i agree totally to the person who wrote that people who have ther boys away in yeshiva dont know them at all they are selling them as one thing but wake up he hasnt live with u in a couple of yrs get to know him before u sell him

i resently set up a boy but only once he got to know the girl did his true colors come out and it was not at all what he was protrated to be

and this checking out which can take wks at a time can make all involved crazy if u try to pressure to speed it up they just get nervous

pal

how u look at it depends at what stage of the game u r in if u made a simcha already or r almost there u know u cant invite everybody…

also most people i know are at the stage of the game were we can not run out every night between homework etc so we usally just go to say mazel tov unless it somebody really close who puts the pressure on that they want to see us sit down

chani anyone w a hanicap dot permit is alowed up to 8 cars under that one person for example if a mother gets aproved she can have her car and 7 of her kids with a hanicap permit

hatzolah can get a ticket even w the peermit in the window and if they can not proff they were on a call infront of that house they will have to pay the ticket (if ofcourse they get one)

i have noticed ur very into this

1- it is totally ussur to use ur own cut hair to make a wig for urself

2- shevy which is top of the line u can get for under 2

machlaren used to be top of line and made in england now its made in japan i think and a few yrs ago a sales lady in a store told me today there is no diffrence btween macklaren and graco

the bugabo one the child is a little bigger they look squeeshed in the seat

so what happens down the line when the looks go u get divorced? or when the man relizes the trophy can talk? deman up keep ie money jewlery ..or have diffrence of options u go elsewhere?

i agree totally its the mothers that need the skinny beautiful daughter in law to hold up like a trophy they r the ones asking for it screaning the calls looking at the pictures and or meeting the girl first

what “good boy” knows or should know dress size skinny…thats not whats gonna make a good wife or mother thats marring to be nice a “barbie doll”

we always tucked in the chairs under the table and covered the whole thing with a heavy plastic i thought ur not allowed to fold table and chairs on shabbos and yom tov?!

im not gonna down any camp and dont know from personal experiece but if ur a shelted girl being away from home with a tzvivah that is not what ur used to u have to be careful im all for mekaraving but i have seen girls from good frum shelted homes who went to girls zone for the summer and the changed alot u have to know where u are going (or sending ur daughters)

one not everybody “holds” from the pop up succah i was once sp on chol hamoed and a family was making a bbq the had acard board box from a referator and some leaves on top and they were taking turns eating in it cheap and inteasting everybody stoped and was taking pictures of them they sure where “stopping traffic”

gad yonit tzion tziona orlee ronit mazel tziona galit orah

if u go picking u have to use everything on yom tov cuz a melacha…

there is an orginization that if u loose st or u find st u call they put it in a computer and it cross refrences it and finds owners its call matzasi 7182225678 hatzolcha

also try saying thr posuk amur rabbi benyamin and call some of the stores u were in maybe they have it by the register

there is a velco that u buy to put over the light switch which goes on and of when u open and close the door made by the company of kosher lamp

i always heard a little disffrent with each child brocha comes into the family so its not always money per say but we r bring up hashems children he supplies for us all we can plan and save and wait..and it can all be gone in a sec or we can rely on hashem and of course do our hestaldlus and have plenty

didnt we go thru this already??????

manchester

once i had my boy and my girl i started getting curious and wanting to “find out” but i learned my lesson big time i dont think i will ever do it again! for a couple of times is was so cute to find out and mentally prepare.. the name and ..

but as somebody said bf they thought they saw st and i went thru months of hell B”H it was nothing but the test the appts the presure the whats gonna be… its not worth it

yes i probably didnt daven that hard ever but if was a very hard time in my live and being the frum yidden we are there is nothing u can do but daven and wait

mara stuffed chicken and capons r pretty much the same u can make it alot of diffrent ways u take the challah and soak it in water till it is very mush then u squesh out all water i then add fried onions mushrooms from a can and spices u then take a chicken leg clean it and lift up the skin on one side and stuff it then u put a toping on top of the chicken like spices nothing too heavy cuz u got alot going on inside u can freeze at this point or bake

capons is like what the have at simchas u debone the leg and then stuff it `it is more work and fancier

i think its ayan hara today if u go to the stores and pick out what u want they usally have it in stock and u can order it from hospital or have sb else do it and it will be in ur house bf u come home

i once asked a rav i was in a store they had cute baby clothes on sale and he told me 1 if ur gonna loose $ or if u have nobody else to buy for u..

i have nobody to buy for me and there is an inyan to bring the baby home in st new so i by st and i say whoever has a baby..meaning i could give it for a present

u have to be so carful with making french toast w milk or in milchig frying pan w leftover challah 1 it could have been warmed up in fleishig oven 2 it was on fleishig table can u say 100% sure that it is totally parve

u could also make stuffing and have capons for succos and my family loves challah kugel

well…..i have plenty of girls i do need some good boys

i couldnt believe how much a diamond cost i wish i would have know when i was a kallah i would have for sure not let my chosen by me one i mean many yrs later who wears it anyway