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eclipseMember
envy is dangerous.
BTW,Mod 80,were you referring to Maccabeats?
blueprints,I guess “two can play the game”(Solitaire).And that is another American expression for you.
eclipseMemberasimplejew1:Amein!
Do “virtual” brochos go up to shomayim? I hope so!
eclipseMember” a dose of truth”…Try not to undo your apology,my friend:)
eclipseMemberusual delays
December 15, 2010 5:21 pm at 5:21 pm in reply to: Does Everyone Have Their Own 'Peckel' Even Though They Look Happy? #717595eclipseMemberAries,you are right.I actually thank Hashem for being busy.Problem is,I have to make all these strict rules for myself re:the newly discovered (for me)CR,otherwise one could be checking in here as often as someone who has nothing to do!!Not good.
December 15, 2010 5:16 pm at 5:16 pm in reply to: Does Everyone Have Their Own 'Peckel' Even Though They Look Happy? #717594eclipseMemberDecember 15, 2010 5:09 pm at 5:09 pm in reply to: Does Everyone Have Their Own 'Peckel' Even Though They Look Happy? #717591eclipseMemberPopa…you are funny(even if you don’t like my posts).
eclipseMemberYFL:Thank you,sir.
December 15, 2010 5:05 pm at 5:05 pm in reply to: Does Everyone Have Their Own 'Peckel' Even Though They Look Happy? #717589eclipseMemberCase in point:After my divorce,many people told me they were “SHOCKED!”They said they thought we were “the perfect couple”.Couldn’t have been further from the truth.And when I lost a ton of weight from the stress,someone told me they were jealous of how skinny I’d gotten…So I decide to gain it all back,k’neged ayin hora:)Kidding.
eclipseMemberplayer to your right
eclipseMemberareivim–what do you mean?
eclipseMemberKeeping the Torah,to the best of your ability,based on all that your psrents and teachers have taught you,or what you have learned on your own.
eclipseMemberA woman must remember that Hashem wired us to enjoy being admired,and congruously,instilled men with a strong pull to “admire”.Obviously,we also want to be admired FOR OUR DEEPER ESSENCE,in addition to the above.At my age,all that’s left is the essence anyway!Okay.I’m exaggerating,but you know what I mean.
December 15, 2010 4:40 pm at 4:40 pm in reply to: Does Everyone Have Their Own 'Peckel' Even Though They Look Happy? #717584eclipseMemberI have often contemplated that.I am sure everyone has,as you said,”at least one major issue that they’re dealing with”.However,some of us probably have more to deal with than others.BUT:We need to feel compassion for everyone,regardless.For example,suppose something doesn’t faze me because in comparison with everything else I’ve had to deal with,it’s really “nothing”.For the person who has never encountered it before,it’s a huge problem,and that person deserves sympathy.PROBLEMS are relative,sometimes.(I don’t mean obvious tragedies,that are huge for anyone).
eclipseMemberWIY:Apology accepted,b’layv sholaym.Thank you.Everyone else,I am touched by your compassion.Truly.
eclipseMemberWIY:What on earth are you referring to?I did not fly off the handle at any point.I did not open up a new thread related to this subject,I did not use the word “shtick” in any of my posts,I did not attack you personally anywhere at any time.
Seriously,what posts are you referring to?I only post under one name!IT SEEMS YOU ARE MISTAKING ME FOR ANOTHER POSTER.
And I will share this little tidbit with you:
This child was taken away from me by her father at the age of 11 years old,and I have been watching her deterioration from afar,bearing zero responsibility for its occurrence,and sending her my love with shackled abilities to improve her situation from up close.
P.S.Thanks for inspiring me to stop posting.Period.
December 13, 2010 3:22 pm at 3:22 pm in reply to: How do I know what gender I'm speaking to? #717144eclipseMember“yita” is a guy??
eclipseMembercourt papers
eclipseMemberI admit:)not too game-y…anyone have a better idea?
eclipseMemberOkay,how about “elevating the mundane”
a few examples:
1.Changing a baby is a chesed.You are making the wet/cold/etc. child warm/dry/comfortable.
2.Washing dishes may be a thankless chore, but every act that contributes to a family living in a neat/clean environment ENABLES EACH PERSON TO FOCUS ON his or her personal goals.(Yes,they can pitch in,but that is not my focus here)
3.Taking out the garbage-same as above,and if you are a husband or child–you are DOING A CHESED.
4.listening to someone go on and on about their problems–chesed,teaching yourself patience,tolerance,ahavas habrios…
5.shopping-discipline (if on a budget),helping,caring for your family,ENABLING YOUR FAMILY TO EXPERIENCE SIMCHA(shabbos/yom tov purchases)
eclipseMemberDoctor’s orders…
eclipseMemberThanks,Kapusta.BTW,last night I wrote a very long letter to my daughter…I hope the words from my heart find their way into hers.Kimayim ponim el ponim.No mussar at all…just love.
eclipseMember“Operator. Can I help you?”
December 13, 2010 3:35 am at 3:35 am in reply to: My new "shtick" that Im trying to get others into… #716907eclipseMemberRE:”all fahitzed”…I had asked for a general “your thoughts” on my ANALOGY on that thread,not on my parenting.Thankfully,the thread remained balanced,so your post became “botul b’shishim”.
But your comment here reminds me of the Apology Of 2010:
“I’m sorry YOU THINK I SAID WHAT I SAID
I’m sorry YOU THINK I DID WHAT I DID
I’m really not sure why you are upset
I’m almost a perfect yid!”
December 13, 2010 3:24 am at 3:24 am in reply to: Maybe I Should Compensate The Store Owner…? #727112eclipseMemberSo Wolf is going to have a chelek in Olam Haba,after all.Hurray!:)
eclipseMemberThank you,all.(um…almost all)
eclipseMemberit’s a deal
eclipseMemberHealth:I’m sorry.Thanks for explaining.
Poppa:A personal trainer told me almost exactly what you said.However one’s body is burning calories…is the rate at which they can eat.
eclipseMembergap between the teeth
eclipseMemberI learn it too.It’s format is very readable,and appealing.
eclipseMemberTrue.All the great tzadikim were nos’ay b’ol.
eclipseMemberWIY:Yes,I agree.
But:There is a difference between an ingrained personality trait and a temporary reaction.For example,a Baal Kaas is forever angry at everyone for everything,while someone who OVERREACTS TO ONE SPECIFIC TRIGGER may need to tone down his/her reaction in those particular situations,and the more they control their thought patterns and mindsets,the less upset they will feel,vichoolay,vichoolay.
eclipseMemberAll I meant is that if one person is in high school(they’ve said so), and one person has mentioned their bi-focals or their grandchildren,that is sufficient evidence with which to deduce that chances are the one with the einiklach should be addressed respectfully by the one taking finals.
eclipseMemberSmile E. Face,thank you.
Aries,yes,that is all I can do right now.
eclipseMemberWIY: You’ll excuse me for saying this,but your insinuation that a parent(?!) undoes the “chinuch” of the therapist– when in fact the case is quite often the reverse– is downright azus.I could explain further but such youthful arrogance does not even warrant more.
I’m sorry,but I cannot let that go.Really!!
December 12, 2010 7:02 pm at 7:02 pm in reply to: Naming A Child After Someone With Weird Name #1121142eclipseMemberHey…thanks.
eclipseMemberTryingmybest,you are young,I can tell you that much.:)
eclipseMemberAmichai,I was kind of wondering about that!Thank you for HEARING me!
eclipseMemberAmein,and I like that joke about the train!I heard that there are little lights all along the tunnel,not only at the end.And for the record,I think you are the FIRST person to ever apologize instead of arguing in the CR!
eclipseMemberstate of mind
eclipseMemberDear B.Y.,But on a public thread like this you will still cause ignorant people to typecast us all.
December 12, 2010 5:23 pm at 5:23 pm in reply to: Naming A Child After Someone With Weird Name #1121135eclipseMemberTrying my best:I meant a takeoff on Birkas Hachamah cuz my name is eclipse.Guess my jokes need rashi sometimes.
eclipseMemberThe point is no other nation is as willing to go all out for each other as yidden are and that fact is a kiddush hashem.
eclipseMemberSolitaire means playing on your own,no offense intended.
December 12, 2010 4:34 pm at 4:34 pm in reply to: yosheiv beseser… mipach yokush midever _____ what? #718381eclipseMemberit wouldn’t be spelled the way it is then
December 12, 2010 4:20 pm at 4:20 pm in reply to: Naming A Child After Someone With Weird Name #1121131eclipseMemberMy Hebrew name is Bracha Chamah.(laugh track please)
December 12, 2010 4:11 pm at 4:11 pm in reply to: This thread is for WolfishMusings (specifically) #716327eclipseMemberWolf…it appears you have met your match here on the Duel Thread!
Ok,I’m going right back to the Ezras Noshim.Carry on.
eclipseMemberBlueprints is playing Solitaire!:)
December 12, 2010 4:07 pm at 4:07 pm in reply to: yosheiv beseser… mipach yokush midever _____ what? #718378eclipseMemberI trust my Artscroll Tehilim,sir.But Hashem hears us all.And tefilin is not my department…
eclipseMemberBrooklyn Yenta, please listen to yourself!
Loshon hora about divorcees “coming straight from the tzadikim”??
If that’s the case, I am on a higher level than they are,because I neither speak nor believe garbage about people.
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