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Queen -“I know were married to either abusive, or mentally/emotionally unwell spouses”
Abusive – there are all kinds of abuse. Did a therapist recommend divorce?
M/E Unwell – Did a therapist recommend divorce? Now there’s all kinds of unwell, (a lot can be treated). As a matter of fact – every 4 – 5 people in society have a mental illness!
Joe -“And it was one of the Gedolei Yisroel that stated that 99% of the divorces in the frum world were avoidable and unnecessary”
This is unfortunately true. But the opinion in this topic that it can be avoided by either spouse is not reality!
People like to get involved for one side or the other. The best thing for people to do is find an impartial therapist when considering such thing as divorce!
Joe -“mordern: Even if that’s the case, the father and children still see each other and he has influence with his”
Not always! Not always! You don’t know what you’re talking about!
85 -“I’ve spoken to many rabeim already. I never said I’ve never seen an attractive girl.”
That’s good, but maybe it’s time to go to a dating coach or a therapist?
Also, before you go out, make sure you see a picture!
Shopping 613-“ask yourself what attracts you? Like seriously…”
This is what attracts me – an one eyed, one horned, flying lokshen kugel eater!
DY – Why not to Lakewood? About 4 or 8 years ago, some people here did a ($) reception for Hillary. She owes them!
ROB -“Health: pray explain to us in your very erudite ways what “bechira” really is…..”
Why don’t you ask Sam? He always has Hashkofah opinions!
I’ll let you know if I agree or disagree.
“And I trust that , according to our words,you will accept that “medinat Israel” is from Hashem too…Remember that when we argue about the medinah next time”
Yes it was! It was a punishment from him! Right after WWII, it was an ideal time for Moshiach to come, but the Jews didn’t do Teshuva.
Instead they did a Masseh Egel, with the creation of the Medina!
85 -“is healthy from an attraction standpoint and what doesn’t.”
No you don’t! You can be attractive to s/o and she doesn’t have to be the prettiest girl in the world. Go speak to s/o about dating, either your Rebbe or a therapist!
ROB -“Health: Trump popularity id from Hashem. So Hitler’s popularity was from Hashem too?”
Of course it was!
“Do you realize that there is such a thing as “bechirah”?”
You obviously don’t know the definition of “Bechirah”!
ROB -“So, Pray tell where the big difference is. Hitler also won elections”
Do you believe everything comes from Hashem? If the only candidates are either a right wing guy or a leftist that will make perversion worse than Obama, you should vote for the right wing guy. The reason that we’ve come to this is because morality is at a low – time low!
Trump popularity is a warning from Hashem!
Sam2 -“Health: I really don’t think that Trump can. I think Trump is far more likely to make foolish nuclear decisions than Hilary is.”
I don’t think you’re right. But even if I entertain your post, who will be Hillary’s advisor – Billy Boy?!? LOL! (:O
Who be Trump’s advisor – some intelligent conservative!
Goq -“and yet you knew what he meant health”
That’s because I’ve taken flights from there!
Mr.Yidd -“I think Hillary and Trump are equally evil, so I’m voting for whoever’s less orange.”
From previous -“Do you think that she (Hillary) could protect us in nuclear war?!?”
PBA -“Health, would you marry someone 40 years older than you?”
(Acc. to those who say you’re female.) And I thought you’re married already!
Oilhair -“how am i supposed to get from ewr to lkwd nj??
is there any public transportation?”
Excuse me, there is no such thing as ewr. You mean Newark airport! When you arrive take the 67 bus to Lakewood. It’s outside the luggage area. If you can’t find it – ask any official there.
Sam 2-“Health: Then why are you defending Trump (or attacking Hilary as a response to attacks on Trump) at almost every turn?”
Because of what I posted previously:
“If it comes down to Trump vs. Hillary, Trump is the lesser of two evils!”
Queen -“You’re available?? Just like that? Maybe she’s a one eyed one horned flying lokshen kugel eater.”
Don’t worry! I’m in the medical field, we can cure anything.
😉
Charlie -“If you think Obama is a Communist, you really aren’t in touch with reality. Were Obama really a Communist you would have long since been rounded up and sent to the gulag.”
I’ll only respond to this one, because the others weren’t my comments!
Of course Obama and the leftist are Commies. The reason that we aren’t sent to the Gulag, is because we have a Republican Congress!
Mordern -“I started to day 10mg of adderall so far it made it harder to concentrate in my learning for every thing slowed dowen were i was used to be able to get it right away now takes longer.”
Here’s some free advice – next time I charge. It takes around 4 weeks to see any changes. Then you could discuss it with your doc. Sometimes you’ll need an adjustment or a change or an addition on the meds!
ROB -“He has had a very checkered career as a businessman. there are many.many business people who have had better business careers.”
Maybe so, but my point was about Hillary! The only noteworthy things she did was – compromised our security in Libya and with her E-mails!
Mdd -“Health, he might start up with other countries or jump the gun with N.Korea when not called for.”
Yes, anything is possible! You didn’t answer my question:”Do you think that she (Hillary) could protect us in nuclear war?!?
Sam2 -“Health: You didn’t respond to my last point.”
What makes you think that I disagree with it?
Think before you post.
Shopping 613-“Lower your expectations? You can’t find someone that is prefect. You may find a girl who is amazing for you in the middos area, and ruchaniyus area but she is taller than you or a bit overwheight or has a nose you don’t like or something like that-would you turn her down?”
Lower your expectations? You can’t find someone that is perfect. You may find a Boy who is amazing for you in the middos area, and ruchaniyus area but He is older than you or/& overweight or something like that-would you turn him down?
Charlie -“You have to be either an ignoramus or delusional to think that”
Wow! Now you’re the one using name calling, not Trump! You Communists/DemonCrats must be getting scared, because we might Not have a Communist/DemonCrat for president, like we have now!
Mdd -“Health! What’s up? Who is talking about a nuclear war unless Trump starts one?”
I guess you don’t read the news. From YWN news page:
“North Korea Again Threatens Nuke Strikes on US, South Korea.”
ROB -“Go and get some information”
Speak to yourself! I said Trump is better than Hillary. Do you think that she could protect us in nuclear war?!?
All she learned from Bill is how to manipulate people.
At least Trump is an accomplished businessman!
Sam2 -“Health: Yeah, but this isn’t about Hilary. It’s about Trump. I have no intention of voting for Hilary. Hilary being scum doesn’t change the fact that Trump is dangerous and is bringing out the worst in people with him making the truth seem irrelevant to life.”
If it comes down to Trump vs. Hillary, Trump is the lesser of two evils!
Abba-S -“There maybe serious side effects and they can better explain them to you”
Not really, but the patient should go to a psychiatrist for treatment!
This is from family medicine website:
“Medication is not a cure, only control
Medication holiday is not needed
Medication may be taken on weekends and holidays
Summer use of medication is optional
Restart medication well before school
Do not trial off medication at onset of school year
Myths (Stimulant non-causes)
Stimulants do not cause Sedation
Stimulants do not cause growth delay
Weight does however need to be watched closely
Stimulants do not cause drug addiction
Drug Abuse occurs six times more commonly in Attention Deficit Disorder
Stimulants do not increase that risk (and might decrease Substance Abuse risk)
Drug Diversion is a higher risk”
Ben Levi -“The Democrats claim that all they want is the government to stay out o religion yet that is clearly not the case”
That’s not half of it! The government has supposedly created laws against discrimination, which includes discrimination against Shabbos observers. The reality is they use these laws for protecting low-lifes, but when it comes to Frum discrimination, it’s very widespread! The courts have watered it down to make it non-existent, no matter what they claim!
Sam2 -“Health: What happened with Clinton is done and not relevant to this situation. I’m not talking about a legal situation.”
Of course it’s relevant! If they can lie in a court of law, they can lie anywhere.
“I am asking how a voter can believe a word that comes out of Trump’s mouth. If nothing he says is the truth, then what claims of his precisely make you support him?”
Why do you think Hillary stays with Bill? I’ll tell you why – because she needs to learn the art of duping people, that’s what Bill is great at!
Queen -“I have currently 2 sons in law in kollel.”
Do you want more? I’m available, if you have single daughters.
Mdd -“Dovrosenbaum, Trump will keep us out of war?!? Except declaring one on Mexico to force them to pay for the wall. Or on China. Or on anybody else who’ll get on his nerves”
First of all, why do you keep posting Trump will start a war?
Do you think that he doesn’t care about Americans? Don’t you think that if he starts a war with a nuke country, that they will nuke us back?!?
I’ll tell you who doesn’t care about us – the DemonCrats!
How come they let in Terrorists? Did you hear about an attack in California?
Sam2 -“health: Does Trump’s blatant disregard for the truth bother you? All politicians lie, but Trump doesn’t even pretend to be close to caring.”
And why should he?!? Do you vote DemonCrat? I got news for you, Billy Boy lied under oath. And he got impeached for that, but the DemonCrat Senators refused to throw him out of office!
Mdd -“Do you want Trump to start a war with Mexico to force it to pay for the wall?”
Do you think that he’ll start a war with Mexico?!? We need their workers, but legally, not the way it’s now! And they also need us, because they have no money.
“Or to nuke some country because it annoyed him?”
What this country needs is someone like Trump, because when N.Korea nukes us, he’ll respond! Hillary will be under her covers!
Modern -“Im thinking of starting to take adhd medicine dose anyone have experience with what it will do”
Go to WebMD for ADHD in Children Health Center!
It’s more professional advice than any poster here!
DY -“If it’s Trump vs. Clinton I would probably hold my nose and vote Clinton.”
Do you know why Trump is popular amongst the public? He’s not PC, like the others! The reason why that some Frum Jews & others will vote DemonCrat is because they like the way the country is run now.
You can’t run a country with a Robinhood attitude. Not e/o has to be equal. Russia tried Communism & it was a colossal failure!
This country has been run for too long by people like the Clintons, who think that they are above the law. E/O knows the news about Hillary and the emails. But do a research about Bill when he was Governor.
Joe -“b. What would you say the likelihood is of Trump prevailing over Clinton in the general election?”
All I know is that if Hillary wins and there is war, there won’t be much left in this country! If Trump wins, he could pull up what’s left of the country.
Zichmich -“I believe that Health has indicated in other threads that she is female. She needs the get in order to be able to remarry.”
Sorry to disappoint – I’m male! You must be getting me mixed up with PBA (Poppa). Some posters say – she is female.
The reason I don’t respond to Comlink-X is because he/she is trolling!
Comlink-X -“So, you’re saying your wife was no longer religious, Health?”
Whatever I’m saying – it isn’t to any trolls!
SpeakerAV -“Hence why I strongly believe that from oilem is fooling themselves with the age gap nonsense. The shidduchim crisis is due to the overwhelming pickiness and nonsense which is espoused in the shidduchim process.”
I strongly agree!
And all these topics in the CR, that are about the Shidduch crisis are basically Nonsense!
MaidofCH -“I’ll never forget a friend of mine who, during a visit with a shadchan, casually glanced at her watch and said, “I have to go home and feed my cat.””
I’m in Shidduchem, but we have cats. Really they aren’t ours, but they live outside of our house. They get fed by the Goyishe neighbor!
Jaybird -“I don’t know what C&S means.”
Here’s free advice:
Is the throat area still infected? The way to know is by doing a C & S. C – culture the throat, if something grows then S. S – sensitivity – what the bacteria is sensitive to. What medication should be given to the patient.
“They got rid of the cold, strep but the tonsils/adenoids remain swollen.”
It’s possible that even if there’s no infection, that the tonsils/adenoids will remain swollen.
“The issue here is primarily sleep apnea. There a limit how long
you can go on with a kid not sleeping at night.”
You must treat the OSA (sleep apnea)!
Go to a sleep clinic.
Surgery is a last resort!
The options in the clinic are either CPAP (forced oxygen) or OA (oral appliance).
Sam2 -“Health: I don’t think removing a ventilator would be murder. Gram Retzicha at worst and probably just an Issur of Lo Sa’amod Al Dam Reiacha”
It could very well be Retzicha! It depends who you hold like:
“The poskim who disagree mostly hold that cessation of breathing constitutes halachic death.
Other poskim hold that cardiac death is the halachic definition of death.”
Mammele -“Terri Schiavo was proven to have been in a persistent vegetative state
when the autopsy was performed.”
And this was murder!
“But popular opinion before her feeding-tube was removed in 2005
came down heavily on the side
of believing that she was still ‘alive’ in some sense.”
She was alive!
“Thus, historically-speaking, it will be some decades
before PVS will routinely be recognized as equivalent to death.”
And this will be murder!
From Dr. Parnia in AOL’s newspaper:
“Neurologists have started to discover that contrary to the old dogma, supposedly vegetative patients may actually be conscious and aware of their surroundings and can carry out mental tasks on command.”
Newbee -“so dont vote for Sanders because he has a Jewish neshama.”
Unfortunately some people will! What ethnic group gave our President 98% of their vote?!?
Mammele -“My documented example was not to illustrate that true brain death is reversible, but that despite knowing the patient failed the breathing test, they still went ahead with harvesting his organs, because the doctor said the patient won’t recover.”
Search Lazarus phenomenon & you’ll see that it’s probably already happening!
New here -“It’s very expensive but worth every cent”
I’m pretty sure it’s a silicone gel. There are cheaper OTC versions, like “Scar Away”.
From AAD.org:
Apply sunscreen to the wound after it has healed. Sun protection may help reduce red or brown discoloration and help the scar fade faster. Always use a broad-spectrum sunscreen with an SPF or 30 or higher and reapply frequently.”
Nechomah -“Health, do they run a wide-spectrum culture and sensitivity as standard procedure for “tonsillitis”?”
No. For standard procedure – they do standard throat culture, usually on a BAP – looking for Strep!
“I would assume that they would do a throat culture and it would be run for streptococcus bacteria and, if positive, prescribe penicillin or amoxicillin.”
That’s correct!
“Are there other flora found on throat cultures?”
I’m changing your question a little.
What are the causes of Tonsillitis?
From Web MD:
“Causes and Symptoms of Tonsillitis
Bacterial and viral infections can cause tonsillitis. A common cause is Streptococcus (strep) bacteria. Other common causes include:
Adenoviruses
Influenza virus
Epstein-Barr virus (Mono)
Parainfluenza viruses
Enteroviruses
Herpes simplex virus”
Also, infection of the pharynx with Gram-negative coccal-shaped (round) bacteria named Neisseria gonorrhoeae (also termed pharyngeal gonorrhea).
Oh Jay -“Of course. Your child’s pediatrician will usually prescribe the standard antibiotics for colds. The ENT will usually suggest Flonase,”
You didn’t answer my questions: “Oh Jay – Did you try antibiotics? If yes, which one(s) & for how long? What was on the C & S?”
Saying “standard antibiotics” doesn’t tell me anything! Did you even get a C & S?
I can give some info in regular and alternative medicine, but first answer the questions.
Flonase will decrease swelling, no matter what the cause is!