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GadolhadorahParticipant
Square Root:: There are a number of old yiddish jokes whose punchline is some variation of “my gan eden is his geihinom” .
For American Yidden who don’t see Trump as the big Ohev Yisroel as he claims (and you seem to agree), and also don’t see Harris as a rabid, anti-semitic Israel hater, the your political gan eden is our geihinom.
GadolhadorahParticipantSorry, but some of us are having a hard time tonight davening that the Ebeshter will grant a bigger chelek in olam haboh for Haniyeh, Shukr, Sinwar, etc.
GadolhadorahParticipantIf Trump would just shut up and stop with his daily obsessions with personal grievances and personal attacks on both Democrats and Republicans who he feels slighted him, he would be ahead in the polls by 5-10 points. Fortunately, however, he can’t help himself and has energized the Dems and made the election a toss-up as of now.
Keep it up Donald.GadolhadorahParticipantNo one is going to convince anyone here about which Presidential candidate to vote for, or whether to vote at all. As some of us have been saying for a while, its tragic that a country of 380 million people has such terrible choices to make in November.
GadolhadorahParticipantEither the OP is biggest troll of the week or the biggest dummy of the week. Either way, yasher koach on being No. 1.
GadolhadorahParticipant“Hey… This is beginning to look fun!!! All old timers coming back?? ”
A virtual techiyas h’mesim,…just like z’man moishiach
GadolhadorahParticipant” For that matter, would it matter if the Yeshiva World existed?”
CommonSaychel: Of course it would since in all likelihood, YWN will be the first to report his arrival and provide continuing coverage of all the breaking news we need to know (e.g. turns out that R’ Yosef was not one of the lamud vov tzadikim after all)
GadolhadorahParticipantAAQ: Interesting points. I would have been mortified if my parents even suggested showing up at my first job interviews out of grad school but some of these millennials and first wave of Gen Zs seem totally comfortable with making an interview a family participation event
GadolhadorahParticipantIts just a question of time until there are artificial intelligence Apps that will provide a psak on any shaylah one may have. No more having to establish a relationship with a local rav or posek to ponder your complex questions of halacha. Just log in to www. LRP-AI.yid, type in your shaylah and within seconds you will have a psak din that avoids all those pesky chumrahs.
GadolhadorahParticipant“If you let them out of the womb, you have to let them into the world….”
So true, yet so many parents remain in denial. We have seen on multiple occasions, parents showing up with their kinderlach for job interviews at our firm. A recent news story sadly indicated that our experience is not all that unusual and other law firms and investment banks have seen similar episodes. These “helicopter” parents cannot let go. In Italy, young men continue to live in their parents’ basements well into their 30s and momma is totally happy with this arrangement, do the laundry and provide endless plates of pasta and chulent.
Summer camp may at least be helpful in pushing the kids a bit further out the door, making them a bit more self-reliant and hopefully prepare them to function independently in whatever derech they choose.
GadolhadorahParticipant“Who is this legend I keep hearing references to…”
It is said that he is the yiddishe version of Sasquatch who hides in plain sight as the mashgiach in a chulent joint in Willy
GadolhadorahParticipant“Where did you get smicha from”
Harvard Divinity School with a specialization in Yetzer Horah Studies
When a wasp lands on your nose while dining on your patio, I’m sure you immediately call your LRP and frame a shaylah with respect to the appropriate way of “neutralizing it” w/o any inyan of t’zar balei chayim or even worse, having the niftar drop off your nose on to your brisket sandwich.
GadolhadorahParticipantCA: Go to WaPo archives and you will literally find multiple Fact-checking columns awarding both Biden and Harris multiple “Pinocchio” for misstatements, exaggerations, or straight out lies . Similar fact-checking efforts by WSJ and other media. Both OAN and NewsMax also do real time fact-checking of Biden when they even bother to cover him at all.
Its just that Trump does it so brazenly and talks over the interviewer when they attempt to follow up and clarify that its more obvious in real-time.GadolhadorahParticipant“I guess a spontaneous reaction is all of a sudden מותר”
Who said it is “mutar”. The point was that except for highly disciplined individuals such as David Hamelech and Coffee Addict, a spontaneous reaction is one that typically doesn’t involve prior thought and halachic analysis. On hearing news of the destruction of someone who has caused incredible death and destruction, its a normal human reaction to show joy and even c’v a few dance steps before pausing to consider the appropriate response protocols.
GadolhadorahParticipantReb E: 37 instances of either direct lies or misstatements to be precise. At the Black Journalists meeting in Chicago this week, he complained about the “delay” related to the sound system (which was resolved in a few minutes) In reality, he himself had refused to go on stage if there was real-time “fact-checking” on the organization’s website. After about 45 minutes, he finally relented and came on stage.
Given his tendency to engage in personal insults, demeaning comments etc. (especially when challenged by female and minority reporters), go off on rants and refuse to directly answer questions even after follow ups by the reporter, some effort at fact-checking would seem essential.GadolhadorahParticipantI generally take a photo of the stub on my phone (which also date stamps the photo). There is no way I’ll ever find the paper stub even a day or two later, much less several months.
GadolhadorahParticipantDovid: Chat/AI apps are sometimes helpful but frequently provide totally meshugah rants. In the current situation, I’m not sure having someone who is not a good writer to begin with, use an AI generated template for his request for reconsideration.
August 2, 2024 9:24 am at 9:24 am in reply to: Yet Frum people get screamed at or thrown off the plane #2302036GadolhadorahParticipantThe same women/children only options are available to some extent in Singapore, Manila, several cities in Japan, Thailand and other cities I’ve been to (and there are probably others). As repeated noted, the practice is driven entirely by levels of crowding and the extent there are high levels of inappropriate groping, assault etc.
GadolhadorahParticipantWhen you combine a 24 hour news cycle and the dissemination ease and anonymity of social media commentaryb , the rule is generally “post first and find the facts later”
GadolhadorahParticipant“What heter was there for bachurim to dance when they heard the news?”
I suspect it was a spontaneous reaction to what most of us consider great news and while you may be an exception, most yidden don’t stop consult with or seek a heter from their LRP when reacting spontaneously.
GadolhadorahParticipantWondering555: I’d agree with Qwerty…..Probably better to move on. However, if you really want to appeal the expulsion with the Rosh Yeshiva, than write from your heart and convey your feelings. An appeal from a “professional writer” is likely to come across as phony and not especially helpful. If the school administration felt the circumstances warranted expulsion rather than suspension or some lesser penalty, its unlikely they will reverse themselves because you are feeling emotionally distraught.
July 29, 2024 9:11 am at 9:11 am in reply to: Yet Frum people get screamed at or thrown off the plane #2300371GadolhadorahParticipant“Why do woman have exclusive rights in deciding how men should act or can not act?”
I’m sure there are documented cases where women on airplanes or on trains have assaulted mail passengers but it is an order of magnitude more frequent that men inappropriately touch or assault women. The numbers are what they are and sadly its not all that “rare”. Obviously not all men are “pervs” but in some countries the realities of these kinds of assaults are all too real and offering women the option is something the governments of those countries support. They are not doing it for purposes of “holiness” or any element of religious preference. Its purely a matter of physical safety.
GadolhadorahParticipantAchdus in support of evil achieves nothing. In EY, there was achdus for the first month or two after the simchas torah massacre but both sides quickly retreated to their corners and began talking past one another and the political leadership sadly seems to thrive on this polarization.
July 29, 2024 9:10 am at 9:10 am in reply to: Should Jews Go on Vacation while Israel is at War? #2300325GadolhadorahParticipant“This is an individual issue and a Rov should be asked….”
First, ask YOURSELF if YOU are comfortable. If not and you are in EY, perhaps consider spending a portion of your vacation volunteering in some venue whose regular workers have been called up for reserve duty. In the U.S., take a portion of what you had budgeted for a vacation and donate it to mosdos that are supporting those from the North who have been forced to leave their homes for over 6 months with no end in sight. While your LRP can be a helpful sounding board, its less a matter of halacha and more an issue of your personal ethics, hashkafah and comfort levels.
July 26, 2024 9:42 am at 9:42 am in reply to: Yet Frum people get screamed at or thrown off the plane #2300113GadolhadorahParticipantBM; Just to be clear, this is an Indian airline which is offering a comparable option long-available on Indian rail lines. If you’ve ever been to India, you know that most of the intercity rail lines have women only cars to literally protect women from the pervasive physical assaults and unwanted touching from men that is sadly embedded in Indian culture. It is not done for religious accommodation nor are women required to use gender-segregated rail cars. Some rail lines in Japan offer the same option and airlines are following suit. The same arrangements would likely be illegal in the U.S. and most of Europe.
GadolhadorahParticipantSquare Root : So other than those 3 factors, do you agree with Hakatan??
GadolhadorahParticipant“Those that are compulsively obsessed with anti Chabad style talk, usually in my experience, pretty happy to use Chabad”
PureYid: As someone who has indulged Chabad hospitality for several decades at dozens of locations throughtout the world, I can confirm you sage assessment. I suspect that from a numerical perspective, there may have been more misnagdim dining at Chabad house dinners in remote corners of the globe than Chassidim. Nor have I ever seen someone ejected from a Chabad minyan for adding “vayatzmach purkanei…” in kaddish or too loudly intoning an “Uuuumein”:
GadolhadorahParticipantWe should emulate EVERYTHING our grandparents did in the Alte Heim regardless of what we know today about the health risks and the multiple nutritional options available to just about everyone regardless of their income levels. Yes, many will die at a younger age, but who are we to believe its ok for yidden to live longer today than our grandparents and their parents.
GadolhadorahParticipantI think it would be easier to predict when Moishiach will arrive than the outcome of the November election. The events of the past several weeks were beyond the imagination of even the most wild-eyed script writers of West Wing and Veep and it will likely get even crazier in the next several months.
The polls still clearly favor Trump but having a new Democratic ticket with Harris and her VP choice at least make the race more competitive.GadolhadorahParticipantAfter Trump called for “unity” and a more civil dialogue at the Republican Convention Thursday night, the Ohio legislator introducing J.D. Vance at a rally in Ohio last night screamed to the crowd that “if we lose this election, it’s going to take a civil war to save the country… and if we come down to a civil war, I’m glad we got people like Bikers for Trump on our side.”.
Clearly, he didn’t get the memo or if he did, he violently disagrees with Trump’s call for unity and civility. In fairness, he apologized this morning for his poor choice of words. Perhaps there is a more polite way to say “civil war”.I’m certain the Dems have their own crazies and we will have these kinds of instances going forward on both sides,
July 22, 2024 8:48 pm at 8:48 pm in reply to: Post-debate fallout- question for Democratic voters #2299076GadolhadorahParticipantEx-CTlawyer; If you are planning to attend the convention and a virtual roll-call hasn’t already locked-in the nominees, I’ll send you a campaign button
“Beshear is באַשערטWhile Harris will likely retain the support of the traditional Democratic constituencies, Beshear is the strongest of the Democratic VP options to attract the independent voters turned off by the far-right MAGA turn of the Republican party.
Winning in Kentucky is hard enough for a Democrat but he has done so TWICE and successfully worked across the aisle with a Republican legislature. Perhaps most importantly for many here in the CR, he has been a consistent supporter of EY, speaking out strongly after October 7th. More than just flying state flags at half mast, his administraiton has aggressively gone after those accused of anti-semitic attacks and established a state Task Force on fight antisemitism. I also like Roy Cooper of NC but believe Beshear will provide a stronger boost to the Democratic ticket in NovemberGadolhadorahParticipant“Joe may be sleepy, but what is Dopey Donnie going to do now that Sleepy Joe has withdrawn from the presidential election race?
Clearly, he will be spending more time bashing Doc, Grumpy, Happy, Bashful, and Sneezy.
GadolhadorahParticipant“What about dedications for commodes?”
Well, I guess you have to draw a line somewhere. Its doubtful anyone wants to spend several hundred dollars for a small brass plaque in the back of a stall door for someone to read about his tatah, a’h, while sitting on the throne.
July 21, 2024 2:54 pm at 2:54 pm in reply to: Why b’davka Trump was shot, and why b’davka in the ear #2298592GadolhadorahParticipant“please try to keep up with all the lessons that Hashem sends to you indirectly…”
I generally find it challenging just to keep up with the multitude of direct messages, so the indirect communications often get sidelined.
July 20, 2024 11:36 pm at 11:36 pm in reply to: The Fade No Peyos Look found Among Bnai Yeshiva #2298454GadolhadorahParticipant‘Peyos is no different than any other style”
Huhh??? There are some that naively believe that having pyeos is m’doraisah (V’yikra 19.27).
Shtreimlach and Huizen Zaaken are hashkafah-based style statements from the Alte Heim. Peyos are not,
July 19, 2024 6:53 pm at 6:53 pm in reply to: Why b’davka Trump was shot, and why b’davka in the ear #2298440GadolhadorahParticipantIt’s well known that often when klal yisroel deserves a punishment or just a little wake up call, instead of punishing us, Hashem in His infinite kindness punishes the goyim instead hoping that we wake up….”
So when the goyim deserve to be punished, the Ebeshter inflicts pain on Yidden?? Whats your point??
If you want Reb Moshe to change his ways, punishing Reb Yankel is unlikely to create the needed incentive for Reb Yankel to behave differently
GadolhadorahParticipant“The Chabad-Lubavitch propaganda apparatus is sizable and busy, and has been so for quite a while….”
With all due respect, the media efforts coming out of 770 are generally focused on the work of chabad shalichim around the world and are not a bunch of guys in black hats running up and down Eastern Parkway waving yellow flags or live-streaming 24×7 coverage from the Ohel. Likewise, the Agudah, Lakewood/BMG or KJ Satmar media efforts are all reasonably effective at sharing their “propaganda” at both a local and national level.
GadolhadorahParticipant“Where is Gimmel Tammuz mentioned in Tanach or Talmud or Shulchan Aruch or Rishonim”??
In Gematria, gimmel is 3 and Tamuz is the 10th month (starting from Tishrei). 3+10=13. Clearly a siman of mazal for bored Litvish CR participants.
GadolhadorahParticipantWith respect to the OP, reporting this AM is that local police deployed at the building used by the sniper were stationed INSIDE the building “because the sloped roof was dangerous” but it gets even better. One of the local snipers SAW the shooter with his weapon dressed in tactical gear on at least two occasions BEFORE the shooting, in one instance with the shooter looking at the stage through a rangerfinder but did NOTHING other than try to take a picture on his iPhone and then had trouble downloading it in an attempt to email it to the command post.
I can understand why he might have been hesitant to take him down but WHY not at least detain him rather than allow him to wander off and several minutes later take the shot. Also, it would have taken $50 worth of plywood and 2x4s from the local Home Depot to fabricate a flat platform on the roof rather than having the snipers watching the crowd from ground level inside the building.GadolhadorahParticipant“Gadolhadofi, if I were you, I would not talk with a screen name dofi. charef, vegudaf according to the Redak in Tehilim (50,20). Great ugliness..,
“Stop making a mockery of the title “Reb” with your inappropriate, unearned screen name, you twisted ignoramus….
Seems more likely we will see Biden and Trump embracing and singing kumbayah than hearing a virtual rendition of Achenu kol Beis Yisroel here in the CR
GadolhadorahParticipantYechiell: Don’t expect a rational discussion here about Biden’s creds regarding support for EY.
Biden, along with at least half of the population of EY is clearly fed up with Bibi’s self-centered approach to the Gaza campaign focused on keeping himself in power and out of jail.GadolhadorahParticipantThe investigation thusfar has no clue as to the motive of the shooter, even after checking his phone, computer, social media postings and interviews with his friends and family, Not that its definitive, but media interviews with his high school friends consistently indicate he leaned to conservative positions in classroom discussions and he registered as a Republican.
Both sides have engaged in vile hyperbole about the other but there is no indication that rhetoric has resulted in any specific attacks.
The OP is the kind of useless speculation that sadly is good headline material for the tabloids.
P.S. Perhaps his $15 donation to some progressive voter registration group several years ago is the smoking gun.GadolhadorahParticipantThe whole level of discourse has declined since the time of Reagan and even Clinton. Policy disputes were substantive and even personal digs were somehow framed in non-pejorative terms and with Reagan, a great sense of humor and light sarcasm. I don’t think today’s politicians even realize how destructive their rhetoric has become. We can debate which side is worse but thats irrelevant to some degree.
While Trump posted several times yesterday that he was going to try and focus on a unifying message, I’m not sure all the speakers got the memo. Likewise, Biden can’t seem to let go of some of his standard jabs at Trump which he acknowledged in the interview with NBC last night.
Sadly, I don’t see anything on the horizon that will change anything, even with Saturday night’s attack still fresh in our minds.
GadolhadorahParticipantIf it helps fund a worthy project or program, than sponsorships make sense if done in good taste. The nightly Daf Yomi shiur with R’ Stefansky begins with his briefly reading and displaying on the screen the names of several sponsors. Clearly, these funds are helping to sustain and expand perhaps the largest online daf program with 25,000+ participants. At the same time, I’ve been to some shuls where literally every room, chair, shtender, paroches, and every square inch of wall space has a an engraved brass plaque with the name of the donor or referencing some niftar z’l etc.
Its all a question of doing so in a measured way for a worthwhile cause.
”GadolhadorahParticipantA lot of Jews feel totally frustrated with the abysmal choices they will have in November. A country of 380 million people could do better than presenting us with two polarizing individuals that turn off such a large percentage of the electorate.
GadolhadorahParticipantSadly, it seems both sides can’t let go of their venom and hatred.
GadolhadorahParticipantRead the story on the YWN news page tonight about a horrific situation where hundreds of girls who were supposed to attend Camp Malka were first transported to the camp which didn’t have an occupancy permit so were then shipped off to a local hotel with inadequate or no accommodations for these kids until the police ordered them to be sent home. Now, they will have no summer program, the parents hope their non-refundable payments will be refunded and someone will just shrug and say “sorry we let you down”.
GadolhadorahParticipant“I assure that many Jewish men suffer a hard time with shidduchim, including……”
So do girls with the same negatives, but somehow, both the vast percentage of boys and girls ultimately find a shiduch unless they are truly dysfunctional and set non-attainable criteria for their beschert. Yes, there are some sad stories but there always have been and will be..
GadolhadorahParticipantThose who wish for Biden to step aside seem to believe it would be relatively easy for the convention to nominate Harris or another candidate that would appear on the ballot in all 50 states as the Democratic candidate. While I truly wish Biden would somehow disappear from public life, the actual mechanics of having pledged Biden delegates vote for a new candidate and have that name appear on the November ballot as the Democratic party candidate is considerably more complicated and will be litigated in a number of states where election laws are relatively arcane and Republicans are certain to contest any changes. Also, there is a federal law requiring states to mail out absentee ballots several weeks after the Democratic convention in August so there will be little time to litigate and resolve any challenges before ballots are printed.
GadolhadorahParticipant“The fact that the 1200 people who were nebach murdered wouldn’t agree is #1 they were mainly nonreligious people and I don’t think a Gemara in Baba Basrah really talks to them….”
You can call it apikorsus or whatever….My only point was that secular Israelis have been told for decades that limud torah by the Chareidim offers “protection” to klal yisroel but that mantra has become a very difficult political sell after simchas torah.
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