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September 12, 2019 6:38 pm at 6:38 pm in reply to: Eida Charedis Against Participating in Knesses Elections #1786245GadolhadorahParticipant
Eliezer>>>in previous threads on related themes, this apparent contradiction was explained by some in simple terms…” the Ebeshter will assure that everything works out for us if we continue to live in accordance with his torah, even if we refuse to participate in the electoral process and governance of the medinah…”
The interesting part is that some of these groups choose to live peacefully but outside the political process and essentially ignore the government while others seek every opportunity to protest and disrupt the governmentSeptember 10, 2019 11:32 pm at 11:32 pm in reply to: Best New Top Loading Washing Machine (Washer) #1785690GadolhadorahParticipantLB: You’ll see Speed Queen commercial washers and dryers in laundromats. Their residential lines are priced at the high end (upwards of $1500 each for a washer and dryer. They also offer a longer warranty than most other manufacturers. While we considered them, the units we saw had considerably small capacity than the Samsung and LG units. If you don’t have large loads and price is not a concern, they are probably the best units on the market. I’m fairly certain they are made in the U.S.
September 10, 2019 11:32 pm at 11:32 pm in reply to: Mochel Loch… time to forgive and be forgiven! #1785692GadolhadorahParticipantI am mochel everyone who voted for the current resident of the WH…well, almost everyone. By 2020, B’YH, you will have seen the done tshuvah at the polls
September 9, 2019 8:00 pm at 8:00 pm in reply to: Best New Top Loading Washing Machine (Washer) #1785253GadolhadorahParticipantSyag: For me, the biggest kvetch regarding front-loaders is having to bend down every time to load/unload. Half the time, there is always one sock left in the washer that was stuck on the top of the tub/drum (whatever it is called) and difficult to see unless you were lying down on the floor looking up. We didn’t have room for those “stands” which raise the height of the washer/dryer closer to eye level.
GadolhadorahParticipantLikewise, its hard to find a good chasideshe hashgacha for pork buns these days.
On a more serious note, its a good reminder that we need to look carefully even at products with a familiar hashgacha symbol since even the most reliable hashgachos occasionally make mistakes OR more likely, the producer may have used the template from another kosher product in designing the label for another product that is clearly treifus.
GadolhadorahParticipantMeno is correct. The mozzarella cheese used in the product clearly is not made with cholov Yisroel.
September 8, 2019 11:38 pm at 11:38 pm in reply to: Best New Top Loading Washing Machine (Washer) #1784988GadolhadorahParticipantSyag: I’ve used front-loaders for 15 years in a moderately wet climate and never had a problem with the door open after each use and a monthly “cleaning” cycle. I won’t inquire what you are putting into the washer or whether it was installed correctly so no water remains in the drain line below the tub.
September 8, 2019 6:55 pm at 6:55 pm in reply to: Best New Top Loading Washing Machine (Washer) #1784965GadolhadorahParticipantBenny……your usual tone deafness is humorous…..if you cannot handle satire about the Big Mitzvah No., 614 (the only one taken seriously by the conservative/reform gadolim), than perhaps go on Amazon and buy a sense of humor., If you are a Prime Member, they can deliver it to you tomorrow.
LB: The issue of keeping the door open on front loaders to avoid the odor of dampness is true but its no big deal and not a problem except if you live in a very high humidity area.
September 8, 2019 9:17 am at 9:17 am in reply to: Best New Top Loading Washing Machine (Washer) #1784737GadolhadorahParticipantP.S If cost is not a primary concern, than you may want to consider that front-loading washers are typically more expensive, but justifiably so. Front-loading washers consistently have been shown to result in cleaner clothes, are less damaging and for those concerned with tikun olam, are more energy and water efficient than top loaders. Even average, front-loading washing machines use 40-50% less water than the average top-loading washing machine.
September 8, 2019 8:42 am at 8:42 am in reply to: Best New Top Loading Washing Machine (Washer) #1784725GadolhadorahParticipantSamsung units seem to be highest rated…..a bit pricier since the import tariffs were added in 2018 but still very good. LGs have some additional bells and whistles but not reall necessary for 99 percent of users. Sadly, the ole standard Whirlpools and Maytags don’t measure up although they are American assembled (of imported components).
GadolhadorahParticipantA large percentage of the Nachmanites whose airline reservations to Uman in prior years turned out to be coupons for time-share vacations in Baluchistan have reported a segulah resulting from purchasing their airline tickets directly from El Al.
GadolhadorahParticipantIts not all that complicated. Live your life in accordance with your view of daas torah (as informed by your local Rav or posek), feel that you have done your best by hashem, your family and community, and most importantly, yourself, and walk into shul for the yamim noraim with humility but confident that you have done all you can to be zocheh for a shanah tovah.
GadolhadorahParticipantIts all personal. Most of us are NOT sitting around for hours on our smartphones playing video games or fantasy football any more so than our parents may have played mah jongg. Nor do 99 percent of smartphone owners sit around in a dark corner watching pritzus (which seems to be the bogeyman of the “ban smartphone crowd). Instead, both computers and smartphones have provided us with an enourmous amount of additional time to spend with out children, limud torah or just take a respite from the 24×7 treadmill of everyday life. I can pay my yeshiva tuition, , deposit a check into my bank account, reserve an airline seat to Uman, order my weekly grocery list online for delivery (and do instant price comarisons), check whether the hashgacha on a certain product is still in good-standing, order a new shtender for overnight delivery to the beis medrash etc. all in minutes rather than spending time traveling to the store or holding online for someone to answer the phone. If you don’t value time, than of course, all of these efficiencies are not important and you can continue to live your life in an analog version of the Alte Heim. The good news is you have the choice and don’t have to rely on someone else telling you how to organize and live your life and still be a shomer torah u’mitzvos.
GadolhadorahParticipantChash: I can understand your excitement about the opportunity of exchaning ideas with a gadol. Just take a deep breadth and relax. And yes, those who choose to live their lives in the electronic version of the alte heim (aka w/o smartphones/PDAs/computers) will definitely have substantial challnges completing basic daily functions since the large percentile of commercial activities and opportunities will be inaccessible. Yes, there are those today (Amish, etc.) who live w/o electric appliances andride in horse drawn wagons becuase they reject modern technology and they survive. However, even those groups have found work-arounds so they can function and their numbers are slowly declining as their children choose to maintain a conservative but still more contempoary lifestyle.
GadolhadorahParticipantFor a change, Reb Yosef provides a reasonably accurate mapping of the editorial positions of various frum media to the political canvas.
GadolhadorahParticipantA yid w/o a smartphone in 15 years will be living in a cave with virtually no access to financial services, most forms of public ground and air transportation, virtually all secular publications and many religious media and seforim, public services etc. Virtually all the functionality of modern life will have gone electronic/digital and those who voluntarily choose to cut themselves off will be dependent on a small cadre of niche service providers who will cater to these Luddites at much higher costs with a much narrower set of options.
GadolhadorahParticipantMore importantly, which hashgacha will provide the certification for the hot dogs sold in the bleachers and will they offer a veggie alternative to the Hechsher Tzedek crowd?
GadolhadorahParticipantFunny….as someone who is clearly not the most machmir on certain issues of kashrus, I would be uncomfortable eating anything that was heated in an oven where there was even a small likelihood of dual useage for treifus. I would worry about that more than whether the creamer for the coffee was cholov yisroel or cholov stam. I’m sure that is a contrarian view and not necessarily correct k’halacha as some have posited above but some concerns are just habitual.
September 4, 2019 6:54 pm at 6:54 pm in reply to: Younger siblings waiting for older to get engaged #1784047GadolhadorahParticipantIf a young man or woman meets his/her bashert, than it would be going against what the Ebeshter intended in order to avoid hurting the feelings of an older sibling. As other posters noted, first approach that sibling and convey your hope and confidence that they too will meet their bashert but having done so, “seize the moment”.
GadolhadorahParticipantSorry Reb Yossie but I’ve already accepted an invitation to be מסיים at the Siyum . However, I understand that Agudah is still seeking someone to sell peanuts and beer in Section 242 in the upper level.
GadolhadorahParticipantHuju: Agreed, but everything is “relative”. As compared to the other two clowns (Root and Klayman), they are reasonably competent and both command respect in professional circles (although maybe not from a peer-reviewed economic journal or make the “A-list” for a court nominaiton.
GadolhadorahParticipantI’m a bit skeptical that its “OK” to eat muffins/bagels that were either baked or reheated in an oven that might have been used to cook or reheat treifus, even if not at the same moment or an employee of the DD might have used that oven to heat up his/her ham and cheese sandwich for lunch.
GadolhadorahParticipantKudlow and Seculow are both really talented professionals (though I disagree with their political perspectives. Klayman is the ultimate tin-hat conspiracy theorist whose legal actions have been censured by bar associations and the Court. Root is more a comedian/nutcase who seems a product of the Tumpkopf era and low-cost cable TV news networks seeking to fill tim. I would hope neither of the these last two are ever associated with yiddeshkeit.
GadolhadorahParticipantLinkedIn has evolved as the default networking app used by the vast majority of professionals for both job search and career growth enhancement. If “work” or “career growth” are against your hashkafah, than obviously you should add the LinkedIn URL to your “blocked list”.
August 19, 2019 2:27 pm at 2:27 pm in reply to: Jobs for American Kollel Wives in Yerushalayim #1776469GadolhadorahParticipantProviding day-care for Joseph (assuming he lives in Yerushalayim) would not be especially compensatory and comes with a host of other issues for any normal baas yisroel.
Reminder that an A/2 and certain student Visas doesn’t always allow Americans to work while in EY and a separate work permit may be required. Don’t automatically assume your Visa automatically allows you to work while your husband is studying in EY.GadolhadorahParticipantCheck out the recent (debut) album by Shulem Lemer…great traditional nigunim and some new pieces…..he is the next Lipa…..(not that everyone was a Lipa fan)..
GadolhadorahParticipantThere are several websites which provide very useful calculators to assist you in the arbitrage decisions between points versus cash back (just use google search since I cannot post URLs here).. Having been an Amex member for many years, I’ve watched as the points have been “devalued” such that its more cost-effective to book on hotel and airline sites directly. The best option on air travel (if you have a higher level FF status which I assume you do if you travel frequently) is to buy the cheapest economy seat available and use points to upgrade to business class. Otherwise, cash back is the better option in most cases.
August 16, 2019 1:07 pm at 1:07 pm in reply to: Should citizens be able to adopt non-citizens at the border? #1775758GadolhadorahParticipantI would rather the placement process take a few weeks longer to fully vet the prospective foster parents/guardians. While keeping children in any sort of “detention” facility is always problematic, it would be much worse if there were some abuse downstream that might have been flagged by a more rigorous background investigation.
GadolhadorahParticipantA well know mekubal told me last night that:
1. The Ebeshter has assured him that the cost of all the tariffs imposed on imported products from China used by yidden are being paid for by the Chinese and not his yiddim.
2. Any new recession will only hurt the goyim and yidden will continue to have much hatzlacha and be exempted from any adverse economic effects of a global downturn.
Unfortunately, that Mekubal charged me more for sharing his nevuah with me than I had gained from the Trumpkopf’s tax bill and stock market upturn so overall, its been a net loss for me.August 15, 2019 9:19 pm at 9:19 pm in reply to: Should citizens be able to adopt non-citizens at the border? #1775653GadolhadorahParticipantOn a serious note, there are also many family members of young children arriving alone at the border who would be willing to provide foster homes/guardianship for those children. In this case, HHS is correct regarding the importance of doing intensive review of proposed family placements (including DNA matching) in some cases) to assure that these are truly family members and that they will be able to provide a good home to these children. This can take weeks or months and while the process is less complex than a formal adoption, may still be challenging from a legal perspective.
August 15, 2019 7:12 pm at 7:12 pm in reply to: Should Wedding gowns for the extended family be discontinued? #1775595GadolhadorahParticipant“””Also, which part of a woman wanting to feel “like Cinderella” is inherently not “Yiddish or right.”
Well, Cinderella was a machashefet (or at least the beneficiary thereof …..in Shamos,22:17 it says rather clearly that yidden ” shall not tolerate a sorceress among you” and in Vayikra 20:27 it says that “a man/woman who engages in witchcraft shall be pelted with stones and put to death”. Other than the two items above (and others that are a bit less explicit) I cannot imagine why aspiring to be Cinderella may offend Reb Yosef’s sensibilities.
August 15, 2019 5:11 pm at 5:11 pm in reply to: Should citizens be able to adopt non-citizens at the border? #1775576GadolhadorahParticipantReb Yid: If you are a true tzadik and are open to adopting Joseph, CT Lawyer has indicated his willingness to handle the legal matters (i.e. a court-ordered sanity evaluation for you and liability issues related to his prior trolls on social media in Mexico and unpaid bills to a mariachi band he flew in for a family Simcha).
August 15, 2019 4:17 pm at 4:17 pm in reply to: Should Wedding gowns for the extended family be discontinued? #1775568GadolhadorahParticipant“>….Only in America, the land of chitzonius..
Make American Great Again….ban gowns, not guns. Bridal registries NOT Gun registries.
GadolhadorahParticipantIt will be interesting to see if there are really as many lawsuits against yiddeshe mosdos as some predicted based on the intense political lobbying by orthodox organizations against the new legislation. There have been a few individuals making such allegations for years, but rarely offering any supporting evidence (which as others have noted is very difficult when the alleged assailant is deceased and most of these mosdos did not maintain detailed records).
August 15, 2019 1:08 pm at 1:08 pm in reply to: Should Wedding gowns for the extended family be discontinued? #1775378GadolhadorahParticipantGowns and formal wear are on the decline in the secular world. Thinks of all the “Tux Rental” places that have gone bankrupt or disappeared. The global trend is towards less formality in L’vush and events that used to say black tie/white tie not longer do so or make it “discretionary’. A chassanah is a special event and warrant a gown for the kalah but WHY does the rest of the bridal party need to dress up and dilute the special status of the kalah.
August 14, 2019 10:33 pm at 10:33 pm in reply to: Should Wedding gowns for the extended family be discontinued? #1775151GadolhadorahParticipantReb Yosef paskend: “laughing: I agree with you but the main problem is that it isn’t tznius for family members to go in a gown…”
I think our resident troll is suggesting that it would not be tziniusdik for the male members of the family to show up at a chassanah dressed as a woman. Probably not a good idea for getting more useage from dresses purchased for a prior Simcha that the women of the family refuse to wear againAugust 14, 2019 12:11 pm at 12:11 pm in reply to: Should Wedding gowns for the extended family be discontinued? #1774728GadolhadorahParticipant“….most people don’t want to do differently that what others do, it makes them feel uncomfortable..”
If you are talking about affluent yidden who take their kids on to luxury hotels for the yom tovim, have no problem paying their yeshiva tuition and do their routine shopping at Pomegrante, than of course, we don’t c’v want such a baas melech to feel “uncomfortable” by wearing the same dress to both Suralah’s chassanah and then a few months later to Feige’s chassanah. However, for the larger percentage of the frum tzibur struggling to pay the bills from month to month, they would be much better off dealing with their daughter’s “discomfort” than digging themselves further into a financial hole or paying tuition late or whatever, in order to purchase a dress for a simcha that is unlikely to have future utillity.August 13, 2019 10:07 pm at 10:07 pm in reply to: Should Wedding gowns for the extended family be discontinued? #1774561GadolhadorahParticipant“The women can learn from the men who have no problem whatever wearing the same suit to five consecutive weddings. Or even every Shabbos…”
And Reb Yosef forgot to mention that they can do so w/o even dry-cleaning that suit once meaning that after dancing at five hot summer weddings, that suit will be especially aromatic/פאַרשטונקען
GadolhadorahParticipantIn most cases, what you “see” is what you will be getting…Yes, you will find cases, especially for couples who marry very young, where they “learn” to love one another over time or simply “grew up together”. However, for older couples in their 30s and 40s (although on this site that may mean anyone over 18) its unlikely that initial appearances and behavioral traits will improve over time.
August 13, 2019 1:16 pm at 1:16 pm in reply to: Should Wedding gowns for the extended family be discontinued? #1773530GadolhadorahParticipantThere is no chiyuv for the bridesmaids and family members to wear a designer gown selected by the kalah….she may “suggest” they do so and if they don’t want to incur the expense, just say “thank you but I’d prefer not to”. These kinds of meshugaas get started and proliferate because people seem to lose their voice and don’t push back on these expensive minhagim that have no basis in Halacha and really do little in the context of being “mesameach choson v’kalah”. Whether it is a “destination wedding” where guests may have to spend thousands of dollars in air travel or hotel expenses to some “exotic” location or expectations of large cash gifts, invitees should do what they can afford and no more. Likewise, the families of the choson/kalah should be prepared to pick up the bill for special dresses if that is what they want to bridal part to wear. If some of the bridal party may be unfamiliar with the halachos of tzinius, there are many ways to engage with them on the appropriate type of dress w/o insisting that they purchase a specific style in a color selected by the kalah.
GadolhadorahParticipantCoffee Addict…..is that like going into an Ungarishe restaurant and asking for an order of their special house gefilte fish but requesting the waiter to “hold the sugar”. A liberal interpretation of your posting would suggest you haven’t read Karl Marx since your sophomore year in cheder
GadolhadorahParticipantOn Rosh Chodesh Elul I will be announcing my annual sale of special 2 NIS lemons grown on the grounds of Mar A Lago rebranded as “Deluxe Mahadrim Esrogim from Umbria” for the bargain price of 1,040 NIS. Supplies will be limited so get your order in early.
August 12, 2019 9:41 pm at 9:41 pm in reply to: Go Vegetarian to Protest Price of Kosher Meat #1773137GadolhadorahParticipantCanned mackerel sounds a lot more appetizing than frozen fish (or any other frozen edible) from china. I guess if price is the concern, than canned tuna casserole is better than frozen tilapia with ground drywall dressing from Cheng Chou.
GadolhadorahParticipant“One is allowed to ride a boat on Shabbos if you dont get on or off”
That makes the point. An ehrliche yid would get home from work early erev Shabbos and put on his Shabbos lvush and meet at least 9 of his BFFs (best frum friends) at the bus stop. They would all get on the vehicle before licht bentchen time, and ride around the route until its time for Havdalah and thereby aovid any chillul Shabbos. They could have a minyan on the bus have their meals onboard and maybe even have their own Kiddush club in the back if the guy delivering the d’var torah up front drones on too long and the rules don’t prohibit alcohol consumption (as most public transit systems do).GadolhadorahParticipantI would assume if no additional mass is added, there is no material expenditure of “energy” required to sustain forward movement in an elevator context. This suggests that Musk should consider changing their technology from an electro/ chemical reaction (battery) based vehicular propulsion system, to a FLYWHEEL/electro-mechanical based system.
GadolhadorahParticipantMost importantly, NEVER attempt to pass off a Katan for a Gadol!!
August 12, 2019 12:30 pm at 12:30 pm in reply to: Go Vegetarian to Protest Price of Kosher Meat #1772744GadolhadorahParticipantDovidBT: I can understand your avoidance of meat (for economic or ethical reasons) but WHY would you turn to CANNED meat as an alternative?? First, in many cases, canned fish is higher in sodium and in some cases in packed in oil. But more importantly, FRESH fish is so readily available and is so much more tasteful and healthier than the canned stuff.
GadolhadorahParticipant“I guess Josef must be on solid ground..”
Huhhh??? Are you serious…?? Looked like thin ice supported by a thread of misogynistic sarcasm….GadolhadorahParticipantSimple question: Without debating the pros/cons of Shabbos elevators, which many are willing to use and others not, is there any fundamental difference between the two technologies. Fortunately, most CR readers have no problems walking whatever distance is necessary on Shabbos. Some don’t and if they are willing to accept a Shabbos elevator heter, why would the self-driving vehicle be any different if it provides a degree of mobility on Shabbos otherwise unavailable.
August 9, 2019 7:27 pm at 7:27 pm in reply to: Over saturated professions in the Frum community. #1772167GadolhadorahParticipantNeville: Quit while you are ahead…..make Shabbos early, have an extra schtick kugel and go complain tomorrow morning to the gabbai about the lousy scotch being served at the Kiddush club.
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