I dont feel there is any need to eradicate all drinks at a kiddish, come on!!!! A person should know the crowd he is inviting and its practiclly the only time I actually have a shot. Most people do drink responsively and for the few that dont they will eventually grow up. Dont go to retarded kiddishes where everyone gets plastered cuz those arent the ones you enjoy going to anyways. To eradicate booz at a kiddish is like banning cake, it did start as Lekech and Bronfon did it not? Im sorry but you need to grow up!!