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What do you mean when you say DEMANDS list of other things? You sound so angry I am not sure if the kids feel it and therefore do not respect you!
Yerushalmit: a guest should accomodate the host’s schedule. I would tell that politely to the kids. They might decide to come less often as he might feel davening in his shul/going to his shiurim is important to him too.
Whats up with the anti-bnei torah? If you have a question about dealing w your sil lets discuss it. But cut out your negative feelings of bnei torah.
If everything makes noise, except the horn.
When the Gemorah quotes a pasuk, Hebrew does not translte it, while English does. English also givea you background when quoting nach.
Hebrew has more in depth notes.Shalom Bayis is what works for both of you. Personally, it doesn’t work. Shoes might be uncomfortable for walking, she might prefer to just sit and relax after a days work. I might ask at end if the date if she woukd like to take a short walk, and make it clear that its an offer.
Is that fake news?
Why should we mix in to other peoples shalom bayis?! Let the coupke work out their issues on their own!
I find it shocking that the CR has been hijacked by peoole who just want to speak. Someone wants to know our orederence for a sheva brachos and you are on your condescending high horse giving medical/diet advice??!!
I have discussed those questions w my LOR. At times hhe has told me that he will discuss it with another rabbi and will get back to me.
I prefer fleishigs.
How about a machlokes over pickles on marshmallows?
A machlokes about an Eruv is a serious machlokes. In Boro Park, there are some people who feel that you are being mechalel Shabbos!!
A machlokes about sports is unimportant and I assume, that most people don’t have strong feelings toward people that agree with them.Why so divisive? Why compare marshmallows and pickles? Why cant we accept both pickles and marshmallows as very important without stepping on toes?
A klutz is also a piece of wood…
A woodchuck could chuck wood until tthe big black bug bled black blood.
I guess it depends on context. I had a chassidish pkumber who barely spoke english would be satmar etc.
I daven with a minyan where people focus on avodas Hashem al pi the Besht would include chabad.Can someone be a chassid without levush? Dati leumi w/o kippah serugah? Levush is a statement of where you feel you belong. Advertised to all, proud to be a yeshiva bochur!
I have discussed all those questions with my, except vacation.
I have also discussed them at time a with mechanchim, family and friends.
While I respect my ravs advice, at times I will tell him that I disagree and have a discussion why.How about standing up to liars!
Tell the neighbor that for chanukah you would like a light alarm clock as a gift. They are expensive but are great!
BTW I find it annoying that you keep on asking without regard for my responses…
I responded, my experience …where did you learn its not as you stated.
What happens if she is already spending every penny I have and I cant afford a diamond ring??
Small miracles series…not all jewish stories but all hashgocha…
Joseph: In which book did you read that?
Joseph; this is CR, where people give opinions based on their experience. If you want a book, then go to the library!
Its proper etiquette not to eat. Some people consider themselves non conformists and eat. Either way is fine.
Most people would find it too informal and impersonal. If you are both informal and/or the pizza store is more formal it sounds fine.
I would recommend that you take the job. You might find that you love the work.
You might find that the job isnt for you but the company might see how dedicated you are and might offer you a different position.
Good luck! Please let us know how things work out!Have a rav, rebbe or mentor to discuss your differences.
Once people get to know your children it wont make a difference. What will be important is that you are on, the same page as your children. People will be more likely to make playdates for their children with families that they know.
Just because you are an introvert doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t have friends. It just means that you don’t like the large group. Find someone that needs a friend and be one.
Wow, at least you have time to post in the CR!
To scare away the mice…
If you’re objective is to change the system foggedaboutit.
If you’re objective is to kvetch you found the right place.
If you’re objective is to find advice on how you can have cheaper dates then you definitely have a great crowd.
If you’re objective is to get advice on what are considered appropriate venues for dating, then I call troll!What have you tried so far?? I would start with these suggestions…
1. melatonin
2. limit caffeine
3. no food 4 hours before sleep time
4. exerciseBest advice for guys: Never make fun of anyone!
Worst advice: Try again, and again, and again.Any shul will accept you. I daven in a shul yeshivish to chassidish and we have some people who dont wear a hat.
Standing up to neo-nazis should be commended. While I like trump, I think he should have denigrated the nazis. The question woukd be if the left woukd drive the car….
It depends on whether you use plastic dishes on shabbos
What are her expectations? I bought machzorim and a matching siddur with her name on it.
Generally speaking, kollel gives a stipend. It isnt minimum wage. It just helps pay the bills. Most people wouldnt consider it work or a job.
Im not aware of a kollel where you have to pay to learn there.We all have our styles and dress codes. I’m not aware that typically bochurim don’t wear sweaters, but if in your community they don’t you have three choices:
1. Follow the crowd.
2. Do as you please and not care about the crowd.
3. Move and find a crowd whose styles align with yours.
If I get your MM and see who it’s from, and I trust your kashrus, I will eat it right away.
Once Purim is over, I have no idea who sent what and all the loose cookies and cakes get thrown out.
Do you have a teacher or rabbi you can ask? I’m sure people would be thrilled to have you over.