Personally I think that if fathers can’t come to graduations, then girls shouldn’t be allowed to have men as teachers. Many times girls sit in class and their legs are exposed whether it’s by accident or carelessness. If anything, the girls are much more tznius in the gowns on stage when we are completely covered. And if the issue is listening to girls speaking on stage, then men shouldn’t teach girls because girls have class conversations and the Rabeim hear their voices. Is there something that maybe I’m missing in this issue?

bygirl93 – I’m in the same situation. So far I have no plans for next year, and I really don’t want to grow up so quickly. My high school years were the four best years of my life so far, and I really don’t want to leave. It’s so sad! With Ha-Shem’s help everything will be just fine.

and aries – You crack me up! Thanks for the humor! I really needed that. My mother and sister were watching me laughing – at the computer. And I make fun of them for laughing at the computer! But seriously, you really have a good point. Don’t change yourself just because you’re entering a different world. A whole new stage in life doesn’t necessarily mean a whole new you.

a message to everyone – Hold onto your past. All the lessons you’ve learned and all the love and care your school has given you will help you through life. And most importantly, your teachers and principals (and parents) are there to help you and guide you. It might be hard to say goodbye to your school, your teachers, principals, friends etc., but stay in contact with them as much as you can, and carry them in your heart for ever and ever!