maynish

HOLY COW! me too. ppl thought i would be married by 20 bec he’s the hottest catch. he has everything going for him. and believe it or not, i didn’t date in almost a year. i say NO to almost everyone…..

wow we sound alike.

Being a good yeshiva boy. i think we have the right to the most attractive wife we can get. we never fooled around with all the pretty ones. so when we are just picking one we want to be picky and find the prettiest one-AND OF COURSE THE BEST MOTHER FOR OUR KIDS. we guys should be in no rush and the right one will come our way.

Girls you just need to realize that the most important thing to get a date is your appearance. so go diet even size 0 girls. we don’t like enerixients. and we dont like fast matabolisms , that your gonna eat more then us and still stay a bone.

don’t worry g-d has a mate for all of us.

Guys gets pulled over. the cop says walk in a straight line. the guy says “well stop moving the line”

Ok so let me tell you how it works here.

Sy’s had a problem long time ago that people from the community were meeting nice goyish girls and converting them in order to marry them. therefore the rabbis in 1935 made a edict signed by EVERY syrian rabbi that by no means will any convert be allowed to marry a syrian go to out schools or pray in our shuls.

it was resigned in 2010 to strengthen the edict.

It is primarily for asimilation purposes.

OMG ECLIPSE: “Ask any divorced woman what’s on her list:”I just want a nice guy”.Half of them don’t even care if he’s litvish or chasidish!”

why dont singles think like that too. thats the right way to think. no but the girls think now “i need the shtarkest learner down to earth, who can afford saks.>>>>>

and besides GIRLS when you hear that most of the times it is all lies.. they told you what you wanted to hear….

I know so many guys that their wifes and father in laws think they are the shtarkest guys and these guys haven’t cracked a book in 3years… so go figure….

life is all about GOOD PEOPLE>>> to the girls: find a boy who is gonna take CARE OF YOU>>>> that what is important…

and to the boys. just find a girl who is pretty in your eyes and you think could be a good mother. WHO CARES ABOUT $$$$.. A. money comes and money goes… and B. who said your father in law would give you… C. even if he does give you DO YOU WANNA BE OWNED BY HIM>!!!!!!!!

yes get married young.. avoid being in the shidduch crisis. and remember the older you get the more picky . so settle down early in life.

i don’t know where to contact r brezak but you can seek guidence from rabbi horowitz program project YES . http://www.rabbihorowitz.com/PYes/index.cfm

I am in this business field of “avoiding nowaday problem”. im a true believer of preventing. and ALL teens are “AT RISK”. EVERY parent needs to prevent their teen from being RISK when they are AT RISK.

so seek advise . ill be glad to assist you further.

also i dont know what your relationship with your parents are but you should strengthen it and discuss it with them. for example mommy “it really hurts me to see dovid like this” how can we help him . how did it happen . can you make sure it doesn’t happen to me… I LOVE YOU MOMMY>>>> Keep saying I love you. and your mother loves you more than anything.

and remember to be strong and always be HAPPY with the dissiion decision you make. and keep following in the derech hashem. and hashem is always by ur side helping you esspecially during harder times.

again ill be glad to help more . please let me know if i can assit you any further.

smartcookie:u are so _ _ _ _right!!!!

i know people who got divorced after 4 months.. BEC OF PERSONALITY ISSURES>

but i wont put passed me that the world out there is crazy and corrupted. so when you fill your eyes with all those movies and celebs , then u expect the movies from your spouse and THAT AINT HAPPENING>>> THATS WHY THEY R CALLED MOVIES>>>!!!!

another think is ppl only know how to comunicate by text bbm facbook twitter….. if someone has a problem they say>>>”ill text it to you” be straight up and say it . NO MORE COMMUNCATION SKILLS>>>>

There r no nice hotels in tzfat. the hotels there are discusting. however you can get a nice zimmer- apartment.

But the mercaz hotel is suposed to be the nicest of the worst….

SY bus forsure> a bunch of rollers. we”ll get there quicker> oopps the sy’s will private jet there.

happens all the time. most of the time u give it more shots till u see it NEVER happening… if u dont see that then just make it work. u like him? u like his family? just dont see n e thing rolling, don’t worry it will start rolling fast once u push the pedal.

Dont be scared . sounds like u have cold feet.

I totally agree. This is seen even when they pick their “chushiv” husband up from “kollel”. what is he learning all day? They should be embarrassed of the kovod hatorah.