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ecplise: I can’t imagine what you are going through, but it sounds really tough. Stay strong, and may the force be with you.
It is very easy for someone else to tell you your problems should be a kaporah. It is much harder to really feel that way yourself, but it seems that you are getting there.
On a side note, that is exactly what we daven on Yom Kippur at the end of Viduy. We ask that Hashem should forgive us for everything, but not through pain and hardship. Once again, wishing you all the best.
September 15, 2013 12:00 pm at 12:00 pm in reply to: Recommendations for a good book (adult) #974823EnderParticipantwell if you are going to read Michael Crichton books, you might as well read the best book of his, Timeline.
EnderParticipantThe Corner by David Simon
EnderParticipantFiction or non-fiction?
EnderParticipantSeems like a classic case of Goldilocks’ Disorder.
September 11, 2013 7:49 pm at 7:49 pm in reply to: What is the most important thing on Yom Kippur? #975058EnderParticipantThe single most important thing on Yom Kippur is fasting.
EnderParticipantPixelate: There are no avairos in the chickens after they are shechted, Missa Michaperes.
September 10, 2013 4:08 am at 4:08 am in reply to: When I was younger I thought…Now I realize that…. #1023328EnderParticipantWhen I was younger I thought I was amazing in every way. Now I realize that I was “spot on.” (The quotation marks are for you, eclipse)
EnderParticipantHow to survive? Thats easy, If you have smell/itchy issues, then shower. If you have digestive issues, smoke.
EnderParticipantExactly! Personally I am working on not letting extra quotation marks get me all worked up.
EnderParticipantSo much sugar in cream soda (or sweetener if you drink diet).
August 19, 2013 2:25 am at 2:25 am in reply to: Mishpacha interview with Shadchanim Levy, Lewenstein and Katz #972950EnderParticipantMoi: Are you suggesting that your relationship with your family isn’t an important part of who you are? No one is suggesting that a prospective date should be judged based on their family, however one’s family and their relationship with said family is important.
EnderParticipantThe Goq: Because during the year he puts in barley to soak up the water.
EnderParticipantPerhaps the better question is “How far would you travel for your spouse?”
EnderParticipantI’m confused, is the trip in 1994 or is it already 2034 and I didn’t notice?
EnderParticipantA ten hour drive.
EnderParticipantNer yisroel might be your type of place, or at least the closest to what you are looking for. However, I’m not sure how many single guys your age are there.
EnderParticipantSam 2: Hear Hear. Well said. I especially appreciate how you explain the problem with the said dispute without engaging the merits. While I suspect I might disagree with you on the merits, I fullheartedly agree that most people cannot or will not debate the issue properly.
EnderParticipantI hate to repeat myself but. . .
The reason litvish boys aren’t ready to get married before 22-23 is primarily because they aren’t expected to. Chassidic boys are ready at twenty because they are expected to be ready when they are 20. If it became the norm for litvish boys to start dating at 20 or even younger, they would be ready to start.
EnderParticipantThe reason litvish boys aren’t ready to get married before 22-23 is primarily because they aren’t expected to. Chassidic boys are ready at twenty because they are expected to be ready when they are 20. If it became the norm for litvish boys to start dating at twenty, they would be ready at twenty to start dating.
EnderParticipantBeing Real: Do you want to leave Lakewood, or would you rather stay there?
EnderParticipantMods, can you email me benignuman’s email address?
EnderParticipantBenignuman: I wouldn’t mind hearing about your rosier outlook. I personally find the job market to be pretty lousy, despite being in a good school with excellent grades.
EnderParticipantJFem: To get a big firm jobs now a days you need to have good grades in a great school, or great grades in a good school. Unlike several years ago, even a public interest or government job paying 45K-60K starting cannot be taken for granted for students with good grades in a good school.
EnderParticipantConversely, if a couple is dating for a long time, it is sometimes very kind and sensitive for the girl to have some sense of a heads up that something is going to happen that day. She might want to dress special or leave herself more time.
EnderParticipantHappy never said she is getting engaged. Lots of assumptions are flying around the room.
EnderParticipant8 years of education? Are you including residency? Doctors get paid during residency. Not a lot, but enough to survive on depending on one’s familial situation and life style.
EnderParticipantJFem: Plenty of doctors make more than 160K starting salary (a higher percentage than law school graduates making 160K), and I am not aware of any hospitals that still allow, let alone require, 36 hour shifts.
July 31, 2013 4:58 am at 4:58 am in reply to: How to Let Loose Right Before the Mad Ellul Rush #1030115EnderParticipantThe poor guy just wants ideas of something to do in his last week of vacation before the new zman in yeshiva and everyone is giving him a hard time.
EnderParticipantPBA: You saw someone who didn’t seem smart after sitting in a room for six hours answering the hardest multiple choice questions and essays you can imagine. I wonder what impression you would make on someone who is seeing you for the first time under the same circumstances.
EnderParticipantVeltz Meshugener: Sorry I didn’t notice your questions earlier. I am currently in law school (no, not Harvard). My thoughts on going to law school: Unlike the good old days when law school was a great idea for any smart yeshiva guy that wants to make good money, it is no longer a good idea. However someone who really thinks he will enjoy being a lawyer should still go. While there are no guarantees to success, I don’t think it is any worse than other fields nowadays (other than medicine).
EnderParticipantbenignuman: I understood your original comment perfectly. I was just making a lawyer joke.
July 30, 2013 2:35 pm at 2:35 pm in reply to: Best Store in NJ to buy a black jacket for davening #968520EnderParticipantRichie Cohen in lakewood
EnderParticipantnotsuchalamdan16: It was probably Darth Vader using the force.
EnderParticipantYehuda: I agree, plumbing won’t help intelligence. I was just addressing something Torah mentioned.
benignuman: What do property rights have to do with intelligence?
EnderParticipantPixelate: They look at your LSAT, but they look at your grades even more. The whole point of the LSAT is to attempt to predict grades anyway.
Either way, the smarter plan is to get a good LSAT grade, use that to get a scholarship at a worse school, then transfer after getting great grades. (still easier said then done though).
EnderParticipantPixelate,
1) I am pretty sure it varies by the state, but its about 85 credits (also called “Credit Hours”)
2) yes, most schools allow a student to transfer about 30 Credits, which is around the amount most students earn in 1L
3)yes.
EnderParticipantPixelate: Yes
EnderParticipantMe? Yes.
EnderParticipantTorah: While there is no actual proof, most people believe the result of this study is due to hundreds of years of intense intellectual development. While plumbing can definitely help Sephardim in many areas, I am not sure it will close the gap.
As far as Yeshiva students go. Another study has shown the average verbal IQ of ashkenazic yeshiva students is over 125, about 30 points higher than average. This is even higher than their secular counterparts.
Yehuda: Yes I do. There are many forms of IQ tests and as a whole they provide the best measure of intelligence.
EnderParticipantTorah: Sorry to burst your bubbly, but there are studies that show that Ashkenazic people have an average IQ 15 points higher than others.
EnderParticipantOoh ooh, ask me.
EnderParticipantWhen I learned Basar bechalav I am pretty sure i learned that fork times are duchka desakina. Because of that you need to make sure you either pull pickles out of the jar by hand or use a parve fork.
EnderParticipantMark Levin by a mile (but that is mostly due to my bizarre interest in constitutional law)
EnderParticipantVogue: So the point of this thread is so that you can tell everyone you are speaking with a “Gadol.” Three Claps for Vogue.
EnderParticipantJfem: Drinking water before Kiddush depends on which rav you ask. I know some that say its okay, and some who are more machmir. But everyone agrees that if if you are feeling like you might get dehydrated, you may drink water before kiddush.
EnderParticipantAll of a sudden because someone makes an account named “mordechai Schmutter” everyone assumes that it is him, and is therefore allowed to continue this conversation. While it may be him, it just as likely may not be him. For the last time, Mods, close this thread.
Even YWN moderators are familiar with the humility, self-effacement and sterling middos of Mordechai Schmutter, which cannot be imitated or faked successfully. -127
EnderParticipantJfem: I’m sure you are quite aware that the things frum yidden should or should not do isn’t limited to the Taryag mitzvos.
Avi K: While Rav Soloveichik may have said what you quote him as saying, his cousin, the other Rav Soloveichik (Brisker Rav), said that it is better to go into a church than a reform temple. He went as far to say that it might be Yaharog V’all Ya’avor. The reason he said is because the church is foreign to us, there isn’t a significant chance we would be influenced. As opposed to reform and conservative which are religions similar to ours there is a bigger chance that we may be influenced by their ways, c”v.
EnderParticipanttakahmamash, Health: Yumami has very good Asian food. Its a little bit more expensive but it doesn’t have those sickly sweet sauces on everything that Davis Schu’s has.
EnderParticipantGoq: I totally agree with you that referring to R’ Schlanger as “schlanger would be horribly disrespectful. It is my belief, however, that institutions often develop names of their own. In this case the yeshiva has developed the name Schlangers. When people say Schlangers they mean to say the yeshiva known as Schlangers, Not R’ Schlangers yeshiva.
On a side note. does it bother you that many tannaim, amoraim, rishonim, etc. are referred to by their first names?
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