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GadolhadorahParticipant
Gmail (and other messaging platforms) have a “learning” capability that identify your frequently used words or terms that are not in their dictionary and will “autocomplete” in certain circumstances and correct misspellings to conform with your preferred usage. Generally, though, you need to “opt-in” and turn on these features but perhaps you have done so or your other preferences roll in those features.
GadolhadorahParticipantSome of the threads here have gotten so absurd that is difficult to distinguish a bad troll from a poorly conceived post. Rely on your local rav/posek for advice and if you don’t have confidence in their guidance, find a new one where you do. Importantly, don’t rely on advice you get here for a miracle worker to provide you with a guaranteed segulah.
GadolhadorahParticipant“Obama didn’t get Rubashkin out of jail; Trump did…”
He also moved the nameplate on a building from Tel Aviv to Yerushalayim but what does that have to do with his deliberate efforts to legitimize anti-semitism by providing a platform for some of the worst Jew-haters in our country and promoting racist and anti-semitic tropes.
GadolhadorahParticipantOnce a Rav matirs, can you ask another Rav for an issur?
Context could be important. For example, if a couple has a disagreement regarding chinuch for their child and agree to consult their Rav for guidance, and the Rav provides a more permissive psak, it would seem inappropriate for the losing party that wanted the issur to then demand a “second opinion” hoping to get a more restrictive opinionl
GadolhadorahParticipant“Where does it say you can’t go “Kulah shopping” ??
Maseches Shoteh (123:2)
GadolhadorahParticipantJust to be aware that you can get a passport renewed in as little as 48 hours if you have “documentation” of a near-term trip. Just have your travel agent book a tentative travel itinerary for flights leaving within 15 days (w/hotel res) and that would be sufficient. Even routine passport applications are now being processed considerably more quickly and the Covid-backlog is essentially gone.
GadolhadorahParticipant“>>>causing us more harm than good by being ultra sensitive to every fool who says or does something even remotely anti Jewish”
When these “fools” have a megaphone amplified by 32 million social media followers and are explicitly giving kovod to the murderer of 6 million yiddeshe neshomos, perhaps those who speak out are not being “ultra sensitive”.
GadolhadorahParticipant“girls who work in a law firm for 20 years automatically wouldn’t classify themselves as “Yeshivish.”
AR: Nor would they classify themselves as “girls”. If you’ve been working as an attorney in a law firm for 20 years, you are likely in your mid-40s; even an LA would be in her late 30s/early 40s. Either way you are a WOMAN. Otherwise, I would agree that most frum women working in a law firm would likely identify as MO.
GadolhadorahParticipantHaLevi: Its happening, whether you consider it “silly” or not. The political and religious culture wars have intensified efforts to ban or marginalize published materials that might not have been controversial several years ago but now are deemed offensive or even dangerous. I would agree that the media have been overly sensitive to the snowflakes whose “sensibilities” are offended by “trigger words” but censorship at both ends of the political and religious spectrum is clearly on the rise.
GadolhadorahParticipantCA: I definitely WOULD vote for certain centrist Republicans and Democrats over either Biden or Trump. Its sad that our political system in general, and primary systems in particular, seems unable to yield outcomes that would reflect the incredible talent on both sides of the aisle but thats for another day.
GadolhadorahParticipantWe live in a time when it has become the norm to “ban” writings containing offensive ideas, disruptive methods of learning and analysis and cultural taboos, whether they be secular, religious or combinations of both. The notion is that exposure to this offensive material will cause irrevocable harm to the reader w/o any offsetting benefits. Often, the same materials have been reviewed and endorsed by other so called elites coming from a different world view. Seems that we have less and less confidence in the ability of individuals to make critical distinctions and form their own opinions and instead must rely upon some elite group of critics to filter what they are allowed to read and absorb.
GadolhadorahParticipantMeir: Is this your idea of a “scientific” survey or just an effort to resuscitate the shidduch crisis scam?
GadolhadorahParticipantAssuming the OP is accurately reporting anecdotal headlines unrelated to Trump (which I would dispute but willing to stipulate) the real issue here is that the recent events with Trump and Kanye West/Fuentes represent an unprecedented effort by a former President seeking to regain office to legitimize /provide a platform to blatant anti-Semites for his own personal aggrandizement and solidify support from the far right-wing of his base. Dems have their own anti-Semites on the far left but nothing at this level with a Presidential contender. YWN is correct to highlight this existential threat at the level it has.
GadolhadorahParticipant“[This new sefer] has a haskamah from a reputable Rav…”
So you are suggesting that R’ Kotler, Schustal, Sorotzkin etc. are not “reputable” and their seemingly unanimous views regarding the sefer containing apikorsus are incorrect??
GadolhadorahParticipant“we as Heimishe Yidden should take the initiative to stop wearing the shoes known as ‘Yeezys’,
Absolutely correct. Chazal bring down that an ehreliche yid should only wear certain models of Air Jordans, and even then, only on Yom Kippur and only after confirming they did not contain any leather or wood soles.
GadolhadorahParticipant“The IDF shechted a terrorist who was in the process of neutralizing a cow preparing for a bovine chassanah on a bright sunny day”…
It apparently was a slow news day and the regular editor had taken a day off after working nonstop for the past several weeks covering the election.
GadolhadorahParticipantThese are real bochurim who need some “safe” downtime from their shteiging. They are not robots. Giving them the opportunity to unwind in a structured and supervised environment with a mashgiach ruchani and rabbonim nearby is a net positive.
GadolhadorahParticipantAlternatively, you could use a portion of the winnings to purchase a social media network catering to the Yeshivish Velt
GadolhadorahParticipantAlso, is the relatively minor “speed” differential really a material factor for most “kosher” usage of a phone (unless you are live streaming a daf yomi class or face-timing with your yinglach on a business trip.
GadolhadorahParticipantAAQ: So if the greatest “baal musar” of the past 200 years was unsuccessful in his own “self-help” musar than what hope is their for all the slightly lesser baalei musar here in the CR??
P.S. Tks for the google search tip…..GadolhadorahParticipantOn a list of the 10 most dysfunctional websites I frequently encounter, the CR is probably one of the least annoying. Indeed, some of its quirks are a bit endearing in a world where we worry about c’v the role of social media postings to trigger hate crimes and violence. Little things like a search functionality for archived threads and posts might be helpful in the next upgrade but overall, it seems to work well for what it is designed to do.
GadolhadorahParticipantThink about it. Approximately 6 or 7 of the lamud vuv tzadikim are regulars here in the CR. Extrapolate that to the greater tzibur at large, many of whom have not received a heter from their LRPs to be here on the internet.
GadolhadorahParticipantThe “speed” of signal transmission across 4G and 5G networks and repeater stations at cell towers is identical for network owners and those wholesalers who lease capacity and resell under own brands. However, there are likely small but measurable speed differentials attributable to the server interfaces used to ID and validate those resale customers and record their information for billing purposes.
GadolhadorahParticipant“I’m hoping she only knows that R’ Eli’s shiur is good because of what her husband, brothers, or sons told her….”
Actually, it was someone who knew of R’ Eli from his prior life in Chicago real estate.GadolhadorahParticipantVery easy solution. Don’t violate the rules unless you are prepared to pay. While I’m sure some of the citations are for marginal violations, most are legit and they have photo or radar evidence to affirm.
“Don’t do the crime, don’t pay a dime”GadolhadorahParticipantThe law in NY is fairly clear that pedestrians should not enter a crosswalk once the “don’t walk” red or yellow warning lights begin flashing. However, unless there is an intervening median strip, drivers should not seek to complete a right turn if the pedestrian has already entered the crosswalk.
October 25, 2022 7:22 pm at 7:22 pm in reply to: condemning a candidate due to sickness or old age. #2132464GadolhadorahParticipantI recall several times over the years where there were those who questioned whether an elderly rav might not have fullyunderstood the questions and factual predicates surrounding an issue before a psak or kol koreh was issued in his name. There were insinuations of dementia or manipulation by his gaboim. Yet, we do NOT have age limits or mandatory retirement rules for our gadolim or roshei yeshivos. I would submit that their responsibilities to the tzibur are no less significant than our those of our elected offiicals.
October 25, 2022 7:14 pm at 7:14 pm in reply to: Is YU officially a modern-Orthodox institution? #2132440GadolhadorahParticipant“Is the OP officially a troll?”
CS: Actually, officially a jerk. I stopped reading his rant when I got to the part about “women learning gemorah is bad enough”,
GadolhadorahParticipantOP: Just out of curiosity, if you are willing to share, what leads you to want to focus exclusively on rashi to the exclusion of other meforshim?
GadolhadorahParticipantWith R’ Eli’s daf yomi shiur you get Rashi and bit of everything else. An incredible way to start/end your day.
GadolhadorahParticipantAVD: Umein.
GadolhadorahParticipantWhy does someone tagged by the FBI as head of terrorist group and a self-identified racist get invoked as some type of prescient observer of the decline of Yiddeshkeit in America??
For many of us, the excesses of some Chassideshe simchas involving thousands of people with bands, banners and tables overflowing with food and drink are a lot more problematic than some frum parents who engage a DJ with some strobe lights for their yinglach’s bar mitzvah.GadolhadorahParticipantVote early, vote often (even if your not from Chicago).
GadolhadorahParticipant“don’t touch the eitz hadas since you might come to eat from it”
B’tayavon
GadolhadorahParticipantUJM/Syag: With respect, I would 110% support intervention with the parents or others in a life/death matter. We obviously have very different views of the threat (physical or spiritual) posed by a bochur who decides to have a smartphone but I certainly don’t conflate it with a drug dependency.
GadolhadorahParticipantQ. “Menachem: Why haven’t you let his parents know what he has?”
A. In alphabetical order from thesaurus.com.
betrayer
blabbermouth
canary
double-crosser
fink
informant
narc
nark
rat
sneak
snitcher
source
squealer
stoolie
tattler
tattletale
tipster
turncoat
weasel
whistle-blower
deep throat
stool pigeonGadolhadorahParticipant“Yasher Koach for sharing this beautiful thought from the Rebbe..
For the first and perhaps last time in a long time, 110% agreement with R’ Yosef. I suspect there are even some closet misnagdim lurking in the CR who could care less as to the provenance of this vert. Yasher koach and gutten moed to the OP (and UJM).
GadolhadorahParticipantMidwest…in our hashkafah, the book doesn’t close on 5782 for another week or so but agree that 5783 will be longer than usual (even w/o and Adar sheini).
October 7, 2022 2:23 pm at 2:23 pm in reply to: China has opened overseas police stations in US and Canada to monitor Chinese ci #2129829GadolhadorahParticipantThe PRC has been “monitoring” overseas nationals and expats for decades. The more recent focus is on grad students at top American universities and nationals employed in leading high-tech companies and in some of the U.S. national labs. The U.S. is sufficiently concerned about “leakage” of high-tech secrets to China that they pressured the Israeli delegation attending the White House negotiations last week on expanding U.S.-Israel technology collaboration to cancel Israel’s recent agreement to share some of its high-tech programs with China.
GadolhadorahParticipantG’mar tov and only good news and outcomes going forward. Your loss affected me and other long-time CR regulars in a way that few other tragic outcomes in the Covid-driven craziness of the past two years seems to have.
GadolhadorahParticipantIf this is what now passes for humor or satire, it going to be a long 5782….
GadolhadorahParticipantI believe the OP was simply acknowledging that the CR has many attributes of an echo chamber in the context of a few posters having deputized themselves as the official bashers of several million unaffiliated, reform, conservative and even MO yidden around the world.
GadolhadorahParticipant“I think we should have a massive bonfire and everyone should sing kumbaya followed by deep breathing”
CS: Funny, that the new shaliah tzibur in our shul sang “sim shalom” in chazaras hashatz during shachris on the second day of yom tov to the melody of “Kumbaya”. No massive bonfire but a lot of deep conversation in the background.
GadolhadorahParticipantOn a list of “stress factors” prior to the yamim noraim, “having enough meat dishes” would not appear to be on the top 10 along with a terrorist attack or having been able to do real tshuvah.
GadolhadorahParticipantA condition precedent and requisite basis for the OP is the capacity to engage in rational thought.
GadolhadorahParticipant“It is really a practical question – how much of including non-Torah material will destroy Jewish life as we know it..”
Its really not a serious question. Without having minimal language, math and science skills, young men and women coming out of yeshivos and BY’s will be functionally illiterate, unable to perform basic functions of paying bills, booking travel arrangements, communicating with medical and service providers, etc. You cannot keep the next generation in a cave forever.
GadolhadorahParticipantI stopped keeping pens in my shirt pocket after having ink stains on just about all of them when I forgot to cap retract the point.
GadolhadorahParticipantThe best white shirt??
A clean one that is freshly ironed. Any of several of the above mentioned brands are great but why is it that such a large percentage of yungerleit seem to be unaware of washing machines and laundries?
GadolhadorahParticipantCharles Tyrwhitt would be a good way to go if they had front pockets for pens and CC cards like most other white shirts do.
I can’t recall the last time I needed a “pen” and why would you keep credit cards in your shirt pocket rather than in a wallet in your back or side pants pocket??
September 15, 2022 5:54 pm at 5:54 pm in reply to: Eliminating secular subjects from yeshiva curriculum #2125116GadolhadorahParticipant“The only option is migration to a jurisdiction that supports freedom of religion..”
I’m trying to visualize Texas versions of Willy, BP and KJ….there is a Texas expression that pokes fun at “newbies” who just arrived who seek to adopt a Lone Star State persona.
“All hat, no cowboy”. Clearly, litvish style black hats will work well but there will be some initial puzzlement regarding Shtreimlach along with Huizen Zaaken and Bekeshes. -
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