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February 9, 2012 4:13 am at 4:13 am in reply to: Health insurance for large families with decent income #850572golden momMember
i agree child health plus is the best and most dr except and u wouldnt pay thru ur nose even if u make nicly
i think there is st for adults too call diffrently maybe family heaalth plus but u know what even if u have to pay as a couple u still will be saving a fortune
golden momMembershe wants a yeshivish boy
chilled probably means he would be cought outside taking the garbage out without his hat and jacket on
golden momMemberi was also gonna say most pp that have heartburn (or so they think) is probably acid reflux and if it goes untreated can be very very dangerous
there is a diet for acid reflux for example no so do citrus acid u would be suprise how many produces have citrus acid in it
no produce that has tomato in it incl ketchup tomato sauce or paste
dairy an it goes on and on
golden momMemberu can not limit the nosh the child takes to school because he has to feel like everybody else u dont want him to chas veshalom lead to other problems like stealing to be like others but u could incourse one nosh and one healthy stack ie fruit pop corn apple chips
also all nosh in house should be in indivital bags once a big bag is opened pp think they have to finish it
never harp on the weight just fustrates the child and makes negativity just try as a family to change eating habits like avoiding all fruit juices (waste of calories) all sodas including diet it doesnt let u loose weight
golden momMemberits crazy for girls to wear so much make up its not like shes a clown in the circus i mean she wears to make a good impression so pp relize her and will hopefully set her up right then she has to go out so she puts on again this glown make up gets married and the first morning her husband bumps into her bf her make up and hes like who are u? make any sense not to me
golden momMemberthis was a post once before as a norm we dont do before hand but there are many ways to get around it u can go shopping see what u want write all makes and models down and call up the store right after u have the baby and it can be delieverd before u even get home from the hospital
ask a shela about actually buying stuff most of the time they say that if u will have a major lose ie st on sale or if u have nb to buy for u after…but everybody has to ask their own rav
golden momMemberit means they bought a borsalo hat and a blk suit not a miss matched jacket with a pair of pants
its all in the grab these days nothing means anything its all how u look at things
golden momMemberyup straight from freezer to pressure cooker
golden momMemberbecause we believe in techias hamesim and how will your body dig itselg out (burry with a branch in hand to dig our way out) if you are missing body parts
if for whatever reason ch”v somebody looses a leg or st they burry it i guess so the person will have it after techias hamesim
golden momMembertotally dont go to a toy store dont ask! it was terrible!
anyway there was a whole article in this wks misphaca of a man that does this you call him up and tell him what city and ur intreastes and he gives u ideas where to go i think it was called a dating gemach
golden momMemberi guess i can see where the question was heading
there are some pp that feel you have to go on a vacation once a year (min) alone as a couple and if u dont OMG and of course one a year with your whole family
and then once you go are you the type that needs to run and go sight seeing, malls or are you the type just to wake up late and chill a whole day in the room
i guess to some this is soo important that it should be brought up on a date
golden momMemberthere is neocate alimentem and neosure
first of all it has been a while since i needed to use them dont remember which is which so u will have to do ur research 2 out of those 3 use a pigs (st part of insides dont remeber which part) in the process of making the formular so a jewish child will not tolirate it well
we didnt use it for that reason i know some give the heter to use it thhe 3rd one doesnt use and i went to a whole speech from a rep from the manufacture it is free of all pig.. and basicly everything else it is boiled up so everything is soo broken down that it really doesnt have any soy or milk protein in it so its good for a child who is both allergic to soy and milk but since it doesnt have too much of anything in it u might have to subsitute with vitamins or something goood luck
golden momMembermy boys always do it when it rains as fo many other boys
golden momMemberfirst of all a toeim is a lawyer for beis din and yes there was a whole heated article about rav schecter and beis din and toeim
golden momMembera lot of these “intreasting” things that we do and dont know the source seem to come from kablah i wonder if this also does cuz so many diffrent background of pp grew up with it it has to have some sort of source
golden momMemberwell first of all what did u answer
i guess u dont know how to chill out and relax and thats what the person was trying to find out if u know how to or not
February 2, 2012 9:26 pm at 9:26 pm in reply to: How much does it cost to support for a year? #853885golden momMemberit just amazes me that some of these couples “who need more” are living hire standards then some of us who work hard and are not learning now who has money or time to go out to eat once a wk and y does a parent have to pay for that
golden momMemberif u r allergic to dust mitts u need to get prtecters for ur mattress box spring and pillows
dust ruffels on the bed is not good
any stuff animals in the house have to be thrown out
and carpet is a killer
just to name a few
golden momMembertry better health in boro park i think located on 51 and new utrecht
golden momMemberand attach a picture
and pls dont do ur resume in question and answer format it is very weird and annoying to read
January 3, 2012 3:42 am at 3:42 am in reply to: "Where Are the Men"-Article in last week's Mishpacha #844417golden momMemberand what about a mother of a married women i had this debate with somebody that y the a womens mother wouldnt say anything to her married daughter who is dressing not tzisdik in the street and i was told once ur daughter is married u cant say anything cuz ur over stepping boundries i disagree if a husband wont say a mother or father then thats y people are walking around like they do
January 3, 2012 12:15 am at 12:15 am in reply to: Buffet Reception and Dessert Buffet at Bar Mitzvah #841010golden momMemberfunny cuz we were gonna do this bf it was “in style” now it is done all the time its like simchas chosen v kallah but in a bar mitzvah version
in todays time when nobody can afford its nice in way that people r not just inviting everybody and starving there family in a dark house afterwards if u r close enough u would understand grow up adn just say mazel tov if u have not much to do with them just throw out invitation
golden momMemberi did hear people strongly suggest not reading the bina (which i understand) but hamodia and mishpacha??? i dont understand!
golden momMemberhamodia bina misphaca all take articles
golden momMemberso the owner is obiously a frum jew by the neighborhood google the address call the # s till u get the right party looks like sb is making coffee in their garage or basement lol
golden momMemberi think its great what some people do so they will get listhen to is they have a married person like there parents or somebody ret it and if it works out they say who the real person is
golden momMemberi think its great what some people do so they will get listhen to is they have a married person like there parents or somebody ret it and if it works out they say who the real person is
golden momMemberfrom an “older” point of view over the last few yrs the girls that i did see work there came back very diffrent yes they were on a high but they never came bk down to were they were before the frumkit was a little diffrent after being exposed to and shown they diffrent was there r…
one girls even married totally diffrent then the rest of her siblings …
December 11, 2011 12:40 am at 12:40 am in reply to: what happens when a shadchan doesnt cooperate properly? #834076golden momMembery do u need a shadchin ret it ur self
golden momMemberwhat is going on in our community with the drinking of men on shabbos it starts at the friday night meal cont at shalom zachors and shabbos day kiddish and the meal finishing off bottles and bottles
is life so bad at home that the 25 hrs straight u spend with ur family u have to be hitting the bottle or is it a cool thing to say how much u drank over shabbos i dont get it but u know what ur kids r watching and then ur gonna cry when they start….
golden momMemberif its bad then what do u mean if shes used to it she had to drink to get used to it doesnt make sense
golden momMembersame with smoking if a man smokes …but a women who smokes is like omg she probably not frum ??????
golden momMemberso sorry goq dont know what to say
golden momMemberthose pp might appear to be calm but a how much help do they get and when u see them calm they r not out with all there kids
it might help if u need to go out or to accomplish in the house that what ever u do stops half hr before ur first bus (not always possible but try it will make all the diffrence) set a timer/alarm for 5 min bf the first bus and lie down u will be able to great ur children refreashed and have more patience to conquer the night
golden momMemberlol r u serious or have u been watching my house @ night thru some camrea!?
golden momMemberbowwow ur really making me nauseous!
many many years ago when i was in 12th grade bf sem our teachers were giving us some tips about being away from home and being guests for shabbos and that was #1 about striping the beds!
now that im a mother i would love that somebody would strip the bed so it would save me a few min especially if my kids doubled up over shabbos and now were taking there beds back
when i go away i usually strip the sheets fold it and then ask the person where would they like it on the bed or by the machine cuz if u ask them if u should strip it they feel funny saying yes but once u say its striped already they like thanks yes please bring them to the machine
zaidy 78 u would really sleep on guests linen so gross besides gross with germs and all bed bugs uch!!
golden momMemberask around there is alot of finacial assistance for this and sems do not work w u its a cash business and they want all of it in green
golden momMemberdistace urself from here y would u hang out w her
golden momMemberthats all nice in theory but the average kid is home from school and needs to go to sleep eat super bath….a younger child needs to be in bed 6:30ish and comes home after 4 alittle older cimes home close to 6 and close to 7 and should not be up past 9:30 with homework from each subject… when should they breath
golden momMemberwe asked a rav about a non religous person cooking and were told that they can not turn the fire on themselves but if u turn it on for them u can eat anything they cook (very insulting to them cuz they know the halachos so they feel ur treating them like a guy) so for example person makes chulent in crookpot the leave the room (bf its cooked) were told to unplug and plug in our self like we cooked it
golden momMemberwhat diffrence does it make just say B”h it happened now and B”h u didnt have to do it
and even if u asked u would never find out the truth anyway
golden momMemberdoes anybody know the # to shalom task force
golden momMemberi think in the past there were some neighborhoods which had ladies on hatzolah if im correct it was queens and washington heights
golden momMembermost people today do a one mand band it is totlly excepted and u can ask to hear them bf ask them where the next place they r playing and go see for ur self some r soo good u wouldnt even know its a one man band but of course if u have an extra $2000 approx to throw away then u can go for a fully band
golden momMemberqmom u cant compare to buying in a store like the buzz to for example mancys first they all have deals for kallahs u can buy all ur stuff and they hold it for u till u have an apt or are ready for it they tovel everything and bring to the house (remember those hrs of toviling bf and after the wed?) and the dept stores doesnt have brands like bosch of challah making or braun for making potato kugel u might say spoiled but u need things that r going to luast the avaerage american couple doesnt pay for them to cook if u can buy a whole supper for 2.99 y cook they cook 2x a yr for there big holidays and complain for months bf and after we do that every wk +++ so we need things that will last u dont want to buy so cheap and the couple has to replace everything in 2 yrs some things r good in dept stores like pots etc but service and time is worth st too
golden momMemberthis problem acctually bothered me a couple of years ago that even if u go to nj in some stores pepsi and coke have no hechser so i called up the o u and kof k sopoke to one of the head rabbi who both told me that i should not buy if it has no hechser it is not so much as change of ing it could be that what they made bf on the machines was not kosher they named some drinks that are made by same company on the same machines that r outride not kosher yes they wash inbetween but when they have a hecher they make sure what was done bf how hot the machines r washed…and both hechsers said without a hechser dont buy
golden momMemberbutternut squash soup
golden momMemberit is a big hit in my family put shreaded cheese on bottom of boil and then pour the hot soup on top!
golden momMembera lot of school have it in the rules along with internet and tv that it can not be in the house and they make parents sign on it
golden momMemberany hardware store in bp (even the corner ones) and in all the outlet stores which u can buy pc by pc
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