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It’s quite simple.
The color depends on the quality an type of the fur.
Chassanim generally get the more expensive sable ur which tens to be lighter in color.
There is one Chasidish Yeshivah in Borough Park that has full High School, regents and diploma included.
It is Mesivta Bais Yisroel D’Chasidei Gur on 16th Ave
With all due respect to all of you who have never gone through the trials and tribulations of infertility and childlessness regardless to your having family or friends in this situation, you will never understand, know or comprehend in the minutest way what we go through or feel.
Having said that, what right do you have to speculate or give ideas or advice? Husband and wife are equal in the journey.
So, unless you’re in this situation or have been don’t just shoot off nonsensical drivel.
Please allow me to add:
Never give unsolicited advice to couples experiencing infertility.
As “bitachon613” mentioned, there are great organizations that are staffed by professionals and are geared to give the proper advise and guidance.
kj,
Please allow me to put my 2 cents in. As half of a couple struggling with infertility for 19 years I feel that perhaps I may be somewhat qualified to respond.
First of all there are no 2 couples alike and everyone takes things differently. I can only speak from our experience. There is no greater hurt or pain than when siblings treat us like outcasts or tiptoe around us. We’re not nebachs and we too have feelings and excluding us or avoiding conversations regarding family including children is hurtful and alienating.
As I said we’re human with genuine feelings and include us in your lives……….all of it.
I hope I was of some help.