shtusim and apushta thanks for the good advice. keep it coming.
shein- my wife and i took all the kids up and forgot a sleeping child in the car for 15 -20 minutes once, and the second time, i think i was driving, and forgot that i had a child in the car at all (she fell asleep), but i remembered at some point before i reached my destination. since then , i try and take two children with me , one (even just a little older) to act as a ‘shomer’- because i feel that driving with one child may allow me to fall into the impression that i am driving alone. also i keep a note in the car that says BABY and put it in front of the speedometer. just in case i need to break a rule
