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y not part type sem or pick up a chessed
depending also what type of boy she is looking for…
i defently think it is a problem she obvious is not from such a sheltered home! and it might be looked down upon in terms of shidduchim
so your kids can bring it to school! lol
i had somebody pass me the other day when i was outside with my neighbor and the greeted each other when i asked my neighbor who that was she told me oh she moved down the block a few months ago i honestly never saw her before never knew there was an apt avail or that somebody moved out
then a couple wks ago after lecht benching a bunch of ladies were sitting out and sb introducted a “new” lady and everybody was so frendly to her so nice to meet u… were do u live and when did u move in ..she said 2 yrs ago i thought the lady who asked would fall thru the pavement
so she appoligized and sorry i never saw u before i guess we are all busy with our lives…its so true we are all runing here and there i dont think pp mean to be mean we just done have time so “smell the roses”
putting havdolah wine in the pockets – all chassidim do it also on ur eye lids
also some take the wine a sprinkle it by the door 3x
emmunas itecha- u have no idea ! when it says a shidduch is like splitting the sea it is so true! i think everybody has a crazy story how there shidduch came about!
its geting depressing!
yup i know its yekkish! how about the talis even if ur not married and bith chosen and kallah wearing a tallis together under the chuppa and facing with back to everybody under chupa am i doing it right so far yehuda tzvi?
NY
how about eating an apple fri night after seuda or compot that has an apple in it
eating eggs and onion and liver sabbos day
eating kreplach cheese ones on shavos and meat ones purium, eruv yom kippur, smini aseres and i think simchas torah also
eating stuff cabbage purium and simchas torah..
y dont all the singels who are intreasted in being set up contact the mods and let them know they are intreasted with there shidduch resume and somebody should work on it and that somebody does not have to know there name on cr just there info so it protects there privacy
i have heard that it is worst to walk around only with socks than totally bare foot
am yisrael so y not see how u could go about it
all the garb for men and women and there are alot depending on which chassim u r
having minyanim for shachris till 2 in afternoon and mariv all night
unfortunately i believe him because i make shidduchim and these boys are too much they are the best boys great learners but when it comes to apperance omg and we have to tell the girl what to wear and what not to and how i just told a mother of a boy now if i tell the girls side what u want they will drop the whole thing right away it is not appropate if its coming from the boy and if its coming from u then ur a big shviger already…and im not going to say a word this is obviously who she is
a girl also invests alot of time getting ready and she obviously thought she looked good
dont get y not if u had a problem with someone posting then u shouldnt be posting either
i have heard that some chassidish women who moved from bp to monsey and were not allowed to drive in bp were allowed to im monsey. I live in a community were most women dont drive and they have no problem with it they say it makes their lives eaiser if they cant drive they cant do most of the erends so they hubby has to do and the food shopping. and my the way in checking u out before u get into a school in the “chassidish world” thats one of the top 10 questions they ask does the mother drive
if you follow that the women belongs in the house and she is the piller of the house like in the times of the torah ..then it all makes sense
how about washing before kiddish both fri night and shabbos day
waiting after eatomg fleishig to milchig either 1hr or 3 hrs
hu?? did u have a little too much to drink tonight?
i understand the yogurt thing it can st squirt across the room but oj dont get it!?
omg!!!!!!! have u been in my house! i keep on saying we need seat belts on the chairs but the buckel should be in the back were kids cant reach!!!!! lol but then we would be reported
it takes longer to make supper then it takes them to eat it and then after u clean up their hungry cuz they didnt sit long enough! not to mention how the floor gets full of food
i hate when pp stare! i try very hard to teach my children not to point or stare
a funny store happened the other day (talking about kids who dont see things) i was in a store and a frum lady was talking to me and my daughter was tryign to get my attention b”h she didnt say what was on her mind out loud afterwards she told me that i should tell the lady to pull down her teichel cuz her hair was showing and she doesnt realize. i tried explaining that i dont know her and dont want to embarrase her (go try explaining that how the lady wanted to wear her teichel)
toi r u yekkish?
y dont u ask if you could use the first letter from the name and u could do yehudis very nice name but whatever u deceide remember its very imp to run it by das torah bf u give the name
it might help if u understood literally the davening maybe take a couple of tefillos not too many to start with and learn their meaning i think it will bring new meaning and help u have kavana atleast in those few u learned and u can go further from there and its always good to also talk from ur heart straight to ur Father/King
make sure shes a good cook lol
and she can keep her mouth shut
hairy? never heard of that expresion before besides a person w alot of hair
many years ago in bp the shomrim did all these things then it became “bummy” to be on shomrim so a bunch of board men who”s somebody didnt let them join shomrim now join chaverim they get the placecard so get out of tickets…and the jacket…and y r they better then shomrim remind me
it did say that he was told what would happen in the future and how beni yisroel will sin…but if he was told that he would drop the luchos then it would seem he did it cuz he had to but he did it out of shock so probably Hashem only showed moshe the future what He wanted him to see
well not necesserly true if she has a good job and is willing to work even after iy”h having a family and willing to tough it out…some boys are maskim also i feel that it also depends (dont shoot me) if ur livish or chasidish
they have suspenders made especially for larger men wide and long to cover the stomach made of no metal so u sont have to loose ur pants by a mental detector (like the air port) i think it from the suspender store u can check on line
today many men wear suspenders not considered “nerdy”
its a handful better shaloa is how do u burn it a couple of us ladies looked into it a couple of yrs a go (dont know how or y) but we found out we all were doing it wrong…we all asked out own rav and were told most pp dont know how to do it right today..and then we were all told to do the same thing
so i advise pp to ask their own rav what he feels the right way is
i hate this whole picture thing but what i hate more is when im setting sb up and for example the girls doesnt wanna show a picture they make her meet somewhere so they can look her up and down (or they dont ebven tell her and snup up on her at work) and then they decide if they should go out w her or if they should let there son go out with her.. were not talking about meeting her and talking just checking her up and down
normal?? thats st u should have checked out bf u went out with her…but if all checked out good and u had a good time y does she have to follow a rule book about what to wear? did u follow a rule book in how to treat her and talk….
and u dont want a wife who has to do have whatever the next one has cant she be herself?
one person “shabbos clothes” is another person’s idea of work clothes. and the norm today most pp dont wear suits so its so hard to tell….
and do those rules still aply today that u wear shabbos first date then as u get comfortable u show it in ur clothes being more casual??
you wanna know how u can change (which has nothing to do with marrying a boy sitting and learning) first you are going to a diffrent country gonna be with diffrent girls then u were for the last 12-15 years in school with if you had a certain reputation nows the time to change you can become who u want nobody knows your family parents…
you will be going away for shabbos try to broaden the types of familys you go to and you will be surprised how diffrent people raise there kids, talk to there spouses, hold a shabbos tish, and just keep house. Untill now u saw only one way. Its good to broaden ur outlook within the frum world a little bf u start ur own home i”yh
You will learning not cuz “its gonna be on the test” but cuz u want to and u will learn and take with u more than u did in all 4 yrs of high school …i could go on and on
get a hold of that amazing ad in the papers (homodia or mispacha) about the father who is holding up alot of presents asking his kids what they want for the afikoman and they say all they want is there tatty to get off the phone and pay attention to them (st like that) boy will it hit home
well i hope ur going into 12th grade cuz otherwise ur too late to think about it for this yr…it is alot of money but it will change ur life forever i am who i am because of sem
a yr u will never forget and a yr u can never go bk to and redo
if u can go for it and make the best of it
for sure! my boys went on a big trip om camp and the bought mentos (didnt even know they make gum) and my boys didnt know it was gum and it was taken away from them
u have to be real on the inside and try to be the best u can be…depends also what u consider a chumra…somepeople are so frum on the outside but unfortuantly not so inside
one man band who needs more
if that would be true than y did we all have to run out and buy filters for our sink we didnt see the bugs in our cups of water but only under a microscope and all rabbonim said u need a filter
and if its only possible to see with ur eye them u do they make a specail light to check the lettuce….so basicly ur saying close ur eyes and dont look and all will be good?
This is not a “new” problem I heard it a few years ago! And if u don’t know what the bugs look like u will not find them. I believe I was told it is the same color as the corn itself so it hides very well
netanya
Don’t worry so much!! A long time is all relative. to everybody its different they r probably “check u and ur family out” which is not so easy in the summer w people away…
When u meet just be urself doesn’t make sense to put on a show cuz u wouldn’t want other side to either u want to get to know each other to see if ur compatible
How about carbon paper if somebody was absent the friend took notes with carbon paper cuz there was no copie machines only stencil machines for the detoes
How about j j cholov yisroel….
And 2 on tiMe don’t be late….
Now I’m showing my age…
U can’t even use the expression “like a broken record” because ur kids look @ u like u fell off the moon
How about when phone had cords and were attached to a wall and u couldn’t do work and talk on the phone without burning the wire every few weeks
First of all ur not supposed to kiss anyone in shul not just ur child which means not going over to a bal simcha in shul kissing them and wishing them mazel tov..