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August 28, 2017 5:15 pm at 5:15 pm in reply to: Additional Societal Casualties Of The Shidduch Crisis #1349399HashemisreadingParticipant
Less Chasidim getting divorced may not have to do with their better shalom bayis. It may be because it is much less acceptable for them to get divorced so they’d rather live unhappily.
not judging, just speculating.
August 28, 2017 5:15 pm at 5:15 pm in reply to: Additional Societal Casualties Of The Shidduch Crisis #1349396HashemisreadingParticipantIts silly to argue about divorce rates. lets talk about happiness rates.
August 17, 2017 3:02 pm at 3:02 pm in reply to: Anyone Have Personal Experience With “Uveitis”? #1341284HashemisreadingParticipantYes, uveitis is consistent with rheumatoid arthritis, as well as juvenile arthritis. it is often treated with Humera and Methotrexate, among other medications. See an ophthalmologist for further treatment
HashemisreadingParticipantIt totally stems form bitachon! the roots are bitachon, but on a day to day basis, once you have anxiety, there can be other factors that contribute to it.
It makes so much sense. If you realized its all Hashem, and your not in control, then you’d relax.
Hatzlacha
HashemisreadingParticipantThe best daters won’t necessarily make the best husbands.
HashemisreadingParticipant< I am just going to wait for Moshiach’s robodialer to call me.>
And I’M going to wait for him to knock on my door.
HashemisreadingParticipantRebYidd: that’s not a proof. maybe we were going up up up in our general ruchnius and then boom, everyone got hold of this key to gehennim and we plummeted.
Hashem is crying……
HashemisreadingParticipant5ish: one does not need to be that holy in or der to see how smartphones and technology are ripping apart klal yisroel.
HashemisreadingParticipantYou guys are all ridiculous. Smartphones and internet are the REASON that Mashiach did not come yet.
HashemisreadingParticipantWhat about a guy that didn’t shower since the beginning of the 9 days?
July 26, 2017 3:39 pm at 3:39 pm in reply to: Out of the box ideas to solve the shidduch crisis 🚫🥊👰🤵 #1325798HashemisreadingParticipantJoseph: how would you know that? what is the happiness measuring stick?
July 26, 2017 3:21 pm at 3:21 pm in reply to: Out of the box ideas to solve the shidduch crisis 🚫🥊👰🤵 #1325782HashemisreadingParticipantSaying the chasidim have a lower divorce rate than the yeshivish world is irrelevant.
What is their happiness rate is the question?
HashemisreadingParticipantShpitz Yehishivish: <what is a zionist? – someone whos sole aim is to destroy torah and mitzvos, to wipe the charedim off the face of planet earth. to destroy the difference between goyim and yidden>
K what are you saying?
That’s such a shpitz yeshivish thing to say
July 26, 2017 9:52 am at 9:52 am in reply to: Out Of The Mailbag: (Flatbush Kiddush: Tznius & Drinking Out Of Control) #1325545HashemisreadingParticipant<There will not be a Klal Yisroel in 20 years.>
well, 10 years later were still going strong.
Mi Kiamcha YisroelHashemisreadingParticipantapushatayid: agreed
smartphones are more accessible than a TV, you have it next to you at all times, not only when your home.. everything right there with a click. brought in a lot more tuma than TV did.July 25, 2017 1:08 pm at 1:08 pm in reply to: ANOTHER shocking LETTER published IN the VOICE of LAKEWOOD #1325095HashemisreadingParticipant<Mama1: We need to stop hiding behind groups and systems. >
Thank you Mama, this is the most important sentence in this whole thread. and thank you kollelman as well for your insights. spot on.HashemisreadingParticipantSemantics. It’s all semantics. So much of what we fight about in here is really all semantics.
HashemisreadingParticipantand contact info!!
February 24, 2017 5:50 pm at 5:50 pm in reply to: supercalifragilisticexpiolodocious purim shpeil #1218874HashemisreadingParticipantLilmod: why must you always dig so deep as to why I ask my questions??
Rephrase: how would an orphaned single, ffb guy with no sisters know the song Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious?
February 23, 2017 9:29 pm at 9:29 pm in reply to: supercalifragilisticexpiolodocious purim shpeil #1218868HashemisreadingParticipantSo it’s probably so off tune by now.
February 23, 2017 5:54 pm at 5:54 pm in reply to: supercalifragilisticexpiolodocious purim shpeil #1218866HashemisreadingParticipanthow do men know the tune for Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious?
HashemisreadingParticipantStill not really understanding how you feel like your referring to Hashem. Maybe when people are talking to me they shouldn’t shorten it to “Hashem”? Like if my screenname was Hashem is here maybe it would be a little different..
HashemisreadingParticipantI think we should just dump reb shidduch’s whole profile in to the shidduchim section. too much caffeine to be put in to decaffeinated.
HashemisreadingParticipantLilmod: but my screenname is not really Hashem. Hashem is reading is supposed to be a direct reminder to everyone that Hashem is in the CR so take heed. halachos of onaas devarim are not voided when entering. So calling myself ‘Hashem is Reading’ isnt really putting Hashem to a guf..
HashemisreadingParticipantor, maybe if they specifically did have a yiddishe tam it would remind people of their yiddishness (made up word) while posting.
still musing..
HashemisreadingParticipantlightbright: I pasken muttar
February 16, 2017 9:31 pm at 9:31 pm in reply to: Did you ever put your thread in the wrong section #1216871HashemisreadingParticipantsince the CR its doors 10 years ago!
HashemisreadingParticipantfood used to be a means to living, now its a means in it of itself.
February 16, 2017 1:32 pm at 1:32 pm in reply to: Is a Boy Looking to Date a Girl or a Chavrusah? #1218076HashemisreadingParticipantThey should teach boys English in yeshivos.
HashemisreadingParticipantlilmod: you could pass the sushi to me then.
February 16, 2017 1:28 am at 1:28 am in reply to: How to Block the Internet from My Children? #1216737HashemisreadingParticipanti did mean that, but still have access to Internet even though i dont have a Smartphone or Internet at home.
hence my rather sporatic appearances here.
HashemisreadingParticipantlitvos: the truth is you could really have whatever you please. as long as it has a good hechsher. i dont think eating chinese food makes you chinese, or eating American food makes you more American. nor in fact, does eating ‘Jewish’ food make you any more Jewish! though it may make you more traditional though.
February 15, 2017 10:13 pm at 10:13 pm in reply to: Is a Boy Looking to Date a Girl or a Chavrusah? #1218070HashemisreadingParticipantdoesn’t everyone?
HashemisreadingParticipantso stick in challah and gefilte fish and potato stix and chrain. and Chinese food!!!! yum
February 15, 2017 9:41 pm at 9:41 pm in reply to: How to Block the Internet from My Children? #1216734HashemisreadingParticipantAmen! thank you Lu! I am a female. you can probably tell form my writing style. But I know not all of my earlier posts were consistent with that. and nope I figured out shortly after you came here that your a girl. your age bracket though, is a big enigma to me.
and reb shidduch I know I should really get rid of the internet. you have any ideas for me??
HashemisreadingParticipantjust stick with cholent and kugel and herring and your good
February 15, 2017 8:38 pm at 8:38 pm in reply to: InShidduchim.com: Is That the Jewish Way? #1216579HashemisreadingParticipantInShidduchim.com: Is That the Jewish Way?
HashemisreadingParticipantYW Moderator-29: great post. maskim 100%. its basically called desensitization (made up word). we are all desensitized. so, so, sad.
HashemisreadingParticipantand Hashem is the puppeteer pulling all the strings.
February 15, 2017 8:05 pm at 8:05 pm in reply to: How to Block the Internet from My Children? #1216730HashemisreadingParticipantlightbrite: lol I also though LU was a guy. I think because of her screenname.
February 15, 2017 2:55 am at 2:55 am in reply to: How to Block the Internet from My Children? #1216728HashemisreadingParticipantlol little froggie- nice try but nope not from lakewood
HashemisreadingParticipantwhats Olam Habama?
February 15, 2017 1:58 am at 1:58 am in reply to: How to Block the Internet from My Children? #1216726HashemisreadingParticipantlilmod: did you look at my profile?? i dont have a smartphone, nor open access to Internet at home.
and that is for the sole purpose of it being a zchus for my husband and children IM YERTZEH HASHEM! and BEEZRAS HASHEM!
February 15, 2017 1:55 am at 1:55 am in reply to: Is a Boy Looking to Date a Girl or a Chavrusah? #1218064HashemisreadingParticipantrandom side point: if you dont trust him that he davened already or that he’ll daven later than drop the shidduch asap. a marriage is based on trust. so if your already starting up now, then this shidduch is bad news.
HashemisreadingParticipantokay lilmod im nonplussed.
lol i crack myself up.
for example take this thread that i started. i was just commenting how people starting giving compliments and it always ends up with a fuss and kinderlach arguing:(
so the truth is i should really get out of the kitchen. but i cant! because there are so many SMART people in this little cozy room and all bashing aside their is so much to learn from here. so im trying really hard to supress the heat.
HashemisreadingParticipantmoderator 29: oh wow. I didn’t realize. I love how sheltered I am. I had no idea it was a facebook thing.
so then this trend should definitely end!
litvos: I don’t know. I feel like whenever I’m reading through threads I just feel like yelling at everyone to just chill out. relax! stop harping on everything, stop attacking everyone, be a little open minded!
but I shouldn’t really talk, because as the old adage goes,
if you cant stand the heat get out of the kitchen.
February 14, 2017 6:51 pm at 6:51 pm in reply to: Is a Boy Looking to Date a Girl or a Chavrusah? #1218062HashemisreadingParticipantLilmod Ulelamaid: meaning after you’ve dated a while the rules don’t count? right, but most people don’t want to reach “the age of not caring”.
February 14, 2017 6:49 pm at 6:49 pm in reply to: How to Block the Internet from My Children? #1216723HashemisreadingParticipantLilmod Ulelamaid: what do you mean? I need to gather up all the ammunition I can get now so that when I have kids ill be a little more prepared!!
HashemisreadingParticipantLitvos: hm. could be. but I’ve always found more bashment (made up word) than encouragement.
HashemisreadingParticipantgood one lightbright.
+1!!!!
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