shidduch girl- I am going thru the exact same thing as you…

its so difficult; just about everything reminds me of him.

I too compare every date to him…

its been 4 months and im not over it, i dont think I will ever be completely over it until I meet someone else (thats what im told)

But, the one thing that did help me is reading the Garden of Emunah. It really made me realize that Hashem has his reasons for everything, even though we have no way of understanding why this happened. obviously I get down often, but being depressed isnt going to change anything… i just remind myself that Hashem has a plan for me, and I cant wait to find out whats in store for my future : )