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iacisrmma there is also a story about a talmid chochom that sang many zemiros at the table but his children never got a geshmak for Torah, instead, they dropped out of yeshiva and became singers at concerts. He said this was because he never showed the children the beauty of divrei Torah.
Firstly and formost, he is being motzee you with the 100 brochos. Second and just as important, don’t you give him a yasher koach or Chazak uBaruch for “doing” the aliyah? – fufilling for you your chiyuv of the kriyah (which Reb Moshe paskens is on the YOCHID, in contrast to posters here that take positions contrary to the posek haDor)..
May 13, 2019 6:18 pm at 6:18 pm in reply to: Did Rebbitzin Golden Pick Sponsor an Article Just to Troll? #1726502syag – Oh yes, I am also an uber-Chabadnik, just like every other sheitel/hat I proudly wear, I will stand up for the kovod of their Rebbe and their chassidus, except when a Chabadsker speaks against ANY of my gedolim (Rav Shach, Rav Hutner, Rav Aharon Kotler and Reb Moshe Feinstein) – he’d better watch out for the firestorm, as I did go full blast (thanks mods for letting it through) when one of them dared post in a derogatory manner about Rav Shach ztzl.
The Gra did not recite ברוך הוא וברוך שמו because it may prevent answering amen (Maaseh Rav, 43) or because he considered it to be a hefsek (Tosefes Maaseh Rav).
The Shu”T Rosh (4, s. 19) states that his father said ברוך הוא וברוך שמ at each brocha he heard:
http://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=1961&st=&pgnum=30The Torah Temima (Devorim ch 32, s”k 36) cites the Chareidim that relies on a medrash that requires saying ברוך הוא וברוך שמו at each brocha, leaving him wondering what Ashkenazim rely on to omit saying it, then cites the GRA. (see 4 lines from bottom of page):
http://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=14082&st=&pgnum=482May 13, 2019 4:59 pm at 4:59 pm in reply to: Does Rav Chaim Kanievsky shlita prohibit men from shaving their beards? #1726465Pronouncements are made in Shulchan Oruch, as specifically choosing a chazzon WITH A BEARD (also see the tefilah of Hineni said by Chazon before mussaf on Yomim Noroim)
You might find such pronouncements in Shulchan Oruch (or the machzor) “silly and unproductive and serve only to paint another pious Jew as being “goyish” or not Jewish enough by those who believe themselves to be more pious than others”.
The Shulchan Oruch and Machzor was written well before “we live in a time of great chutz’pah”. I hope your chagrin with “The chutz’pah of one who would make such a pronouncement is unbelievable” is not directed at the Sh.A. or the holy Machzor. That would be real chutzpoah!
1man: Ashkenazim also don’t say BHUB in magen avos on Shabbos… because it is a hefsek and one must not speak out till after kaddish tiskabel/kaddish sholem as stated in Sh.A.
Likewise one cannot answer it during psukei d’zimra because it is not a “complete” obligation – per Igros Moshe O.Ch 2, s. 98; Yabia Omer vol 2, s. .
May 13, 2019 3:54 pm at 3:54 pm in reply to: Did Rebbitzin Golden Pick Sponsor an Article Just to Troll? #1726450Also coming soon to a book store near you:
“What is the Mesorah of the Litvishe Torah Community Regarding Hoicha Kedusha at Yeshiva’s Mincha?
May 13, 2019 3:53 pm at 3:53 pm in reply to: Did Rebbitzin Golden Pick Sponsor an Article Just to Troll? #1726441Did you consider the conspiracy possibility – that no need to actually pay money when YWN is in cahoots? Maybe that’s why the mods let through postings that challenge your core beliefs? The Russians are sponsoring. Chabad bought YWN…the world is coming to an end. We need Moshiach…NOW!
May 13, 2019 3:53 pm at 3:53 pm in reply to: Did Rebbitzin Golden Pick Sponsor an Article Just to Troll? #1726440Are you motivated by t envy or jealousy? Please don’t lose sleep or become distraught, anxious, despondent or have a break down. It isn’t worth it.
May 13, 2019 3:52 pm at 3:52 pm in reply to: Does Rav Chaim Kanievsky shlita prohibit men from shaving their beards? #1726422laskern, do you follow ALL the psokim of the CHasam Sofer? If you do, then I respect you. If you shop around to collect kulos, then you are the definition of a “kal she’ b’kalim” as Reb Ahron Kotler ztzl defined it: One that collects kulas from each posek that offers a kulah. Yidden should have a shitah and follow it. Not hop around (like sukkah hopping) from posek to another.
There was a literal pikuach nefesh (risk of losing souls) due to assimilation in rural America. If a Jew would not attend shul which was far from his farm, his entire family would become lost from Klal Yisroel. The “former Orthodox buy now COnservative ” rabbinate decided that better to desecrate the shabbos and remain Jewish, than lose all Jewishness – therefore they lowered the “standards” to allow driving to shul on shabbos r”l. They did it for “a good cause”, to save souls, but created a movement which is not Torah Observant. This rabbinate, many of them had smicha from frum yeshivos, used various “heterim”, but we know that it was against normative halacha (even though one can actually be mechalel shabbos to save a person from shmad – that does not apply to Jewery in America driving to shul on shabbos). Standards were lowered, and Conservative Judaism was born.
May 13, 2019 2:45 pm at 2:45 pm in reply to: Does Rav Chaim Kanievsky shlita prohibit men from shaving their beards? #17263941. Suddenly we pasken according to a second pshat in a Rashi? Is that your sefer halacha?
2. The beard of Aharon haKohen is referred to in Tehillim and other places. If there was any “trimming” it certainly wasn’t k’ein ta’ar (clean shaven like a razor shave).
3. The seforim address this, I am not your Cheder Morah.
May 13, 2019 2:38 pm at 2:38 pm in reply to: Does Rav Chaim Kanievsky shlita prohibit men from shaving their beards? #1726375Neville ChaimBerlin – ” if you did what it seems like you did, then bravo. Probably the most elaborate YWN trolling in all of history.” Thank you for your complimentary words of encouragement. If you are envious, may it result in kinas sofrim tarbeh chochma.
The pritza (breach) of Torah values caused by shaving which was introduced to mainstream Jews less than 200 years ago, is a conduct which is enforced in many Litvish yeshivos on their bochurim (till they reach a “madreiga” of a “ben Torah” worthy of a beard), notwithstanding that the “hetter” for shaving is not universally accepted, adaraba, it is nearly universally prohibbited.
The matzav on shaving is a greater breach than the commonly accepted heicha kedusha (which the Bais Yosef writes is prohibitted) or eating before Teki’os on Rosh Hashana (which is a greater transgression than eating before Tefilah – a d’rabbonon).
While we uphold p’sokim of Rav Chaim shlita, it is only when we are comfortable with them. The second a psak rubs us the wrong way and doesn’t fit nicely into our accepted conduct, we choose to ignore such poskim and search out others that conform the halacha to our lifestyle.
Discussion is the point of the coffee room. I have thick skin, so I can deal with the name calling and banter. I don’t need to be mochel because it was never pogeah b’k’vodi.
There are Yidden that find heterim for everything, we label them MO because we consider ourselves on a higher madreiga, as Torah?Halacha true yidden. But in some areas, we mirror them. One such area is shaving..
May 13, 2019 2:33 pm at 2:33 pm in reply to: Are women required to make brocha when saying on Hallel on YH? #1726359adocs – “It’s a mitzvas asei she’hazman grama. They are therefore patur.”, just like Chanukah or Purim which are “mitzva she’hazman gerama” and yet they are NOT pottur, but chayuv, because “af hein hoyu b’oso ha’ness”.
I think we would much quicker accept a BT shidduch that is of a white race, than a FFB shidduch from a black race. We worry what people would say. Appearances. Superficial. And the little racist inside all of us.
The more time spent on Zemiros, the less time there is for divrei Torah and shmuzzing about the coffee room..
It is a balancing act.
For everything there is a time, as Shlomo Hamelech said.
A time to eat and a time to sing. A time for divrei Torah and a time for shmoozing. A time between gefilte fish and soup, and a time between soup and the main. A time before dessert and a time after dessert. A time for family and a time for spouse. A time for guests and a time to say goodbye.
CTL, would you have considered adopting a black girl? If not, why? And if so why didn’t you?
A brief google search will show articles by orientals denouncing Obama’s removal of oriental from federal acts because oriental prefer to be called so, rather then being called asians. It is the white man’s (or those with white mans mentality) hang up not to use the name oriental.
The Oriental identify them as “from the East”. Occidental (called Caucasian) means those “from the West”. The Oriental traditionally come from bnei Ketura, Avroham Avinu’s children that he sent them kedma – East. They have many traditions from Avroham including genetic midos.
May 12, 2019 9:37 pm at 9:37 pm in reply to: Are women required to make brocha when saying on Hallel on YH? #1725946We are always adding chumras – making seyogim, doing extra beyond the minimum. Example taking in shabbos earlier than zman. Keeping rabbeinu tam on motzei shabbos. A better hechsher. Added zehirus. Kollel forever. That’s what we do!
Edited – enough already
So suddenly it became ok to say “rebbe helf mir”?
Anava is just one of my many maalos. I worked many years to achieve true humility.
Over the years countless gedolim, Rosh Yeshiva, Admorim, Rabbonim, poskim have come to farbrengen of the Lubavitcher Rebbe, yechidus, dollar line, kos shel bracha. They attended lubavitcher functions and learned the seforim of the Lubavitcher Rebbe.
Is it possible that they were being c”v “mechazek yedei reshoim” – after all, some posted that Sichos have “kefira” in them? Some posted Lubavitcher don’t keep basic halacha (like sleeping in sukka), yet how do these gedolim, including Reb Moshe Feinstein ztzl seek counsel by visiting for yechidus?
Are we all smarter them all the Admorim? Do we stand more for halacha than the poskim like Rav Menasha Klein ztzl?
The posters here bash, while gedolim, Rosh Yeshiva, Admorim and poskim express honor and utmost respect. Their actions speak louder then any posting.
May 12, 2019 9:33 pm at 9:33 pm in reply to: Does Rav Chaim Kanievsky shlita prohibit men from shaving their beards? #1725910If he is the posek ha’dor, are we bound to listen to him even when it is inconvenient (or only when we agree with the psak)?
May 12, 2019 5:58 pm at 5:58 pm in reply to: Is there a hetter for staying up both nights of Shavuos? #1725821http://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=46443&st=&pgnum=119&hilite=
Netei Gavriel Shavuos ch. 17. s. 5 and FN 5 & 6“There is an opinion to remain awake BOTH nights of Shavuos and say Tikun during both nights (see FN5 for sources), but now the custom is not followed because the majority of people are unable to keep it (see FN6 for details of those that followed it).”
So we are simply wimping out to be meikil by not staying up both nights – really we should, and if we can, we must!
We look for all kinds of chumrahs, but here we have one right in our face. Dare we ignore it?!
May 12, 2019 5:58 pm at 5:58 pm in reply to: Do women need to stay up all night of Shavuos? #1725820For all the mocking naysayers, know that the Kaf HaChaim s. 494 s”k 8 writes that women DO say Tikun Leil Shavuos!!!
I would suggest that someone who worships the avoda zara of sports is possul l’eidus, cannot be part of a minyan and his non-mevushal wine is ossur. If he is drowning, there is no mitzva to save him.
CTL, Since my ancestors came from Russia, so I guess I must be…Asian??!! I get acupuncture treatment the mainstream of Oriental Medicine (not Asian Medicine) and Oriental medicinal herbs. Did you ever hear of the Oriental Express, Obama didn’t change the name of the train to Asian Express. Agatha Christie must be told that the title of her book should henceforth be, Murder on the Asian Express.
May 12, 2019 5:58 pm at 5:58 pm in reply to: Is there a hetter for staying up both nights of Shavuos? #1725765Is there a chiyuv or at least a good inyan to stay up both nights?
May 12, 2019 12:11 pm at 12:11 pm in reply to: Do women need to stay up all night of Shavuos? #1725462נדרים לה, ב
אבל מלמד הוא את בניו ואת בנותיו מקראאשה שלמדה תורה יש לה שכר
מצות עשה להקהיל כל ישראל אנשים ונשים וטף בכל מוצאי שמיטה בעלותם לרגל ולקרות באזניהם מן התורה פרשיות שהן מזרזות אותן במצות ומחזקות ידיהם בדת האמת
הנשים חייבות ללמוד הלכות הצריכות להן לידע אותן כמו דיני נדה וטבילה ומליחה ואיסור יחוד וכיוצא בהם, וכל מצות עשה שאין הזמן גרמא וכל מצות לא תעשה של תורה ושל דברי סופרים שהן מוזהרות בהן כאנשים
רמ”א יו”ד סי’ רמו ס”ונראה דכל זה דוקא בזמנים שלפנינו, שכל אחד הי’ דר במקום אבותיו, וקבלת האבות הי’ חזק מאוד אצל כל אחד ואחד להתנהג בדרך שדרכו אבותיו, וכמאמר הכתוב (דברים לב, ז) ‘שאל אביך ויגדך’, בזה היינו יכולים לומר שלא תלמוד תורה ותסמוך בהנהגה של אבותי’ הישרים, אבל כעת בעו”ה קבלת האבות נתרופף מאוד מאוד, וגם מצוי שאינו דר במקום אבותיו כלל. ובפרט אותן שמרגילין עצמן ללמוד כתב ולשון העמים, בודאי מצוה רבה ללמדם חומש וגם נביאים וכתובים ומוסרי חז”ל, כגון מסכת אבות וספר מנורת המאור וכדומה, כדי שיתאמת אצלם עניו אמונתינו הקדושה, דאי לאו הכי עלול שיסורו לגמרי מדרך ה’ ויעברו על כל יסודי הדת ה’
ספר ליקוטי הלכות להחפץ חיים עמ”ס סוטה כא, בA goy that violates one of the sheva mitzvos bnei noach is chayav misa. If eating human flesh is ossur for a goy, a goy that chews a piece of dead skin from the corner of his nail or from his chapped lips is chayaov missa. Wow! That is lomdos shelo nitna l’moshe m’sinai.
Opinions about Ulah 30 mitzvos that goyim accepted upon themselves, vary.
Kol Hidushei Maharitz Chayess I, end Ch. 10 says it has NOTHING to do with Sheva Mitzvos Bnei Noach.
Others say it is sub-catagories.
The 30 of Ulah are a bit of mystery since gemarah only lists 3 that they actually keep, the other 27 is a mystery.The REMA Mi’Panu in Sefer Asara Ma’amoros מאמר חקור דין ־ חלק ג פרק כא lists them in several categories.
To claim: “That would include Human corpses.” requires a source! Can’t just make it up!
R’ Saadya Gaon added to the list, as did Ran and Ramo.
Everything I write has yesodos in Torah.
Not ALL white men. Middle aged, rich, white men.
Wolf: In addition to Joseph’s astute reply, your point is “Mommy, everyone else is doing it, so it must be ok”. If you would be at time of Egel Haahav, you would say the same, look, if so many are doing it – even Aharon Hacohen, it must be ok. The erev rav or misyavnim have infiltrated bnei Yisroel, and yeshivas are victims like anyone else. Some yeshivos have leagues and other forms of sports avoda zara – that doesn’t make it ok.
laskern, if only you would be zoche to have a wife that is mechaded (sharpens) you like a knife’s blade slicing against the blade of another knife, till both are sharpened. My husband attributes his gadlus to me, because I challenge every chiddush of his. Before he gives a chabura, he runs by me the content for approval, which he rarely gets. The ezer IS kenegdo. Being a yes-person (“yes, dear”) does not accomplish anything in gadlus (growth).
May 10, 2019 4:18 pm at 4:18 pm in reply to: Is there a hetter for staying up both nights of Shavuos? #1725365Apparently those yidden that are careful in mitzvos actually stay up BOTH nights if Shavuos! Yasher koach for letting me know! There is a hetter of some sort to be maykil for staying up only on first night but Anshei Maaseh do both nights.
Firstly, as stated, the “30 mitzvos” are what the goyim “took upon themselves” and are not from HKBH. They only have 7 mitzvos, and those are compulsory.
Second, as stated, even these 30 customs that they accepted, they dropped 27 of them, and only keep 3.
Third, the שאין שוקלין בשר המת במקולי does not mean that they don’t eat human meat, addaraba, as rashi says, they only don’t do so very PUBLICLY, or alternatively Rashi says that they don’t eat aminal that died naturally.
Please read Rashi (or if you need an Arscroll) to understand a line of Gemara.
The joke is that YOU claim goyim have 30 mitzvos and not seven, and you try to squeeze that belief into this line of gemarah which you misunderstand and ubiquitin botched it completely. THAT is hilarious!
I am a Chassidish, Litvish, Veltish, Yeshivish, Frumish, Yekkish, Heimish, Vibeish, Yentish Yiddena. Does that frighten you? I stand for halacha and love ALL yidden, even those that I disagree with. I argue fiercely and know vast amounts of shas and poskim (I was a mesayem at siyum hashas). I also believe in “kadesh atzmecha bmuttar lach” – to increase in chumras and syogim. I am a Femminist that appreciates “she’asani kirtzono”. I am a Talmudist, Kabbalist, Scientist and mother nad wife of a tremendous Talmid Chochomist. I follow the “klal Godol batorah” of Ahavas yisroel and denounce anti-semites, even “frum” sonei yisroel. And I do not fit into a cookie cutter mould because I am uniquely me: An ezer k’negdo.
If I am counting correctly this will be about the 5th time I am deleting this content. In case you are confused by what that means, it means you need to stop posting it.
I am a Chassidish, Litvish, Veltish, Yeshivish, Frumish, Yekkish, Heimish, Vibeish, Yentish Yiddena. Does that frighten you? I stand for halacha and love ALL yidden, even those that I disagree with. I argue fiercely and know vast amounts of shas and poskim (I was a mesayem at siyum hashas). I also believe in “kadesh atzmecha bmuttar lach” – to increase in chumras and syogim. I am a Femminist that appreciates “she’asani kirtzono”. I am a Talmudist, Kabbalist, Scientist and mother nad wife of a tremendous Talmid Chochomist. I follow the “klal Godol batorah” of Ahavas yisroel and denounce anti-semites, even “frum” sonei yisroel. And I do not fit into a cookie cutter mould because I am uniquely me: An ezer k’negdo. And I bake a great babka.
Sports are a form if avodah zara where one worships the human body and physical form. It is the opposite of ruchniyus and kedusha where we value the soul and spiritual pursuits.
I see this much more in Litvish / Yeshivish mosdos using p oi skim gedolim and Rosh Yeshiva then Chassidic mosdos (that usually don’t need to resort to such methods to fund raise).
May 10, 2019 11:54 am at 11:54 am in reply to: Are women required to make brocha when saying on Hallel on YH? #1725349Neville, The am a Chassidish Litvish Veltish Yeshivish Frumish Yekkish Heimish Vibeish Yentish Yiddena. That frightens you? I stand for halacha and love ALL yidden, even those that I disagree with. I argue fiercely and know vast amounts if shas and poskim (was a mesayem at siyum hashas). I also believe on kadesh atzmecha bmuttar lach – to increase in chumras and syogim. I follow the “klal Godol batorah” of Ahavas yisroel and denounce anti-semites, even “frum” sonei yisroel. And I do not fit into a cookie cutter mold because I an uniquely me.
When they look for a segula for the mice, are they asking Hashem for help or are they asking the tzaddik?
If Hashem, does Hashem help the issue of mice more at this Tzaddik, then at other tzaddikim?
How exactly does it work?
May 9, 2019 11:40 pm at 11:40 pm in reply to: Do women need to stay up all night of Shavuos? #1725220laskern, women have a qoo% chiyuv to know ALL the halochos related to their mitzvos. That includes a large part of shas, starting from Meseches Brochos, Eiruvin, Shabbos, Pesochim etc. plus all the related Tur and Shulchan Oruch, and shaylos u’teshuvos etc. not to mention the entire Tanach and all the meforshim. Me thinks there is plently of actual Torah that a woman IS mechuyav to learn, besides the mere encouragement of her husband and son to learn.
Ha, these aren’t chiyuvim “obligations” that they were commanded, nor is it listed in Rambam or those that count the Sheva (that means “seven”) Mitzvos Bnei Noach. DO you count Jewish minhagim as mitzvos – then there are THOUSANDS of mitzvos, not 613 d’oraysa and 7 d’rabonon. Good joke!
May 9, 2019 11:40 pm at 11:40 pm in reply to: Are women required to make brocha when saying on Hallel on YH? #1725223Rav Tzvi Pesach Franik has radical halochos that are not universally accepted. For example he holds that if you are wearing tzitis without kavana (which during the day do you have 24 hr kavana) then the tzitzis aren’t doing the mitzvah, as if they aren’t there, and you are wearing a four-cornered garment without tzitzis. That is pretty radical in halacha.
May 9, 2019 11:40 pm at 11:40 pm in reply to: Do women need to stay up all night of Shavuos? #1725225The Magen Avrohom states “yashlim shanoso”, it is quoted here in Netei Gavriel.
http://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=46443&st=&pgnum=104&hilite=You say yashlim shnoso means “his alloted years” – it then should say shanosov (pural).’ Interesting! Does he get this reward fore staying up ONCE in his life – then he is covered?!
I say it means he will complete THIS YEAR – shnoso, singular. He gets this reward each year he stays up.
May 9, 2019 11:39 pm at 11:39 pm in reply to: Are women required to make brocha when saying on Hallel on YH? #1725227Someone who says each day whole tehillim, but he doesn’t want to say hallel on YH, what should he do, skip th chapters of hallel?! That is radical!
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