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  • in reply to: URGENT: NEED ADVICE!!! #1285499
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    Does the person have cancer? If yes contact the Rofeh Cholim Cancer Society (RCCS).

    in reply to: Ger Naming Baby after NonJewish Grandparent #1285497
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    Since a Ger (generally) has his/her named changed at the time of the geirus, I would think that they wouldn’t put themselves in a position of naming a child with a non-jewish name.

    in reply to: HAT REPAIR ๐ŸŽฉ๐Ÿ”ง #1285214
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    Borsalino on Route 9?

    in reply to: calling a gadol hador with a shaila โ˜Ž๏ธโ” #1285213
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    mik5: Based on your latest post that your first question was answered by Rabbi Forst directly, I would suggest that you should not ask someone else (even if the English sefer would tell you that you can).

    Since your second question was answered by “someone on the hotline”, I would think that you can ask that question to someone else.

    My grandmother was born in the US and attended public school (girls yeshivos were virtually unheard of at the time). She davened what she was able to in hebrew and said everything else in english.

    in reply to: calling a gadol hador with a shaila โ˜Ž๏ธโ” #1284588
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    GadolHadorah: “Too bad most legitimate gadolim”. Are you claiming that we have gedolim who are not legitimate?

    in reply to: Losing the battle against technology? โš”๏ธ ๐Ÿ“ต #1282838
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    WTP: I understand your feelings but sometimes you have no choice but to accept and use the technology. In the 1930’s and 1940’s not everyone had a telephone and eventually it became standard that every home had a telephone. Today it is smartphones. I use WhatsApp for one purpose…to set up my morning learning session.

    in reply to: davening in public #1282833
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    I bentch from a siddur so if someone comes into my office they see I am praying and either wait or they leave and come back in 5 minutes.

    As for the candy….you can say I just had breakfast and I am not hungry. BTW, many chassidim still make a fleishigs seuda for a morning bris.

    As for names….all my children have their hebrew names on their birth certificates.

    in reply to: Why the husband is in the driver’s seat ๐Ÿคต๐Ÿš— #1282157
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    My wife usually drives as she is the better driver.

    in reply to: davening in public #1282120
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    Mik5: on the candy issue you can say things like:

    1. I had meat for lunch and I don’t eat dairy after meat.
    2. I don’t like that candy.
    3. I am watching my weight.
    4. I appreciate it but I am not hungry right now.

    in reply to: davening in public #1281405
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    Since muslims throw down a carpet and pray anywhere so can we especially for short Brochos that you are referring to.

    in reply to: Two truths and a lie #1281407
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    Miidvar sheker tirchak

    in reply to: Trump Eating in Israel #1280835
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    CTLAWYER: there is a known story of R’ M. M. Mandel tzatzal the Menahel of Yeshiva of Brooklyn that someone (either the janitor or the mailman) saw him pouring milk for his coffee from a small bottle he had in his pocket. When asked why he did that he replied that he couldn’t use the yeshivas milk as it was paid for by government grants meant to feed the students, not the staff.

    in reply to: Seeking a Chuppah to help a fellow Jew get married (renamed) #1280512
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    Look under “Kallah Chair Gemach” in the Hakhel book.

    You may want to google Kallah Magazine. They have a Gemach list that includes “Centerpieces”.

    in reply to: Heartzig Shavuos davening #1280503
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    Which day of Shavuos are you asking about? On the first day, those who daven “netz” generally do not have what I would call a “leibidik” davening. “Second minyanim” would be what you are looking for. Many of my friends stay up to learn but go home and sleep from around 4:30 AM – 8:30 AM and then daven.

    in reply to: Seeking a Chuppah to help a fellow Jew get married (renamed) #1278631
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    Look up http://www.hakhel.info. They have two listings for “Chuppah” Gemachs (along with other gemachs that might come in handy).

    in reply to: Lakewood #1277340
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    LU: Have you heard the expression “zis a shad oif yiddisheh gelt”? Am I not allowed to tell someone that store “x” sells item “a” cheaper then store “y”? or what if I say that I went to the Borsalino Hat Store on Rt. 9 and was extremely satisfied with their service, does that constitute loshon harah on the other stores (which I did not visit)?

    in reply to: Lakewood #1276873
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    Supermarkets: Gourmet Glatt (where Shoprite used to be on Rt. 9); Season’s on Cedar Bridge Ave.;

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    R’ Moshe held that a potato peeler is a fancy knife. Do you consider forks, spoons, and knives as technology?00

    in reply to: Trump Fires Comey ๐ŸŽบ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”ฅ #1274097
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    Many presidents wanted to fire J. Edgar Hoover, but he had “dirt” on all of them. While the Director does have a 10 year term, the President can replace him/her at anytime.

    in reply to: Major Airline Discriminates #1273754
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    From what article are you asking this question from?

    in reply to: Not doing a vort ๐Ÿ— #1273628
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    Depends on what the families want. Personally we are happy to combine the two.

    in reply to: ื’ื”ื ื•ื #1273443
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    R’ Avigdorr Miller tzatzal said that Gan Eiden and Gehinom are the same. Shiur is going on and Lunchtime is 1:00 and the clock stops at 12:55. To some people it is Gan Riden; to others it is Gehinom

    in reply to: Children not allowed to use pens #1271373
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    So they can learn how to use erases.

    in reply to: Sefiras HaOmer Issues #1270621
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    147: I don’t know where you live but in my neighborhood the barbers are opened on Sundays and on Memorial day so the lines on Erev Yom Tov will not be so long.

    in reply to: How did Rabbi Akiva die? #1270479
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    He was one of the asarah harugei hamalchus that is recounted in Eilat Ezkarah tefilla in the Yom Kippur mussaf and the kinah Arzei Halvanon on Tisha B’Av. His death is described there.

    in reply to: Some mussar for all you CR-ers. ๐ŸšŽ #1270334
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    YWM -29: based on the title and the fact that this week we have the passuk of Hochayach Tochiach I thought it was a ” real thread. After reading it and since it was in UPPERCASE IMHO it should not have been approved as is.

    My two cents on the subject.

    I appreciate the feedback. I was a bit surprised by your tone but at least now I understand where you are coming from.

    in reply to: $50-million: Lump sum or installments of lottery winnings? #1270115
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    Most tax advisors would tell you lump sum.

    in reply to: Some mussar for all you CR-ers. ๐ŸšŽ #1270114
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    I read it thinking it was going to be real mussar; I wouldn’t ha be wasted the time had I known what it really was…..a waste of time.

    in reply to: Comparing Sephardic and Ashkenazic Chumras and Kulot #1269913
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    Sefardim – brocha on matza during the year is mezonos and Pesach is hamotzie. They generally do not make a Sholom Zachor. Their Sefer Torah stands up.

    in reply to: Some mussar for all you CR-ers. ๐ŸšŽ #1269911
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    Can a YWN moderator explain why this rant was allowed to be posted?

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    LB: it has nothing to with BHB. Yom Hazikoron for the Israeli Soldiers cannot be on Sunday so it is moved to Monday 5 Iyar and Yom Hatzmaut is moved to Tuesday 6 Iyar.

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    ZD: As I said….she was the Chief Judge of the NYS Court of Appeals, not the NYS Supreme Court which is the lowest court in NYS. The Court of Appeals is the highest court in NYS.

    “Judith Ann Kaye (nรฉe Smith; August 4, 1938 โ€“ January 7, 2016) was an American lawyer, jurist and the longtime Chief Judge of the New York Court of Appeals”

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    CTL: In NYS the “clergy privilege” is for both Civil and Criminal (as confirmed by a former DA).

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    ZD: While it may have gone in front of Justice Kaye, you stated in your post “New York State Supreme court and the chief Justice”. There is no “Chief Justice of the NYS Supreme Court”.

    Reading the decision, the “Rabbi” disclosed information to the husband and “other third parties” (not just the divorce case). So there is privilege and since it was disclosed to other third parties, it was a violation of that privilege.

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    CTL: I believe that he NY Law is not just for criminal proceedings.

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    ZD: I believe that you are incorrect. The in NYS the Clergy privilege does not depend on religion. See below for the NY Law.

    First, NY Supreme Court is the lowest court in NY State and it does not have a “chief justice”.

    Second, CPLR 4505 states ” ยง 4505. Confidential communication to clergy privileged. Unless the person confessing or confiding waives the privilege, a clergyman, or other minister of any religion or duly accredited Christian Science practitioner, shall not be allowed disclose a confession or confidence made to him in his professional character as spiritual advisor.”

    Third, the case you are referring to was a “custody hearing” and was written up in “Jewish Law and Contemporary Issues” (Printed in 2015) and while it is not an “official rule” as there is no case-law on the subject, “NY Courts have repeatedly held that physician-patient, attorney-client, and psychotherapist-patient privileges cannot be invoked in such proceedings”. (Page 331 Footnote 9)

    in reply to: 120 Years #1264010
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    So much misinformation has been written above.

    1. Mesushelech was born prior to the gezeirah mentioned in the passuk ans was probably well passed 120 years old at the time of the “nefillim”.

    2. Almost all the direct descendants of Noach that make up the 10 generations between him and Avrahom lived more than 120 years.

    3. The avos lived >120 years.

    4. Yosef was the first of the shevatim to die and he was 110 years old. Levi lived the longest to 137 years. Levi was approximately 114 when Yosef died so all of the other shevatim were around 120.

    5. LU wrote: “Also, Serach lived longer than 120 and she was after Moshe Rabeinu.” I take that as “she lived longer than 120 and she died after Moshe Rabeinu”.

    in reply to: Cancelling Bein Hazmanim? #1262469
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    I know someone who came home bein hazmanim from Eretz Yisroel…..and made a siyum on a mesechta that he learnt bein hazmanim.

    in reply to: Geneivas Daas Question #1262266
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    Depends where you live. Here in NYC, the cars behind you would have started beeping.

    in reply to: “Yom HaShoah”-A Zionist Fraud #1262262
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    ubi: I am not sure why you think Tisha B’av is an incorrect date to commemorate the shoah. After all, the Bobover Rebbe TZATZAL and Reb Schwab TZATZAL each wrote a kinah for it.

    About 35 years ago I attended a Yom Hashoah talk given by Rebbetzin Esther Jungreis A”H and YBLCH her brother Rabbi Jungreis. I don’t know if Chaf Zayin Nissan is the appropriate. All I know is that it was an hour that I have never forgotten.

    in reply to: Don’t build more galuyot. #1261498
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    Avi K: You wrote: “and there were 600,000 Jews here when the state was established.” Where did you come up with this number? I don’t recall reading about a census taken of World Jewry in 1948.

    in reply to: Don’t build more galuyot. #1261107
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    Avi K: I am not sure if WTP meant “telecommuting” in working USA hours from EY or actually commuting back and forth from EY to US and back every other week (as I know people who do both).

    I know the famous Meshech Chochmah that you quoted and I don’t think the comparison of what was happening in Berlin in those years are the same as today. Nobody is saying that anyplace in the US is replacing Yerushalayim. I don’t know if you are an oleh or not, but reality is that not everyone is going to EY at this time, just as it was in the time of Ezra and Nechemiah.

    I also disagree with your comment “in Norfolk there will be constant pressure to accept Yushki. In the Rust Belt there will be constant pressure to accept secular liberalism.” Please provide proof of what you claim. The Rust Belt is different today then it was years ago.

    The OU’s gathering next Sunday devotes (I believe) 1/2 their space for Nefesh B’Nefesh to discuss moving to EY and not just the US communities.

    in reply to: Don’t build more galuyot. #1260687
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    Avi K: There is and has been a community in Norfolk, VA for years. It has always been small. This ad along with others for Rochester, NY are trying to inform people about affordable communities outside of the NY/NJ area that already has a small community but looking to grow. It is not meant to entice people from abroad to come to the US.

    If you think this is inappropriate, please ask someone to film videos about the communities in EY.

    in reply to: Stories about R Chaim Pinchas Scheinberg #1260688
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    How about buying or borrowing the ArtScroll biography of Rabbi Scheinberg? This way the CR contributors don’t have to repeat what has already been published.

    in reply to: Question for those who favor vanilla over chocolate #1260464
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    Sometimes I like the taste of vanilla so at that point yes I do enjoy that flavor over chocolate. However, I still prefer mint.

    in reply to: being edited by the MODS #1260461
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    Editing could be as simple as removing a hyperlink.

    MODS: You have permission to edit my posts and to use the word “EDITED”.

    in reply to: OU Jewish Communities Fair -April 30th NY #1259139
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    I am answering while CTL’s response is being moderated.

    The OU does not affiliate themselves with an OO shule.

    As for the mikvoat, why do they have to mention the Chabad milvoat? Are they the pnly ones in town?

    in reply to: Flying car #1258919
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    LU: The Mechaber states it is a preference to stand when possible (See Mishna Berurah Siman Kuf Yud Sif Daled):

    http://www.hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=49623&st=&pgnum=270

    http://www.hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=49623&st=&pgnum=271

    As for travelling to the airport, it depends where one lives. Most people in NYC / 5 Towns do not recite tefillas haderech going to JFK or LGA.

    And even if someone does say tefillas haderech to the airport, their is a special tfila printed in some siddurim/tehillim specifically for SEFINAS HA’AVIR (airplanes).

    in reply to: Flying car #1258778
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    LF: And when do the passengers know when the co-pilot says “rotate”? I think I’ll rely on Rabbi Belsky’s psak.

    in reply to: Flying car #1258686
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    LF: Do you stand to say tefilas haderech on an airplane? Rabbi Belsky TZATZAL paskened that the proper time to say tefilas haderech on an airplane is when it is taxiing down the runway for takeoff. At that time passengers are seated. So Why should a flying car be different?

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