Forum Replies Created

Viewing 50 posts - 151 through 200 (of 316 total)
  • Author
    Posts
  • in reply to: Child Adoption #813063
    golden mom
    Member

    i know sb who looked into it yrs ago and he was told (everybody has to ask their rav..) thats its better to adopt a guyish baby then a jewish cuz it is very hard to prove the child is not a mamzer

    in reply to: I HATE SHIDDUCHIM!!!! #858784
    golden mom
    Member

    sea shell im sorry for u may u find ur beshert bekorov!!

    bein hasdorim ur too hard i totally believe it i guess ur far from the parsha or dont know anybody who is in the parsha

    miritchk as far as ur friends go today u cant wait for the shadchin to come knocking on ur door like years ago u got to go to them and have ur parents telling pp ur on the market and ask ur friends to set u up….pp dont realize that there friends/neighbors daughter/son just turned 19 (or whatever age) to them ur still that little kid playing outside>…u got to network

    in reply to: I payed $21,000 for my daughters misery! #813298
    golden mom
    Member

    half the problem today is that the girls all need to have a cell phone in israel and the all have a magic jack phone in there dorm with a 718 number so basicly they can call home 24 7 and there so busy calling home and seeing what they are missing verses yrs ago when we didnt have cell phone or 718 numbers and a phone call home was very expensive we spoke home i think once a month and relayed important things we didnt see what we were missing we were too busy having fun and making friends and not standing on line to call everybody in the family once a day to see whats going on..

    in reply to: Do Married Guys Do Laundry? #1074884
    golden mom
    Member

    i think that it has to start at a young age forget for a sec ur husband work on ur kids there is no diffrence in jobs in my house between my boys and girl sometimes sb hears me telling one of my boys to do st they are like ur son will do that and i say y not just because he is a boy? believe me i”yh ur daughter in laws will appreciate u that her husband wont say i dont know how to do that

    there is no reason y if both husband and wife the husband can share the responsibilties of the house work and if the wife is a stay at home 24hr working in the house the job never gets done and nothing will happen if he lends a hand especially after a baby… and that joke about breaking a plate every badchin says at weddings and the story of the man looking for segula for shalom bayis folding his tallis..the rav said every motzei shabbos grab a broom its very good for shalom bayis

    in reply to: black eye peas #811229
    golden mom
    Member

    can sb pls tell me whats gregaaron?

    in reply to: black eye peas #811224
    golden mom
    Member

    thanks everybody!! alothough i dont know about the meat cuz we eat simonim with the fish???

    ive tried one year making it sweet w honey i guess ill try this year making it like a soup well see what happenes

    in reply to: Vaccinations are bad? #995749
    golden mom
    Member

    by not vacinating ur kids u become liers and cheaters! u can not have ur child in any school public or private without having their shots up to date and if they dont have them most schools will not accept them (board of health does come down and look thru the health forms) so these parents who dont want to give there kids shots dont wana home school there kids so they pay the highest price and “get” those forms filled out so its ok to lie and trick people cuz u believe in something so strongly and by doing so putting others in danger???

    golden mom
    Member

    nechomah i had a lady susan in my corner cabinet which is on top of my corner sinks and i took them out i found it took up soo much space. i have corner sinks i dont have a problem with it. because i have counter in between so sinks are not on top of each other

    in reply to: Cherry Lights & Siren #810039
    golden mom
    Member

    i think the same pp that put in alarms put in lights and sirens

    in reply to: How to search for assets/bank accounts of a deceased childless relative? #809744
    golden mom
    Member

    dont get it didnt they find in his things paper work statements …didnt he have a lawer and unclamed funds listed is sometimed under a year also

    in reply to: I am the youngest on the CR anyone nearly 13 and a half?? #811321
    golden mom
    Member

    i sooo happy im having discussions with pp my kids ages i come on to get some adult conversations and turns out i could be talking to one of my kids friends

    in reply to: BOSCH, MAGIC MILL, KITCHEN AID?? #809434
    golden mom
    Member

    mazel its like $500 about

    in reply to: I need advice on how to handle this please #810165
    golden mom
    Member

    being very involved in litvish and chassidish shudduchim i can tell u that learning means very diffrent for both sides he said hes gonna learn and probably by his family and friends they all learned for a year or less maybe nobody asked him how long he intended to learn maybe the assummed he would learn forever and im also assuming that ur parents were not so involved in the shidduch cuz y would they take a chassish boy which i think is more the problem for them than anything else (not that there is wrong with litvish and chassidish marring)

    in reply to: Enforcing your Kasruth Chumras on others – Rant #809679
    golden mom
    Member

    im very surprised that u can bring in outside food for ur guests..sometimes its better to let ur kids eat the nosh (im not judging but..)if it doesnt have a label on it then to imbarrase people it is still kosher of course it its in orginal package and the kids r old enough to know “we dont eat that”

    but y made a big deal about it

    i recendly made a simcha in brooklyn and sb asked me the hechser instead of looking into it she said i cant come to ur simcha cuz i dont know the hechser and i dont want to me cought in the hall …nobody else had a problem and i had many rabbanim there who did eat this one lady had a problem i was hurt fist cuz the funny thing is she would eat in my house…but then i was like who cares

    in reply to: shidduch dating, advice needed #810830
    golden mom
    Member

    the talk should not be more than 5 min..and many do not make a brocha in the house (i heard this dont know if its true) cuz u dont make a brocha/eat till there is a lchaim

    in reply to: BOSCH, MAGIC MILL, KITCHEN AID?? #809426
    golden mom
    Member

    mmx601 u can not kneed dough in the “white” bowl of the bosch! i by mistake made a cookie dough in it and the whole mixing part cracked in many many pieces its only for liquids like cakes

    the silver bowl is for dough and challahs it great!

    in reply to: What's up with the kookie glasses? #810007
    golden mom
    Member

    im not sure what kind of glasses ur talking about but i have been seeing guys wearing glasses that my father wore in the early 70s those big black ones like upside down letter D the first time i saw it i was in shock then i saw it again maybe i should see if my father still has a pair and tell him to wear it he will be in style !

    in reply to: Havdalah – Putting Wine on Your Eyes and in Your Pocket #808292
    golden mom
    Member

    yup i heard that too same like putting on parts of body that hurt

    in reply to: Havdalah – Putting Wine on Your Eyes and in Your Pocket #808288
    golden mom
    Member

    back of the neck could be (no joke) that they had pain there there is something to put the havdolah wine on parts of the body that hurt or need a refuah in anyway! there is also a sugulah to put on the mouth of a child who doesnt speak yet (delayed) and u say st dont remember what

    supposly alot of koach the hadolah wine

    some even springle it by the door to their house 3x

    in reply to: friends.. #808263
    golden mom
    Member

    make yourself a great year so when she comes bk u cna compare ur adventures….

    know that ur preparing urself for life when ur best friend will not be stuck at ur side forever i”yh u will both marry and have ur own life but will keep in touch like this yr

    in reply to: Flanken Kugel #808078
    golden mom
    Member

    i have made something simular:

    i prepared chop meat like i do for burgers or meat loaf put it flat on bottom of a 10×16 pan and made a potato kugel w 14 eggs on top and baked it in the oven its a full meal great for chol hamoad everybody loved it

    in reply to: School Supplies #808090
    golden mom
    Member

    having the school buy the books and we pay for it is great it should be optional not manditory when u have bl”h more than one kid u have that sefer or book already y do i have to buy it again

    in reply to: BIG sale!! #808013
    golden mom
    Member

    its so each and the same like clark if u ever used that

    just upload and if u dont want to crop or do anything to pic just order whole thing or u can get fancy follow prompps

    in reply to: Quick!! #807765
    golden mom
    Member

    the trick to meringe is to blend the suger first and have the eggs room temp and add the suger drop by drop into the eggs

    in reply to: Sheltering kids #809110
    golden mom
    Member

    we dont let any sort of guns in the house not even water guns we explain to out kids that it is a guyish zach

    when he have for example neigbors who do things that we dont do or want our kids to do we explain to our kids that for us its not ok to do that they are yidden also but they think its ok they maybe dont realize its a problem and if they persist i try to think of st that seperates us from them like school so i say in ur school ur not allowed to do ____ ____ and i had to sign a paper u wouldnt do it and if child persists i say should we call ur principal/menahel and ask him if its ok and they say no! so i say see u really know its a problem

    in reply to: The other kids dont let my son play #808462
    golden mom
    Member

    first the problem is that if u ask ur son where his rebbe is during recess it is most likly not with the class! so thats half the problem!

    secound if was gonna say what many said have him bring a ball and ull see plenty will play with him but make sure he knows the rules of the games the boys r playing it is possible they r not letting him play cuz they fell he dont know how and will just ruin there game hazolcha

    in reply to: School Supplies #808085
    golden mom
    Member

    my boys yehsiva started selling what the boys need if u dont have it

    my girls school last year my daughter need a macberet i bought the one that all the stores sell my daughter came bk telling me its not big enough so i wrote a note to the teacher she told me how many pages it needs i went to i think it was 10 stores they all said they never heard of it so i called the teacher and said i cant run around like this if u want this specific type fine by tell were to go!

    this yr my daughter needs a blk and white notebook w 150 pages i have only w 100 pgs go figure!!

    its a plot to make us crazy

    in reply to: to whom it may concern: #809757
    golden mom
    Member

    i always wondered about that if i smell u dont they pp who live with also???

    in reply to: School Supplies #808082
    golden mom
    Member

    welcome to being a mother of school aged kids!

    my kids needed seforim it just gave basic didnt say specific so i gave it it happened to be a sefer my other child used last yr but this year its not good enough

    what about the book fee we pay every yr approx $35 a kid what books do they get i never see any home

    in reply to: Figs #806980
    golden mom
    Member

    there are plenty fruit/veg that Hashem created that is or almost is impossible to eat for example rasberries

    in reply to: computer virus?? #806860
    golden mom
    Member

    it said st like we have detected a virus in the coffee room and showed the level of it and gave me some options what to do

    in reply to: computer virus?? #806857
    golden mom
    Member

    sorry for the stupid question i just wanted to understand

    in reply to: computer virus?? #806855
    golden mom
    Member

    NO y

    in reply to: i REALLY like apple cherry pie. #806829
    golden mom
    Member

    we onced plsyed this game @ a party how many pies can u come up with the list is endless

    what boysenberry never heard of it

    in reply to: shevys wigs #807332
    golden mom
    Member

    u buy the wig there and u pick ur own style and thats what they do for u ur not stuck with any style i have mine for yrs

    in reply to: midwives.. #807256
    golden mom
    Member

    just an observer no offence u said urself u didnt go to a typical by type school so ur husband was whatever type u are/were and he didnt mind..

    but if sb wants to marry for example a boy sitting and learning…

    in reply to: First mention of glass in Tanach? #942422
    golden mom
    Member

    mirrors are mentioned in metrayim is tha glass?

    in reply to: midwives.. #807248
    golden mom
    Member

    we have 8 yr old here??????

    in reply to: "Wearing Perfume" #814234
    golden mom
    Member

    thy did look it up

    in reply to: midwives.. #807245
    golden mom
    Member

    and i put it agaiun and it still didnt go thru!?

    I don’t like closing threads, but this thread is being heavily moderated. Please do not discuss things here which you wouldn’t discuss in front of your 8 year old. Especially to say how you wouldn’t discuss it in front of your 8 year old.

    in reply to: midwives.. #807243
    golden mom
    Member

    thats funny i wrote a whole thing and it didnt get up i wonder y nothing wrong with it

    in reply to: "Wearing Perfume" #814225
    golden mom
    Member

    and by the way i could be wrong dont go one handy but i think the halacha is in hilchos bas yisroel

    in reply to: "Wearing Perfume" #814224
    golden mom
    Member

    tweety i dont think the women is ouer i think it is the man

    and the same goes for ur husband he is ouer also if he is not supposed to smell u ..

    in reply to: "Wearing Perfume" #814222
    golden mom
    Member

    nail polish is a totally diffrent parsha

    in reply to: "Wearing Perfume" #814217
    golden mom
    Member

    anyone who wears perfume just in the house it lingers on your clothes so dont think when u go out u dont smell from it

    in reply to: School is starting 2morrow!! #806596
    golden mom
    Member

    i just wonder y we have to ease the kids into school slowly first have days then longer until we get to a whole day its almost a wk the same with easing them out just to tease the mothers and make us crazy trying to remember everybodys schedule

    in reply to: physicial therapy #806029
    golden mom
    Member

    its a great jon for a frum wife/mother

    i once had a thripts for one of my kids and when we were trying to make a schedule she was giving me times and i asked about the other times shes like thats when i go home to nurse my baby

    u can make ur own hrs and take on as much of a case load as u want

    in reply to: Why does regular Candy need a "Hamish" Haschaga?? #806032
    golden mom
    Member

    i hold like this if there is an orignal hechsur ie ou on orignal pkg then i will eat but i have seen already a sticker with no hechsur on orignal i think it was a cereal i wont eat that

    i dont want to go into the whole hechsur business and it will prob be not let thru what i wanna say anyway but let me just tell u this ask anybody that has a resturant/take out or food company how many times a month the mashkiach comes down besides to pu the check

    in reply to: "Wearing Perfume" #814205
    golden mom
    Member

    i so have a problem with women wearinf perfume i learned its assur to attract other men then u shouldnt wear outside

    i also learned that at certain times it assur for ur husband to smell it on u or even on ur clothes (even when u r not wearing it) so then when can u wear it for 2 wks and only @ HOME??????? dont get it

    in reply to: Sheitals #806062
    golden mom
    Member

    in bp plenty open on sunday and im sure they have styles to try on

Viewing 50 posts - 151 through 200 (of 316 total)