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i know sb who looked into it yrs ago and he was told (everybody has to ask their rav..) thats its better to adopt a guyish baby then a jewish cuz it is very hard to prove the child is not a mamzer
golden momMembersea shell im sorry for u may u find ur beshert bekorov!!
bein hasdorim ur too hard i totally believe it i guess ur far from the parsha or dont know anybody who is in the parsha
miritchk as far as ur friends go today u cant wait for the shadchin to come knocking on ur door like years ago u got to go to them and have ur parents telling pp ur on the market and ask ur friends to set u up….pp dont realize that there friends/neighbors daughter/son just turned 19 (or whatever age) to them ur still that little kid playing outside>…u got to network
golden momMemberhalf the problem today is that the girls all need to have a cell phone in israel and the all have a magic jack phone in there dorm with a 718 number so basicly they can call home 24 7 and there so busy calling home and seeing what they are missing verses yrs ago when we didnt have cell phone or 718 numbers and a phone call home was very expensive we spoke home i think once a month and relayed important things we didnt see what we were missing we were too busy having fun and making friends and not standing on line to call everybody in the family once a day to see whats going on..
golden momMemberi think that it has to start at a young age forget for a sec ur husband work on ur kids there is no diffrence in jobs in my house between my boys and girl sometimes sb hears me telling one of my boys to do st they are like ur son will do that and i say y not just because he is a boy? believe me i”yh ur daughter in laws will appreciate u that her husband wont say i dont know how to do that
there is no reason y if both husband and wife the husband can share the responsibilties of the house work and if the wife is a stay at home 24hr working in the house the job never gets done and nothing will happen if he lends a hand especially after a baby… and that joke about breaking a plate every badchin says at weddings and the story of the man looking for segula for shalom bayis folding his tallis..the rav said every motzei shabbos grab a broom its very good for shalom bayis
golden momMembercan sb pls tell me whats gregaaron?
golden momMemberthanks everybody!! alothough i dont know about the meat cuz we eat simonim with the fish???
ive tried one year making it sweet w honey i guess ill try this year making it like a soup well see what happenes
golden momMemberby not vacinating ur kids u become liers and cheaters! u can not have ur child in any school public or private without having their shots up to date and if they dont have them most schools will not accept them (board of health does come down and look thru the health forms) so these parents who dont want to give there kids shots dont wana home school there kids so they pay the highest price and “get” those forms filled out so its ok to lie and trick people cuz u believe in something so strongly and by doing so putting others in danger???
September 19, 2011 2:14 am at 2:14 am in reply to: Kitchen sinks in the corner (of L and U shaped kitchens) – pros and cons? #810610golden momMembernechomah i had a lady susan in my corner cabinet which is on top of my corner sinks and i took them out i found it took up soo much space. i have corner sinks i dont have a problem with it. because i have counter in between so sinks are not on top of each other
golden momMemberi think the same pp that put in alarms put in lights and sirens
September 14, 2011 3:40 am at 3:40 am in reply to: How to search for assets/bank accounts of a deceased childless relative? #809744golden momMemberdont get it didnt they find in his things paper work statements …didnt he have a lawer and unclamed funds listed is sometimed under a year also
September 14, 2011 1:27 am at 1:27 am in reply to: I am the youngest on the CR anyone nearly 13 and a half?? #811321golden momMemberi sooo happy im having discussions with pp my kids ages i come on to get some adult conversations and turns out i could be talking to one of my kids friends
golden momMembermazel its like $500 about
September 13, 2011 8:40 pm at 8:40 pm in reply to: I need advice on how to handle this please #810165golden momMemberbeing very involved in litvish and chassidish shudduchim i can tell u that learning means very diffrent for both sides he said hes gonna learn and probably by his family and friends they all learned for a year or less maybe nobody asked him how long he intended to learn maybe the assummed he would learn forever and im also assuming that ur parents were not so involved in the shidduch cuz y would they take a chassish boy which i think is more the problem for them than anything else (not that there is wrong with litvish and chassidish marring)
September 13, 2011 8:32 pm at 8:32 pm in reply to: Enforcing your Kasruth Chumras on others – Rant #809679golden momMemberim very surprised that u can bring in outside food for ur guests..sometimes its better to let ur kids eat the nosh (im not judging but..)if it doesnt have a label on it then to imbarrase people it is still kosher of course it its in orginal package and the kids r old enough to know “we dont eat that”
but y made a big deal about it
i recendly made a simcha in brooklyn and sb asked me the hechser instead of looking into it she said i cant come to ur simcha cuz i dont know the hechser and i dont want to me cought in the hall …nobody else had a problem and i had many rabbanim there who did eat this one lady had a problem i was hurt fist cuz the funny thing is she would eat in my house…but then i was like who cares
golden momMemberthe talk should not be more than 5 min..and many do not make a brocha in the house (i heard this dont know if its true) cuz u dont make a brocha/eat till there is a lchaim
golden momMembermmx601 u can not kneed dough in the “white” bowl of the bosch! i by mistake made a cookie dough in it and the whole mixing part cracked in many many pieces its only for liquids like cakes
the silver bowl is for dough and challahs it great!
golden momMemberim not sure what kind of glasses ur talking about but i have been seeing guys wearing glasses that my father wore in the early 70s those big black ones like upside down letter D the first time i saw it i was in shock then i saw it again maybe i should see if my father still has a pair and tell him to wear it he will be in style !
September 12, 2011 3:18 am at 3:18 am in reply to: Havdalah – Putting Wine on Your Eyes and in Your Pocket #808292golden momMemberyup i heard that too same like putting on parts of body that hurt
September 12, 2011 1:57 am at 1:57 am in reply to: Havdalah – Putting Wine on Your Eyes and in Your Pocket #808288golden momMemberback of the neck could be (no joke) that they had pain there there is something to put the havdolah wine on parts of the body that hurt or need a refuah in anyway! there is also a sugulah to put on the mouth of a child who doesnt speak yet (delayed) and u say st dont remember what
supposly alot of koach the hadolah wine
some even springle it by the door to their house 3x
golden momMembermake yourself a great year so when she comes bk u cna compare ur adventures….
know that ur preparing urself for life when ur best friend will not be stuck at ur side forever i”yh u will both marry and have ur own life but will keep in touch like this yr
golden momMemberi have made something simular:
i prepared chop meat like i do for burgers or meat loaf put it flat on bottom of a 10×16 pan and made a potato kugel w 14 eggs on top and baked it in the oven its a full meal great for chol hamoad everybody loved it
golden momMemberhaving the school buy the books and we pay for it is great it should be optional not manditory when u have bl”h more than one kid u have that sefer or book already y do i have to buy it again
golden momMemberits so each and the same like clark if u ever used that
just upload and if u dont want to crop or do anything to pic just order whole thing or u can get fancy follow prompps
golden momMemberthe trick to meringe is to blend the suger first and have the eggs room temp and add the suger drop by drop into the eggs
golden momMemberwe dont let any sort of guns in the house not even water guns we explain to out kids that it is a guyish zach
when he have for example neigbors who do things that we dont do or want our kids to do we explain to our kids that for us its not ok to do that they are yidden also but they think its ok they maybe dont realize its a problem and if they persist i try to think of st that seperates us from them like school so i say in ur school ur not allowed to do ____ ____ and i had to sign a paper u wouldnt do it and if child persists i say should we call ur principal/menahel and ask him if its ok and they say no! so i say see u really know its a problem
golden momMemberfirst the problem is that if u ask ur son where his rebbe is during recess it is most likly not with the class! so thats half the problem!
secound if was gonna say what many said have him bring a ball and ull see plenty will play with him but make sure he knows the rules of the games the boys r playing it is possible they r not letting him play cuz they fell he dont know how and will just ruin there game hazolcha
golden momMembermy boys yehsiva started selling what the boys need if u dont have it
my girls school last year my daughter need a macberet i bought the one that all the stores sell my daughter came bk telling me its not big enough so i wrote a note to the teacher she told me how many pages it needs i went to i think it was 10 stores they all said they never heard of it so i called the teacher and said i cant run around like this if u want this specific type fine by tell were to go!
this yr my daughter needs a blk and white notebook w 150 pages i have only w 100 pgs go figure!!
its a plot to make us crazy
golden momMemberi always wondered about that if i smell u dont they pp who live with also???
golden momMemberwelcome to being a mother of school aged kids!
my kids needed seforim it just gave basic didnt say specific so i gave it it happened to be a sefer my other child used last yr but this year its not good enough
what about the book fee we pay every yr approx $35 a kid what books do they get i never see any home
golden momMemberthere are plenty fruit/veg that Hashem created that is or almost is impossible to eat for example rasberries
golden momMemberit said st like we have detected a virus in the coffee room and showed the level of it and gave me some options what to do
golden momMembersorry for the stupid question i just wanted to understand
golden momMemberNO y
golden momMemberwe onced plsyed this game @ a party how many pies can u come up with the list is endless
what boysenberry never heard of it
golden momMemberu buy the wig there and u pick ur own style and thats what they do for u ur not stuck with any style i have mine for yrs
golden momMemberjust an observer no offence u said urself u didnt go to a typical by type school so ur husband was whatever type u are/were and he didnt mind..
but if sb wants to marry for example a boy sitting and learning…
golden momMembermirrors are mentioned in metrayim is tha glass?
golden momMemberwe have 8 yr old here??????
golden momMemberthy did look it up
golden momMemberand i put it agaiun and it still didnt go thru!?
I don’t like closing threads, but this thread is being heavily moderated. Please do not discuss things here which you wouldn’t discuss in front of your 8 year old. Especially to say how you wouldn’t discuss it in front of your 8 year old.
golden momMemberthats funny i wrote a whole thing and it didnt get up i wonder y nothing wrong with it
golden momMemberand by the way i could be wrong dont go one handy but i think the halacha is in hilchos bas yisroel
golden momMembertweety i dont think the women is ouer i think it is the man
and the same goes for ur husband he is ouer also if he is not supposed to smell u ..
golden momMembernail polish is a totally diffrent parsha
golden momMemberanyone who wears perfume just in the house it lingers on your clothes so dont think when u go out u dont smell from it
golden momMemberi just wonder y we have to ease the kids into school slowly first have days then longer until we get to a whole day its almost a wk the same with easing them out just to tease the mothers and make us crazy trying to remember everybodys schedule
golden momMemberits a great jon for a frum wife/mother
i once had a thripts for one of my kids and when we were trying to make a schedule she was giving me times and i asked about the other times shes like thats when i go home to nurse my baby
u can make ur own hrs and take on as much of a case load as u want
September 6, 2011 1:23 pm at 1:23 pm in reply to: Why does regular Candy need a "Hamish" Haschaga?? #806032golden momMemberi hold like this if there is an orignal hechsur ie ou on orignal pkg then i will eat but i have seen already a sticker with no hechsur on orignal i think it was a cereal i wont eat that
i dont want to go into the whole hechsur business and it will prob be not let thru what i wanna say anyway but let me just tell u this ask anybody that has a resturant/take out or food company how many times a month the mashkiach comes down besides to pu the check
golden momMemberi so have a problem with women wearinf perfume i learned its assur to attract other men then u shouldnt wear outside
i also learned that at certain times it assur for ur husband to smell it on u or even on ur clothes (even when u r not wearing it) so then when can u wear it for 2 wks and only @ HOME??????? dont get it
golden momMemberin bp plenty open on sunday and im sure they have styles to try on
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