first of all i’m very sorry for you, it seems your daughter/einikel didnt get to much attention by this years graduation. second of all, in a REAL world you have to realise that not everyone is equal. some are rich some are smart and some even smarter and more successfull than you. the earlier in life you realise that the less enviousthoughts you’ll have to deal with. a kid has to realise and be able to admit that chani is smarter then me, ruchi is prettier and rivka sings nicer. one more thing, we have a concept of KINAS CHOCHMIM TARBE CHOCHMO!