Im really sorry!!! but what kind of question is that???? (should an sy FEEL presured…?)every person feels differently about it. think for urself how you wud feel about it. dont let the world dictate to u what u shud do or not do. Let me tell u. The sy community is raised be proud of their minhagim,culture and many other things. I agree that u sud not push away s/o just b/c hes not from ur community,or mentality…but think how hard it wud be to change all ur minhagim…and especially if u LOVE ur minahagim1