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#why, Thank you for noticing! 🙂
#I honestly did not get a clear picture of what you were trying to get at, besides for the fact that you were frustrated with your single status and with how the people around you are treating you.
So, therefore, I’m sorry that your going through a hard time, and I hope it all works out for you really soon.
And I hope just the fact that you wrote it and shared this helps you feel a bit better!
#When I read the title, I was like, “wow! this is probably a topic that I am interested in.” As opposed to drunk threads, zion threads….
But lo and behold, Popa you poppad my bubble!
#To all you posters out there who wrote that no matter what, you must respect your parents, I disagree with you. There are circumstances where children of abuse have received a psak that counters what you have said, such as no requirement for sitting shiva…. please research your answers before posting especially with such sensitive topics…
#I don’t know if this is the right place to address this question.
I’m assuming there are hours worth of explanation behind your short question.
My two answers to you are
1) Find someone you trust in a halachic perspective
2)find a therapist to speak to about your relationship
best of luck!
Hang in there…
#Curious yenta, I think that the fact that you are only 15 and thinking about your future, shows intelligence…. SO maybe you are smart enough 🙂
there’s no such thing as not smart enough for college…
#I noticed that as well, There are no topics lately that push my buttons… I used to post and then keep coming back to see replies… Lately, I don’t even click on the coffee room.
#no, But I know of a babysitter for you 🙂
#Bh, I got a $11,000 break from my seminary, as an academic scholarship.
I got about $6000 from Fafsa
$2000 from Masa..
And there you go…
#I went to seminary for a total of about $4,000, including airfare…
it’s about breaks and scholarships…
#Rabbi Zecharya Wallerstein gives an excellent answer in his youtube video of Shomer Nehgiah..
#(I have a half a mind to answer you in latin, but poor mods…)
It isn’y close minded of you, It’s a matter of hashkafic standpoints…
I remember last year, I was in my teacher’s lounge, and one teacher was telling the other about someone redt to her son, and how she was checking her facebook pictures. I remember then thinking how different it is for me, (that was when I just started dating…)
But, unfortunately I feel like so many more people have facebook today for so many different reasons. Be it work, discounts… (I dated one guy who told me he only has facebook for candy crush lives…)
It used to be very important to me that the guy I marry should not have social media such as facebook, instagram, snapchat…. It still is, but, I find it much harder to say no to a guy because it is so prevalent and needed in so many ways…
It may be similar to texting… I remember when I got texting in 9th grade, I was the bum of the school… Now who makes a deal about it?
#The Ketoros have eleven spices, ten sweet-smelling spices plus the chelb’na, a foul-smelling ingredient. The 1o spices represent the Jewish community, symbolized by the number ten, the minimum microcosm of an eida, a representative community. The chelb’na represents the wicked who have temporarily divorced themselves from the community but must be included since they too must and will return to the fold. The offering of the ketores represents in a sense, the offering of K’nesses Yisrael, the totality of the Jewish people to HKB”H. The great love of HKB”H for his nation and even the wicked among them is thus actively demonstrated twice daily and once a year in the inner chamber, in the presence of the keruvim representing this love.
I feel like this guy is in the same category as the chelb’na… being that he has a “bad smell”, something that is bothering others. But if they were to bring the ketoros without that one bad smelling spice it wasn’t kosher. It may be very hard to bear this with patience, but he is one of Hahsem’s beloveds, and you never know who’s zchus is holding up who.
#Those three are all acceptable in an out of town society.
I have students who come to school in crocs, and noone would even notice that there should be something odd about it..
Bc it isn’t..
To each their own, whatever floats their boat!
#The other day I was redt to a guy with a nice Jewish name.
I got his resume with no picture. So, I googled him with the place he lives, and got a picture of the most handsome guy I ever saw.
He had a few things hashkafically that I didn’t like, but I kept giving excuses for him, without even consciously realizing why…
L’maaseh, the shadchan sent me a pic the next day, and suffice it to say, it was a far cry…
And, I said no 🙂
We people are shallow, and looks do count for girls and guys!
And I was so relieved after I said no, because Deep down, I knew it wasn’t for em but was blinded by his looks..
So maybe we shouldn’t google them..
But, maybe we should, what if they have a criminal record…
#so why?
#I had a great thread, but was blocked again
#I’m an out of town girl, BH I don’t have a problem getting dates. It’s about going out of your comfort zone, and calling people, emialing people, joining shadchan websites…
#mods, What up with -1 Years???????
#Yw mod-29, I would love to meet you in person, Each time you post, you show such a kind side of you..
Thank you for all your efforts and service!
#Little froggie, I love your posts!
#Tough stuff!
#Yw mod-29 That was a different post 🙂
#the reason I bumped it was, because i was redt to someone who smoked… but I didn’t want to start a whole new thread about it..
Thanks randomex
#If I’m not Yeshivish, can I still ask?
#oops I know you said from here on, But it was two days ago..
#Great topic!
I got moderated for a Post I wanted to start…. Although I don’t know why..
#Do we believe that?
Randomex?
#BUMP!
#in a good way though… 🙂