is) tells the contestant each time, tell … nobody cares.
So not only are they making fun of the contenders they cant even get along, promote disrespect on a show which kids watch, put a dumb talent show above important things like a family wedding, I could go on and on….this is one show your kid should NOT watch.
jewishnessParticipantInstead of twisting his words like a pretzel just deal with what he says.
To try and answer some points raised:
He says that the majority of wealth is amassed through wickedness. Wickedness with regard to money means cheating, stealing, shtick etc. He means how it is obtained.He doesn’t mean bitul torah or who knows what, I think most people would agree.
Most means most. No one knows the exact percentage, but it means that most wealthy people do not gain their wealth honestly. Certainly more than 51% since that is practically half and he is not giving a lumdish shiur, he is just speaking straight (which is his style by the way). Most means the majority, not in a technical sense. I think most (pun!) would agree to this assertion.
He was not referring to a time and place, he made a general statement.
I am sure the Iggeres Haramban says to not think negatively of the rich, but I am quoting the Iben Ezra not the Ramban and besides thinking bad of someone and knowing something negative about someone are two different things.
Like it or not, do not make out of his words what he did not say. You do not understand how it is possible, or it goes against your grain, ok. Maybe think into it for a while before you decide it makes no sense.
Personally I do not think it is a big chidush. Yes there are honest wealthy people – but they are a minority.
Think about it, for every honest man with money who studies Choshen Mishpat, there are even more who are wealthy since they desire money, possessions, honor or whatever it is and do not ever study relevant halachos. If so, it is hard to imagine they will withhold from doing their business even if they need to cut corners here and there, flub a little on tax returns, a white lie here and there, withhold money owed, be over on onaah, ribis, and a thousand other details in Choshen Mishpat they never even heard of…many businesses engage in minor illegalities as a way of course. All this fits well with the Iben Ezra’s sweeping beauty of a statement.
jewishnessParticipantFor all those dissing the assertion, I searched and found!
Check out Koheles chapter 8 verse 8. (Final piece on verse).
Commenting on the last statement “vlo yimalet resha es bialav” – “and wickedness cannot save the wrongdoer.” the Iben Ezra discusses the word “resha”. First he explains it to mean – not the traditional meaning of “wickedness” – rather “an abundance of movement and victory” He brings two verses to support his assertion.
Then he states “and some explain that it is (refers to) money, since most of it is amassed through wickedness”
In other words, this interpretation uses the traditional meaning of “wickedness” but states that it refers to something definite – money. (I do not understand why the verse cannot simply mean that acts of wickedness – whatever forms they take – will not escape unpunished. I think that somehow the dikduk of “resha” lends itself to be referring to a specific scenario vs. a general meaning. I am not sure why, anyone?)
Be it is it may, the Iben Ezra is bringing down an alternate interpretation. He obviously holds that it could fit into the meaning of the verse, even though he likes his interpretation better. He certainly believes in the sweeping statement, since if held it not to be true he would be the first to blow it off, as he does countless times.
jewishnessParticipantFor all those dissing the assertion, I searched and found!
Check out Koheles chapter 8 verse 8. (Final piece on verse).
Commenting on the last statement “vlo yimalet resha es bialav” – “and wickedness cannot save the wrongdoer.” the Iben Ezra discusses the word “resha”. First he explains it to mean – not the traditional meaning of “wickedness” – rather “an abundance of movement and victory” He brings two verses to support his assertion.
Then he states “and some explain that it is (refers to) money, since most of it is amassed through wickedness”
In other words, this interpretation uses the traditional meaning of “wickedness” but states that it refers to something definite – money. (I do not understand why the verse cannot simply mean that acts of wickedness – whatever forms they take – will not escape unpunished. I think that somehow the dikduk of “resha” lends itself to be referring to a specific scenario vs. a general meaning. I am not sure why, anyone?)
Be it is it may, the Iben Ezra is bringing down an alternate interpretation. He obviously holds that it could fit into the meaning of the verse, even though he likes his interpretation better. He certainly believes in the sweeping statement, since if held it not to be true he would be the first to blow it off, as he does countless times.
Brony: “btw I hope this is nowhere because it’s false. a dud, if you will.”
You say for a fact it is false. So you hope it is nowhere since that would make the Iben Ezra wrong which you would not want. Maybe (just maybe) you are wrong? Egg on your face.
Oomis: “Tell that to Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi.”
I actually wrote that the Iben Ezra states “most”. We can safely assume that R’ Yehuda HaNasi is not in the “most” category.
HaLeiVi: “if something sounds stupid, a Rishon didn’t say it.”
jewishnessParticipantGreecy means ultra yeshivish. narrow view on life
jewishnessParticipantYou should look into North Miami Beach. It is an excellent community. The schools are A+. They have a large branch of Chofetz Chaim with very good rebeim and teachers and the Bais Yakov in NMB is an excellent school. The community boasts a large vibrant Young Israel, as well as a whole bunch of other shuls. There are all kinds ranging from modern to kollel and every thing in between. There is Khal Chasidim and Chabad as well sfardim and everyone gets along in the most beautiful way. There are also other schools in Hollywood and Miami Beach both a 15 minute drive. All ages.
jewishnessParticipantI am not a troll.
In Internet slang, a troll is someone who posts inflammatory, extraneous, or off-topic messages in an online community, such as a forum, chat room, or blog, with the primary intent of provoking readers … Wikipedia
This post is not any more inflammatory, extraneous, or off-topic than many other posts on this blog. Lets face it, which post is NOT extraneous? I agree that there will be an occasional inflammatory post, but discussing internet usage in a Jewish community ain’t one of them.
Having said that, I do not live in Lakewood. But I have considered it. This is one of the issues I would like to clarify. Any info is appreciated.
jewishnessParticipantI do not live in Lakewood.
jewishnessParticipantjewishnessParticipantBy the Golden Calf we are told that when Moshe came down from the mountain Yehoshua told Moshe that there is a commotion in the camp. Moshe said it is not the sound of wining the war I hear and it is not the sound of losing the war I hear, it is merely sounds. In other words, if their shouting in enthusiasm was out of victory or loss it would be understandable, but if they are yelling and getting excited about something unimportant we have a problem.
They make a big deal out of creating competition along with all its perils for what? For positive education? No, its excitement to see who will be the “star” just like TV. Idolization.
jewishnessParticipantHey, funnybone, I hope my comment did not shatter your self- esteem. Yes kids and adults compete in this world. Yes it is important to feel good about yourself. Yes we must understand that there are winners and loser.
But there is no reason that Jews should put together an event that mimics the goyish ways. That mimics TV. That creates a sensation out of good voices which is an unimportant thing. Competition is good if its for a good purpose like competing for Torah knowledge. It spurs on people to do good things. Not if it is for unimportant things.
The fact is that each kid is publicly critiqued, and the pluses and minuses of his tone range, voice clarity etc are publically discussed. There is nothing Jewish about this. It is dangerous for kids chinuch and dangerous for self esteem and it is not in the spirit of Judaism. It is in the spirit of the Golden Calf.
February 8, 2013 5:20 am at 5:20 am in reply to: NOT A JOKE: Lines For Gas Again Before Blizzard Starts #928142jewishnessParticipantIt would be funny at some other point in time. But considering what happened with Sandy I do not understand why its so funny. “not a joke” means this is so funny you would think im making it up but im not.
Its not funny. Sandy was terrible and a blizzard will put people on edge since it is so soon after
February 3, 2013 7:31 pm at 7:31 pm in reply to: When to buy a kever? Should young people buy graves? #926781jewishnessParticipantI honestly do not understand why posting up two topics is trolling. I am wondering about graves. Morbid? yes, but nothing wrong with the topic.
And about the Super Bowl in Halachah, it may sound funny, but its also a legitimate question. Nothing wrong with discussing. There are coffee room addicts here that post stuff up MUCH more often than I do. I do one once in a while at best…no need to freak, yes moderator take it down a notch please. Thank you.
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