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  • in reply to: How Often Are You Censored? #1002802
    haifagirl
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    I am almost never censored.

    However, I think I was censored today. I posted something about the difference between “in spite of” and “to spite,” and I haven’t seen it appear.

    in reply to: How Often Are You Censored? #1002801
    haifagirl
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    I am almost never censored.

    in reply to: Another Chocolate Thread #936606
    haifagirl
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    I read somewhere that chocolate is good for recuperating from dementor attacks..I can’t remember where I read it though.

    Probably Harry Potter.

    in reply to: Nurse Refused To Initiate CPR, What Is Your Opinion? #938784
    haifagirl
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    She was not employed as a nurse, so under California law she wouldn’t be covered.

    The 911 call-taker informed the nurse at more than one point in the conversation that she was not liable and EMS was taking responsibility.

    in reply to: Ideas for Elective Classes? #935929
    haifagirl
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    “foundations of lifecouching”

    Okay, I give up. What is “lifecouching”? I looked it up, but all it seems to be is life coaching. Is it like that but while sitting/lying on a couch?

    in reply to: Marriage Catch-22 #935724
    haifagirl
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    They have to know how to . . . carry on a normal conversation complete with proper grammer.

    And for the men who are going into rabbanus, it is almost a chilul Hashem if they don’t know how to speak the language properly.

    Hear, hear!

    in reply to: Brain Games #934825
    haifagirl
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    they deffiantly do make your brain sharper,they make you think

    Who are the games defying? (Sorry, it was too good an opportunity to pass up.)

    in reply to: Grammar Is Making a Comeback #934614
    haifagirl
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    You’re welcome.

    in reply to: Grammar Is Making a Comeback #934607
    haifagirl
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    There’s a reason why knowledge of grammar is important.

    The following appeared in an article on YWN:

    According to that sentence, the doctors died a day later.

    in reply to: Grammar Is Making a Comeback #934606
    haifagirl
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    In the UK collective nouns are considered plural. In the US they are consider singular.

    Therefore, in the US a family (one unit) goes on a picnic, while in the UK a family (several people) go on a picnic.

    in reply to: Politeness�Pet Peeves #934398
    haifagirl
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    You want to “scream” when someone says “this is yum”? Please.

    Have you ever been to a concert or a recital when one of the musicians hits a wrong note? It’s quite jarring.

    When I hear someone say something incorrectly, it feels the same way. It’s like fingernails on a chalkboard to me. (So is someone’s saying, “Lay down.”)

    in reply to: Politeness�Pet Peeves #934388
    haifagirl
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    haifagirl: Who said people are “playing with” it?

    “Playing with” was a bad choice of words. I apologize. I’ll rephrase that.

    The thought of people’s rearranging garbage at the table is what grosses me out.

    in reply to: Facebook Is To Blame For Rising Orthodox Jewish Divorce Rate? #935301
    haifagirl
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    “as if I were a 80 year old Luddite”.

    He said to talk to him as if he were an 80 year old. So Health replied as if he were an 80 year old telling him that it’s not a problem for someone of his age…

    Thank you. Now I get it. (I think.)

    in reply to: Grammar Is Making a Comeback #934604
    haifagirl
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    Wouldn’t it be “the group that uses”, rather “the group that use”?

    You’re right. I guess I’ve been watching too much BBC lately. “The group that use” is correct in the United Kingdom. “The group that uses” is correct in the United States.

    in reply to: Mazel Tov! It's National Grammar Day! #934408
    haifagirl
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    Did you take the grammar quiz on that website?

    I admit it. I got one wrong. 🙁

    in reply to: How can one judge favorably for this? #934142
    haifagirl
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    Nope. Absolutely right.

    in reply to: Facebook Is To Blame For Rising Orthodox Jewish Divorce Rate? #935297
    haifagirl
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    He said . . .

    “as if I were a 80 year old Luddite”.

    This was enough for me to make a crack.

    Okay, so you made a crack, but it had nothing to do with what he said.

    I thought I was clear enough in my previous explanation, but I guess not.

    I understood his question and I answered it. In the first part of my answer I was being sarcastic/joking. If he claimed to be 80 years old –to this I responded – noone ever claimed 80 year olds were getting divorced because of FB. I then explained why it’s causing divorce in younger populations.

    He never claimed to be 80 years old, nor did he claim 80-year-olds were getting divorced. So to what were you responding?

    And after three times, I still don’t get it. Perhaps somebody else can explain it to me since we seem to have a communication problem.

    in reply to: Grammar Is Making a Comeback #934598
    haifagirl
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    On a different thread, I wrote:

    “The more important question to ask, though, is whether there are, TODAY (because there are too many variables to fairly compare different eras), a higher percentage of unmarried men and women among the group that uses the shidduch system, or among the group which uses self service.”

    Was the proper word “among”, or “amongst”?

    Also, should the comma have been placed before or after the parentheses?

    Also, I switched between “that” and “which”. Which one is correct?

    1) Both “among” and “amongst” would be correct, but “amongst” is considered archaic.

    2) The comma was in exactly the right place.

    3) “That” would be the proper choice in both cases. If whatever follows can be discarded, use “which.”

    Take the following example:

    The group of men and women that use the shidduch system, which is usually used by charedim, may or may not have more successful marriages.

    That sentence still makes sense if we discard the “which” part:

    The group of men and women that use the shidduch system may or may not have more successful marriages.

    We can’t discard “that use the shidduch system.”

    Here’s a tip: “which” usually is associated with commas.

    in reply to: Facebook Is To Blame For Rising Orthodox Jewish Divorce Rate? #935294
    haifagirl
    Participant

    I thought I was clear enough in my previous explanation, but I guess not.

    I understood his question and I answered it. In the first part of my answer I was being sarcastic/joking. If he claimed to be 80 years old -to this I responded – noone ever claimed 80 year olds were getting divorced because of FB. I then explained why it’s causing divorce in younger populations.

    I apologize for misunderstanding you. Since he never claimed he was 80, nor did he claim that Facebook was causing 80-year-olds to get divorced, I didn’t understand that your “sarcastic/joking” response was to something he never said.

    in reply to: Politeness�Pet Peeves #934383
    haifagirl
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    Why is it not gross when you have chicken bones on your plate or on someone else’s but it is suddenly gross when its in a pile on top of some plates?

    It’s not so much that the big pile of bones is gross, though it is. Remember, those bones are garbage. As such, it should be removed from the table without further ado. The thought of people’s playing with garbage at the table is what grosses me out.

    in reply to: Politeness�Pet Peeves #934382
    haifagirl
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    I usually use option 3 and say, “Could you please pass the . . . ?”

    in reply to: How can one judge favorably for this? #934140
    haifagirl
    Participant

    <haifagirlshield>

    The phone call could have been from a somebody in a situation even more dire than hers.

    </haifagirlshield>

    The shield worked. (Okay, I would have said “person” instead of “somebody,” but that’s not a big deal.)

    in reply to: Politeness�Pet Peeves #934375
    haifagirl
    Participant

    . . . we don’t say please when we ask someone to pass us something.

    Speak for yourself. I usually say “please” when I ask someone to pass me something.

    in reply to: Facebook Is To Blame For Rising Orthodox Jewish Divorce Rate? #935290
    haifagirl
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    This was simple reading comprehension, not grammar.

    Yes, Health. This is a simple reading comprehension issue. But you seemed to have missed the boat.

    First, Yserbius123 asked, “Can someone explain to me, . . . why Facebook causes divorce?”

    Then you responded, “Noone claimed this and you know it.”

    As I pointed out, the OP said, “Counselors and community members are reporting a rise in divorce in the Orthodox Jewish community, and some say Facebook is to blame.”

    Obviously someone is claiming Facebook is causing divorce, or do you have a different definition of “blame”?

    in reply to: Facebook Is To Blame For Rising Orthodox Jewish Divorce Rate? #935280
    haifagirl
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    Yserbius123 -“Can someone explain to me, as if I were a 80 year old Luddite, why Facebook causes divorce?”

    Noone claimed this and you know it. Are you 80?

    Noone claimed this? Really? From the OP:

    Counselors and community members are reporting a rise in divorce in the Orthodox Jewish community, and some say Facebook is to blame.

    in reply to: Leftover Boiled Chicken #933729
    haifagirl
    Participant

    Add tomato sauce. Serve over pasta.

    in reply to: Politeness�Pet Peeves #934362
    haifagirl
    Participant

    I absolutely hate poor tale manners.

    Napkins belong on your lap, or on your chair if you get up. They do not belong on the table, especially after you have used them to wipe your mouth or nose.

    And I get really grossed out by people who scrape the dishes at the table so that there is a stack of plates with a sizable pile of chicken bones on top. The only difference between the chicken bones on the plate and those in the garbage can is location. Garbage does not belong on the table.

    And serving pieces are provided so that you don’t have to use your own fork or your hands to take food off a platter or out of a bowl.

    This one is slightly off topic since it’s not a politeness thing, but it does frequently happen at the table. I want to scream every time somebody says, “This ____ is yum.” “Yum” is an interjection. To use it properly, take some food, swallow it, then say, “Yum.” That’s it. Otherwise, if you really want an adjective, the word you are looking for is “yummy.” It is correct to say, “This ______ is yummy.”

    in reply to: Avoiding Secular Music #934018
    haifagirl
    Participant

    Purple, this is a warning. You need to cut down on the txtspk.

    Thank you.

    in reply to: Forged $100 Bill #933550
    haifagirl
    Participant

    The correct term is “counterfeit” not “forged.”

    Posted 12 hours ago #

    Wow! Twelve hours and nobody has jumped on your case for correcting somebody. I’m impressed.

    in reply to: Grammar Is Making a Comeback #934576
    haifagirl
    Participant

    Many people use impeccable grammar but still don’t communicate.

    Absolutely true. But is the converse true? Can one really communicate without grammar?

    in reply to: Rennin and Science #933423
    haifagirl
    Participant

    Can’t you use FPC instead?

    in reply to: Advice dealing with morning Chavrusah #933309
    haifagirl
    Participant

    First of all, is he really feeling fine? I’ve gone to work feeling like death because I didn’t have a choice. Maybe he’s doing the same thing.

    In any case, when you find out he’s about to go to work, you can tell him you’re happy he’s feeling a bit better than he was in the morning and you can’t wait until he’s feeling well enough to go back to learning with you. If you want to push it, you can ask him for an estimated date when that will happen.

    You can also ask him if there is anything you can do for him.

    in reply to: Age of Learning to Read #933635
    haifagirl
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    I don’t remember how old I was, but it was definitely before kindergarten. I learned with Dr. Seuss books. The first book I was able to read was Hop on Pop.

    in reply to: Grammar Is Making a Comeback #934569
    haifagirl
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    The worst thing you can be is a “grammar Nazi” because you can’t expect everyone to be native English speakers.

    Nobody expects everyone to be native English speakers. However, I don’t believe there is anything wrong with expecting native English speakers to communicate in English.

    in reply to: Grammar Is Making a Comeback #934563
    haifagirl
    Participant

    On the treife internet, bad grammar exposes your lack of education and makes you sound like an idiot in general. It’s very hard to take someone seriously who can barely spell or use grammar.

    Excellent point. Here’s another excerpt from that article:

    “His comment catches the attention of Ms. Bassett, who is making rounds to each cluster of students. ‘David,’ she says, ‘the life lesson here is that bad grammar is bad PR. You guys remember that.'”

    in reply to: Facebook Is To Blame For Rising Orthodox Jewish Divorce Rate? #935253
    haifagirl
    Participant

    I happen to agree that people under a certain age should not be using Facebook. That study was about teens. Teens do a lot of irresponsible things. They don’t need Facebook to do something stupid.

    But it is a leap to say because it causes some problems in some teens everybody, including adults, should stop using it.

    in reply to: Facebook Is To Blame For Rising Orthodox Jewish Divorce Rate? #935250
    haifagirl
    Participant

    do you or anyone have any proof how good it is?!?!?

    Shortly after I started using Facebook I looked up some relatives, found them, and “friended” them. Most of these people I hadn’t seen nor talked to in many, many years.

    I had an aunt and uncle to whom I was very close. When I was a child and my father was sick, they were like a second set of parents to me.

    When they became very sick and passed away, the only one who kept me informed was one of their grandsons with whom I had started corresponding on Facebook. Prior to that he and I hadn’t spoken in probably 20 years.

    He and I have become quite close and he is even coming to EY to visit in a few months. This never would have happened without Facebook.

    Maybe that isn’t proof, but to me it’s a good enough reason to stay on Facebook.

    If my rabbi would tell me to stop using it, I probably would. But he would have to stop using it first!

    in reply to: Grammar Is Making a Comeback #934560
    haifagirl
    Participant

    HG – Thanks for the ‘replacing him with whom’ tip. I don’t think I’ve ever gotten that right.

    You’re welcome. I find it much easier to use that tip than to try and explain the difference between subject and object pronouns.

    in reply to: Grammar Is Making a Comeback #934559
    haifagirl
    Participant

    In your previous post, you omitted the “b” from “bother”.

    You might still have time to fix it.

    Edit: Good, you did have time.

    Nope. Some kindly mod must have done it. I dropped my keyboard once too often and the “b” and the space bar don’t work so well. Sometimes I don’t notice.

    in reply to: Facebook Is To Blame For Rising Orthodox Jewish Divorce Rate? #935247
    haifagirl
    Participant

    haifagirl – Now that I brought proof – do you or anyone have any proof how good it is?!?!?

    I just looked back through all your posts. Perhaps I missed one, but I didn’t see any proof. Could you please re-post it?

    in reply to: Grammar Is Making a Comeback #934556
    haifagirl
    Participant

    You’re right. I don’t know how that zero got in there. I apologize.

    (When one makes a mistake it never hurts to apologize. It sure beats criticizing the one who pointed it out.)

    in reply to: Facebook Is To Blame For Rising Orthodox Jewish Divorce Rate? #935244
    haifagirl
    Participant

    I remember one time driving somewhere with a friend of mine. Taking the highway would have been out of the way. We ended up going through several neighborhoods. My friend was terrified. She thought we were going through the worst areas of the city.

    The point is, we weren’t. I was familiar with those neighborhoods, so I knew there was nothing wrong with them and we were perfectly safe. She, however, didn’t know the neighborhoods. That’s why she was scared.

    “You can be in the worse place in city and a Disco was just an example, but there are worse places. Is it alright to be there even if you’re Not doing anything wrong?”

    Just because you declare someplace to be “the worse [sic] place in city [sic],” doesn’t make it so.

    in reply to: Grammar Is Making a Comeback #934553
    haifagirl
    Participant

    You’re right. I’m not here very often. Why should I be? Since I see no reason to struggle to read incomprehensible posts, I don’t other to read most of them. If people wanted me to know what they were thinking, they would communicate it clearly. Obviously what they have to say isn’t important enough to them that they want other people to read it.

    in reply to: Grammar Is Making a Comeback #934547
    haifagirl
    Participant

    Speaking of grammar, here’s a quick tip.

    Headline from YWN:

    How would you answer that question?

    a) He is playing he.

    b) He is playing him.

    c) Him is playing him.

    d) Him is playing he.

    It should be obvious that the correct answer is b). Now, we just replace “he” with “who” and “him” with “whom.” Therefore, the question should have been: Who is Playing Whom?

    in reply to: Facebook Is To Blame For Rising Orthodox Jewish Divorce Rate? #935225
    haifagirl
    Participant

    On FB the way I understand it is anybody can come to you. It’s much more of a harder Nisayon.

    You understand it incorrectly.

    in reply to: Facebook Is To Blame For Rising Orthodox Jewish Divorce Rate? #935215
    haifagirl
    Participant

    It isn’t inherently bad -it’s the Seviva. Take a hall in the middle of the city -it’s just a hall. Add a rock band & add Goyim dancing not wearing Tzinus clothing and I won’t mention what else. Now a Jew doesn’t belong there, even if they are doing something Kosher like a Shidduch Date, because it’s a bad Seviva.

    Do you know any really Frum guys who would take dates to a disco place? I don’t think so. Facebook is the same thing, just in the privacy of your home.

    Not a good analogy. In the same building as that hall you mentioned, there is another hall. That hall is totally kosher and totally tznius. Only invited guests are allowed in.

    Facebook is the building. You choose which hall you enter.

    in reply to: Why did the Yidden in the Megillah kill 75,000? #933110
    haifagirl
    Participant

    Possuk 8: (Achashverosh responded:) ‘And you write about the Jews as is good in your eyes’

    What happened to the rest of the possuk?

    . . . for an edict which is written in the King’s name and sealed with the royal signet may not be revoked.

    in reply to: Dog Tags on Purim #932744
    haifagirl
    Participant

    now THAT is a good idea

    An even better idea is to drink a reasonable amount so that bracelet isn’t needed.

    in reply to: Pureeem Sameach Haifagirl! #932120
    haifagirl
    Participant

    Thank you.

    in reply to: Facebook Is To Blame For Rising Orthodox Jewish Divorce Rate? #935210
    haifagirl
    Participant

    This is slightly off-topic. Sorry.

    Those of you who don’t subscribe to the “Daily Dose of Kindness” may have missed this story, so I wanted to share it.

    A woman I met through mutual friends and interests on Facebook somehow started explaining how her friend couldn’t afford new glasses, and was wandering through her life not seeing properly.

    The two of us pooled resources to give this woman money for an eye check up and new glasses.

    I love the feeling that somewhere, there is a woman who can see because I was able to help.

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