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  • in reply to: How to Reduce the Cost of Getting Married #2163762
    goldersgreener
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    The easiest way to lower the price of marriage and dowries is to stop bringing US and Israeli concepts to the UK

    Let’s stop sushi, adult chiors and meat carving stattions at simchas, let’s stop the shver paying rent for a few years in one of the most expensive cities in the world.

    in reply to: My own theory about global warming and rising sea levels #2163761
    goldersgreener
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    Zushy,

    you have raised a few points, and they are definitely worth addressing

    RISING LEVEL OF DRY EARTH – you are definitely right that the surface of many areas has risen.
    nonetheless, you are talking about a relatively small amount – the roman remains of londonium is maybe a few meters under current levels. The Cardo in Yerushalyim is also only a couple of metres – maybe three or four under the present street
    What you are saying – that decaying life raised the levels – definitely sounds possible, but it does not significantly effect the rest of the equation, as you will see.

    WHY DID THE SEA NOT FLOOD ANCIENT CITIES – Your question as to why the sea did not flood ancient cities is very limited.
    Even according to the greatest doomsday predictions, not all of London will be flooded in forty years. Golders Green is way way above sea level – the highest point in London is at the end of Golders Green Road …….. the “worry” and hyberbole is about the East London – Docklands area, which are low lying, and that’s why they built the Thames Barrier.
    I don’t know about the Israeli coastal plain, or the US East coast, but the entire Jordan Valley in E”Y, – including Beit She’an, Arad, the entire Yam Hamelach area, is BELOW sea level. nonetheless it did not flood for a very simple reason – there is ground above sea level between the sea and this area, which the water cannot cross. Much of the English Midlands too are below sea level.

    RISING SEA LEVEL – scientists claim sea level is rising. Unlike the level of dry land, sea level – and world temperature – always fluctuate, so this is much more debatable. nonetheless they claim sea levels are rising and the amount vary between 2mm a year to a full centimetre. [If sea levels rise at more than a centimetre for forty years, they will eventually flood the East London area.]
    The normal reason given for sea levels rising is melting glaciers, which in turn is blamed on global warming, which is then blamed on carbon emissions etc …
    You are suggesting that the sea has always risen – definitely possible – but bear in mind that while we have remains of cities, burial sites, and even Roman roads a few metres underground, as of yet no one has proven prior sea levels.
    When I was in Grammar School, with my school tie, we were taught an additional theory for rising sea levels. Mother Earth absorbs water, when it rains only the layoff will reach the wider rivers and sea. When one paves over massive areas – think Milton Keynes or Kiryat Sefer and Beitar – many many square kilometres of rainwater end up in the river and sea. This is turn could CAUSE glaciers to melt, rather than be a result. [I don’t know if scientists still believe this, but I was taught this in PH grammar school by Mr. C. around the year 2000.]

    RISING TEMPERATURE – you have failed to address in your theory rising temperature. Has temperature always risen and the glaciers therefore always melted, – even before carbon emissions – just Earth level rose alongside, or did Earth level and sea level rise independent of temperatures,

    CHAZAL – Chazal, Novi, Gemoro make many references to Hashem preventing the waves overtaking the dry land etc … Additionally R’ Yehoshua says that rain comes form the sky – perhaps it goes back somehow? – The gemoro in Brachos says that when Hashem cries the tears fall in the ocean and form an earthquake ….
    I do not pretend to understand these sugyas on any level, but they definitely have bearing on your subject.

    in reply to: Lets go back to when we were kids… #1600689
    goldersgreener
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    when I was a child in GG if you came to school late, or you ran in the corridor etc.. the menahel confiscated your shoes. if you twice in a week you went home without them. No one had Shabbos SHOES in those days, so it was a rather painful and humiliating punishment.

    in reply to: Eruv Question (regarding 600K people) #1600398
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    לכבוד הגאון וכל חברייא קדישא

    Every subject is open for discussion, and good respectful discussion is very constructive, nonetheless all discuusions should take place within parameters of דרך ארץ and מענטשליכקייט. this is especially true when discussing the opinions f גדולי ומאורי הדור שליט”א.
    הזהרו בגחלתן.

    I have already written that the מחבר clearly says ששים רבוא עוברים בו בכל יום if one understands this כפשוטו then you are obviously right there is only one שאךה is there 600k daily or not. As the ט”ז and מג”א both agree that אין למחות ביד המקילין then obviously virtually every eiruv is kosher.

    Nonetheless, there is a suggestion – primarily by הגאון ר’ משה פיינשטיין about brooklyn and the מנחת יצחק about London, to say that the מחבר does not refer too a literal 600k every day, rather, basically, the מחבר means a street which is מיועד for 600 k. Exactly what each pisek held, and exactly how one is קןבע the מציאות can be debated, and it remains הררים התלוים בשערה.

    The עדה החרדית ערוב בירושלים עיה”ק excludes כביש המנהרות – 9 it also excludes כניסה לעיר and a couple of other roads.
    as far as I understand, this effectively means that הגאונים ר’ יצחק טוביה וויס ור’ משה שטרנבוך שיח’ are excepting the שיטה of the מנחת יצחק and therefore make a point to exclude these roads. [ As a matter of interest Rabbi Weiis , Rabbi meir bransdorfer זצ”ל, abd Rabbi Roberts all consider themselves תלמידים of הגאון ר’ חנוך העניך פאדווא who also expressed opposition – at least verbally -for the London eiruv. ] על כל פנים this is the basic of the eida hachareidis who are clearly differentiating between London and yerushalayim.
    The same applies in בני ברק the גאונים ר’ שמואל וואזנער זצ”ל and יבלח”ט ר’ ניסים קרליץ לרפו”ש have excluded כביש 4 from the eiruv, again R’ Chayim wosner has said that one may not carry in GG.

    There is another big heter for roads, and that is by making אינו מפולש. the דברי מלכיאל clearly writes that a road that bends is not a רה”ר , police barriers לכאורה are at least equal.

    BTW, in case you guys are convinced that I am a card carrying anti eiruv member, I left golders green twenty years ago. When I was there no one walked around wearing a tallis, yidden joined in the VE day celebrations, Rabbi Jakovitz was chief rabbi, and corporal punishment – including shoe confiscation – was still used in all schools.

    in reply to: riddles #1600404
    goldersgreener
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    yeshaya and tzephanoa were descendants of dovid,

    Menashe maternal grandfather was yeshaya

    in reply to: Lets go back to when we were kids… #1600400
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    OOH, Sorry,

    when I was a kid our worst punishment was being sent home unshod – and no one had Shabbos hoses in those abcient days – our worst food was having soap put in our mouths, …..

    in reply to: riddles #1600399
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    part of Haftora also shlach

    Karka -nosoi

    The Mishna berura says in isman 91 that one should daven in shoes. The exception is a coihen who will be dichening during shmoine esrei

    in reply to: Eruv Question (regarding 600K people) #1599648
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    lichvoid haGa’on shlit”a vechol chevrayo kadishat hodayn

    The question concerning the difference between GG and yerusholayim is very very valid, especially as the BaDatz Eida hachareidis and haGaon r; Chayim wosner shlit”a clearly spoke out against the GG eiruv despite the eiruvin in their pwn towns.

    1) R’ meir Rosner has made his feelings clear that one may not carry on most the main roads in yerushalayim, including recently the sheaf Chayim road. As such one is limited to the loacal eiruvin, I think many are makpid not to carry on Shmuel hanovi or Bar ilan etc.

    2) Even the eida hachareidis eiruv excludes kvish one, kvish nine [except for the tunnel to ramat shlomo] etc… the other rads have police barriers in place on Shabbos, as such at least on Shabbos they are very different and possibly this effects their denim even when the barriers are not in place. The same applies to b’nei b’rak, there are barriers by the coca cola bridge on kahaneman and in other places.

    3) as far as I heard R’ ehrentrau shlit”a said that even with a tzuras hapesach at Spaniards inn he agrees that it is not a rambam eiruv.

    4) R’ Yosef Babad – belzer dayan of Stamford hiil has said that it is unfair to compare townhouses with front and backyards to e”y where people live in 50 or 70 sq mr with a large number of children, many windowless machsanim, and many do not use electricity on Shabbos. as such he has said that the leniencies in place in e”y cannot be used in London.

    5) Rabbi Roberts says that r’ shimon eider told him that the a406 and a1 are undoubtedly reshuyois harabbim, and cannot be compared to Israeli roads. he has expressed himself extensively on the subject, and repeatedly said that there are questions of de’oiraysa involved.

    in reply to: Eruv Question (regarding 600K people) #1597883
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    Although the מחבר clearly says ששים רבוא עוברים בכל יום nonetheless many פוסקים including ר’ משה felt that his intent was undoubtedly עיר שיש בה שיים רבוא as it said in Rashi. If I understood right, R; Shimon eider, and ylach”t R’ meir rosner שליט”א feel that I the road was intended to serve 600,000, even if not necessarily at the same time or even day it constitutes a רשות הרבים דאורייתא. I think that they have always expressed concerning London that even if one makes various strings and צורות הפתח one is nevertheless transgressing an איסור דאורייתא and is חייב כרת. Rabbi rosner also withdrew his local eiruv from the shefa Chayim when it opened to public traffic.

    I assume the mekilim – including מרן הגאון ר’ חנוך ארנטרוי, אב”ד לונדון feel that the mechaber should be understood literally, and with a good eiruv one may carry. [Rabbi ehren trau is מחמיר for himself, but he has expressed numerous times the כשרות of the eiruv.]

    I am unaware – due to pure עם הארצות – of the various קולות concerning more than ten אמות, however they were originally quite מקיל, later they fised it up. I thought it had something to do with ראשנים who hold that a צורת הפתח works on more than ten amos, unlike the רמב”ם and מחבר.

    According to common belief Rabbi Ehrentrau is a tremendous boki in eiruvin, and is familiar with all the דברי החזון איש, alongside his vast בקיאות in many other סוגיות. nonetheless the majority of local רבנים have expressed the opinion that the ערוב is a ספק דאורייתא, so they obviously feel that even with whatever has been established it still remains a רשות הרבים דאורייתא

    in reply to: Zebra Tallis #1597719
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    I have a reason that the טלית represents אש שחורה על גבי אש לבנה

    The belzer chassidim definitely wear a blueish stripe, however most of the world wears black – including many groups who were not at all careful to distance themselves from the ציונים

    in reply to: Do you take your shoes off when at home? #1456542
    goldersgreener
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    was a MAJOR punishment when i was in school to have your shoes taken away. and you would have to walk around in your socks …. even outdoors ….

    Don’t think anyone enjoyed it.

    in reply to: shoe confiscation in schools – is it fair #1395859
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    A pashute yid

    The default punishment was that the shoes were taken at the beginning of the school day and returned at the end.

    The school day included numerous recesses which boys were expected to leave the building, at the end of every recess a bell rang and there was a line up outside the main door with register and various anouncements, a couple of times a week the day included a sorts session ….

    in reply to: Reinstitute corporal punishment as a legal penalty #1382736
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    BTW 200 years ago i england one was not hanged for stealing a loaf of bread. One would have one’s hand cut off, or at some stage one would have been exiled to a remote island.

    The primary white [population on australia are offsprings from the exiled convicts.

    in reply to: The Casualties of Yiddish in Litvishe Chadorim #1382734
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    the problem is not limited to a foreung language.

    My kids came home with “the spirit of hashem was hoovering over the water,” convinced that hashem was hoovering somewhere, or more recently “staff in their hands, their loins girded” with zero understanding of the words. Chumahs has to be taught using WORDS children understand

    in reply to: Reinstitute corporal punishment as a legal penalty #1382731
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    By us in golders Green the PH school had a much better and simpler idea. they would confiscate shoes for a school day.

    it wasnt unpleasant to administer, caused no long term harm, was a brilliant deterrent, and a child without whoes is unlikely to pick a fight or leave school gorunds without permision.

    in reply to: Manchester Eiruv #1000217
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    RR44 thanks for the maro mokoim – i was joking.

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    J. it’s been a pleasure talking to you too.

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    If you can somehow link R’ elyahsiv’s last letter i would appreciate it.

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    By the way are you a regular user who just invented a new name, or did you join especially to discuss the eruv?

    in reply to: Manchester Eiruv #1000206
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    J. i’ll be straight, i’m not able to compete with you – i will take a look at your link, but it’s probably beyond me.

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    The way i understood R’ moshe, and Dayan weiss, [Rabbi roberts and Rabbi lieberman,] is that who it depends on who the intended usage of a street is made ofr.

    Thus GG road is not a rr de’oyrasa, but the A406 is. This will also explain the position in benei beraq.

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    I started this thread for p’sak, and am personally more interested in the shoes and rabbi k.

    in reply to: Manchester Eiruv #1000192
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    Mods, could we move all the slifkin posts to another thread?

    in reply to: Manchester Eiruv #1000191
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    By the way many years before the london eruv story, R’ yosef nosson lieberman, undoubtedly a massive ish emess and yerei shamyim, told his wife to be choisheish the hachaos of ??’ ?”? as he felt GG to have a reshus harabbim de’oyraysa.

    You cannot blame that on politics.

    in reply to: Manchester Eiruv #1000190
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    J. please give refernces to when Maran R’ elyashiv zatzal agreed with the aikel of the pirtza of ten amois. [If it is true, then ????? i am more than happy to hear.]

    in reply to: Manchester Eiruv #1000189
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    To whoever compared London with yerushalayim, there are numerous differences.

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    A) london has more than the ???? ????, ????? ???? ??? required by Maran the igros moshe, yerushalayim does not.

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    B) Many, many people only carry in the local neighbourhood eiruvin, but not over the main roads. This includes numerous yungerleit who shave, do not use genrators on shabbos, etc..

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    C) many roads have gates, even Shmu’el hanovi and bar ilan havepolice barriers over part of shabboss.

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    D) I have heard that R’ moishe shternbuch said that there is a major difference being making a new eiruv and upkeeping an old one.

    in reply to: Manchester Eiruv #1000188
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    J. i think it is a little out of place for an anonymous poster to say what dayan westheim should spend his time doing. Anyway let’s face it, the english rabbonim, especially those involved in family issues, are not left with much spare time. ??? ?????? ??????

    in reply to: Manchester Eiruv #1000187
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    “Just to bring out the point, i was in PH when the headmaster was Rabbi k., the school uniform, including socks, was grey, and before anyone thought of shabbos shoes, so if Rabbi K, took yur shoes, you were in seriusly painful and embaassing trouble. And he did it often.”

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    RR it was be4 crocs were around too. And the school insited that the children spend recess time outdoors. I still rmemeber my wife’s reaction the first time a child came home in socks. [he didn’t generally do it out of school hours.]

    in reply to: what should I learn? #998526
    goldersgreener
    Participant

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    in reply to: Help me plan my Israel intinerary #1000089
    goldersgreener
    Participant

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    in reply to: Life is like a #1003639
    goldersgreener
    Participant

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    in reply to: Leeds koillel #998440
    goldersgreener
    Participant

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    in reply to: Why is there no option of U.K. section? #998990
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    ???? ? ???? ??????

    in reply to: Why did kimchis have seven sons who were kohen gadol #1001632
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    ??’ ??’ ???? ???? ???? ??????.

    in reply to: ?????? ??? ????"? ???? ?? ????? #998437
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    There was a headline on matzav about the new release on Jan 6. You might be able to get ore info there.

    [just go on and click on torah world, and it will come up]

    in reply to: Help me plan my Israel intinerary #1000088
    goldersgreener
    Participant

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    in reply to: Manchester Eiruv #1000128
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    “We need more rabbis like Rabbi willig.”

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    When a certain person was matir the original london eiruv, despite it having a pirtza of more than ten amois, unless one uses the chazoin ish shi’ur lekula, then many others, including R’ padwa and R’ E’ halpern refeerred to those who carry as mechalelei sabbos. The person in question went to Maran R’ Michel Ywhuda Lefkowitz, and without telling details of the story told him that people are calling him a mechalllel shabbos. Marna hagrmi”l wrote a letter saying that one may nott refer to him as a mechallel shabbos – although he was being matir carrying without a kosher eruv!!!!!!!!

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    We need more Rabbanim who are prepared to stand up for the tora.

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    If an eruv is good, then aderaba, but one must first ascertain whether it is good.

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    /{the london Eruv has since been improved.

    in reply to: what should I learn? #998521
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    if you can find a good rebbi and what to fill a lot of background to yiddishkeit, derech hahsem is the way to go. Am doing it now with a rebbi, and it’s literally amazing.

    in reply to: Why did kimchis have seven sons who were kohen gadol #1001620
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    ???? ???’ ???? ??? ?? ??? ??? ????, ?????? ????? ???? ???? ?? ???? ?????? ????? ??, ???? ????? ??’ ???? ??”?, ???? ????? ???? ???? ?????? ???????, ??? ?’ ???? ???? ?? ?? ?? ???? ????? ???? ????? ??????, ?????? ??? ????? ??? ???, ??? ????? ????? ???? ???? ???? ?’ ???? ???? ??????? ????, ?????? ???? ???? ??? ???? ???? ???? ???? ????? ???? ???? ????.

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    in reply to: Manchester Eiruv #1000125
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    YT, the matirim, one is a Rov of a shul and one was a rosh koillel for a long time. I don’t know who they recieved semicha from, but they can both be reffered to as rabbi.

    in reply to: ?????? ??? ????"? ???? ?? ????? #998433
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    Why don’t you try and reach some of his talmidim? There’s no shortage in lakewood.

    You can always R’ Swerdoff of pattersn, or R’ aw Brog from peakskill, i thik that they both keep up a kesher with him.

    Hatzlocha

    in reply to: Should I let my son start dating? #997977
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    Just being able to speak to a young lady for twenty minutes is no proof of readiness for marriage.

    Is he mature? Responsible? Does he understand finances? Can he sympathize wtih others? Is he prepared to give and give and give to his wife and children?

    I think too many people today try and learn on the job

    in reply to: Hey, that's not fair! #998152
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    Not sure why it isn’t fair, but what happens if he reads your posts?

    in reply to: What defines a messed up school? #998307
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    Zushy, sorry didn’t fully understand you. On 8 May they didn’t wear shoes. Did they also sit on the floor and say ?????

    in reply to: What defines a messed up school? #998305
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    Haven’t checked in here for a long time but Hey, thye told me that my kid’s school was up for debate.

    Zushy, i’m behind you. One punishment doesn’t define a school as messed up. Hefkeirus does.

    Anyway, the elemantary school seems to have produced a number of yeshiva world posters over time – so it must have been alright.

    in reply to: ?? ??? ?????? ????? ?? ????? #968145
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    Your basic point is really really good, i really agree, although b”h i’ve never been there so we can’t judge.

    still, we cannot presume we know why hashem created this type of unconditional love.

    BTw there are numerous other proofs that parents love should be unconditional, so i don’t think the point is even up for debate

    in reply to: Meanings of the names Zelig and Zalman #996972
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    Zelig means to laugh, and therefore often goes with either yitzchok[laughing] or Osher [fortunate]

    in reply to: Who is the prime minister anyway #955837
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    he is interested in callg new elections again soon, and wants it to look as if everything that went wrong with the government and economy is lapid’s fault.

    Surest sign of israeli elections is when thew right wing parties want to restart the “peace procass”.

    in reply to: Using chessed vouchers for shabbos shoes�no. 2 #955971
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    My parents didn’t bring us up on chinuch salaries, but it simply wasn’t something regularly done in london at the time to buy an extra pair of shpes fpr shabbos.

    in reply to: Using chessed vouchers for shabbos shoes�no. 2 #955968
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    Light Lady, no bearing on the main topic, but i grew up without separate shoes for shabbos, and so did my kids. they are definitely not yet stnadard over here.

    in reply to: Living in Ramot Eshkol for the summer #955924
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    Why don’t you speak to the ??? ?????

    in reply to: Waking Up Your Kids #993773
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    Zushy, thanks for the support

    in reply to: Using chessed vouchers for shabbos shoes�no. 2 #955939
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    PBO, in theory i agree with you, after all ?? ?????? ??? ???? ?? but i think practically there is a limited amount of ???? money going round, so perhaps it should be reserved for necesitties.

    I was once asked to help out towards paying tickets for a yungerman in e”y to return to england for pesach, and i asked someone, and i was told to give him.

    in reply to: What if you weren't Jewish? #974513
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    Zushy, i agree.

    Just wondering, would you wear shabbos shoes?

    in reply to: How many of us are there out there?? #955860
    goldersgreener
    Participant

    Pleased to meet you

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