I can see that I am late on this but if I could change the system, it would be to make people understand a few things. Number one, the whole thing about girls giving pictures of themselves is completely inappropriate. Number two, parents have to realize that it is not them getting married; it is their children. Therefore, they should be involved in the shidduch but not to the point where they are saying “I do not want this for my child.” This is Unfortunate for that parent because Hashem runs the world and He decides who one is going to marry not the parents.