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December 6, 2021 10:17 pm at 10:17 pm in reply to: WILL HASC CONCERT TICKETS GET CHEAPER THAN FIVE HUNDRED MEYOS??? #2038803GadolhadorahParticipant
“How about hezek reya”
AAQ. I’ll certainly defer to your familiarity with the gemorah in Bava Basra but my vague recollection is that the issue was not entirely clear as to whether ‘gazing’ on to your neighbor’s property and activities is to be considered is a real hezek and was assur or whether there had to be some real physical damage to trigger compensation or whether the concept was more applicable to private activities undertaken by your neighbor which if witnessed by others could cause an ’embarrassment’ (a component in determining compensation for injuries). I thought that halacha put the obligation for building a wall or some physical barrier was derived from a socialized obligation to avoid real physical damages in common areas for the common good. A clear, line-of-sight view from one neighbor’s property to another doesn’t obligate either to block their view of the other but certainly each has the option of doing so to the extent they wish to protect their privacy.
When the Lerner family built the Nationals Stadium, they left a portion of the center field wall open knowing that new condos in the neighborhood would have a view of the playing field. I believe the gemorah contemplated tha if one neighbor repeatedly performs activities without active protest from the other neighbor ( a form of chezkat tashmishin?) Would chezkat tashmishin apply to gazing rights? I have no clue but perhaps there was an implicit waiver of any rights to seek damages since the Rav living in the condo had no obligation to close his window blinds and block his view anytime the Nats were playing a home game. I could see a potential haalachic issue (along with an obvious tort under civil law) if he publicly advertised tickets to sit in his living or on his balcony to watch the Nats game.
December 6, 2021 3:44 pm at 3:44 pm in reply to: WILL HASC CONCERT TICKETS GET CHEAPER THAN FIVE HUNDRED MEYOS??? #2038480GadolhadorahParticipantHalachicly, anyone able to listen to a voice/sound isn’t obligated to pay for hearing it.
And we learn this from the fact that last summer a well known chashuve Rav in Washington D.C. tweeted a photo of himself and some of his talmidim watching the world series champions Washington Nats from the upper deck of his condo which had great views into nationals park to watch the heilege Dr. Anthony Fauci throw out the first pitch. It was discussed at the time that there was no inyan of ganavah since the building was clearly constructed with direct views over center field. (Note: Both the baseball field and the condo were built and owned by two of the most well known yiddeshe families in Washington).
GadolhadorahParticipant“but if someone from Tel Aviv became Observant, he’d likely move elsewhere..”
There are literally tens of thousands of frum yidden living in Tel Aviv, although no where near the frum percentages in Yerushalayim, BB, etc. However, Tel Aviv does have the highest per capita population of vegans in the world and without a doubt, the BEST veggie tofu anywhere in EY, or the world for that matter. There are hordes of bochurim coming to Tel Aviv on Thrusday evening from nearby yeshivos in Bnai Brak for their tofu-fix.
December 5, 2021 11:53 pm at 11:53 pm in reply to: WILL HASC CONCERT TICKETS GET CHEAPER THAN FIVE HUNDRED MEYOS??? #2038331GadolhadorahParticipantSometimes, these concerts set aside some tickets for students but generally they first try to sell as many as possible at the higher “fundraising prices”.
December 5, 2021 10:45 pm at 10:45 pm in reply to: WILL HASC CONCERT TICKETS GET CHEAPER THAN FIVE HUNDRED MEYOS??? #2038326GadolhadorahParticipantHopefully, they can sell out all the tickets at $500…..Camp HASC is one of the most unique mosdos doing incredible work with both children and adults with special needs, intellectual and physical disabilities. The more money they raise, the more they can expand and sustain their programs.
GadolhadorahParticipant“Tel Aviv is still holier than Brooklyn, or wherever akuperma lives”.
Th kedushah of a “place” is no greater or less than the kedushah of those who live there.
For all you know there may be a minyan of the lamud vov tzadikim living along Diezengorf–enough (at least for Avraham Avinu ) to keep the Ebeshter from considering some really tough love.GadolhadorahParticipantReb E: You were fortunate to have heard a vert directly from R’ Miller. I was not familiar with him so I found several videos of his presentations on YouTube. The most memorable was where he was saying the Badchunes at a shevah barachos for the grandson of Rav Chaim Kanyevsky. Never have I seen 20 minutes of R’ Chaim sitting at the dais laughing almost non-stop along with the other guests to a brilliant exposition of divrei torah presented with skillful humor with an Ungarishe nusuach.
GadolhadorahParticipant“When I was in yeshiva in e”y I’d pull down any poster for mearas hamachpela concerts whenever I happened to see one..”
Were you also the guy who spray painted all the Egged buses carrying ads depicting women who weren’t wearing burquas??? I’m sure your rabbonim were kvelling over your ruchniyus
GadolhadorahParticipantAs CJ Roberts said (paraphrasing) “since the original 24 weeks was arbitrary, why can’t a woman just make her (abortion) decision within 15 weeks”?? We can retain Roe v Wade but just substitute one arbitrary time limit for another since we are not dealing with a constitutionally guaranteed “right” (at least from the perspective of 5 or 6 justices).
GadolhadorahParticipantReferring to rabbonim by their first names makes sense given that surnames have come into widespread use only later in our mesorah. In the time of chazal and before the advent of surnames, R’ XYZ ben ABC would likely have been referred to by his peers and talmidim only as XYZ (since presumably his ABC lineage was known)
GadolhadorahParticipant“And that’s how we ended up with 2 Jewish Willie Wonkas”
Or was that TWO Uncle Moishys. You may recall the articles here in Ami magazine (and I think also reported here on YWN) several years ago about the food fight between Moshe Tanenbaum, the “original Uncle Moishy,” and an upstart imitator. Yossi Berktin, the “new Uncle Moishy,” . I forget how how that one was resolved
GadolhadorahParticipant“The Rama says that to see if a bird is not kosher, put it on a wire. If it puts two “toes” on one side and two on the other, it’s not kosher”
Yserbius123: If the rabbonim, shlita, can devise such a simple and straightforward test for assessing the kashruth of a hin or katschke, certainly they can devise an equivalent simple test to be used by a rav who is to be mesader kiddushin, confirming the “kashruth” of the chosson/kalah iuntil we have a reliable online yichus registry.
GadolhadorahParticipant“All of the kosher chickens sold come from a coupme corporate poultry farms that have been determined to be reliable. So I dint think every duck would need a Covid test..”.
Agree…..should be sufficient to have the chickens wearing face masks and only requiring a Covid test for the katshkes, with a plumba pasted on each egg showing it tested negative.
Since we are on the subject of chicken farms and plumbas (how’s that for a really bad segue) there is an old joke from one of the heimeshe resorts in the Catskills where a guest complained to the mashgiach in the dining room that his wife nearly choked on a plumba, and that he would sue the resort for all its worth. The terrified mashgiach ran over to the resort’s owner sitting nearby who quickly grabbed a microphone : “I’d like to announce that Mrs. Gevornlick has found the hidden plumba and won a free week at the resort.
GadolhadorahParticipant“But still an issue regarding how can we be sure all of the eggs come from the kosher breed without a reliable השגחה….The store mashgiach is going to look into it…”
So the store mashgiach is going to drive to the duck farm and observe that each egg comes from a kosher katshke with a dark beak?? And we wonder why the cost of kosher food is so high?
December 2, 2021 6:12 pm at 6:12 pm in reply to: Public menorah lightings and rooftop menorahs #2037448GadolhadorahParticipantThere are cars and minivans parked near Chabad houses throughout the world this week with menorahs on the roof. I guess these are owned by the same “idiots” who drive around with a small succhah on the back of a flatbed truck or Your respect for other yidden continues to shine through
GadolhadorahParticipantUbiq: As Bill Clinton would say, it depends on what you mean by “material” and whether there is an explicit de minimis waiver in halacha for “very small” (aka non-material) amounts of fuel combustion on shabbos needed to produce the incremental thrust for the additional weight of several yidden who are very unhappy about potentially being mechallel shabbos for this (or possibly one of several other malachos).
GadolhadorahParticipantAkuperma: In all fairness, there is more to Tel Aviv than a pritzusdike parade, treife chulent and coffee shops serving grande mocha lattes w chlov stam.
GadolhadorahParticipantNisht: Putting aside the obvious attempt at humor in my post, davening in a Vaasikin/Neitz Minyan, at whatever speed of the shaliach tzibur, doesn’t change the earliest hanetz allowable time for davening shemoneh esrei.. Indeed some argue that it is a “mitzvah min hamuvchar” to begin saying the Shema slightly before hanetz, with the intention of completing the Shema and saying “Goal Yisrael” coincident with sunrise and proceeding immediately into the Shemoneh Esrei. One who has the discipline to follow this timeline (with the cooperation of his iPhone alarm, car starting up and a woke (literally) shaliach tzibur) is said to be guaranteed a chelek of olam haboh.
Bottom line: A true vasikim minyan, with a 33, 45 or 78 RPM shaliach tzibur will always get you to the office on time and depending on your location, maybe even allow you to drive on the HOV lanes before the 2/3 passenger rules cut in.GadolhadorahParticipantUJM: “I was called a troll…”
Outrageous….the offender should be permanently banned from the CR, absent extenuating circumstances.GadolhadorahParticipantToday’s case IS the Mississippi case on 15 week “viability”. Case was clearly teed up to challenge RVW 15 week threshold. Texas law is more interesting although not yet before SCOTUS. Issue in Texas is more related to their procedure of delegating enforcement to third parties so there is no “state actor” to sue. Same strategy arguably could be applied by Blue states to 2nd Amendment rules et al which has resulted in even Conservative judges questioning the Texas law on procedural rather than substantive grounds.
GadolhadorahParticipantInteresting that CJ Roberts floated several “middle ground” positions on “viability” et. al. that would avoid having to reverse RvW hoping that either Kavanaugh or Barrett would bite but neither seemed interested. Alito, Thomas piled on and said only real options were to reverse or affirm. Goresuch was a bit of a enigma based on his questioning of the SG.
GadolhadorahParticipantUJM: “So you never met Devorah Rivka Kaplan-Moskowitz-Katzenellenbogen-Srulowitz??”
What a coincidence. Yes, I actually dated her in high school, but back then she simply went by “Devorahlah”. Really nice girl. What is she doing these days?
GadolhadorahParticipantIf you daven vasikim, you will have the benefit of davening at a reasonable speed but with the assurance you will finish earlier
GadolhadorahParticipantSo there is no real halachic plusses to wearing a long jacket?
There are no halachic “plus or minus” for wearing ANY lvush as long as such lvush is modest (tzinius applies to both men and women) and appropriate for the circumstances (aka don’t show up in the beis medrash in your PJs)i. Rely on your LRP for guidance if uncertain about minhag hamokom.
GadolhadorahParticipant“What normally is innocent (like this case) becomes something we avoid when it smacks of goyishe hashkofos’
This very clear and truthful explanation goes to the heart of many machlokis debated here in the CR. Someone decides that an otherwise mutar, rational or functional form of behavior or activity has morphed into “goyeshe hashkafos”, creates the potential for “maris ayin” or is simply inconsistent with how our grandparents acted, dressed, spoke etc in the Alte Heim. When that “someone” is a big daas torah, we obviously stop and consider his argument. When that “someone” is a chashuvah CR poster (other than Reb E who is our virtual LRP) we give it thoughtful consideration but don’t feel any obligation.
As others have noted, there are multiple reasons why a woman might legitimately want to retain her maiden name or hyphenated name after marriage. Feminism along with other “isms” and practical reasons are possible drivers but there is NO chiyuv to do something that is really important to you as an individual or a member of a family in order to conform to some abstract psak about a non-existant geder under halacha. Proudly keep your name if thats your preference and if gives you a positive sense of kavod to your father’s name.GadolhadorahParticipant“They’re not our friends! They only use their Yiddishkeit for election and monetary gain.”
Are you accusing yiddeshe politicians of acting politically? Say it isn’t so.
GadolhadorahParticipantCNN should have fired him after the first round of exposure on his involvement with his brother’s bullying and harassment allegations. I can’t imagine that his ratings were so high they were reluctant to fire him sooner.
GadolhadorahParticipant“Hats and Coats are what Jews need to focus on in 2021? For gosh sakes..”
Yabia: Uumein, v’Uumein. We should be focusing on how $10 sufganiyot are worsening the shidduch crisis.
GadolhadorahParticipantAs noted above, there is no inyan in halacha to have a “last name” nor are many of the most chashuvah rabbonim in our early history known by a surname. Perhaps ask your husband to change HIS last name to yours so as to make it easier for the kids. As to the shtus about retaining your name being derivative of a “feminist” trend which is alien to yiddeshkeit, I would respectfully suggest that misogyny cloaked in halacha is also alien to yiddeshkeit.
GadolhadorahParticipant“I do not think there is an increase in fuel consumption with commercial airliners caused by an individual”
Sorry, but there is an increase in fuel consumption based on the weight of the aircraft. Some of you may recall episodes where the pilot came on the PA system and advised of a delay while they “took on more fuel” because the flight ended up carrying more passengers than forecast or more baggage.
Obviously, one or even five additional passengers on a wide-body aircraft won’t materially affect fuel consumption BUT unless they are in a zero gravity bubble within the fuselage, they will cause some very small increase in fuel consumption.GadolhadorahParticipantReb E: Good point… I guess its all relative. I
GadolhadorahParticipantIf we approach kiddush from the perspective of hiddur mitzvah, WHY do so many ehrliche yidden use a cheap and pedestrian Concord or Malaga sweet wine as distinct from one of the literally dozens of high quality varietals and vintages with good hashgacha readily available?
GadolhadorahParticipantIs there a generic heter to be mechalel shabbos if done so pursuant to a lawful order of a government agency? While the purported intent of the travel ban was pikuach nefesh, its hard to make the case here that there was a real or imminent public health threat. As a practical matter, I agree that short of being detained or arrested, these individuals had no choice.
GadolhadorahParticipantJust to clarify the OP. Is the context of the question whether it is permissible to use “other” options when wine is not available for one reason or another or whether these “other” options can be substituted even where wine is available.
GadolhadorahParticipantMultiple potential issues regarding various formulations of “work” assur on shabbos including, but not limited to your incremental weight/baggage requiring additional kerosene consumption/thrust by engines, techum shabbos, electronic tools used for check-in and onboard, etc. If you must travel, consider using a shabbos compliant “transporter” as per Captain Kirk and Scotty on StarTrek.
GadolhadorahParticipantIt only works when baalei simcha post information. I suspect that between Covid and privacy concerns, there have been relatively few poishete yidden anxious to advertise their simchas. If you are uncertain about the link’s functionality, why not try and post a clearly labled “test simcha” announcing you have found your beschert here in the CR and his/her name is XXXX. You might bring much simcha and naches to at least one poster suffering from low self-esteem.
GadolhadorahParticipant“and YWN puts a nice spin on to keep me happy….”
Like linking every article about Biden, Pelosi, or Obama to some really wierd and unflattering photos of their subject? At least there is no claim of “fair and balanced”.
GadolhadorahParticipantAt least by Chabadniks, the rebbe was clear that the only time it was appropriate to make kiddush on mashke was simchas torah….otherwise, shabbos was strictly wine. Obviously, not all misnagdim will adhere to the rebbe’s shita
November 29, 2021 4:17 pm at 4:17 pm in reply to: what is the cause of income inequality in the jewish commnuity? #2035760GadolhadorahParticipant“They [government employees] can almost never be fired, thanks to the union thugs, even if all they do is clock-in and clock-out on time, but otherwise sit and do virtually nothing other than slack….”
UJM: I was not referring to the jerks hired in the prior administration, who were forced to resign for flying home on weekends first class or using government aircraft for personal vacation travel, padding their payrolls with 20 yo Schedule C appointees who worked on the campaign and hung-out at the Trump hotel bar etc. I’m talking about career government employees working at NIH, staffing FEMA emergency centers, getting disability payments andsocial security checks mailed and treating veterans at VA hospitals. Yes, there is deadwood in the federal government but you could go into a large number of Fortune 500 companies where non-performing employees and poor service is the norm. The wait-time for a service call to your bank or cable provider can be as long as that to the IRS.
As to benefits, government employees don’t get stock options, paid-“team building” retreats at luxury resorts, free meals at company cafeterias and a lot of the other “free stuff” you hear about at tech companies anxious to attract and retain talent.GadolhadorahParticipantPositive side is that the Rabbanut’s hashgacha bureaucracy is inefficient, occasionally prone to graft and fails to effectively communicate to their clientele. As noted above, many segments of the frum tizbur, various chassidus etc. have their own niche hashgachos. The private sector will provide a more focused, efficient and reliable system versus the current bloated system. New private label hashgachos may hire some of the thousands who currently work for the Rabbanut and perhaps the others can find employment in other sectors of the economy.
November 29, 2021 9:33 am at 9:33 am in reply to: what is the cause of income inequality in the jewish commnuity? #2035549GadolhadorahParticipantCTLawyer: I’m sure you’ve done the research but my understanding is that the largest wave of Jewish immigration was in the first several decades of the 19th century and in general, was less affluent than those who came over in the 1870s-1890s. Again, I’ve not done any research. Your point regarding some of the early German-Jewish assimilation is fairly important in looking back at yidden in America. We often focus narrowly on a few merchant and investment banks with Yekkishe ties but it goes much deeper than that.
GadolhadorahParticipantIf we look back at any number of public policy decisions (both actions and inactions) of our government, it will be easy to find any number of those lacking in any moral justification, with arguably racist intent and objectively horrific outcomes. In some cases, we seek to retroactively do tshuvah for such actions but in most cases, move forward and hopefully simply learn from the past
November 29, 2021 8:21 am at 8:21 am in reply to: what is the cause of income inequality in the jewish commnuity? #2035522GadolhadorahParticipantAAQ: Congress established the Federal Salary Council (FSC), an advisory body made up of academics, private employers and public employee leaders to study the question of comparative compensation of federal versus private sector employees to provide input into annual federal salary changes for budgetary purposes. Their most recent study showed that federal employees are underpaid by as much as 22-35 percent compared to their private-sector peers although most of the differential is skewed at the higher compensation levels.
However, federal employees shouldn’t expect a big spike in comparability pay since virtually all presidents of both parties ignore their recommendations and link any increases to the lower of inflation and/or the increase separately decided for military personnel. The rationale is that federal employees willingly accept lower salaries for job security as well as many benefits NOT factored into the FSC criteria.However, as an example, the top federal government lawyer in the SG’s office with 25+ years of arguing cases before SCOTUS is paid LESS than the starting salary of a FIRST YEAR associate at one of the top D.C. litigation firms. Indeed, if that first year associate goes into private practice having clerked for one of the Justices, there is a separate $200K to $300K signing bonus separate from their annual salary. I’m sure there are other cases where government employees leave for private sector work at lower salaries, but that is generally NOT the norm in the D.C. area. It could be more likely in more rural areas or outside major cities where CoL is lower and mean private sector salaries are lower than those in D.C.
November 28, 2021 8:46 pm at 8:46 pm in reply to: what is the cause of income inequality in the jewish commnuity? #2035382GadolhadorahParticipantn0meshorah: You make a very good point. The Baltimore Washington metro area has a very highly educated Jewish population, with a higher percentage of advanced degrees than just about any other area of the country. However, many of those individuals, especially in D.C. are scientists working at the NIH, FDA, etc. or lawyers and other professionals working at various federal agencies. While some of those agencies have some exemptions from civil service salary caps (just increased to $172,500 for high level GS-15s) most are subject to that cap and earn considerably less than they might earn in comparable jobs in the private sector. However, they are willing to take the salary cuts in return for opportunities for public service, predictable work hours and flexibility to be shomer shabbos/yom tov. I’m sure this includes some yidden who commute to D.C. and its suburbs from Baltimore.
GadolhadorahParticipantMany, many years ago I heard severa explanations from a Rav. The one that stayed with me (perhaps because it was the most intuitive) is that because it was assur to replicate the keilim used in the Beis Hamikdash, and the Menorah in the Beis Hamikdash had 7 lights, the rabbonim paskind that the Chanukah menorah should have 8 lights. (I’ve never confirmed where chazal bring down that is is assur to make copies of the keilim used in the Beis Hamikdash).
GadolhadorahParticipant“Pray tell, what do you consider important for jews to be discussing in 2021?”
Anything but shidduch crisis, Trump, UJM’s misogyny cloaked as daas torah, my vegetarian chulent recipes, funky Covid cures and the politically tone deaf nareshkeit of both political parties.
GadolhadorahParticipant“Pray tell, what do you consider important for jews to be discussing in 2021”
On a list of the top issues for yidden in 2021, lace sheitels are lists as no. 317. Perhaps consider how yiddeshe mosdos and individual families should be planning now to accommodate what may be several years of covid-related overhang w/o shutting down daily lives. How about addressing chronic poverty in segments of the tzibur, making our voices heard in many cities and towns with new “woke” political leadership, working with daas torah to find “safe” ways of introducing limited use of computers and internet access, promoting decentralization of frum life into new communities to address the skyrocketing cost of housing, education etc. in the established frum communities in NY/NJ areas, etc. etc. etc.
Lace sheitels are not on anyone’s radar screen but for a few untalented, immature and boring trolls.November 28, 2021 11:07 am at 11:07 am in reply to: what is the cause of income inequality in the jewish commnuity? #2035062GadolhadorahParticipantIn the early 1900s, during the first wave of European immigration to the U.S., fewer than 10 percent of Yidden living in America could be characterized as even marginally “affluent”. Among those 10 percent were an even smaller percentage (including many with Yekkishe backgrounds) who were among the most affluent individuals in America who had amassed their wealth in merchant banks and other financial institutions, retails and even a few manufacturing firms. As the numbers of low wage immigrants increased, the median incomes declined going up through WWII. In the post-war period, many of the “baby boomers” became the first in their families to go on to college and got high-paying jobs in a wide range of sectors, including science and technology. This all occurred in an economy where a college degree and graduate degree were in most cases prerequisites to economic advancement.
In those segments of the tzibur that spurned higher education and professional opportunities there were still some whose entrepreneurial skills allowed them to succeed and earn a good paranassah. Overall, however, a lack of advanced academic and job skills resulted in those segments of the tzibur having lower average incomes than MO and secular yidden and a higher dependency on government transfer payments and welfare programs. There is some indication these trends could gradually change as more Chareidi families find opportunities to pursue educaiton and professional careers consistent with their hashkafah but for now, the income gap is fairly significant.GadolhadorahParticipantMods: Is this a race to the bottom??
Nah, I was just waiting for someone to defend me.
November 27, 2021 10:31 pm at 10:31 pm in reply to: Caterer charging an extra “chanukkah fee” of $400 for our simcha. #2034895GadolhadorahParticipant” The price is whatever the parties to a transaction agree to…
Correcting my own overly-broad comment. As reported here over the past several years, Rabbonim in various communities have placed caps on how much should be spent on weddings and potentially other simchas. I would imagine that in those communities for those who subscribed to the views of that daas torah, yidden would be obligated to limit what is charged so as to allow baalei simcha to stay within those caps.. In those cases, I believe the simcha halls, worked with specific caterers, photographers, florists, etc. to offer a “package price” for all the services that was within the allowable budget. -
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