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  • in reply to: UBER #1115920
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    in reply to: Moetzes Denounces Open Orthodoxy #1116690
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    MSM = Methylsulfonylmethane?

    in reply to: DO WE REALLY HAVE A GOOD EXCUSE TO LIVE IN CHUTZ LA'ARETZ? #1112867
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    twisted: The Chanukah neis has nothing to do with the Hasmoneans subsequent rulership. Indeed Chazal are critical of the Hasmonean for taking the reigns of power since they were Kohanim not Davidians. Additionally, the bad behavior of the Hasmonean rulers were of later generation Hasmoneans not the ones that defeated the Yevonim.

    From the Rambam Laws of Chanukah (and yes, even though they did other things wrong as you correctly point out, the reason for the holiday is ????? ????? ?????? ??? ?? ?????? ???)

    ???? ??? ?????? ????, ???? ?????? ?? ?????, ?????? ???, ??? ????? ???? ????? ????? ???????; ????? ??? ??????, ?????????; ?????? ?????, ????? ?? ?????, ?????? ??????. ??? ??? ?????? ???? ??????, ?????? ??? ????, ?? ????? ????? ????? ???????, ??????? ????. ????? ??? ??????? ??????? ???????, ?????? ??????? ????? ????; ??????? ??? ?? ???????, ????? ????? ?????? ??? ?? ?????? ???–?? ?????? ????

    in reply to: DATI LEUMI AND CHAREDI- why is there such friction? #1112077
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    DaasYochid – First you have to explain why recognition by the state (which after all, is not religious) should cause such a reaction from the Charaidim (and not Neturei Karta, for example).

    Perhaps in another thread?

    in reply to: DATI LEUMI AND CHAREDI- why is there such friction? #1112068
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    Mammele – Chassidim are a completely different world. Chassidim also have no push to remain in Kollel indefinitely, as well as a strong financial support system from their specific Chassidus, as well as their parents (and working father). That certainly helps the young couple make it financially.

    Juxtapose that system with that of the Israeli Charaidi, where until after army age it is difficult for the husband to work, and all jobs for women in a Charaidi environment are low paying (oversupply). If there were to be a mortgage, many of those couples would lose their homes.

    Compare that system to the Lakewood system, where the boy demands multiple years of luxurious support from the girl’s parents as a condition to even consider her for a date! My understanding (from multiple sources) is that the girl working is considered to be insufficient, as the father must be the one who promises tens (and in many cases hundreds) of thousands of dollars for support of the boy.

    As a Litvak, I’ll readily admit these are two ways that the Chassidim have it right.

    in reply to: DATI LEUMI AND CHAREDI- why is there such friction? #1112067
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    Joseph – rwndk1 is bringing in owning apartments as proof that there is sufficient income in the Charaidi world for their needs WITHOUT resorting to charity (which, of course, moving to Israel with the intent to rely on others’ charity would be sinful).

    I’m not sure how your point, however true (or not), is relevant.

    in reply to: DATI LEUMI AND CHAREDI- why is there such friction? #1112064
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    Joseph – Just saying that a married couple having an apartment in Israel is more likely due to the fundraising capabilities of the girl’s father than the couple’s ability to afford it.

    I’ll try to lay off the Yiddish.

    in reply to: DO WE REALLY HAVE A GOOD EXCUSE TO LIVE IN CHUTZ LA'ARETZ? #1112857
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    in reply to: DATI LEUMI AND CHAREDI- why is there such friction? #1112057
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    and almost all own their own apartments.

    Nisht Rayah, as apartments are bought by the Kallah’s side in order to get married.

    in reply to: Rav Aaron Leib Shteinman opposes Nachal Chareidi #1111451
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    in reply to: DATI LEUMI AND CHAREDI- why is there such friction? #1112017
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    The Satmar Rav wrote sefarim expounding and explaining those few lines.

    HaRayah that it has turned into Avoda Zara 🙂

    P.S. Completely agree with “old man”. There is a clear dividing line, and you are “either with us or against us”.

    in reply to: DATI LEUMI AND CHAREDI- why is there such friction? #1112016
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    Eventually we will see that with “Open Orthodox”.

    You think they’ll eventually become frum? I hope so.

    Just like the Chassidim, whose original Derech was not acceptable (your term “frum”) which has now morphed (BH) into a derech with Yidden who learn and are Oved Hashem. So yes, like Chassidim.

    🙂

    in reply to: Moetzes Denounces Open Orthodoxy #1116520
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    It seems here people dont get my point, Its not what was said, but how it was said and if it was nessasry to say such a thing at all especially since they pose no threat to charedi judaism at all. I doubt OO even exists in lakewood or Monsey

    It is a “Oino min Machananu” announcement. See my post above.

    So? They pose a threat to mislead frum Yidden, and they distort the Torah. Those are big enough reasons to protest.

    So did P.E.A.C.H., and not only was there no protest, they signed on. Same thing with the “Hafkas Kiddushin” Rackman case in Baltimore/Memphis.

    in reply to: Rav Aaron Leib Shteinman opposes Nachal Chareidi #1111447
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    If he didn’t say it to me personally then it doesn’t count. Even if he did, there is no reason why I am Mechuyav to listen to him.

    ???

    in reply to: Moetzes Denounces Open Orthodoxy #1116495
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    Moetzes Denounces Open Orthodoxy – Why should Open Orthodoxy care what the Moetzes thinks? The “Moetzes” (in the form of its members) has already taken many stances against what the OO think, including child abuse, vaccinations and going to college (as well as many others).

    This is really just a statement for the Yeshivish in America. If you wish to continue to be part of our club (and get your children into our schools, marry off your daughters, etc.) then you had better not support or attend functions with OO “Rabbis”.

    P.S. If they want to make a statement, have Rav Shechter, Rav Meir Stern from Passaic, Rabbi Forst from Far Rockaway, Rabbis Schwartz and Fuerst from Chicago, as well as others with a geographical distribution. Have a “big tent” statement, not a group that has been discredited by their own statements (P.E.A.C.H.).

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    in reply to: Chassidus #1105816
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    Joseph – good point.

    G@W

    in reply to: Chassidus #1105813
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    There are several differences. Off the top of my head, z’man Mincha and Maariv, bein hashmoshos for certain situations (e.g. amirah l’akum l’tzorech), mayim shelanu.

    Mind expanding a bit? Remember, they would also hold of the Gaon L’Chumrah (Assuming not as a minhag, but a real safek, like the MB).

    in reply to: Chassidus #1105805
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    Joseph – GRA L’Chumrah or RT L’Chumrah. Either way works. I’ll even agree with you that many Yidden will hold RT as primary and GRA L’Chumrah as secondary, but I don’t think (and correct me if I’m wrong) there is any real difference.

    Regarding the (but not all): Are you aware of anyone who will (for example) do Milah on Shabbos for a baby born 55 minutes after early shkiyah Saturday, which is 3.5 minutes before RT Shiyah (pashtus), and after Rav Moshe’s 50 miuntes? Like HaKatan and Zionism = AZ, many will state that they hold certain shittos, but when the chips are down, they hesitate to put those shittos into practice.

    in reply to: Chassidus #1105803
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    Joseph

    Rabbeinu Tam has a shitta that is held L’CHUMRAH, NOT L’KULAH by large portions of Klal Yisroel.

    FTFY

    in reply to: Chassidus #1105802
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    I’ll give it a shot….

    Do you think the CC held that Rabbeinu Tam and his kehilla were mechallel Shabbos?

    Maybe (but only maybe). The CC also held the same for the Gaon, who (might have) done melocha 13.5 (IIRC) minutes after the sun is no longer visible (early shkiyah). Therefore, the CC recommends that one be Machmir for both shittos. That is not to say that holding of either shittah makes one “a shaigets or even has no halachic grounds to stand on”. In fact, there are quite a few practical Halachic Nafkei Mina during the “in-between” times that the CC would agree to since the Z’man is only a Safek.

    That being said, the Biur Halacha does say one should keep “early” shkiyah, and is quite explicit about it.

    in reply to: Chassidus #1105799
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    @Ash – sure implied it. If you have what to add, please do so….

    Also, I’m not @gavra_at_work, I’m gavra@work!!

    in reply to: Chassidus #1105797
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    <em<There was also the Tzimtzum issue which I don’t think has been discussed here.

    General Kaballa, not specific to Chassidus.

    in reply to: Annoying Jewish Telemarketers #1215062
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    Agree with DY, just hang up.

    in reply to: Chassidus #1105745
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    Wait… so you mean to say that Chassidim aren’t following a real Mesorah?

    Define “real”. It certainly is more “real” (as in old) than formalized “Torah Im Derech Eretz” or “daven with a Borsalino without a minyan”.

    in reply to: Chassidus #1105710
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    (Or to let me know if they’ve ever seen a sachet.)

    (Or to let me know if they’ve ever seen a linen closet.) !

    in reply to: Chassidus #1105708
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    Ash – no shaychus. If that was all then there would be no difference to the Yeshivish. DaMoshe but it accurately when he mentioned “the role of the Tzaddik”.

    Joseph – agreed. The issue is not that the Rebbe’s son inherits the Chassidus (and all of the property that goes along with it), but that he inherits the Chassidim (who should go to the best qualified Rov, not the son of who used to be most qualified). It also results in minimally qualified people (if that) running the show (and enjoying the monetary benefits) just because their great-grandfather did some good (then again, you see it today with the Yeshivish as well, and the hereditary yerusha of seats on the Moetzes, for example).

    DaMoshe – modern Chassidim are nothing close to what the Gaon describes as Chassidus. They too have evolved to be Lomdei Torah, just as the Litvaks have become more Chassidish.

    in reply to: Modern Orthodoxy #1146146
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    HaKatan – You have evaded the question of Zionism = Avoda Zara three times, and repeated tired lines about how the Zionists are the Devil himself. Obviously you don’t believe it either.

    Shtikah K’hodah.

    in reply to: Modern Orthodoxy #1146125
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    GAW:

    Regarding Zionist money and Agudah, et al., I still don’t understand the relevance: Just because Zionism is A”Z, I don’t see how it automatically follows that getting money from the Israeli government must be mamon A”Z. Again, their Rabbinic board can paskin on that. But if Agudah were CH”V espousing Zionism, that would, of course, be a different matter.

    It is Assur to be Neheneh from Avodah Zara. Hence, if Zionism is AZ, then it is assur to take Zionistic money.

    Are you saying they have a different Shittah?

    Regarding the Israeli Parliament, I don’t see your point. Let’s assume that it was permitted for Rabbi Lorincz to enter that abominable place (and for the current ones to do so). That has no relevance to the overall issue that Zionism is A”Z.

    If is is permitted, then it is not Avodah Zara. It is Assur to enter a Makom Avoda Zara.

    Regarding the wine:

    Please see my response to DY above (assuming it gets posted).

    But, no, just because their wine is not ruled yayin nesech does not change the reality that the gedolim held that Zionism is A”Z.

    Regarding the Zionists setting E”Y aflame and foolishly provoking the savages:

    I’m glad we agree on this.

    We don’t agree, but I do know what your shittah is. Standard Satmar/Neturei Karta.

    in reply to: Modern Orthodoxy #1146116
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    Agudah would, presumably, take money from whomever their rabbinic board permits them to take money. I don’t understand the relevance of that to this topic.

    So you are punting and putting the impetus on their “Rabbinic board”. Is it getting Ha’naha from Avoda Zara or not? Relevant to this discussion, are you actively being M’karev your “brothers” who are openly being Nehenah from Avodah Zara?

    The Israeli parliament is referred to in some sefarim as “knesses haMinim”. I am not aware of the heter the Agudah “MK”s use to enter that place, but I do know that the Brisker Rav would advise “MK” Rabbi Shlomo Lorincz Z”L about various Klal matters, and that Rabbi Lorincz did what he could for Klal Yisrael “working from within” the Zionists.

    Referring to it as a “knesses haMinim” or a pig’s home means nothing other than exaggeration and hyperbole. If the Brisker Rav did not say it is assur to enter as a Makom Avodah Zara, then it is Muttar. He would not have advised someone who entered a meeting in a Church.

    Regarding the wine, I have not seen anything brought down about that so I would have to ask my LOR. I think it’s an excellent question, though.

    Please ask and get back to us. If he says “no”, will you agree that Zionism is not Avodah Zara?

    Regarding the nonsense at the end about Israel and ISIS that you “put in my mouth”:

    Had the Zionists never invaded E”Y, meaning over a century ago (not just in 1948), there would have been no need for an IDF (and there would have not been the Chevron Massacre in the 1920s, et al.), which is what the holy Chazon Ish told the first Zionist Prime Minister, as I mentioned above.

    Now that the reality is that the Zionists have invaded E”Y and clearly are powerless to protect their citizens as, unfortunately, is quite evident from not only recent news reports but going all the way back to 1948 and before, it seems we need a miracle to resolve this. But davening for the Zionists is still 1000% wrong; we daven that Hashem should keep all Jews safe and sound, however HE chooses to do so.

    You said the same thing that I did using more words.

    in reply to: Chassidus #1105693
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    Probably the biggest difference (and most critical) is that they believe in a hereditary system of leaders, and those leaders are the conduit through which they serve the RBSO. A corollary to that point is that what the Rebbe says is law from the RBSO, similar to as if a Navi said it.

    Everything DY said is true as well to some extent. There are many adult male Chassidim who interact with the outside much more than Litvaks or Yerushalmis (for example, Satmar).

    in reply to: Modern Orthodoxy #1146104
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    HaKatan – Would you then argue that Agudah would take money from the Vatican, or from a Shinto shrine?

    Do you (or those who you base yourself on) hold that the Kenesset is a “Makom Avoda Zara” and should not be entered?

    If someone who is Modern Orthodox touched your non-mevushal wine, would you spill it out?

    These are direct questions, I would like yes or no answers.

    If you are in Israel, you are living intrinsically with it. You buy food from there and give to the economy, you are being protected by Israels army.

    HaKatan believes that the only reason he would need protection is because the Tzionim rule. If we would only surrender Eretz Yisroel to a group like ISIS, then we would all be protected. Or at least we would have, before the Tzionim engaged is HisGarus B’umos.

    in reply to: Modern Orthodoxy #1146092
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    Hakatan – You are an exception because you hold that Zionism is real Avodah Zara. You really should be in all of the MO (and Agudah, and Yeshivish, and many Chassidish) “Temples” decrying their worship of Avodah Zara (i.e. working with and wanting the Israeli state).

    L’shitascha, one is better off being Reform/Conservative (Liberal, and thereby anti-Israel) than being Agudah who takes money from Tzionim and swears to uphold the Tzionishe laws. As we know, one who is Oved Avodah Zara is like he was M’vatel the entire Torah.

    Agree or disagree?

    in reply to: Man taking a female coworker to lunch #1105238
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    Did they say “Mrs. Golda” (cf. Rav Ovadia) or perhaps like the English “Mrs. Yossi”?

    Wife of “Ploni” or daughter of “Ploni”.

    in reply to: Man taking a female coworker to lunch #1105230
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    You are assuming she can Bike or there is public transportation available

    Yes. If not, she can pay for biking lessons (not as if it is difficult, most 6-7 year old children can figure it out). Not your problem.

    in reply to: Man taking a female coworker to lunch #1105226
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    What if the woman is the sole support of her family and without this ride she has no Parnassah for her family

    Bike or public transportation. Your Shalom Bayis comes before Yenem’s Parnassah.

    in reply to: Man taking a female coworker to lunch #1105225
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    I don’t think anyone would notice if they were once five minutes late.

    That’s a Yichud issue, not what we are concerned with here.

    in reply to: Man taking a female coworker to lunch #1105220
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    1: This is exactly the case where Rav Moshe says it is allowed.

    Correction. Rav Moshe does not specify whether it is a one-time deal or not, but from the description in Iggros it would seem to be a one time thing. Daas Yochid has a good point, and I don’t know what Rav Moshe would say.

    Hadri Bi.

    in reply to: Modern Orthodoxy #1146056
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    HaKatan – Only if you hold Zionism is a Pasul. Of course, as Rov Yisroel takes Tzoinishe money, how Pasul could it be? 🙂

    in reply to: Man taking a female coworker to lunch #1105218
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    zogt_besser –

    1: This is exactly the case where Rav Moshe says it is allowed.

    2: Even Rav Moshe agrees that there is no Issur of Yichud, but rather says it is a bad idea because they might go out somewhere far and be Misyached. IN this type of scenario (which both are expected to be in specific places at specific times) that is not a Chashash.

    in reply to: Man taking a female coworker to lunch #1105209
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    In no way shape or form should you give her a lift.

    It is completely Mutter, but if you wanted an extra geder, you could be on the phone with your wife the whole time.

    But since your wife doesn’t want it it is assur mishum shalom bayis.

    You could also AYLOR.

    in reply to: Modern Orthodoxy #1146051
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    I know they don’t because michael broyde had to write a giant article to be ‘melamed zechus’ on all the MO women who don’t cover their hair.

    Sounds like he followed the lead of the Aruch HaShulchan.

    Regarding Yiddish, from Wikipedia:

    Yiddish (??????, ????? or ?????, yidish/idish, literally “Jewish”; in older sources also “Yiddish-Taitsh” (Judaeo-German)[3]) is the historical language of the Ashkenazi Jews. It originated during the 9th century[4] in Central Europe, providing the nascent Ashkenazi community with an extensive Germanic based vernacular fused with elements taken from Hebrew and Aramaic, as well as from Slavic languages and traces of Romance languages.[5][6]

    I don’t know how either Yidden speaking it (English) or being sourced from German (Germans?) makes a language “holy”.

    You probably have a better argument that Arabic is “Holy”, as not only is it similar to Aramaic and Hebrew, the Rambam (as well as others) also wrote many Seforim in that language.

    in reply to: Modern Orthodoxy #1146049
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    zahavasdad – Just like you ask that MO not be judged by those who are left-wing and use their MO-ness as an excuse to not follow Halacha, I ask you to not judge those who are not MO by those who use their “Frum-ness” as an excuse to insulate themselves from anyone (even other Torah Yidden) who is not exactly like them, and create a community of “like minded people” who truthspeak. (We are at war with Eastasia, we’ve always been at war with Eastasia.)”

    A Galach is Frum, a Yid is Erlich.

    in reply to: Modern Orthodoxy #1145931
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    There was no beginning to “Chareidism” except on Har Sinai; no particular person whose teachings they follow except Moshe Rabbeinu, and no particular Minhagim they perform. So there really is no such thing as a “Chareidi.” It is simply the generic, default, traditional manner of being frum.

    Moshe Rabbainu came down from Shomayim wearing a Borsalino, a Spodik AND a Straimel!!!

    in reply to: Modern Orthodoxy #1145930
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    Another big difference will be the height of the mechitzah in shul. R. Moshe said that we can rely on a 10 tefachim mechitzah, but many chareidi rabbonim say it must be high enough so that you can’t see the ezras nashim.

    Totally not. Many “Charaidi” shuls have balconies where the women can see the men (and vice versa, if the men look up). The Chassidim (a completely different issue) have a long standing Shittah (based on the Simchas Bais HaShoeivah) that there be no visual contact.

    In the here and now, due to a “not Frum enough” complex, Frum non-Chassidim feel the need to be as Frum as the Chassidim (or feel inferior), they say you need the visual mechitza.

    V’Harayah, the famous story at the the Agudah convention with the Chofetz Chaim, (who agreed to a visual mechitza due to the insistence of the Chassidim) which has been quoted here many times.

    in reply to: Dowries in Shidduchim #1098567
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    Throughout Jewish history, there’s been a minhag of the Kallah’s family giving the Chosson a dowry. Where does this tradition stem from?

    Nichsei Melug. Part of the reason of the Kesubah is as a pre-nup that she gets anything she brought into the marriage, including lands used to support her.

    If she does bring in Nichsei Melug, then she can sit in her own chambers and knit, with the husband responsible to support her.

    in reply to: Sunglasses assur? #1098327
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    “!” old man – Rav Elyashiv worked for the Tziyonim and Rav Shlomo Zalman held of Hetter Mechirah. We know better and can say it is Assur”!”

    (once again, I don’t think anyone said “assur”, but it is outside the cultural norm, like not buying an apartment for your daughter, which can cause someone to be “Yotzei min HaKlal” and Shunned)

    in reply to: Sunglasses assur? #1098326
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    But it’s dreamed up by a group of Yiddim with awareness of their debt to The Ribono Shel Olam, who seek to fulfill His will with mesirus nefesh, who have a sensitivity and a feeling for what behaviors belong to the goyish velt, and wish to remain as far away as possible from those mannerisms to bring nachas to The Abishter

    And so they build a Bamah AND bring Korbanos.

    ?’ ??? ???? ????? ????? ??? ??? ???????? ????? ????? ???? ????

    This is why we have Halachah and a Torah. Hashem told us how we should serve Him. We are not allowed to make up from our own Saychal how to serve Him.

    That being said, if there is a Geder as a reasonable (and for that you need a Rov) protection from being Over a real Issur, that would be positive (for example, not owning a smartphone), as long as it is couched as such and not as a stand-alone Issur.

    in reply to: Sunglasses assur? #1098323
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    GAW,

    Your bias is that you assume there was a non halachic ban.

    Nope, I didn’t assume that, you assumed that I assumed it, when all I did was assumed that other people assumed it 🙂

    Go back and re-read my original post on this thread.

    in reply to: Over 70% of Orthodox Jews are Chareidim #1098123
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    While often they’ll vote Democrat for local races (Councilman, Assemblyman, etc.) based on bread-and-butter issues, they overwhelmingly tend to vote Republican in Statewide and Federal elections. This can be easily corroborated by viewing Board of Election results in overwhelmingly Orthodox, including Chasidic, voting precincts.

    Except if Marc Rich needs to be pardoned? 🙁

    This just shows a major shortcoming of the study, in which those who identify as “Republican” are “independent” (vote what the Rebbe tells them) and end up voting Democrat most of the time.

    My point as well was that I expected the Chassidic side to be growing at a higher rate than other Yeraim.

    in reply to: Sunglasses assur? #1098315
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    So it is our bias that is informing your understanding. Ok. That happens to everyone. But this also helps others to understand your biases.

    What is your bias? I know mine is the plethora of non-Halachic Kol Koreis, as well as the B&W uniform, which some claim to be Halachic but are not.

    I’m surprised that you have a concern with my comment. You said “So some here decided that because he doesn’t see people wearing sun glasses, that there is an issur”. I agree with you (and DY) that those people are probably wrong, and it is cultural that the OP didn’t see anyone wearing sunglasses.

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