helper47

Imagine six years after you are married.

All the kids got intestinal viruses and house has a unique odor.

Your husband called and he had a hard day.

Supper is not ready.

The house is a mess.

And you have to separate a few days earlier then expected

He is about to walk in.

In walks a sweet person who rolls up his sleeves to help you and listen to you.

And everything he says is positive and not negative.

Sure when you dated him he had bad breath but you introduced him to scope

His clothes were wrinkled but you introduced him to dry cleaners and hangers.

You were also able to teach him proper etiquette in public.

How to laugh

How not too look bored.

Not to chew gum.

BUT you can not teach him/her midos.

And you can not change bad midos

I think we our focusing on the wrong things