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Slonimer: You would call the AI of Baltimore and ask if they issued a teudah to xxxxxx. They have a similar service in Lakewood. Many times I check the teudah and find it is passed the expiration date.
As to the number of meshulachem, this week we have had 5 come to our shul.
iacisrmmaParticipantlitvishechosid: To me you are ignoring a passuk in Shir Hashirim: אַל־תִּרְאֻ֨נִי֙ שֶֽׁאֲנִ֣י שְׁחַרְחֹ֔רֶת שֶׁשְּׁזָפַ֖תְנִי הַשָּׁ֑מֶשׁ
iacisrmmaParticipantLB: I started to answer and was wondering why are we talking about the seder when it wasn’t even chanukah so I looked at the OP and realized it was “bumped”. That being said, we do not have an “official” contract so if you make a mistake “no harm, no foul”.
iacisrmmaParticipantI didn’t realize this thread was a “bump” from two years ago but….
golfer: the source for you comment is R’ Yitzchock Hutner TZATZAL
We don’t use wine glasses with stems at the seder but use them on a regular basis on shabbosim and don’t have any issue with them tipping over. Why do you have an issue with them at the seder?
December 6, 2017 10:24 am at 10:24 am in reply to: Where do you place your hat during Shachris? #1420956iacisrmmaParticipantCTL: I thought you davened at the compound during yomim tovim.
December 6, 2017 10:24 am at 10:24 am in reply to: Jews Who Are Known By Their Non-Jewish Name #1420922iacisrmmaParticipantapushatayd: See Rabbi Hoffman’s article https://www.theyeshivaworld.com/news/general/1418506/baby-names-halacha-rabbi-yair-hoffman.html
I was always taught that LO SHINU AS SHEMAM was an ideal, not halacha. Rabbi Hoffman brings down at least one shita that it may be MIN HATORAH but it seems from what he quotes from R’ Moshe TZATZAL that is not the case.
iacisrmmaParticipantThe same thing I would say to a stranger……say “I am sorry I didn’t see you” or “I apologize” or excuse me or pardon me. Why would you even think it should be different because it is someone you love?
December 5, 2017 5:15 pm at 5:15 pm in reply to: Where do you place your hat during Shachris? #1419804iacisrmmaParticipantJoseph: In my shul it’s the opposite. Not a problem during the week but a slight problem on shabbos.
December 5, 2017 4:47 pm at 4:47 pm in reply to: Why are the lakewood rabbanim so against an eruv in thier Town?? #1419770iacisrmmaParticipantGH: You wrote “there are enough younger bnos yisorel who do accept them and it is crucial for their ability to get out of the house on Shabbos with the kids and live a normal life.”
Are you saying that women who live in places without an eiruv don’t live a normal life?
December 5, 2017 2:34 pm at 2:34 pm in reply to: Where do you place your hat during Shachris? #1419176iacisrmmaParticipantGH: I always thought it was kippah serugah.
CTLAWYER: I thought we were talking about Shabbos.
December 5, 2017 12:46 pm at 12:46 pm in reply to: Where do you place your hat during Shachris? #1419095iacisrmmaParticipantIf I recall correctly, R’ Yaakov Kaminetsky TZATZAL stated that the minhag in Sladboka was to wear a hat during davening and not the tallis “ibber der kup”. So you can just wear your hat.
December 5, 2017 10:39 am at 10:39 am in reply to: Where do you place your hat during Shachris? #1418704iacisrmmaParticipantThe question cannot be answered as each shul is built differently. We don’t have hat hooks. We have shelves in the hallway for hats and if filled, on the top of the bookcases, and if those are filled, on the table next to where we are sitting.
December 5, 2017 10:36 am at 10:36 am in reply to: Can you change the way people pronounce your last name? #1418699iacisrmmaParticipantlitvishechossid: Many Long Islanders (jewish and non jewish) refer to Target as “Tarshay”.
iacisrmmaParticipantBochurim from my neighborhood (Flatbush) walk, bike, roller blade, skateboard to yeshiva without incident.
December 5, 2017 6:35 am at 6:35 am in reply to: Can you change the way people pronounce your last name? #1418600iacisrmmaParticipantIs it that you have a common last name that everyone pronounces it a certain way and you don’t? or you just want to tweak it for no apparent reason? e.g. the store Target. Most pronounce it as it is spelled. Tar-get. Others want it to sound fancy so they say Tar-shay (sort of a french twist).
I know someone with the surname “Frei” and they pronounce it Fry. Others in the family pronounce it Fray.
iacisrmmaParticipantubiquitin: I grew up in a large Young Israel where we often had these shailos come up. Unfortunately I have had to confront these issues as my father was nifter 30 years ago and at times have had to assert my kadima on his yahrtzeit to daven for the amud. In general, I will cede the amud to avoid machlokes as long as I get the amud for one of the tefilos on that day.
iacisrmmaParticipantFollow the safety rules for cyclists. If there is a bike lane, use it. Wear a helmet and ride with traffic not against it. The nyc. gov website does have a pdf from the DOT listing the rules for bicyclists.
December 4, 2017 10:18 am at 10:18 am in reply to: Jews Who Are Known By Their Non-Jewish Name #1417724iacisrmmaParticipantRabbi Paysach Krohn discusses the origins of some of the yiddish names in his Bris Milah book (Mesorah Publications). I believe he also discusses that in Hungary, yidden had to have a “legal” name by Hungarian law.
iacisrmmaParticipantForshayer: You wrote “The one point that I would like to state is that it seems like most of the earlier Poskim who give their opinion seem to be basing it in a case where only one person says each Kaddish. ” I am not sure what you mean by “earlier poskim” when the Gesher Hachayim was written in the 1900’s and he bases kadima for the amud based on the kadima for kaddish.
The Nitei Gavriel states this outright in Hilchos Aveilus Chelek Beis Perek Nun Hey Sif Yud Beis:
http://www.hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=46540&st=&pgnum=404
iacisrmmaParticipantYeah I noticed it…when I was in elementary school 50+ years ago. And just so you shouldn’t be shocked 5800 will coincide with 2040 just as 5700 coincided with 1940.
iacisrmmaParticipantDY and Ubi: Agreed that this was brought to the CR. however, since the shailoh came up in shul, it can be asked why did the gabbai not ask the rov.
iacisrmmaParticipantnon political: my comment was not directed at you.
iacisrmmaParticipantHere we go again with the same members arguing the same positions on CY/CS/CA. We have enough of these threads already in the CR. Let’s just answer the OP’s question.
For those who are makpid on CY, your rants that CS is equivalent to CA are not accepted by those who eat/drink CS. Give it a rest.
iacisrmmaParticipantAt the Agudah convention?
iacisrmmaParticipantnon-member toich shiva
iacisrmmaParticipanthealth: that’s why I qualified my statement to a limited group.
iacisrmmaParticipantCholent mix, as Meno described is just a mixture of beans so you don’t have to buy different bags of beans and make your own mixture (as was done years ago). Mostly kidney beans, navy beans and pinto beans.
iacisrmmaParticipantSee Gesher Hachayim:
http://www.hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=31174&st=&pgnum=297
iacisrmmaParticipantGH: Maybe women would prefer fish; men would prefer meat (ok they would like sushi). The OP though was talking about dairy which I (and my family) take to mean baked ziti, eggplant parmesan, penne ala vodka.
We also tend to forget that during the week of “sheva brochos”, anytime the chosson and kallah eat a meal with 10 men (and a panim chadoshos) they can recite sheva brochos. So if I invite 10 neighbors for a pancake/waffle/french toast breakfast we can recite sheva brochos.
iacisrmmaParticipantBe safe and don’t send it to them.
November 30, 2017 10:47 am at 10:47 am in reply to: Poskim Answering Pikuach Nefesh Shailos #1415962iacisrmmaParticipantIn my circle of friends and family, I have never heard that any poseik has allowed taking someone off a respirator.
November 30, 2017 6:08 am at 6:08 am in reply to: Fast life in the city vs. Slow life in the suburbs #1415802iacisrmmaParticipantDepending on the person…they can miss out on life anywhere. There are advantages and disadvantages to both.
iacisrmmaParticipantUse an encryption program such as BestCrypt on sensitive files.
iacisrmmaParticipantslonimer: If 6000 c’v passes without Moshiach having yet arrived, will that cause a large scale question of faith within Klal Yisroel? I highly doubt it.
iacisrmmaParticipantyid18: It depends on a few factors. Is it a Sheva Brochos Breakfast, Brunch, Lunch, Dinner? One of my children specifically asked for a milchigs sheva brochos dinner as he already had fleishigs for 4 days in a row.
Joepsh: While I understand the concept of ein simcha elah b’basar u’vayayin, I have have seen milchigs at a seudas bris, bar mitzvah, sheva brochos and heard about a chasuna where the chosson and kallah preferred milchigs.
iacisrmmaParticipantMeno: Then please explain the term high-gluten when it comes to bread flour.
iacisrmmaParticipantrebyidd23: true…but LB didn’t say she was in a gluten free establishment. Eggs are gluten free. I can cook an egg in my house and it will be gluten free.
iacisrmmaParticipantGluten free eggs are a novelty only found in the 5 towns??
iacisrmmaParticipantLU: I have read through your questions. Many of them are one time questions and do not often have to be asked again., unless you forgot what you were told the first time. e.g ashing on one slice of pizza. Most people ask the shailoh once and receive an answer and do not ask again.
iacisrmmaParticipantIt was called Brooklyn before it became known as Kings County. Brooklyn is derived from a Dutch word and was named long before the Counties existed. It was not required to change it’s name when it became known as Kings County in 1896.
iacisrmmaParticipantjoseph: certain kitchen appliances at Macy’s.
iacisrmmaParticipantThis has been known since…..the 1700’s,
November 24, 2017 10:08 am at 10:08 am in reply to: Machlokes over Eruv versus Machlokes over sports #1410912iacisrmmaParticipantWhat community is fighting over an eiruv?
iacisrmmaParticipantslonimer: and that is why many people do not use Wikipedia as a valid source reference. It can be edited by anybody…..even if he or she does not not know anything about the subject.
iacisrmmaParticipantLB: “Have any rabbonim publicly discussed the halachic issues related to head transplants yet?”
Why should they?
November 21, 2017 5:11 pm at 5:11 pm in reply to: Yeshiva Boys Are Allowed To Wear Colored Shirts! #1408514iacisrmmaParticipantshopping613: A person does not learn better with a white shirt or colored shirt. However, if everyone else conforms to the written policy (or unwritten policy), the non-conformist generally will feel uncomfortable and it may effect (affect?) his learning. One of my son’s wears white shirts exclusively (even bein hazmanim); others will wear white in yeshiva and colored shirts at other times.
It would not bother me if someone showed up to date any of my daughters in a colored shirt (well maybe it would if it’s pink).
iacisrmmaParticipantTLIK: You wrote “The typical response of the Rov is that the parents are at fault, as no Rov wants to go on record as holding a complaint against yeshivos (all of them or a specific one).”
Based on what research do you derive this conclusion?
iacisrmmaParticipantUncle Ben: I had both my lower wisdom teeth removed…..30 years apart. The first was due to an infection. The second developed a cavity under the gum and the tooth was disintegrating due to the cavity. In his professional opinion, the surgeon was concerned that it would develop an abscess and the preferred treatment was to extract.
November 20, 2017 11:24 am at 11:24 am in reply to: Have you ever been clueless about a topic, & felt happy when the subject changed #1406198iacisrmmaParticipantNo. I start trying to read up on the subject to become more knowledgeable in it.
iacisrmmaParticipantlb: From what I have been told, the upper wisdom teeth are easier to remove and sometimes can be extracted using local anesthetic. Generally, the lower ones need heavier anesthetic.
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