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  • in reply to: Walking Down the Aisle at a Chasunah #743253
    haifagirl
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    I’ve heard that some people have an issue with a divorced “couple” walking the chosson or kallah to the chupah; some kind of negative segulah. I don’t know much about it, though.

    I was at a wedding where the parents of the kallah were divorced. She was walked down by another couple, with her mother next to the woman and her father next to the man.

    in reply to: Smart or Popular? #988741
    haifagirl
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    Definitely smart. But that’s because I am and I can’t imagine what it’s like to be less.

    Popular is nice. I’m smart and have a lot of friends.

    I’m not sure why people think smart and popular are mutually exclusive.

    in reply to: Most Uncommon Frum Names #741040
    haifagirl
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    This past summer I had girl students named Tal and Gil. Until recently I had two students named Bar–one a young girl and the other a man.

    I have a woman student Nitzan and I recently subbed for another teacher and had a man student Nitzan.

    And I work with two women named Hagar!

    in reply to: Most Uncommon Frum Names #741039
    haifagirl
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    Feminine of dov as the animal is duba. No one is named that

    I used to have a roommate named Dubba. And I have heard of others.

    What about Chasya for a girl?

    I know one of those, too.

    Anyone heard of the name Aviva???

    I know several, including a cousin of mine.

    My cousin’s name is Peretz.

    I’ve known at least two.

    The oddest FFB Jewish fellow I know is named Elroy.

    This summer I had an FFB student whose name was Elroee.


    What about Rayla? My great-aunt (whom I never met) was Rayla. Every Rayla I’ve ever met, or heard of, was related to me. Until yesterday. I spoke to a Rayla on the phone. Her parents named her for a Rochel Leah but didn’t want to give her that name.

    in reply to: Gold fish #740525
    haifagirl
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    I’ve never seen a gold aquarium. All the aquaria I’ve seen were made of glass.

    in reply to: Hair Loss! #741209
    haifagirl
    Participant

    My hair was falling out in clumps. My doctor told me to take iron pills. Voila! Not only did my hair stop falling out, it looks better than it ever has.

    Get iron bisglycinate. It doesn’t have the usual side-effects regular iron pills have.

    in reply to: Remarriage #740628
    haifagirl
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    My (non-frum) aunt has her place reserved for her in between her first husband and my uncle.

    in reply to: Creative Ideas Needed #738697
    haifagirl
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    When I was an elementary kid I washed cars.

    in reply to: imitation crab sticks #747868
    haifagirl
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    Why not make the sushi without crab? Make it with avocado and cucumber, or cucumber and carrots, or some other combination of vegetables.

    in reply to: Kosher Subway #738639
    haifagirl
    Participant

    1) Almond milk is not artificial and can be made at home

    This depends on your definition of “artificial.” In terms of “milk,” almond milk is definitely artificial. It doesn’t come from a cow or any other animal.

    I’m not sure what being made at home has to do with anything. Could you please explain?

    haifagirl
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    I can’t say what things are like out-of-town (and by the way, I define “out-of-town” as not Eretz Yisroel), but I moved to Haifa not knowing a soul, and I’ve made some very close friends in a very short time.

    The people at the first shul I tried were very friendly and one of them invited me to a Tehillim group where I met some other people, one of whom invited me to a couple different shiurim where I met more people. And I’ve since met other people at other shuls.

    in reply to: Purim and the Laws of Mourning #737736
    haifagirl
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    Ask your LOR. When I was in that situation I was told to send one and I couldn’t receive. I also couldn’t go to a seudah.

    in reply to: Birthday gift?! #737797
    haifagirl
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    There’s a store in Lincolnwood (I think it’s somewhere near Touhy) that makes custom-made baseball bats. You can get him a bat with his name on it. Or you can give him a gift certificate and they will make the bat to his specifications.

    in reply to: Creative Ideas Needed #738692
    haifagirl
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    Pre-pesach car wash and/or pre-pesach cleaning help. These are things the kids can do to help bring in money for their school.

    in reply to: Kosher Subway #738595
    haifagirl
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    It’s commonplace to leave the container for the non-dairy creamer on the table when serving it after a meat meal, for example, offering coffee at the end of Shabbos lunch with dessert. That way it’s known that it is not real milk, as opposed to putting the soy milk, rice milk, whatever, into a creamer.

    And how many people put the container on the table when serving parve “ice cream” after a meat meal? And if the “ice cream” is homemade?

    in reply to: Your Favorite Composers #900367
    haifagirl
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    How did I make such an awful typo? That should be Carl Ditters von Dittersdorf.

    in reply to: Your Favorite Composers #900363
    haifagirl
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    Tchaikovsky, Chopin, Franck, Liszt, Khachaturian, Shostakovich, Gershwin, Rachmaninoff, Faure, Barber and Carl Ditter von Dittersdorf but mainly because I like his name.

    in reply to: Frum advertising #737364
    haifagirl
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    Tznius refered to the types of beds that they were showing off. In our homes, we do not raise our children with one king size bed in our rooms.

    I was not judging, I was asking if my feelings were correct or am I living back in the 50’s when modesty (in dress & also in our homes) was more popular, even among the not frum world, than it is today.

    I can’t afford to go to a hotel, and even if I could I’m not sure I would.

    That being said, if I were to go to a hotel, I would get a room with only one bed. There is only one of me. How many beds do I need?

    in reply to: vocab #736858
    haifagirl
    Participant

    its very good to hve good vocab. i really need to improve..

    please post long impressive words with the pronunciation and definition. Thanks

    Let’s start here:

    it’s – it is, often confused with its

    have – verb of possession

    vocabulary – stock of words

    I – first person pronoun, always capitalized

    in reply to: Mayo #736965
    haifagirl
    Participant

    I try to avoid canola oil if at all possible.

    For salads I use olive oil and for cooking I use coconut oil. Much healthier than canola oil.

    in reply to: Kosher Subway #738549
    haifagirl
    Participant

    I’m curious to know if those who have a problem with the fake cheese and meat also have a problem with the milchig restaurants that serve veggie burgers with cheese?

    in reply to: Kosher Subway #738448
    haifagirl
    Participant

    How is having a kosher Subway acting like, and eating like, goyim?

    in reply to: Mayo #736944
    haifagirl
    Participant

    I never use mayo. You can substitute tehina. Tastes better, too.

    in reply to: Walk the girl to the door #736247
    haifagirl
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    I have mixed feelings. I don’t necessarily want a guy to walk me to my door because I have nosy neighbors. On the other hand, I don’t like when he sits in the car and watches me walk to the door. Given the choice, I prefer being walked to the door.

    Guys have said to me: ‘Can I walk you to the door?’ and I say ‘sure- thanks for asking!’ If a girl isn’t comfortable with it, she can say so, and the guy still gets points A) for offering and B) for showing sensitivity and asking whether she is comfortable with it.

    I think that’s great. A guy who did that would definitely earn points. If he said, “May I walk you to the door?” he would get even more points.

    I heard from a rebbitzen that when she went on the first date with her husband he walked her to the door. On the second date he didn’t, so she figured he wasn’t interested. She expected to be walked to the door because that’s what she saw in movies. He didn’t go to movies, so he had no idea. It turns out he walked her to the door the first time because it was raining and he had the umbrella.

    in reply to: I did not sign up to be a punching bag #735493
    haifagirl
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    When I am that agitated and call Customer Service, I immediately tell the rep the following: I apologize in advance, because I am very upset, and I KNOW that my complaint has nothing whatsoever to do with you and is not your fault. But I am really angry about X,Y, and Z, and you are the one answering the phone

    Oomis, I think we are twins separated at birth. I do the same thing. 🙂

    in reply to: Why my presence here is sporadic #732294
    haifagirl
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    typer

    typist

    I never knew what those little things were!!

    Look below. It’s underneath the box where you type a post.

    in reply to: Why my presence here is sporadic #732265
    haifagirl
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    mamash – It definetly is

    When “texting” one has a limited amount of characters in which to get the message across.

    This is virtually unlimited. There is no reason to abbreviate. There is no reason not use a spelling checker. It wouldn’t hurt to use a grammar checker, either.

    NOTES:

    1) One uses a “spelling” checker to check one’s spelling. One uses a “spell” checker to check one’s spells. Any witches in the CR?

    2) “Grammar” does not have an “e” in it.

    3) Incidentally, the word is “definitely.”

    in reply to: Why my presence here is sporadic #732261
    haifagirl
    Participant

    I very rarely text. When I do, it’s usually something short, such as, “Please check your e-mail.”

    NOTES:

    1) I used an actual example, therefore the correct terminology is “such as,” and not “like.”

    2) There is a comma before the quotation mark.

    3) American usage has the period inside the close-quote.

    4) I have come to grips with using “text” as a verb.

    5) I read the post again after I sent it and edited it to correct the typo.

    in reply to: My Son is a Lefty #732356
    haifagirl
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    I feel sorry for all of you who read the title and decided it was in your best interest to give me mussar.

    You should feel sorry for them. Judging by their spelling and grammar, communication is quite difficult for them.

    in reply to: how young is too young to married #733935
    haifagirl
    Participant

    Since this article was about in E”Y, what happens when they turn 18 and HAVE to go to the army?

    Married girls are exempt.

    in reply to: Engagement Rings #944405
    haifagirl
    Participant

    I was under the impression that the custom of giving a diamond ring was so the chosson has made a financial investment, thereby guaranteeing he won’t back out of the deal.

    On the other hand, I know of one group who does not give an engagement ring at all until the yichud room. They don’t want to have to deal with ring issues if the engagement breaks.

    in reply to: Endoscopy–what to expect #731283
    haifagirl
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    The prep the day before is nowhere near as awful as I always envisioned it.

    I had a colonoscopy done in the U.S. The prep the day before was not fun.

    I also had a colonoscopy done in EY. The prep was done the same day, so it killed only one day instead of two, and it wasn’t so bad. But there were three days of restricted diet which I didn’t like. I don’t remember if I had to do that back in the U.S.

    in reply to: nursing school #731667
    haifagirl
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    have no problem with men being male nurses

    What other kind of nurses could men be?

    in reply to: magazine ad about sheitels #724775
    haifagirl
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    I can’t say whether or not is was inappropriate. I did not see the ad, and all I have to go on is a small, partial quote. Can anybody give me a hint as to which publication carried the ad?

    in reply to: Top 5 websites? #726965
    haifagirl
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    1) my e-mail sites

    2) agm2m (a private discussion board)

    3) YWCRN

    4) Facebook

    5) Nonograms-online (Hi. My name is haifagirl and I’m a nonograms addict.)

    in reply to: Popularity of Bourbon #731433
    haifagirl
    Participant

    There are Three categories in men who drink booze.

    And what about women who drink?

    in reply to: Popularity of Bourbon #731430
    haifagirl
    Participant

    Depends on the year. Some years it’s available for under $1000.

    in reply to: Popularity of Bourbon #731428
    haifagirl
    Participant

    I don’t remember if I’ve ever had it. I think I did and I think it was good. But then again, I’ve never had a single-malt that wasn’t good. But some are better than others.

    in reply to: Popularity of Bourbon #731426
    haifagirl
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    Sorry I’m joining this so late. Bourbon? Yuck!

    Stick with a good single-malt scotch.

    For beginners I recommend Oban. It’s very light and easy to drink.

    The best scotch I ever had was Royal Salute, but at $175 a bottle for the 21-year-old, it’s not something I have very often.

    And this may sound crazy, but try Advoscotch mixed with Fresca. It’s surprisingly good.

    in reply to: Interviews: Funny answers to trick questions #972467
    haifagirl
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    This reminds me of an old friend of mine. People used to tell her she was conceited. She would always reply, “Conceit is a fault, and I have no faults.”

    in reply to: Nail Polish colors #1188553
    haifagirl
    Participant

    I don’t wear nail polish.

    in reply to: magazine ad about sheitels #724769
    haifagirl
    Participant

    Why does “edible” sound like “an un Jewish song”? i [sic] think your [sic] able to figure it out on your own [sic] its [sic inappropriate for me to say it.

    I don’t get it. Why does it sound like an “un-Jewish” song? And what is an “un-Jewish” song? Is that like a non-Jewish song? Is it an anti-Jewish song?

    Please explain for those among us (i.e., yours truly) who are just too dense.

    in reply to: How to write an easily readable post. #725670
    haifagirl
    Participant

    Itchy: If you wish to spend as much time writing what ought to be a quick paragraph for a forum as you would for a paragraph in your doctoral thesis, be my guest.

    If it takes that much extra time to get proper spelling, punctuation, and grammar in a short paragraph, you need to go back to school, because your English skills are hurting you in other areas of your life.

    As a commercial for an English course once said, “People judge you by how you speak.” The same can be said about how you write.

    in reply to: Gefilite Fish Minhagim #1106390
    haifagirl
    Participant

    It depends where I am. If someone serves chrein, I eat it with chrein (and any label that lists “beets” before horseradish doesn’t deserve to be called “chrein”).

    in reply to: Am I the only Supersol Oatmeal Raisin Cookie Addict? #721867
    haifagirl
    Participant

    SuperSol…in America…???

    The confusion may be that there is a chain in EY called Shufersal, but it’s also known as Supersol. (And if you don’t believe me, check their web site.)

    in reply to: Where's The Mentchlichkyt?! #738185
    haifagirl
    Participant

    The grocery store where I do most of my shopping has very narrow aisles. If I’m buying enough stuff that I need a cart, I will usually park it in an out-of-the-way spot (or as much out-of-the-way as possible), then pick a couple items off the shelf and bring them over to my cart, and go to the next shelf and repeat.

    Other people take their carts into the narrow aisles and just totally block them so nobody can get through.

    On the other hand, I have to say I really enjoy shopping there late on Friday morning. The store is really crowded, but everybody is lined up so nicely at the cash registers – men in one line, women in the other.

    in reply to: Kids Calling Adults By First Names #721422
    haifagirl
    Participant

    Haifagirl – In the social world of goyim and not so frum Jews, almost everybody gets called by their first name, even by children. It’s still not that rampant in the frum community. Their social world is different than their professional or business world. This is the changes we had in this country over the last 40-50 years!

    The point is, I never encountered the phenomenon of being called by my first name until the frum community. In the goyish world, it never happened.

    in reply to: why does everything need a label? #720513
    haifagirl
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    …which tend to turn into “libels”…

    Great job eclipse!

    in reply to: Why do the words come out backwards? #720293
    haifagirl
    Participant

    I’m in English mode and I have “EN” on my screen.

    When I switch to Hebrew I have “HE” on my screen.

    I have Windows XP Pro, if that means anything.

    in reply to: How do you…? #720273
    haifagirl
    Participant

    Derech HaMelech:

    1) I’m not sure what you mean by “make it look like it is in its own thing,” but I think you mean “blockquote.” You do this by putting <blockquote> before the quote and </blockquote> after the quote. Also, you can always set off the quote by putting it in italics. You do this by putting <em> before the quote and </em> after the quote.

    2) If the person starts with your name (as I did), then you know it is in reply to something you wrote. If there is no name, you just have to figure it out from the context.

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