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imnotsayingMember
I think that Artscroll has one – something Heritage…
imnotsayingMemberDo you really want your husband or wife looking, joking and shmoozing with someone else’s spouse??? Its a new person with new stories, jokes and personality with someone else who doesn’t know it yet. It it just dangerous and it can be a problem – I wouldn’t suggest it….it can just get to be a problem if they start “diagonal dating”
It doesn’t have to be a problem – it just has to potential to be one. Don’t put yourself in an issue. Like emlf said – why give the Yetzer Hara easy bait???
imnotsayingMemberFrumeyid – who said I don’t think that about girls who don’t follow tznius – I really really don’t understand it. I never had that issue so I really am try to be Dan Lecaf Zechus them – but I really don’t understand it. And, if I had control over it, I wouldn’t let my brother’s go out with girls who don’t follow basic Hilchos Tznuis. But, like overweight people – we aren’t discussing that right now!
imnotsayingMemberWow, I really opened up a can of worms!!! (that was fun 🙂 )
My personal opinion is (now, no one take offense to this) if someone is smoking (unless they grew up where everyone in their world is smoking) that they know that there are serious dangers – everyone knows that these days. So, why would a boy (or anyone) be smoking?
So, I’ve been told because of peer pressure. So, he doesn’t have the ability to stand up to what he believes? If someone would jump off a roof, would you too? Smoking is much more expensive, more harmful and a more painful way of dying!
Ok, now once he started he can’t stop – what happened to controlling your Taava? (please, don’t start with how people who are overwieght have the same thing – many times its genetic and they were brought up that way – and thats not what I am talking about anyway!)
I’m just trying to understand it! Thanks!
imnotsayingMemberBP Totty, are you saying that it’s ok for someone to be shmoozing to one’s friend’s wife?
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