Thank you everyone. You put me at ease. I really dont want to give a photo, I understand a boy that would have to travel far, but if a shadchan knows the girl then the boy and his parents should trust the shadchan.
I did speak to my rav and he said we should not give a photo. If a boy says no bec. they dont see a picture then that boy was not barshert for my daughter.
Artchill, they photo is not for the shadchan in my daughters case but for the boy to see. The shadchans are good friends of mine who know my daughter very well.
Thank you everyone and I hope that everyone in the parsha has an easy time.
