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GadolhadorahParticipant
When you combine a 24 hour news cycle and the dissemination ease and anonymity of social media commentaryb , the rule is generally “post first and find the facts later”
GadolhadorahParticipant“What heter was there for bachurim to dance when they heard the news?”
I suspect it was a spontaneous reaction to what most of us consider great news and while you may be an exception, most yidden don’t stop consult with or seek a heter from their LRP when reacting spontaneously.
GadolhadorahParticipantWondering555: I’d agree with Qwerty…..Probably better to move on. However, if you really want to appeal the expulsion with the Rosh Yeshiva, than write from your heart and convey your feelings. An appeal from a “professional writer” is likely to come across as phony and not especially helpful. If the school administration felt the circumstances warranted expulsion rather than suspension or some lesser penalty, its unlikely they will reverse themselves because you are feeling emotionally distraught.
July 29, 2024 9:11 am at 9:11 am in reply to: Yet Frum people get screamed at or thrown off the plane #2300371GadolhadorahParticipant“Why do woman have exclusive rights in deciding how men should act or can not act?”
I’m sure there are documented cases where women on airplanes or on trains have assaulted mail passengers but it is an order of magnitude more frequent that men inappropriately touch or assault women. The numbers are what they are and sadly its not all that “rare”. Obviously not all men are “pervs” but in some countries the realities of these kinds of assaults are all too real and offering women the option is something the governments of those countries support. They are not doing it for purposes of “holiness” or any element of religious preference. Its purely a matter of physical safety.
GadolhadorahParticipantAchdus in support of evil achieves nothing. In EY, there was achdus for the first month or two after the simchas torah massacre but both sides quickly retreated to their corners and began talking past one another and the political leadership sadly seems to thrive on this polarization.
July 29, 2024 9:10 am at 9:10 am in reply to: Should Jews Go on Vacation while Israel is at War? #2300325GadolhadorahParticipant“This is an individual issue and a Rov should be asked….”
First, ask YOURSELF if YOU are comfortable. If not and you are in EY, perhaps consider spending a portion of your vacation volunteering in some venue whose regular workers have been called up for reserve duty. In the U.S., take a portion of what you had budgeted for a vacation and donate it to mosdos that are supporting those from the North who have been forced to leave their homes for over 6 months with no end in sight. While your LRP can be a helpful sounding board, its less a matter of halacha and more an issue of your personal ethics, hashkafah and comfort levels.
July 26, 2024 9:42 am at 9:42 am in reply to: Yet Frum people get screamed at or thrown off the plane #2300113GadolhadorahParticipantBM; Just to be clear, this is an Indian airline which is offering a comparable option long-available on Indian rail lines. If you’ve ever been to India, you know that most of the intercity rail lines have women only cars to literally protect women from the pervasive physical assaults and unwanted touching from men that is sadly embedded in Indian culture. It is not done for religious accommodation nor are women required to use gender-segregated rail cars. Some rail lines in Japan offer the same option and airlines are following suit. The same arrangements would likely be illegal in the U.S. and most of Europe.
GadolhadorahParticipantSquare Root : So other than those 3 factors, do you agree with Hakatan??
GadolhadorahParticipant“Those that are compulsively obsessed with anti Chabad style talk, usually in my experience, pretty happy to use Chabad”
PureYid: As someone who has indulged Chabad hospitality for several decades at dozens of locations throughtout the world, I can confirm you sage assessment. I suspect that from a numerical perspective, there may have been more misnagdim dining at Chabad house dinners in remote corners of the globe than Chassidim. Nor have I ever seen someone ejected from a Chabad minyan for adding “vayatzmach purkanei…” in kaddish or too loudly intoning an “Uuuumein”:
GadolhadorahParticipantWe should emulate EVERYTHING our grandparents did in the Alte Heim regardless of what we know today about the health risks and the multiple nutritional options available to just about everyone regardless of their income levels. Yes, many will die at a younger age, but who are we to believe its ok for yidden to live longer today than our grandparents and their parents.
GadolhadorahParticipantI think it would be easier to predict when Moishiach will arrive than the outcome of the November election. The events of the past several weeks were beyond the imagination of even the most wild-eyed script writers of West Wing and Veep and it will likely get even crazier in the next several months.
The polls still clearly favor Trump but having a new Democratic ticket with Harris and her VP choice at least make the race more competitive.GadolhadorahParticipantAfter Trump called for “unity” and a more civil dialogue at the Republican Convention Thursday night, the Ohio legislator introducing J.D. Vance at a rally in Ohio last night screamed to the crowd that “if we lose this election, it’s going to take a civil war to save the country… and if we come down to a civil war, I’m glad we got people like Bikers for Trump on our side.”.
Clearly, he didn’t get the memo or if he did, he violently disagrees with Trump’s call for unity and civility. In fairness, he apologized this morning for his poor choice of words. Perhaps there is a more polite way to say “civil war”.I’m certain the Dems have their own crazies and we will have these kinds of instances going forward on both sides,
July 22, 2024 8:48 pm at 8:48 pm in reply to: Post-debate fallout- question for Democratic voters #2299076GadolhadorahParticipantEx-CTlawyer; If you are planning to attend the convention and a virtual roll-call hasn’t already locked-in the nominees, I’ll send you a campaign button
“Beshear is באַשערטWhile Harris will likely retain the support of the traditional Democratic constituencies, Beshear is the strongest of the Democratic VP options to attract the independent voters turned off by the far-right MAGA turn of the Republican party.
Winning in Kentucky is hard enough for a Democrat but he has done so TWICE and successfully worked across the aisle with a Republican legislature. Perhaps most importantly for many here in the CR, he has been a consistent supporter of EY, speaking out strongly after October 7th. More than just flying state flags at half mast, his administraiton has aggressively gone after those accused of anti-semitic attacks and established a state Task Force on fight antisemitism. I also like Roy Cooper of NC but believe Beshear will provide a stronger boost to the Democratic ticket in NovemberGadolhadorahParticipant“Joe may be sleepy, but what is Dopey Donnie going to do now that Sleepy Joe has withdrawn from the presidential election race?
Clearly, he will be spending more time bashing Doc, Grumpy, Happy, Bashful, and Sneezy.
GadolhadorahParticipant“What about dedications for commodes?”
Well, I guess you have to draw a line somewhere. Its doubtful anyone wants to spend several hundred dollars for a small brass plaque in the back of a stall door for someone to read about his tatah, a’h, while sitting on the throne.
July 21, 2024 2:54 pm at 2:54 pm in reply to: Why b’davka Trump was shot, and why b’davka in the ear #2298592GadolhadorahParticipant“please try to keep up with all the lessons that Hashem sends to you indirectly…”
I generally find it challenging just to keep up with the multitude of direct messages, so the indirect communications often get sidelined.
July 20, 2024 11:36 pm at 11:36 pm in reply to: The Fade No Peyos Look found Among Bnai Yeshiva #2298454GadolhadorahParticipant‘Peyos is no different than any other style”
Huhh??? There are some that naively believe that having pyeos is m’doraisah (V’yikra 19.27).
Shtreimlach and Huizen Zaaken are hashkafah-based style statements from the Alte Heim. Peyos are not,
July 19, 2024 6:53 pm at 6:53 pm in reply to: Why b’davka Trump was shot, and why b’davka in the ear #2298440GadolhadorahParticipantIt’s well known that often when klal yisroel deserves a punishment or just a little wake up call, instead of punishing us, Hashem in His infinite kindness punishes the goyim instead hoping that we wake up….”
So when the goyim deserve to be punished, the Ebeshter inflicts pain on Yidden?? Whats your point??
If you want Reb Moshe to change his ways, punishing Reb Yankel is unlikely to create the needed incentive for Reb Yankel to behave differently
GadolhadorahParticipant“The Chabad-Lubavitch propaganda apparatus is sizable and busy, and has been so for quite a while….”
With all due respect, the media efforts coming out of 770 are generally focused on the work of chabad shalichim around the world and are not a bunch of guys in black hats running up and down Eastern Parkway waving yellow flags or live-streaming 24×7 coverage from the Ohel. Likewise, the Agudah, Lakewood/BMG or KJ Satmar media efforts are all reasonably effective at sharing their “propaganda” at both a local and national level.
GadolhadorahParticipant“Where is Gimmel Tammuz mentioned in Tanach or Talmud or Shulchan Aruch or Rishonim”??
In Gematria, gimmel is 3 and Tamuz is the 10th month (starting from Tishrei). 3+10=13. Clearly a siman of mazal for bored Litvish CR participants.
GadolhadorahParticipantWith respect to the OP, reporting this AM is that local police deployed at the building used by the sniper were stationed INSIDE the building “because the sloped roof was dangerous” but it gets even better. One of the local snipers SAW the shooter with his weapon dressed in tactical gear on at least two occasions BEFORE the shooting, in one instance with the shooter looking at the stage through a rangerfinder but did NOTHING other than try to take a picture on his iPhone and then had trouble downloading it in an attempt to email it to the command post.
I can understand why he might have been hesitant to take him down but WHY not at least detain him rather than allow him to wander off and several minutes later take the shot. Also, it would have taken $50 worth of plywood and 2x4s from the local Home Depot to fabricate a flat platform on the roof rather than having the snipers watching the crowd from ground level inside the building.GadolhadorahParticipant“Gadolhadofi, if I were you, I would not talk with a screen name dofi. charef, vegudaf according to the Redak in Tehilim (50,20). Great ugliness..,
“Stop making a mockery of the title “Reb” with your inappropriate, unearned screen name, you twisted ignoramus….
Seems more likely we will see Biden and Trump embracing and singing kumbayah than hearing a virtual rendition of Achenu kol Beis Yisroel here in the CR
GadolhadorahParticipantYechiell: Don’t expect a rational discussion here about Biden’s creds regarding support for EY.
Biden, along with at least half of the population of EY is clearly fed up with Bibi’s self-centered approach to the Gaza campaign focused on keeping himself in power and out of jail.GadolhadorahParticipantThe investigation thusfar has no clue as to the motive of the shooter, even after checking his phone, computer, social media postings and interviews with his friends and family, Not that its definitive, but media interviews with his high school friends consistently indicate he leaned to conservative positions in classroom discussions and he registered as a Republican.
Both sides have engaged in vile hyperbole about the other but there is no indication that rhetoric has resulted in any specific attacks.
The OP is the kind of useless speculation that sadly is good headline material for the tabloids.
P.S. Perhaps his $15 donation to some progressive voter registration group several years ago is the smoking gun.GadolhadorahParticipantThe whole level of discourse has declined since the time of Reagan and even Clinton. Policy disputes were substantive and even personal digs were somehow framed in non-pejorative terms and with Reagan, a great sense of humor and light sarcasm. I don’t think today’s politicians even realize how destructive their rhetoric has become. We can debate which side is worse but thats irrelevant to some degree.
While Trump posted several times yesterday that he was going to try and focus on a unifying message, I’m not sure all the speakers got the memo. Likewise, Biden can’t seem to let go of some of his standard jabs at Trump which he acknowledged in the interview with NBC last night.
Sadly, I don’t see anything on the horizon that will change anything, even with Saturday night’s attack still fresh in our minds.
GadolhadorahParticipantIf it helps fund a worthy project or program, than sponsorships make sense if done in good taste. The nightly Daf Yomi shiur with R’ Stefansky begins with his briefly reading and displaying on the screen the names of several sponsors. Clearly, these funds are helping to sustain and expand perhaps the largest online daf program with 25,000+ participants. At the same time, I’ve been to some shuls where literally every room, chair, shtender, paroches, and every square inch of wall space has a an engraved brass plaque with the name of the donor or referencing some niftar z’l etc.
Its all a question of doing so in a measured way for a worthwhile cause.
”GadolhadorahParticipantA lot of Jews feel totally frustrated with the abysmal choices they will have in November. A country of 380 million people could do better than presenting us with two polarizing individuals that turn off such a large percentage of the electorate.
GadolhadorahParticipantSadly, it seems both sides can’t let go of their venom and hatred.
GadolhadorahParticipantRead the story on the YWN news page tonight about a horrific situation where hundreds of girls who were supposed to attend Camp Malka were first transported to the camp which didn’t have an occupancy permit so were then shipped off to a local hotel with inadequate or no accommodations for these kids until the police ordered them to be sent home. Now, they will have no summer program, the parents hope their non-refundable payments will be refunded and someone will just shrug and say “sorry we let you down”.
GadolhadorahParticipant“I assure that many Jewish men suffer a hard time with shidduchim, including……”
So do girls with the same negatives, but somehow, both the vast percentage of boys and girls ultimately find a shiduch unless they are truly dysfunctional and set non-attainable criteria for their beschert. Yes, there are some sad stories but there always have been and will be..
GadolhadorahParticipantThose who wish for Biden to step aside seem to believe it would be relatively easy for the convention to nominate Harris or another candidate that would appear on the ballot in all 50 states as the Democratic candidate. While I truly wish Biden would somehow disappear from public life, the actual mechanics of having pledged Biden delegates vote for a new candidate and have that name appear on the November ballot as the Democratic party candidate is considerably more complicated and will be litigated in a number of states where election laws are relatively arcane and Republicans are certain to contest any changes. Also, there is a federal law requiring states to mail out absentee ballots several weeks after the Democratic convention in August so there will be little time to litigate and resolve any challenges before ballots are printed.
GadolhadorahParticipant“The fact that the 1200 people who were nebach murdered wouldn’t agree is #1 they were mainly nonreligious people and I don’t think a Gemara in Baba Basrah really talks to them….”
You can call it apikorsus or whatever….My only point was that secular Israelis have been told for decades that limud torah by the Chareidim offers “protection” to klal yisroel but that mantra has become a very difficult political sell after simchas torah.
GadolhadorahParticipant“Yarchei Kallah is NOT the Lakewood oilam. BMG’S involvement is negligible”
Huhh?? BMG sponsors an annual Yarchi Kallah for all the ehrliche Litvish farmworkers in south Jersey….I can’t post the link but it says in part::
“….Beth Medrash Govoha is proud to host its Annual Yarchei Kallah – providing the perfect setting to totally engage oneself in Torah study, and ultimately to come away with practical applications of Halachic issues that arise in contemporary times, while basking in the light of today’s Reishei Kallah…..
GadolhadorahParticipant“Talmidei Chachamim are exempt from building walls, etc., for shemira because the Torah itself is a shemira….”
Two points.
First, tell that to the families of the 1200 kedoshim who were slaughtered on Simchas torah.
Second, it you truly believe that All of the 80,000+ draft- dodging yungerleit are “Talmidei Chachamim”, you obviously are in need of some serious intervention.
July 3, 2024 3:21 pm at 3:21 pm in reply to: Should the President be Immune from Prosecution #2294704GadolhadorahParticipantSo if the incumbent President takes action to :neutralize ” his opponent who he deems to be an existential threat to American democracy, there are six Justices on the Supreme Court who are just fine with such an “official act”. Given the degree of angst so many Republicans have about the incumbent’s judgement and mental acuity , I’m certain they are telling their guy to “be careful what you wish for’:.
GadolhadorahParticipantSquare Root:
Johnathon Pollard betrayed America and took money and gifts in return. He lied under oath. His actions made life difficult for yidden working in national security jobs or trying to get security clearances. Whatever one thinks about Biden’s policies in relation to Gaza and Netanyahu, I could care less what this lowlife has to say about anything.GadolhadorahParticipantSquare Root: What is so unusual for a bottle of vintage wine or artisanal whiskey, liquor etc. to sell for $500+?? Several kosher restaurants in both NYC and Tel Aviv have rare wines listed in the hundreds of dollars on the wine lists.
Also, some Chareidim are very well off and can easily afford a$500 bottle for a special occasion and don’t need musar from social media about whether they should be wasting their money on gashmius rather than giving more tzadakah.
GadolhadorahParticipant“Your woke religion is as different from authentic Judaism as Christianity, Islam and Zoroastrianism;..”
You left out the most pernicious “ism” of all and that is Trumpism…….Recent polls show growing numbers of Americans literally believing Trump is some JeXus-like figure who was sent to earth in furtherance of their Messianic prophecies (which BTW do not end well for yidden). Some of the names being mentioned for senior positions in a new Trump administration (and not just Mike Flynn), have called for restoring America to the ONE “true religion” (and for those who haven’t been following, he is not referring to Yiddishkeit). As depressed as most Dems are about having Biden as their candidate, its an easy choice compared to the alternative.
June 28, 2024 10:32 am at 10:32 am in reply to: Why do we mainly ignore the Lakewood tragedy? #2293558GadolhadorahParticipantIt was journalistic malpractice to publish News Site stories about some absract horrific even in Lakewood referenced only as “the tragedy” and leave readers from outside the community speculating what might have happened and to whom. I’m assuming local media and gossip spread their understanding of the events but those of us outside of NJ had no clue with one speculating that the “tragedy” may have been linked to the last minute event scheduled in the heat on Sunday afternoon to honor the five elderly rabbonim from EY who flew over to raise money for yeshivos in EY who are losing government stipends for bochurim who don enlist, some of whom fraudulently claim they are learning to get the money. When we finally learned of the tragedy of a mother murdering her two young children it became clear that YWN simply felt that it would be somehow helpful to the tzibur to hide the facts of what had happened and address the issue from 50,000 ft. when any context.nbn
GadolhadorahParticipantBY1212: Actually MegahSinah when it comes to those who promote antisemitic tropes and comments and when called out, claim they “didn’t know” or “didn’t intend” or “many of my best friends are Jewish” or best of all “I have Jewish grandchildren”.
GadolhadorahParticipantYou can find many of the early vintage EG Productions/Yeshiva Boy Choir albums at the Mostly Music record shop on 13th Avenue in BP. If you don’t live in the NY metro area try googling “mostlymusic.com” for their online sales. If you haven’t been there before and enjoy some of the great early albums of Jewish music, its worth a visit down nostalgia lane.
GadolhadorahParticipant“A good man who uses his riches for good things….”
Yup. A really “good man”. Several months ago he responded to an X (aka Twitter) post from a known anti-semite who accused yidden of hating white people and expressed indifference to antisemitism by posting, “You have said the actual truth.” He also reversed prior policies on Twitter and now allows vile anti-semitic rants to be posted. Each time he is caught, he claims (like Trump) that “he didn’t what the words meant” or that he wants X to be an open platform no matter how vile or hateful the postings.
Yes, he is a great engineer but spare us the claim he does “good things”
June 25, 2024 1:01 am at 1:01 am in reply to: Legal / halachic advance directives in healthcare #2292695GadolhadorahParticipantjdf007: Perhaps the most uninformed and dangerous post I’ve read here in a while. Sorry you may have personally had a really painful experience but the vast percentage of hospice care locations provide an incredibly important and vital service to the community and patients and their families in end-stage illness.
GadolhadorahParticipantRocky is correct. The Knesset today rushed through an emergency law that would extend the increased age limits for hundreds of thousands of Reservists that was enacted right after the Hamas attack in October 2023. The Defense Ministry claimed that higher age limit was needed to keep reservists on active duty because of a critical shortage of personnel. At the same time, the disgusting hypocrisy of the Netanyahu coalition is that they will try again later this week to enact the law that would continue to exempt most Chareidi yungerleit from having to enlist.
GadolhadorahParticipantThe idea that Chareidim are willing to go, en masse, to prison rather than the IDF isn’t just an empty threat; it is the reality.
So round them up and stuff them into prisons in the Negev, feed them slop (with good hashgacha, of course) and put them to work in prison jobs manufacturing license plates or whatever the IDF needs. That is their choice and they understand that for those who engage in civil disobedience, there are likely to be consequences.
The systems cannot survive where the fastest growing segment of the population decides to send everyone else to risk their lives to defend the country while they are paid stipends to stay at home and hide under their shtenders when the air raid sirens go off.
GadolhadorahParticipantDeepfakes are those real news photos in certain unnamed frum media where they publish photos of world leaders attending a global or regional meeting and photoshop a former U.S. secretary of state and other heads of state out of the photo without any notice to readers.
June 19, 2024 8:35 pm at 8:35 pm in reply to: Music Blasting at Philadelphia While Jewish People are at War in Israel? #2291462GadolhadorahParticipant“this was a meaningless dog and pony show for BMG…”
It was obviously very meaningful, exciting and rewarding for the 25,000 who attended.
Perhaps go to the circus if you want to see a real dog and pony show.
GadolhadorahParticipantAAQ: Totally reasonable and logical which means everyone will find some way to oppose. At some point, Chareidim will be forced to participate in public service at some level, whether in the IDF or other roles. Rather than participating through their MKs in helping to structure a program that reflects their concerns, they simply scream no which means their yungerleit will ultimately dragged into service that will be much more challenging than if they had actively participated in developing an alternative service program.
June 19, 2024 1:34 pm at 1:34 pm in reply to: Clarence Thomas – A Supreme Court Justice who lacks any Ethics #2291375GadolhadorahParticipantSo bottom line is that if you are a Supreme Court Justice and fly Christian Nationalist flags that have become a symbol of support for the January 6th rioters at BOTH your homes (and blame it on your wife who “loves flags”) OR accept over $5 million dollars in gifts from conservative donors (and then fail to disclose, or disclose late or claim you got “bad legal advice on disclosure”) there should be no concern about appearance of conflicts much less substantive conflict.
And any yid who raises such concerns is a kapo, self-hating jew, anti-semite or at best, a “shameless nudnik”.June 19, 2024 9:40 am at 9:40 am in reply to: Music Blasting at Philadelphia While Jewish People are at War in Israel? #2291160GadolhadorahParticipantHaving just watched a video showing a concert recently held for IDF soldiers and reservists who were on a break from the fighting in Gaza for the purpose of providing chizuk and escape from the stress of war, I doubt very much that an asifah held to provide kavod and chizuk for lomdei torah in Lakewood (or anywhere else for that matter) would be viewed as “tone deaf”. Despite the horror of Simchas Torah and the continuing inhumanity of hostages held in Gaza, Israelis are trying to move on with their daily lives while providing as much support and comfort as humanly possible to the victims, hostages and their families.
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