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Money with a French accent,silent “s”?
Health,I know your question was posed to Aries,but I’d just like to explain that by me, half the trauma was seeing how many men were willing to help him.
guardmytongue is a fine lady,don’t you follow posts before lumping “josephs” together?In one post,she wrote “my husband”…I’m almost positive she’s legit.
I started 2 positive threads to make up for that one!
The difference is that texting SEEMS more kosher in the first place.
The person I was referring to was a “respectable” person who didn’t realize the change himself;I had to point it out and say:no more.
PUBLIC APOLOGY:
I didn’t mean to scare all the single girls half to death.
Mods,if my post is too shocking,it may be deleted.
I guess ’cause I’m physically under the weather(coughing,chills,etc.) I’m not posting as responsibly as I usually try to do.
Shevy-excellent quality but crazy expensive.
Friends have told me Milano and Freeda are great quality too.
I know you meant is it disrespectful:It isn’t if the person in question doesn’t mind.But sometimes barriers fall away,and any 2 people have to be careful.Sorry I didn’t explain myself too well.
I just started reading the Life-Transforming Diet based on the Rambam…it’s a pleasant read,and nothing drastic either.I think it’s helping,but I am not gonna weigh in ’til I know for sure!
Ask any divorced woman what’s on her list:”I just want a nice guy”.Half of them don’t even care if he’s litvish or chasidish!
I am personally from the “still traumatized” club.Also,I was trapped for so long,I don’t ever want to be trapped like that again.I asked for a “get” many,many times and was turned down,while rabbonim refused to make him move out….But he had this fear that one day I would figure out I could go to court so HE GOT A LAWYER.
Meanwhile,I never went that route,and he beat me to it.
One day,out of the blue,I got a summons to court,and a few months later he had me arrested.
And people think they can convince me that “there are a lot of good guys out there”?!Maybe so,but I will not take that chance again!
Someone (male) used to text me just technical stuff…after a while he got way too comfortable….I had to put an end to it altogether.My advice:Keep it technical or don’t start.
on the bright side,it means you have very clear skin,bec.oily skin takes longer to wrinkle.
In Every Generation–I read it,too sad for me.
Family Secrets–I couldn’t put it down,but also sad.
I don’t use it,but I heard there’s a spray?
even though not 100% normal,had compassion for others
In every generation there is teenage lingo.
In this generation, a lot of the lingo is rude.
Hey,Yo,Man,dude,is just the intro.
Then comes hello???Ya think???etc.
oomis-the worst is over,b”h
doodle:yes!I say “sheheche’yanu” DAILY!(in my mind)
To let a girl fall and hurt herself is being a chosid shoiteh.
s2021,working on it!:)
Yossi–you’re right,I broke the “lim” rule
But you fixed it–pretty cool!
I gotta remember
From Jan. to December
That rules aren’t only in school!
Better to look ahead more,no?
some of those “girls” are the OTD girls.
But mostly guys.Even in Hollywood the balding pot-bellied tycoon may “win” the…..no point in writing what may be edited!
I’d like to share a nice example of “built-in” good midos.
I have a relative who is manic-depressive.Not diagnosed by neighbors:the real kind.
Ok,so during the manic phases he spent money like crazy,right?
So one day,he came home with a huuuuuge bag of nails,plain nails.
When he was asked “what are you going to do with 5 million nails?”,he answered:
“I walked into the new hardware store that just opened, to have a look around.I noticed the man’s face brighten as he hoped I would be a good customer,and buy something.I just didn’t have the heart to walk out empty-handed,so I bought all these nails.He was soooo happy!”
See what I mean?
I’d have checked out muuuuuch more.
I would have found out more about the way he treats people he ISN’T TRYING TO IMPRESS,like immediate family,and “plain” people.
I’d have found out waaaaaaaay more about his 5 totally OTD years(which was hidden from me),for which he maintained much nostalgia,beneath the new Borsalino and scraggly beard.
And that’s just for starters.
BUT MOST OF ALL I WOULD HAVE DAVENED MUCH MORE SPECIFICALLY FOR A GOOD SHIDDUCH,he should have real yiras shomayim,be honest,be kind, NORMAL,etc.
I don’t think of myself as anywhere near perfect,so don’t start beating me up on that.
SOME FLAWS CHALLENGE A MARRIAGE,ABUSE KILLS IT.
Read that again.It’s the truth.
I meant both.
The degree to which someone feels chemistry is sometimes affected by previous exposure…
Someone who watches/reads too much of what’s out there,won’t simply need a pleasant-looking decent spouse.
That person’s “needs” will now include many more physical requirements.
Why instead of yes,do folks use “ye” or “ya”?
Does an “s” take that long to add?
If you started talking like that,you’d look nuts!
The flames of hatred are FANNED by others.
You can hate/pity, hate/yearn and hate/other-mixed-feeling
BUT!! HATE/HATE is helped along by others.
Just One Jew was one great book!