frumjewishgirl

Chochom-ibber, thankyou for commenting on my post but I have a problem with a few of the things that you wrote. You are saying that the girl should not expect a romantic goyishe breakup because this is the YeshivaWorld and not Hollywood. I want to tell you that this guy gave her all of the signs in the world that he likes her and he even told her that he is sure that she is the one for him so try to imagine how she felt when all of a sudden he broke it off with her. I can tell you that she is really in a lot of pain over this and she is a frum yeshivish girl who never before had such a relationship with a guy. She tried to call him because she wanted to figure out what went wrong and what made him change his mind all of a sudden. Even though he told the shadchan after why he broke it off, he could have answered her phone call one last time to talk to her about what happened if he saw that it was so important to her especially after he told her that he knows that she is his zivug. How can you say that this is goyishe? I am sure that if this would happen to you or your daughter then you wouldn’t think this way.

It really depends on the community but in this case the guy and the girl were very emotionally involved with eachother and they were getting serious with eachother. A few things came up and this is why the guy decided to break it off and he texted the girl that he is breaking it off and then he told the shadchan. But the girl tried to call him and text him because she wanted to talk to him about what happened and he didn’t return any of her calls or texts. Instead he called the shadchan and asked her to tell the girl to stop trying to contact him so she gave up and she stopped.